Please anyone with link to Teri Merherbaniya with English subtitles, thanks.

Good morning mamas, is it safe to take COVID vaccination while trying to conceive? Please very urgent,am been pressured in my office to go for the vaccination or lose my job.

Is there no end to all these issues You saw it coming op but you choose to ignore,God help you, never beg for love. :

Oh God!!! Why now? village People Una do well o

@ Op take it easy o, unfounded allegations destroys marriage, your wify is definitely not cheating on you.

Self quarantine!!! I'm Surprised that the Health officer who knows the purport of the virus is talking like this, God help us in Nigeria, countries are evacuating their citizens, we are on self quarantine, that will not be feasible, it's well o Nigeria my Nigeria.

Shibaraba:
ill be a millionaire in 9 months. Fixed

ok o with it comes the responsibility of being a daddy, you ready?

If you're really in love with her why not!! Dear op bear in mind that we might wake up one day with Nairalanders typing RIP beneath your name. Not all love affairs ends up in marriage o.

We4all:


A kid is a kid whether by blood or not, and should be treated with love and care. Haven't you heard that fathers also molest their children? The way you would feel with your biological children is the same way I feel with kids who are not my blood. I regard them all as my kids.

So, if you can't sexually molest yours, I wouldn't do the same to mine.

Not all men are peadophile @ we4all, the bad eggs in society has spoilt the good men, that are naturally friendly with kids, it's well.

luminouzzzzzz:



Please, noooooooo oooooo

*runs outta thread*

lolzzzzzzz

luminouzzzzzz:



So, you are a lawyer?


I no do again biko...

you must to do o biko nu

Rest in perfect peace. She's indeed a great person , with a great personality, friendly open and always quick to help anyone, irrespective of tribe or religion. She was my drama coordinator, way back in Law School so many years ago. Rest on Angel, of a truth a star is gone.

Shibaraba:
Imagine you're here on nairaland and you know your sons moniker and he wrote this gibberish you just wrote. How would you feel?


And you're 30.

I wonder o, orisirisi.

iamarealman:



I can give you a very good job as a PA

pls o oga, pass the goodies this way too, I'm in need of a job too.

Lovely wallpapers.

Justice Tsoho, long may you reign on the seat , as the chief Judge of the Federal High Court, appearing before you as a counsel is always a pleasure.

Op, sorry o, she should have reported to the police earlier, be it as it may, what is your stand as the fiancé? As the matter is now complicated due to the pregnancy.

Beautiful thread, time spent on reading this thread not a waste.

Ewoo!!! it is well o, it will surely get better, amen.

intrepidJ:
Emotinally brutalized before the age of 7. Called a bastard by time im 10. Ran away from home at the age of 12 with no idea where i was going and but a biscuit in my pocket. Experienced the phenomenom "walking in circles " for the first time. By 6 im hungry and lost..by 11 im roaming yhe streets looking for where to sleep. God sends a good Samaritan my way. He saw a young boy on the streets at that hour. I lied to him was going to visit my uncle in Festac Town but got lost and was hungry. He took pity on me and offered to let me pass the night in his place. Too dangerous for a 12 year old boy walking all alone.

Next morning i had no desire to get up..i was drained. Anyway i find my way back to Festac. Exhausted i sat on a stone under the baking sun to rest. Then my dad's friend spotted me. I spotted him too and took off...he chased me and caught up with me. I screamed...people gathered thinking he was trying to kidnap me. I screamed " i dont wanna go back. He wants to kill me"

He was having none of that. I was bundled into a bus and taken home. Now this is where the nightmare began.

I was threatened with death. I was bullied by everyone. Repeatedly called a bastard and spat on. Being spat on right at my face is what i dread the most. You are a bastard chiled he will scream..then spit on my face and tell me to go commit suicide. He will point his finger at me and say "you will never make it in life".

Now im the first son. It didnt take long for my younger siblings to follow suit. I was not being spat on by my own brothers too. I was treated with the utmost disrespect and contempt. I tried had to figure out why i was hated with such passion...i just couldnt understand why a human being will treat another human like that.

Because of the childhood trauma i developed anxiety and other forms of mental illness. I didnt know how to socialize...my entire life has been characterised by nothing but raw fear. I became introveted..too scared to go out fir fear of being nullied. As my mental health got worse i became a source of amusement to them. I was mocked, laughed it...SPAT on, called useless. It was a living hell. At this point everybody in my family denies they know me. I was worth nothing to all of then.

When they saw that i had become immune to their widkedness because i have been so used to it so it doesnt affect me..they looked for new ways to cause me emotional trauma..my FRIENDS.

My friends were disgraced by my dad...i was warned never to bring friends home. By the time i was 18 they had grown tired of havng me around. I was sent to the University of Port Harcourt and abandoned there. Inwas not deemed worthy enough for anyone to invest in..sos ia became homeless in Port Hacourt..walking the street. With no money toi feed. Not once was i sent money...luckily some friends took pity on me and took me in.

So i got sick. The stress of everyday life was too much. It affected my immune system. I call my dad and BEG him for N5,000. BEGGED!!. But alas..i was not worth N5,000. At this point i had lost all hope of ever being accepted. So i go into Yahoo. Oh boy !!! My life changed.

First pay was £12,000 pounds. More money began flowing. My life was has changed. So in estacy i decided to surprise my family is. I figured now that there was money i can make them accept me. I never knew i was making a terrible mistake.

I spent over N3 million on that family. I thought they were happy for me. I, who nobody paid my fees, my dad took up responsibility of some family relatives education on my back. No prob..so long it made him happy i was cool.

THEN

The terrible DREAMS STARTED. TERRIBLE DREAMS. I kept dreaming of being attacked with blows from my dad and siblings...i dreamt of my siblings exchanging my bigger phone with his. I dreamt of being force fed in my dreams by my family. I couldn't make sense of it.

My finances then took a hit..suddenly.To cut long story short...i had an altercation with a friend...in anger and fury he blotted out i am a BASTARD. I am a reject. I am not the legitimate son of my dad. Apparently my mom cheated or so and ...they found out..My mom left so i was at the mercy of my dad. Unable to get at my mom i was used as a punching bag.

One faithful day..i was im my dads room..and rifht in his wardrop i saw a BAT hanging upside down. I fled in panic and shouted daddy see bat. My dad just smiled ans closed the wardrope. I was confused.

God in his infinite mercy took pity on me and revealed to me the truth. I was living in the midst of witches and wizards. My entire family was into witchcraft. Including my mom. They wanted to use me for sacrifises but God intervened. A friend of mine was made an off remark that "na because of your goodheart you dey alive..God dey fight for you" ...i didnt understand then...

They saw my star, they saw God loved me so much and since they could not kill me they resorted to trging to steal my glory.

My life has pretty much being destroyed at this point n because i am just lost with no sense of belonging. I fled my family..they still sent WITCHCRAFT bird to be monitoring me. Now he may have caused me great pain and sufferring..i really do not hate him. I am more sad than happy. But i know the almighty God seest all. I do sincerely hope they turn from witchcraft before its too late.

So im lost. Contemplated suicide..nobody to talk to and having to live in complete isolation. One thing i know..God will help me out and end my suffering. I hope its soon cos life has become unbearable.

The man i called my dad is a wicked and evil hypocrite and jealous too. Someday he will answer for destroying my life and all the pain and tears he caused. Waking up middle of the night crying. I did nothing to him. He will answer for his wickedness...very soon.

it's well dear, I'm short of words, at the appointed time all those who made you miserable will be brought to book, be calm.

Rip, till we meet to part no more.

0ppa:

Upon all you read..

.my phone was bad then.

The worst beating I ever received was from my mom, as a young girl growing up, i love reading. On a particular day, I was reading mills and boom, with this very sexual and erotic pictures, as the cover photo, my mom caught me reading it and jump to the conclusions that I have started following boys, see beating and stood down with tears, mucus and sweat, all miss together, despite this I didn't stop o, I will still buy novels with my food money, I will then tore the cover and back page, till date am still a lover of all kinds of Novels, mom they are the best.

Slurity:
There are a lot of beatings that even make it difficult to remember the worst, however, I remember stealing #200 to buy ball and as if my father got a spiritual eyes called me and ask me to bring my school bag for inspection, the beating for that day was special because at a point he ask me to write a statement and sign it as if we are in police station that anytime i repeat such that i will be electrocuted to death, to everybody's surprise, I refuse to sigh the paper and start shouting ' come kuku electrocute me for this offence because, it is sure I will steal very soon because, if you keep maltreating me and give me no food, I will surely steal again'. All our neighbours present there just quietly leave because they understand that I am leaving with my dad and step mum is very wicked.

oh!!! This touches my heart, it's well.

[quote author=hotspec post=75673352]Yes I am. and yes she is better off... But I live in South west Nigeria, and I believe if ure truly married and have ever faced any challenge from ur in laws, u will understand me. Dt story I summarised in 3 lines, if I should give u d full gist, it will be up to 500 pages of A4 paper, front and back.

did I mention my inlaws (I mean her father and mother came to beat me one night) just because we were having issues and she called them (we live in d same town). dt day she left home since 9am and came back around to 9 in d night, without telling where she was going to since dt morning. so I told her to go back to where she was coming from.

that was it, d next thing was to called her parents who came to pack her things. her father broke my door with his leg. and started beating me.


it was in my house one day dt her mother told her that she's too dull and dt is why I'm dictating to her. dt if it's her Elder sister (who is also now a single mother) she would have locked d husband, tear her cloth and beat him. since dt day, any little misunderstanding, she will pounce on me, tear my cloth and neat me. I can show u pictures of tore cloths. twice I've been to police station to report her.


madam, I can drop my digits for anyone who cares to listen to d full gist. my story is verifiable. I have loads of evidence to support my claims. [/quote. what a sad story, anyways thank God you are alive to say all this,marriage is not a do or die affair, my one cent piece of advice, oga, love your children more, and the reason why the 6k verdict was given by my lord is to teach her a lesson, I know this because am a lawyer and moreso the evidences provided by you, was so overwhelming and in your favour, if you have pressed for custody of your kids it would have been granted. Note you can still go back for the custody of your kids if you are not satisfied with the ways and manner she is bringing them up or like you mention in the case of inflicting bodily injuries on them.

showafrica:


Lol, looks like this is the only language Nigerians understand.. I don't know why I was born here. This is more of animalistic communication. Lol

lol, you are born here for a purpose o,it is well.