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RomanceRe: Once You Avoid These 7 Mistakes – Girls Will Hardly Friend-zone You. by purpinkx(m): 8:52am On Jul 11, 2020
NengakGodwin1:
Bro, it clearly shows that you don't even get the point I'm trying put across.

Again, I prefer my write-ups with the typos, okay?

Go and open an English writing tutorial class. Bye. Bye.
The sign of a small minded person.


I don't even want to know what you want to teach sell to your followers.

Bye to you too!
RomanceRe: Once You Avoid These 7 Mistakes – Girls Will Hardly Friend-zone You. by purpinkx(m): 4:14pm On Jul 08, 2020
BossMan, you just wasted over 400 words saying nothing.

Anyone that wants to understand male and female dynamic should follow @tellyoursonsthis, @RationalMale, and @ShadayaKnight on tweeter

Leave all these tips and tricks sellers, learn the core. So you don't have to be asking “x, y, z happened, what should I do?”

BTW, use www.app.grammarly.com to proofread your write up. You will see over 80+ errors.

You are welcome
RomanceRe: What Should I Do About My Girl ? Please Advise by purpinkx(m): 9:56pm On Jun 29, 2020
Mariangeles:
grin grin grin

Them don carry your guy matter go settle for Jaruma kingdom grin
Leave, if you know how the thing pain me reach.

He even claims she has everything a man would pray for.

RomanceRe: Why Are Girls From Poor Homes So Senseless, Ungrateful & Badbelle?! by purpinkx(m): 7:54pm On Jun 29, 2020
I liked every comment on this thread.

So this guy screws a girl he just met RAW,

then goes to the internet to educate SIMPs?

Does your life even have value?

Lol.
RomanceRe: What Should I Do About My Girl ? Please Advise by purpinkx(m):
Cashalhaji: Guys pls talk but maturely, this girl is everything a man could pray for.
Sorry, I don't pray for something that will give me wahala.

Cashalhaji: But this ...her sexcapes, is frustrating. She has men she's rejecting oooo, but having about 3 sugar daddies, 7fuckmates and still searching for more when u're also in a serious relationship is a worst thing from any responsible lady. When it come to flirting ..she appeared cursed.
Is this what you prayed for?

Cashalhaji: But no one will see it in her .. very secretive there. Not even a friend will notice.
To think you hacked her account to see what you saw.

Cashalhaji: I wish God can look me in the eye to tell me d way forward.
He'd probably say “Fūck you!”

Cashalhaji: she's an Entrepreneur with about five start up businesses. She's a baby mama and also school.
1. Her coochie.
2. Her Arse-anal
3. Her mouth.
4. Her left hand
5. Her right hand

RomanceRe: This Statement (work Hard You Will Get There) Is A SCAM by purpinkx(m): 6:18pm On Jun 29, 2020
MondayUche:
I have that saved on my book already is even more than 40
Just read them in your mind last thing at night and first thing in the morning, every single day.

Before you sleep every night.

Say thank you (to no one in particular)

“Thank you for my breath.”
“Thank you for my eye sight and the things I CAN SEE.”
“Thank you for the mysterious way my family has been taken care of, I know more is on the way”
“Thank you for my body system, it has taken me this far”

Thank you for [name something] [followed by the reason]

Good or bad.

Do this for every day and watch your life change.

If after 12 months (365 days) you don't get the phone with fingerprint, I will buy one for you and apologize for wasting your time.

However, if you follow through, you'll look for me to say “Thank you for showing me the way”

Now the choice is yours to use the information or not.

I believe the universe wanted me to shared this with you!

Bye.
RomanceRe: This Statement (work Hard You Will Get There) Is A SCAM by purpinkx(m): 4:38pm On Jun 29, 2020
MondayUche:
As long as money will come out. like I said please I have mad up my mind and ready to do anything as long as money will come out. My kids are really suffering no food nothing nothing
It is not diabolic or anything like that.

Get a 40 leaves exercise book.

Write what you want.

* New phone with finger print (not money for phone).
* Send kids to [insert name of school] (not money for school fee)
* Handle utility bill comfortably.
* Saved [insert amount] this year.

Add about 10 items.
Sounds simple abi?

Can you do that?
RomanceRe: This Statement (work Hard You Will Get There) Is A SCAM by purpinkx(m): 1:49pm On Jun 29, 2020
I would like to show you the way, but it's so simple that you won't follow through.

You will think it is child's play.

Soooo.
FamilyRe: AND THEY CAME BACK TO OUR STREET AFTER A SOJOURN IN GRA by purpinkx(m): 6:28pm On Jun 25, 2020
jabolo:
Chief, It is corruption. Good morning, first of all.

Assuming the State Government has limited resources, only the areas that produce Politicians will have their roads repaired? When a Governor sites a University in his hometown, do you applaud only if that hometown is yours?

I understand your self-interest within the Landlord group but we have perfected a way of dressing up corruption so it seems less insidious.

Edit: To be clear, it's not corrupt to lobby the Government for development provided resources are available. As all Governments must prioritize, what we call corruption here is using a local Politician's influence to be moved up the priority list, to the detriment of other areas.
BossMan I get your point, but read what the guy wrote.

The politician used to complain about the state of the road. They only went to remind him.

And when he stopped seeing them, they stopped going.

Why didn't he tell them there are little funds instead of avoiding them?

“Uncle promise you money, after calling him several times to remind him, you stopped. Now, he's out of the job, he's calling for family reunion”

Nothing like corruption
RomanceRe: I Am A Man Who Supports Feminism by purpinkx(m): 6:27am On Jun 25, 2020
JayCynic:
It's called Feminism because men in the past have had the upper-hand in society and women have only recently tried to ascend to the same stratification. It's just like when someone says black lives matter, it doesn't mean all other lives don't matter, it just means that one group is asking for the same privileges enjoyed by others. It's a basic thing to comprehend
Please tell me, what privilege do men enjoy? Just 5 will do.
RomanceRe: I Am A Man Who Supports Feminism by purpinkx(m): 12:23pm On Jun 24, 2020
Why call it feminism instead or EQUALism if it was about equal treatment for everyone?

It's not too late to wake up.

Premiumwriter:
OK.

I hope the ladies see this and then dm you.
Lol, don't mind the SIMPle guy!
RomanceRe: What's Your Opinion? She's 16 And I'm 22 by purpinkx(m): 2:05pm On Jun 20, 2020
She is 16, but looks 18-19.

How do you think your writing makes you look?

Please, always space your work.

Modified Again!!

Just so others understand you. By “make her mine”, you mean to adopt her?
RomanceRe: Trying To Toast A Girl As A Shy Guy. Share Your Experience by purpinkx(m): 9:43am On Jun 14, 2020
Blackmoran:
My experience with girls through out my life only asked a girl out once and that was when I was in jss3 junior secondary school days and I can remember her name vividly "Mildred". I always have this luck with girls I have this natural instinct to know when a girl Is interested in me and I do play it to my advantage... First of all I don't ask them out but I know they want me probably due to nature I am good looking so I have Providence to thank for..... Till today I can't remember me chasing a girl but one way or the other I have them evading my circle and I can tell which one is a prey to hunt...
I think the word you're looking for here is “invade” => ‘To enter or move into.’

Evade is kind of the opposite.



Will hold my breath and hope you're not one of those that take correction as personal attack!
RomanceRe: She's Pregnant by purpinkx(m): 9:26am On Jun 14, 2020
yanabasee1:
Sorry ma'am!!!



Sorry oh.....



See me oh....I for just go put myself for trouble for this Sunday...

RomanceRe: Never Reveal This To Any Babe During Courtship. by purpinkx(m):
Who are you people dating?

See women aren't stupid - they only pretend to be.

What's the aim of beating a woman, so she'll become submissive out of fear?

Wrong move!

A woman will keep pushing and pushing your boundaries. Most guys only react when their backs are at the wall, this is where beatings happen.

Why not caution her the first time, then show her you don't mind walking away (from the relationship or whatever) when she repeats the same action?

Why wait until the anger has great grand children?

Before you're provoked to beat your “gf” you've been ignoring small, small nonsense behavior, and now you want to use beating to restore factory preset.

In my opinion, women are chisels and men are like rocks.

She'll keep chiseling until she no longer has ‘feelings’ for the final structure.

As a man (women inclusive), you need to check people's behavior when they're around you. If they can't conform, then they have no business being around you, since their behavior will only get you aggressive.

Asiere
RomanceRe: My Uncle Don't Want My Gf by purpinkx(m):
First off, you fall hands!

How can you stay with someone for good 8+ years and you don't know what they're like?

From just the way he talks, what, and how he criticize things you'd know the man's stance on such.

Abi you're the type that stays in the room when Uncle is in the parlour?

I have nephews and a niece too, the oldest of them is a 16yrs lad. We talk business, women, life planning, goals, etc.

I even tease him about his GFs in school, that alone tell you that if a girl comes to see him, she'll likely get a “visitor’s” drink.

The problem will be when they're too many.
Even without being told, he knows his boundaries.

If you stay with someone that constantly talks about the benefits of cooking at home, what do you expect when you bring fast food home?

Study the people you spend time with, their actions speak louder than the words they say.
RomanceRe: David And Mary by purpinkx(m): 9:29pm On May 28, 2020
Your writing is captivating, however, the story is depressing.

At some point I asked myself “why am I reading this”
RomanceRe: Women Are More Important Than Man Premiumwriter by purpinkx(m): 7:49pm On May 27, 2020
Premiumwriter:
I don't mind the thread but you even typing this thrash makes me wanna comment.

Please don't simp. It's not in your DNA. You can overcome the urge to agree with women over the trashes they say.

In what way is the World feminine? Is the earth shaped like their vaginas or the rocks as soft as their bodies?

Are the mountains as short as they are or the forest wildfires as gentle as the feminine nature? Have you ever seen the wildlife eating one another and being eaten in the process?

A man possesses the choice to make this or that child a male or female. He's clearly nature's decision maker so how's that a feminine world?

Men are the lion. The indaboski. The war. The liquid metal and not a preacher of love just as nature is not a preacher of love.

Any other thrash you believe aside you the man being the second apart from God is a lie.

The world was rough in the beginning. Women had to cling to men for survival. Till today, they still cling to the strongest men even when there's no reason for them to.

Men are the bahose.
I tire for the guy

RomanceRe: Women Are More Important Than Man Premiumwriter by purpinkx(m): 7:43pm On May 27, 2020
AnalQueenluci:
Parents is at fault not her ,she once said , she n her sisters aren't recognize by her dad so she swore to useless men around her ,


But she might be right
Are you serious?

I've always felt that vibe from the person in question, like she needs some tough love only a strong father can give.

Too bad, we rarely visit psychologist on this side of the world.
RomanceRe: Ubunja: Eliminated By A Gang Of The Pussy Cartel? by purpinkx(m): 7:35pm On May 27, 2020
I learned a lot from that guy.

Maybe he lost access to his account.
RomanceRe: Another One I Just Killed This Snake by purpinkx(m): 7:24pm On May 27, 2020
La la snake soup.

Nairaland no dey ever update their algorithm*, just use “snake I killed” in a topic and boom... Front page.

*Be like one admin has snake as pet
FamilyRe: Why Do Women In The West Still Say They Do Not Have True Equality? by purpinkx(m): 5:30pm On May 21, 2020
Donald3d:
Let's be reasonable ma'am
Its not safe for a pregnant woman to be on a construction or engineering site (if you are an engineer or if you have ever been to a site, you would understand what I am saying), its not safe for her and everyone involved. These are the limits I was talking about.Its not because she is a woman, its because she isn't fully fit to do the job.

Even if she is just a supervisor, it still not advisable. For example if a machine/vehicle operator loses control, how fast can she run ?. So, her being a woman has nothing to do with this, but her condition.

Its like saying a man who has boil under his armpit or on his hand (for example), should be aloud to operate a cutting machine. Its not safe. He is "compromised".

Engineering environments are not places where one can "gamble" and assume the person can handle it.

I am not sure how it works in the medical field, but I am guessing a physically pregnant surgeon would not be allowed to operate on someone's brain. Someone else would have to take her place, whether another woman or a man. So should we demand for equal rights because she was relieved of her job ?

I hope you get my point now.
I salute you for all your effort so far.

The thing is that [most] women only want equality when it favours their gender.

• There are more men in prison.

• Most garbage people are men.

• Women don't go to war, if there's a war women aren't automatically drafted at 18.

• More men die from substance abuse.

• Men's mental well-being is laughed at.

• In case of a disaster Women and children are the priority for evacuation.

• If a man and woman commit a crime, the man is always blamed for misleading the woman.

• A man accused of rape is guilty as long as a woman says so.

• In a false rape, the man's reputation is damaged. The woman barely gets a slap on the wrist.

• Mostly male TV reported go to the scene to cover the event, the females stay in the cozy studio to relay the information.


Does any man scream for equality on these?

Does any woman want more women to be garbage collectors or be on death row?

Would you vote for more of your daughters to be sent to “wars that men started”?

If a tsunami occurs and there's a sit for one, would you say a man should go first? We can come back for the woman because she's “strong”?

Women should be given equal opportunity in the work place, do you realize that they are competing against equally capable men?

Does it occur to anyone that Shareholders employ more of those that can do the job faster for cheaper? People that help the business grow?

How many men get menstrual leave? When the women go on menstrual leave who covers for them?

Don't you think that if women did the SAME job or better than men but are paid lower than men, that any reasonable employee would hire only Women since they get the job done but cost less?

If you cannot counter the above with superior argument instead of emotions, then don't quote me.

Until we learn to appreciate each other, we'll always be at loggerhead.

“The greatest crime is the treatment of unequal people equally”

Men and women are not equal, should never have equality, only equity.
RomanceRe: I Want Her All To Myself by purpinkx(m): 9:35am On May 17, 2020
Missmossy:
Just here to read comments cheesy
Seriously, that's what I do 95% of the time in this section of nairaland.

Everyday entertainment and lessons to learn.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Couple Wed In Casual Outfit Spark Controversy by purpinkx(m):
My kind of couple.

If I ever get married, I'd just invite 4 people from each family.

3 of each’s close friends.

Choosing who comes or not is the family's headache.


The other day, I read of a man who borrowed 3M for wedding only to commit suicide when the marriage crashed.

Why would someone do that?

In my opinion, I think couple's that want to separate should also host a ceremony as big as the wedding ceremony itself, maybe that way people will think twice and get their priorities straight.

If I witnessed when you joined, I demand to witness the separation.

Thank you.

LikeAking:
The lady will surfer in this marriage, because the man will have a lesser value for her.

He married her like a fowl and he will treat her like a fowl after marriage.

Ladies let the man spend, don't pity a man when it comes to marriage expenses,or any other exp.

Never let your man think you can economize,or you are cheap,else that will be your standard for live.

Remember:Na the good/timid/naive women dey suffer for marriage.
SMH

RomanceRe: Pls How Do I Get A U.s Phone Number In Nigeria? by purpinkx(m): 7:39pm On May 11, 2020
Try blacktel.io

For just $15 the number is yours for 30 days.

This post is for educational purposes only.

Thank you.
RomanceRe: Why Do Old Men Love To Chase After Young Girls? by purpinkx(m): 10:34am On May 11, 2020
This is like asking “why do women go after stable and we'll todo men?”

BTW, except you are under 18 years, stop viewing the ‘old’ men that approach you or those that support them doing so as pedophiles.
Christianity EtcRe: How Do I Pray My Family Out Of Stagnation by purpinkx(m): 7:39am On Apr 19, 2020
sysengr:
This is also encouraging. I will get the books and do as you have said.

Two days ago, I was able to browse on Bible verses on financial prosperity, which I read morning and night.

Thanks so much. I appreciate
I'm not here to dampen your faith in whatever you believe.

Let me ask you something,

Does a cook use garri turner to dish soup?
Does a tailor use a hammer to cut fabric?
Does a doctor use earphones to listen to heartbeat?
Does a Fisher man use hair net to catch fish?

I can go on and on.

You have money problems, it's not spiritual.
It's is financial.

Read your religious book to give you HOPE and FAITH that you have the power to do what you want, then start reading books on FINANCE to show you the way out.

A good place to start is the “Richest man in Babylon”

Just as you won't seek legal advice from a medical doctor. Don't read finance books written by any pastor, imam, etc. They have no business giving financial advice.

Even if they have sound advice to give, it won't be as deep as what you'll get from someone who specializes in making money.

See you at the top.
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls From Rich Homes More Appreciative? by purpinkx(m): 6:58pm On Apr 18, 2020
desiregold:
Your comment, both with your signature on your profile.., shows you are a wise person.
I'm flattered, but I believe I'm standing on the experiences of the authors and books I've read.
Christianity EtcRe: How Do I Pray My Family Out Of Stagnation by purpinkx(m):
To anyone reading this, prayer works when you do the work.

From 2015 to late 2018, I had less than N20,000 in my account. I mean, in those 3 years the total amount I had in my name never exceeded that amount.

Things were tough with me and I was drowning in financial waters. Then something happened.

I stumbled upon a book that taught me something about manifesting my desires and using my mind in the right way.

“The science of getting rich - Walter Wallace”

From this book, I learnt that I was telling my VERY POWERFUL MIND that there are very few jobs, even for people with BSc and Msc, then imagine me with just programming skills and no certification.

I changed that mentality. I told myself there may be little opportunities in Nigeria, but I WILL definitely find freelancing opportunities online.

So I registered on PPH as a writer (yes, I learned programming and writing is a skill I picked up in school and the books I read. That's for those of you that write Facebook English and think it is cool).

There, I met a client that has been sending me writing jobs every month for the past one year. Now, my writing has really, really improved and I'm using this lockdown to start my own blog, so I can command more income.

From what I have made so far, I've stored 5 drums of palm oil now that the price is low. I learned to save and invest from reading books on finance and money management.

Was I lucky, yes! But, would I have been lucky if I didn't change my mentality? I doubt.

It all started when I came across a book, and decided to make time to read it. Since then I've read many books, some of my writing skills I picked up from reading.

I've read books that taught me things that seemed random but aren't.

I realized that success in life is predictable.

You can spare 2 week of your time and read that book I mentioned above, follow what it says, and also read “the secret - Rhonda Byrne”

Before you say “I'll buy the books when I have money”, there's an app on playstore called “anybooks” download and search for the book I mentioned. You can get the paper version later so you can highlight as you read.

I know you feel like you are at the bottom of the sea and drowning, but I have offered you a way out, a raft. Climb on it if you wish.

One thing you can do this night before you sleep is to take a book, make a list of the things you want and read it everyday. First thing when you wake and last thing before you sleep.

Then tell your mind (it is always listening) to change the things around you. Don't forget to wake up and do the work.

That, is the true way to pray!

If you think working systematically to put your life in order is hard work now that you are young, imagine what it'll be like when you hit 40, 50, and above.

Remember, “an excuse is just a very sophisticated lie”

I care about you, that's why I shared.
Stay safe.

RomanceRe: Why Are Girls From Rich Homes More Appreciative? by purpinkx(m): 5:54pm On Apr 18, 2020
mabeni:
I can't comprehend. Your vocabulary is too sophisticate. Lolz. Could you please summarize this in a simple English? Thanks
That, Sir, is the simplest English I've ever written. Don't let the punctuations scare you.
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls From Rich Homes More Appreciative? by purpinkx(m):
The problem most humans have is seeing things in extremities, black and white, no middle ground.

[Some] Rich people [I've met] are greedy.
[The] Women [I've met] are wh°res.
[The] men [ I allow into my life] are dogs.

Etc.

We don't like to use the words in the brackets because it exposes something about us, and it makes our argument invalid.

I saw a research on coaches and training facilities.

Edit. Thank you Yaronorthside.

Yaronorthside:
it's called the Pygmalion effect
According to the research, when a coach, for some reason, likes a player and ‘thinks’ that they can go far in life, the coach gives them more training opportunities, corrects them constructively, freely offers useful tips and tricks, as well as become interested in their progress.

The player feels encouraged and, most times, becomes successful.

However, if the coach, for some reason, doesn't like a player and ‘thinks’ they don't have what it takes to be successful, he doesn't invest( or ’waste’) his time on the player. After all, they'll be no good.

Subconsciously, the player picks up on this and behaves accordingly. A few see it for what it is, do all they can to prove the Coach wrong, and they succeed.

A real life scenario. There's this shop I usually Barb at. There are two barbers in the shop, but I like one more than the other.

Even if the barber I like makes a mistake in my hair, I still feel dope AF. But, the other barber could give me a clean hair cut, maybe even better than that of the barber I like, and I'll feel my confidence drop until the hair grows back. I even had to get the barber's number so I'll schedule a haircut with him before going to the shop.

It is what it is, we are humans and we all have biases.

Could it be that you are projecting your expectations of these people on them? Or that you're attracting what you think of?

FamilyRe: What Comes With Marrying The Breadwinner Of A Family? by purpinkx(m): 5:01pm On Apr 16, 2020
oyoolima:
Not everyone is destined to marry the 'Jesus' of the family.

You're just 24,why should you shackle yourself to a man who is 7 years older than you and dependent on your income to take care of his own family cheesy cheesy

The money isn't even to build a business,it's to take care of people who are significantly older than you who probably will never be independent of him.

Your mates are marrying up,you're not just marrying down but you're also carrying cross of Calvary while you're just ordinary girlfriend and then the man also feels entitled to the money grin


What does he do for you? Nothing.

When you hang out do you split bills 50/50 or is he unable to even come up.with his own portion?


Is this what you want forever?

I'm trying really hard not to laugh at you because this is beyond ridiculous.

He wants you to be supportive not just of him but of his family cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

No one should be in a parasitic relationship, whether male.or female

It shall end in premium tears.
How can I like your post twice?

Not just for the sarcastic and witty delivery, but the neat, clean text format.

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