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Finished with a picture frame and ready for sale. Now that i can make picture frames too, the frame can be bought and the picture removed.

Or both can be bought together. I have a goal of making at least 50 abstract art pieces to sell this year. And i will sell. As i already have before.

Today

6. No Life Plans, Less Achievements : Since you're so busy going where the wind takes you, you may end up living life in a really lax manner. After all, you are people's robot, you only exist and work when someone makes a request. You put your life on hold just so that people can get what they want from you when they need it. You are just clay for the next person to mould. This kind of lifestyle leaves one's life devoid of substance and meaning. You may be depressed about it, but most people won't care. They would prefer that you please them, and then get out of their way. They don't care if you have a life or if you make an impact or not.

The only solution sometimes is to hope that the hard knocks and lessons of life will harden you and turn you away from that gluttonous approach towards people's affection.

Pictures culled from google.

5. You Are Forever Fake : You'll switch ideals like panties. When feminists come around, you become one. When masochists come around, you bow down for them. When Muslims cross your path, you wear a veil, when Christians are around you, you wear a cross. You will have no identity and keep shape shifting. Therefore, instead of understanding yourself and your life, and growing in faith, you are forever confused and won't grow in wisdom. Growth in religion and understanding in life is cut short because you are so addicted to being who people want you to be.

4. You Become A Menace To Yourself and Society : If you have no moral compass, and your life's ambition is to please all, then you can be turned to any vice. Smoking, drinking, stealing and even killing, yes, you may be convinced to kill. You become a tool in anyone's hands, for good or evil. All it takes is someone coming up to you, and you start dreaming of finally being cool, being accepted. Loved. Someone will sway you a little, and you will do anything to stay in their favor. Ticking time bomb.

3. Any Person Is Your Person: You become cheaply purchased by any little affection or attention given to you. You will not have a type of person you desire for a relationship. Neither will you have any standards. Anybody that crosses your path will be okay, because you want everyone to love you. This also applies to body shape, hygiene, character and all other things imaginable. A person who is almost not human, could walk into your life, and you would take them like that. This leads to intense emotional suffering, it leaves a scar from bad relationships which resulted from accepting anybody and everybody. As a result, you may be too damaged to actually love, when the right person comes into your life.

2. You Will Have No Self-Respect: Self respect is for people who value themselves. If you value others more than yourself, there may be no limit to how you will let them treat you. Due to wanting acceptance, you may allow them to do anything to you. The irony of this is that, at the end of the day, it is no guarantee that you will actually be accepted by others. Most times, allowing people to walk all over you leaves you used, yet, unaccepted. People are often cold hearted; they take you for a fool, take what they want, and leave. This is the effect that is experienced most times. Even though this is true, it still takes a small amount of guts to demand to be treated right by others.

The Effects Of Being Desperate For Human Acceptance and Friendship.


We all wish to be loved and accepted. However, too much of anything is not good. As a person who is almost always at the extreme end of needing acceptance, I have compiled some of the devastating effects of this bad habit.


1. You Have No Moral Compass: Since your ultimate goal is to be accepted by all, you will be too weak to stand for anything. Due to your desire to please people, you may have no mind of your own. What they say is right would be right to you, and what they say is wrong, would also be wrong for you. You will change based on whoever is around you, that you are trying to please. You will stand for nothing, and therefore, fall for everything. Therefore, though you might be an adult, your life would be more like a cow's, or a baby, you would be led anywhere people please. You may have no real idea of what is real and what is wrong, for the rest of your life. All because you are addicted to wanting acceptance.

Toh..... Maybe they don't wash their eyes well.

Hi Trayceey. Don't lose hope, things will work out ok?

You are the one that went after her. Still, you are the same person that came to expose her ilk.

Why do guys push girls into sin then come back later to start insulting them? You used your own fingers to type that the aunt of the girl you dated, kept strict watch over her. If not for your stubborn insistence, that girl won't be able to pass all those obstacles to meet you. You made sure you pressed her out of her corner. Now you are coming back to say home girls can be sluts too.

As if bringing contributions to the table changes anything.

A woman that's just starting will think something good will come out of it, but that is not always the case.

ebuka1997:
This is really great

Thanks

khia:
Why can't you hustle and accumulate your own wealth?

To contribute means that wealth will be accumulated, of course. To contribute to a relationship you have to have something which you accumulated, or you still don't understand the words in English?

The studies I am currently following demands that the women train themselves up to a physical, financial and emotional level to reach that of the man's. If this post doesn't explain what I'm trying to say, oh well.

This is blackmail. Why automatically assume that a woman looking for standard has nothing to offer? Why assume that she is there to contribute nothing and eat everything?

You guys are holding onto this point like there's no tomorrow. Its like you have no other point in your defense. You see our response to it, yet your argument refuses to change. So yes, the woman will contribute, what do you have to say now?

khia:
Why can't you make your own wealth? Why don't you hustle for riches then marry a broke man and do all of these things for him that you expect a man to do for your broke behind while he does nothing for you other than sexx you. Would you consider this broke man a gold digger? You wouldn't give such a man a second glance yet you think a rich man should except you.

Hi. I actually stated that a woman will contribute. I can't fathom how you've missed this point in all our posts.

Eyeness:
thanks for the mention. the issue is even if you pick a poor man, what assurance will you have that he will still be faithful when he becomes rich? wealth has a way of amplifying people's truth character, then there's also the fact that he might never be rich. you become poor by association and you have to pick up his slack. this will naturally create resentment which will threaten the relationship. Its too risky a gamble. the best thing is to work with results, not potential. being strategic about your future is nothing to be ashamed of. This makes me a proud golddiger.

I can't even call you a gold digger. This life is not like nollywood films, where the poor man becomes rich one day. I have people who were better than me in school, they laughed at me, today, they are still better off. Life no be nollywood film, that everytime things get better. So its better to look for what is good for both you and your partner.

TheCork:
Darling please please please I beg u. Can u help a handsome brother. My prick is had n I will pay u 700 naira cash, please. Can I toast u please?

Your prick is 'had' ? OK since someone else already had it, I shall not be collecting.

zexy2030:
very true point. I must recommend this for women to watch. Are u in a relationship already. Can we have a round table talk? Yea, after lockdown.

I will drop some of the videos here later. Yeah I'm in a relationship. Let's see how things go after the lockdown, for the round table talk; I would like others with like ideas to show up too..

foolbuster:
Its hard to find a woman that plays a role in providing (the man's role) and still entirely submissive to the husband. Men have to stop whining, step up to the challenge and fulfill their natural role of providers. And Not expecting some woman to help them.

Yes, why do they claim to be redpill and manly men, but they cannot care for the kind of woman they would keep as their partner?