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Yes. When I see it, I always feel I wouldnt wanna get skin to skin contact with that person's face.

I've dated a guy with pockmarks (acne scars) though & to me it was sexy. They gave his face character. I just cant deal with existing pimples.

LMAO, not true at all, you're much better looking than her.

Oluwapresley:
she should be patient and rational.. the boss that she is going to SA with, is he gonna get a divorce from his wife? is the project the end of his marriage or his relationship? she is sit down and talk with her boyfriend and they should work it out.. there are 1 million ways to kill a rat.. I've never seen any problem in life that has just a solution to it..

I see your point & I concur. I think it'll depend on whether he is also willing to be patient + rational about the matter. Relationships are a two-way street.

Oluwapresley:
and who says when they get to SA, those SA guys won't change their minds!! tsew.. 5yrs relationship because of impatience and irrationality.. how can someone that planned a "" huge project"" like that as she has claimed and she can't plan her relationship! IMO, she is fcvking selfish! fcvking wanna waste another human being's 5yrs.. tsewvq!!!

Ok, so what do you think she should do?

Doesn't sound like introversion to me, more like some kind of social anxiety issue. It's like you feel like an outsider & wanna be accepted, so when you do go out, you get sensitive to any signs of rejection (whether them be real or imagined). IMO, introversion doesn't neccesarily equate sociallly inept or WEIRDO.

I'm also an introvert & I enjoy my own company more than that of other people, I can't help it. Usually people are drawn to me though, I'm the one that doesn't like to socialize. Also, I tend not to give a rat's ass about most people to begin with, so I cant relate to the social rejection part. I can razzle & dazzle during the short times I spend around people, but for some reason I just cant wait to get away. Sometimes I feel fake, almost like an actor, because I'd tell people, "Let's meet again" or agree to when they suggest we meet up again, while knowing fully well I won't be meeting up again. At least not so soon. I need my space to recharge my energies after any sort of social gathering/interaction.

Skrim:
I fear my talking to him would send him away

Then next him.

This is a no brainer imo. Your career & credentials are forever, while a lasting relationship is not guaranteed.

I'd watch them VERY closely to see if I pick up any weird vibes between them. If there're none, then I don't see why I shouldnt marry him. Even then, I'd still keep a watch on them for good measure. No such thing as blind trust in my book.

They could be thrusting while you're busy trusting

Moz22:
never too mind, I'll hand u two over to the Nigerian judiciary

lol

My celebrity crushes change all the time. But at the moment I have the hots for Kendrick Lamar. We'd make one talkative duo...between the sheets. I'd turn down Rick Ross any day, although I think his growl is sexy. Roh!

pinceprinz:
lol. And that ends the conversation... see you around!

See ya!

pinceprinz:
I said it honestly, I'm actually appreciative cos I've seen folks who even after puking the lower lip out, instead of pink, its all black I get wondering how many tons of tobacco they smoke in a day... I'm sure you've met someone like that too?

Lol, I'm not into the lip thing nor do I even pay attention to its colour, so IDK.

halfricanadian:
dont kno

Im messed up some ow

Join the club, sista You're not alone. Just dont let it get to you or start having negative views about yourself. If you're not good enough for some people, trust me there's a guy out there who'll think your crazy is sexy. I'm sure there's someone out there for everyone. You just havent met him yet

pinceprinz:
I'm all in on this, thank goodniz my lower lip's pink perfekt pink Fryday .

LMAO @ pink lower lip. Smh. You're silly

halfricanadian:
I see girls av such men even bad girls nd i wonder why me wats wrong with me

Awwww You're perfect just the way you are, hun.

What about that 1stknight (or whatever his name is) guy you always talk to on threads? Thought you had something going on.

Moz22:
I'd whip both ur asses..and chase u girls outta d building

Too evil even for today

pinceprinz:
That's not a bad idea of course, but , I saw "girls" and I saw "kissing" too... is that part of the "lil fun"?

Chyeah! It's Friday the 13. We be turning it to pink Friday

halfricanadian:
waiting for such a man in my life

I believe he's as real as a tooth fairy. But what do I know?

Moz22:
em I expected to watch?

What would you rather do then?

pinceprinz:
What is hapinin hia girl??

Just a lil fun on a Friday *smirks*

Moz22:
ve been noticing u too all tru today..what could be happening behind closed doors?

Two girls kissing. Wanna watch?

misspicy:
Replied

I've not received it yet. Ugh!

klinro:
I think I understand better now with this your explanation. So if you were the one in her shoes and blocking me on Facebook, is that final goodbye?

Like I said, it'd depend on whether there were other similar "inappropriate" moments with other women before. I can't really predict based on how I'd react in the same situation. My advice to you is maybe you should just give her some space to think things through. In the meanwhile, limit your interactions with the other girl because it might make things worse & fuel
your girl's insecurities. I don't know what else to say, really.

PureWays:
Lol..

How was your day, stranger?

....

misspicy:
Just saw it

replying asap

besides I have something to tell in that line

Hahaha. I feel a little anxious

Were the other small fights about the same girl or other women in general? Sounds like jealousy & a trust issue to me. Makes me wonder if you didnt cross the boundary many times before, concerning other women & maybe this incident (with the BFF) is what finally broke the camel's back. Wish I had a crystal ball to predict her actions, but only she knows if she's written you off for good or not.

TBH, I'd be jealous & angry too if I was in her shoes. A phone is a big gift to purchase for "just a friend". Werent there chocolates or something? On 2nd thought, that too would get me jealous!

misspicy:

Sent you a message, not sure if I got the address righy though. Please check

misspicy:


Can't wait

Expect it around 7pm because I need to be home & relaxed when I serve you the tea

Moz22:
we r good

Ok

MADrator:
You don't refer to a human being as it...

I didnt mention the gender of the child hence my use of "its", possession in linguistic terms.