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Silentgroper:
.you are the prettiest i've seen on here after mayna.tion ..

you lots got the same eyes ,forreal tho

Thanks.

Mom made this..

Women are the worst enemies of women. Is it because you have not fallen that you are unmerciful towards your fellow woman? Because your own breasts are still standing, and you are still young. Ok.

Bryan88:
another olosho spotted!...i pity your hubby to be.

Apparently, you misunderstand.

If only you were quicker at trying to figure things out.........than throwing insults first.

Too painful.

Ahahahahaha

Mftivi:
Lol, you know he's being played and you want him to choke on it, people really are wicked out here.

That is not what i meant.

EternalTruth:
how many pm did u receive from guys after you created that thread?

Hmm, can't count.

divineappo:
sorry for my mean response earlier

We're cool. Peace.

divineappo:
nonsense

if it was a lady that checked her guys phone, and saw shit, u will defend her and condemn the guy

Reverse is the case now, u are condemning the guy for checking her phone

Hypocrisy kill you

No i would not support a lady doing the same. That would just drive her partner away.

intruder15:
With your response, it's implied u have no problem with ur boyfriend deleting all conversations on his phone. Be careful what you wish for. Karma is a bitch...

Oh i used to check the phone. And found what i was looking for. When you find that person. You will not even bother to check.....your heart will be at rest, i tell you.

intruder15:
I don't get your angle. Are u single or you are dating someone? If u are dating, how will you feel if the message u sent ur boyfriend on WhatsApp last light is no longer on his phone this morning? Be honest with yourself. Won't u be suspicious? The least u can do is ask him what happened right?

Talkmore of someone the OP wants to spend the rest of his life with. It's not just about she cheating or catching her cheat.
Its not boyfriend and girlfriend. It's fiance and fiancee. A marriage shouldn't be built on distrust or questionable actions.

Marriage is in the balance here. Do you think a couple that distrusts each other to the point of always snooping into the other's phone should be together? If there is trust, if things are well, shouldn't he have peace of mind? Its obvious he doesn't trust her, and he can never trust her. If they marry, is this how he will live with high bp, checking the phone for twenty and more years?

It will also make her unhappy that he does not trust her. Its better to leave if he cannot have that confidence in her, without running to check the phone.

Saintmary:
When a guy wants to break up but needs a reason?

You know the deal sis

SenecaTheYonger:
You sound like my lesson teacher back then. We should definitely hang out sometime. Your views on privacy as the same as mine.

Lol lesson teacher. But i am sure it will be you that wants to teach a lesson.

Peace.

SenecaTheYonger:
I wish my girl will defend me against Nairalanders like this while I'm smashing other babes religiously. Can we be a couple?

One thing binding a relationship is trust. If one partner is going round, looking deep for faults, then there is no trust. And no trust, no what?

No trust, no relationship. It just isn't real. I used to check phones too but i will never do it now, as i have learned it is invasion of privacy, it is bad. Even God has secrets.

Inferno001:
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This is so true..she doesn't lock her phone, she let's you use it at will and you still wanna dig up what you haven't seen..op just wants to be the angel and see her as the bad person...I clear my chats and messages on a daily basis because I fear getting hacked so does that mean I'm cheating on my wife?? Op grow up and leave that innocent woman alone...if you're tired of the relationship, break up and stop trying to pin a target on her back

Correct.

Openbusiness:
Revealed wen, wich thread , chaiii, tell me na lemme rush deer with speed of disappear

Lol my lockdown thread.

Openbusiness:
Post ya fine pix na, u be petite

Thanks, i just prefer to let these girls shine on this thread

I have revealed myself a lot/enough on my own threads

Why must you actively DIG to find what she is doing? You didn't see anything on her phone. You are complaining. Why do you seek to satisfy yourself with evidence that she is cheating, she is evil. I know you will search heaven and earth until you find something to satisfy your claims. I don't know why you want to catch someone else so bad. Maybe you just want to be the victim in the relationship, while you really NEED her to be the bad guy in your life. You WANT and NEED to be the ANGEL in your relationship. Nonsense.

They are taking you for granted, just don't associate with those who think you are cheap. Or since you dont know who is thinking that way, its time to retreat and mingle with a few true good friends or, even better, just family. Indulge in other activities than mixing with people that don't know your worth. When they don't see you often, they will learn to treasure your company.

One of my friends had the baddest guys on campus, all of them, as her friends. The day they fought, she left for the hostel and i was left behind. Though, most of those boys weren't really familiar with me, but i heard them mutter some uncouth words(maybe, slut,etc?).......innocently, ignorantly, i laughed and told her........Since then till today she doesn't mix with them again. Her reaction was so swift and harsh.

Purrrr-fect

Thumbs up! I love this stature. I even got a little fat and didn't like myself. I love these body types. Like, all the load these guys request for, with each year those big boobs and ass sag, as an old lady, it becomes a health risk and a burden. I feel people don't know what they want because once a woman gets fat, everyone starts telling her to slim down. There's a big demand for slim girls in the market too. Having 'body' is work. It has to 'gather' in the 'right' places.

I heard there's a difference between being beautiful and attractive. That you can be beautiful but not get guys at your side. That being attractive means knowing the art of being desirable.

Mariangeles:
Lovely as always.

Are you on Instagram? If you are, check out @claireidera's works. They're beautiful.
I saw her works and you immediately came to my mind.
Check her out, you might be inspired by her works.
Let me know what you think...

Thanks dear, I'll check and get back to you...

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I'd feel bad but that's just people's choice. Got to move forward.

Mariangeles:
You said it!
Virgins are not for every man.

Exactly sis.

Perfect post

Why are people handling the man's neglect and cheating lightly? Neglect is emotional abuse. A virgin is tender and new with blossoming emotions. You don't play with her. You give her every bit of your love and attention and god damn it, every bit of your devotion!

Next time you get a virgin, know it this way. You must worship those fragile emotions of hers. Else she will fall. Your wife fell, i wonder what stopped you from loving her how she needed to be loved. Its your fault that she cheated. I'm sorry but that's my honest opinion. And you ought to apologize and seduce and caress that woman back home. And love her like never before. Then, her spirit will be calm. Then, she will never leave your side again.

jelel6:
I've always loved drawings, paintings, sculptures, and all those artsy stuffs. I love graffiti to like mad.

I remember when in primary 5, one of my teachers just took a pencil and drew an image of a woman from a photograph on a piece of paper. It was absolutely brilliant. The likeness was so real. He then sent us to go buy a frame for the drawing, he intended to give the drawing to the woman in the picture as a gift.

Then in secondary school, there was a corper
who taught fine arts. He was a Maverick. Like the guy draws, paints, dyes textile, moulds, does sculpting with woods and metal. He was a professional.

There was an artsy guy too during my undergraduate studies. He made very realistic drawings too.

Then, there's you now I guess...

Looks like you're also multi-talented. And your works are pretty good too and quite creative. Keep it up. And double points for you since you're a lady... I've rarely seen girls who are into things like this talkless of being good at it.

Have you ever been interested or curious about (computer) graphics design? I know it's not really the same as what you do but you basically make designs with a different tool to the ones you're currently using.

There's a great market for it. It's a digital skill.
And for you, it would just be expanding your potential market for an inate skill you already possess.

Anyways, Good luck with your endeavors.

Thank you so much. I'm looking forward to learning graphic design so I can move forward.