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RomanceRe: In Reality Girls Don't Like Big D!cks. by purples25(f): 2:12pm On May 12, 2020
Dfynboi:
u gals re jst confused,if its big u gals will complain,if its small u gals will still complain...wts do u gals rilli want??
Lol no pain is what is needed for peace to reign.
RomanceRe: In Reality Girls Don't Like Big D!cks. by purples25(f): 2:00pm On May 12, 2020
Yes. Why like something big like that. cheesy
RomanceRe: Uproar In Twitter As Nigeria Man Abandons Fiance After 28 Abortions (PHOTOS) by purples25(f): 1:54pm On May 12, 2020
Stay and be faithful, stay and suffer, stay with the broke man........


Your reward is in heaven o. Shey him don jakpa.


At least you receive an award for faithful bae who stayed when he was broke.
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 1:43pm On May 12, 2020
Genset:
My dear don't listen to them. They know the truth buh only try to fool the gullible girls that will fall for the cheap scam of let's build together'. Girls listen ' A man will never value u if u don't make him spend on you'. If a man willingly spends on u, it is either he loves u or just paying for sex. Use ur brain to decipher the difference. I have been there, done it all. I once dated a broke guy who I spent well on. But it ended in tears. The relationship of one year plus ended with him telling his friends and all that I was cheap because I gave him sex. Relationships in the country are highly transactional ; this is the truth. A guy rich will never approach an average or ugly-looking girl for relationship because he has the money to take care of her needs and in most cases, a poor will never a slay queen for a relationship because he can't afford it. The only a rich man needs from his partner is beauty , sex and respect
I console you dear. We need to think of the future. A guy that is broke but loves you will at least do some things. Here we are demanding the barest minimum, and for that we get called names. He doesn't try for you today, he will never try for you in life. I've seen it with my two eyes.

Last last he will tell you thank you. Tomorrow when he is rich, you will see a fresh, fair, pretty young Igbo( no offense) girl on his fb account. All the pictures and places he never took you to, na so so post you go dey see for fb. Them go chop chicken, chop meat, go clubbing, swimming. Introduction, marriage, lavish one. Then you will know they are not angels. And i bet you, that other woman never suffered. She saw a rich man and went for him.
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 1:31pm On May 12, 2020
jimyjames:
Let the both care for each other financially emotionally spiritually that's what love is



You can tell me men love are respects proustites cause they buy sex from them and take them to the best places to enjoy with them
They do. They love and respect prostitutes. Well doesn't mean a woman should become one. But she needs to expect something. Broke men don't want to do nothing, except you show that you are not there for free.
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 1:24pm On May 12, 2020
Lol preaching value, value. You bring value, support and care, and watch that well maintained lady in high heels enter his car and go on various outings and spoiling.

He will now keep you in the corner of his house, in the dark corner, like egungun idol grin cheesy and after treating his expensive babe, comman have sex with you for free
grin grin
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 1:20pm On May 12, 2020
jimyjames:
Men respect women who add value to their lives , you can't just come to me empty and all you can give me is sex then shout for money and expect me to respect you and marry you, I will respect you as long as the sex last once that sexual taste for you clears from my tongue I'm will dump you

But when you add value to my life you help me when I'm in need I help you when you are in need I will always respect you and I will marry such a lady


Beauty fades sex gets boring , what keeps a man is beyond that
So because we said the man should contribute, now means that the woman is not doing anything, that is the meaning of you giving money? Omo, i think i have explained this thing to you, but you want to look at it in a one sided way. Nobody said the woman will not bring value.

Yes, men do prefer those women that bring only sex and collect money. They treat them better than the woman that waits patiently for whatever he can bring.
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 12:53pm On May 12, 2020
jimyjames:
It should be a 50/50 responsibility once it becomes one sided then she's being bought , one person can't just be giving and the other one be receiving all the time without giving back
Who said it was one sided? Unless she wants to be a fool. No, but at least that man will do something. Most men, once you cuddle them and leave them in peace, ask nothing, they will overstep. They will neglect you badly. And that woman who always shouts for money, who will never take it from them, they quickly arrange what to do for her. It is even that woman, that they will later respect so much and marry..... And try to impress. Then women should stop being mute, and start expecting something, because most times, that poor love that yields fruit is usually a pipe dream.

He will later apologize to you and move on with a younger mistress that just enjoys the money. So, women, dont be cheated!
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 12:45pm On May 12, 2020
jimyjames:
The bitter truth is a lady that can be bought with money is not different from the pets we keep at home
And the truth is that you love those PETS than the woman that would ask for nothing, and so therefore deserves everything.
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 12:39pm On May 12, 2020
grin
Lol these guys that want to kill a woman with suffering have come. Okay, then men are also body diggers. I have never seen a woman who is less attractive say 'Manage with my current looks and age, when things get better, we will enjoy my beauty' and a guy will agree. The men always go for what they want, they get list and preferences.

But if a woman chooses, she is a LovePeddler.

Let me tell you the real truth, you will suffer with him, ask him for nothing, and he will ridicule you! You will be a foot mat that he rubs mud on!

Any guy that wants to summersault should do so! I'm only returning the savagery you guys lash out with here!
RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 12:35pm On May 12, 2020
jimyjames:
The bitter truth is a lady that can be bought with money is not different from the pets we keep at home
So for a man to do good things for his woman, and for a woman to choose a man who can provide, she is being bought?
Forum GamesRe: If Given An Opportunity, Which Age Would You Choose To Be Forever? by purples25(f): 11:33am On May 12, 2020
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RomanceRe: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by purples25(f): 11:29am On May 12, 2020
I've spent some good portion of my life giving all to my erm, love. I didn't have much, but I gave all my money and stuff. It still didn't work out.

A guy being broke does not make him an angel and doesn't mean he deserves you. At the end of the day, he will leave for greener pastures and a woman who NEEDS him, a woman who makes him feel like a MAN. This is that woman that probably never worked or suffered with him, the one that just looks pretty and has her hand out for money. For staying there and managing, you become his masculine partner, a work mule

The truth is bitter. Truth is everything you put up there, OP. So hypergamy and co. really works. Keep up the teaching abeg.
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Deletes Chat On Facebook After Conversation by purples25(f): 10:07am On May 12, 2020
Bryan88:
what's there to figure out again when u already showed d world d kinda person u re with jst a comment?
It is not just the comment, but how you interpret it. Have you considered that I am not supporting the lady? There's no sign that I am doing that.

Rather, I believe in straightforwardness, rather than snooping behind her back and stealing information. If both of you cannot talk, the relationship doesn't exist now, don't you think? You can't continue like that and that method is so wrong. Infact, most men will not tolerate a woman that goes into their phones. Its better to end a relationship where you cannot ask the woman, but you have to go behind her back, because you don't trust her.
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Suggestion To All Nairalanders. Kindly Click & Read!! by purples25(f): 4:27am On May 12, 2020
Wonderful suggestion. I wish all would heed.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Rick And Morty Fans (come On In ) by purples25(f): 4:20am On May 12, 2020
Rick and Morty, nice cartoon.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Happened To Nairaland?? by purples25(f): 4:19am On May 12, 2020
Toxic people/Bullies/Trolls/Mischief makers came.
RomanceRe: Why Do Old Men Love To Chase After Young Girls? by purples25(f): 9:23pm On May 11, 2020
grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Post A Picture/pictures Of What You're Doing During The Lockdown by purples25(op): 6:06pm On May 11, 2020
maeola:
cheesy I really appreciate you liking them, now I feel motivated to do some more...
I will sure post some more.. cool
cool cool cool

We need them here! Lets encourage each other.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Post A Picture/pictures Of What You're Doing During The Lockdown by purples25(op): 6:04pm On May 11, 2020
sunnypek:
@purples25 are you in Nigeria? Pls from where did you get these glitter papers? I'm so much in need of them for my craft...

Or any one who knows where to get a glitter paper/foam board in osogbo, ibadan or anywhere in Nigeria should lemme know please...

I'm begging nio

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my wutsap number
Oh, they are common. You can get them at any big art shop, where art materials are sold in bulk. If you go to any big art materials shop, you will surely get them there, or they will direct you.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And This Skirt Sha by purples25(f): 12:46am On May 11, 2020
Bahamas95:
You cracked me up with that line walai. I was wondering how she would know what's in vogue
Its just to show affection. I like to appreciate the gifts, considering that one day, i will be old too. At her age, I would like to still feel relevant too.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And This Skirt Sha by purples25(f): 12:20am On May 11, 2020
Bahamas95:
Granny bought a skirt for you?
grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Post A Picture/pictures Of What You're Doing During The Lockdown by purples25(op): 12:18am On May 11, 2020
maeola:
Wow...Op you are doing an amazing job!!! These are cool, are you an artist??�

Well, here is a few stuff I do too... It's an hobby, please I can't claim they're that good�.
Hello! I'm so happy you dropped your art! I think its awesome, i even feel you are better than me, truly, like, see the picture of the bird you drew! I don't think i can do that!

I'm trying to be a real artist, i am a real one by Gods grace. I love your work dear, do keep it up. You can drop more here please.

kiss
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And This Skirt Sha by purples25(f): 3:34pm On May 10, 2020
officialfestus:
it means a "princess" like you don't ignore naysayers then?
Regardless of what they think or what I think, I observed that what they said was true. Like, the people that wear that skirt. There may be nothing wrong there, but the thing is, if I choose to wear that skirt, there is a certain way I'll be treated and though its wrong, I can't force people to stop that silly behavior. So, I just avoid wearing the skirt.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And This Skirt Sha by purples25(f): 2:57pm On May 10, 2020
officialfestus:
really?
Truly.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And This Skirt Sha by purples25(f): 12:15pm On May 10, 2020
My granny bought that skirt for me, the long one. People around me regarded it with disdain though. Some told me it is pepper sellers that wear it. I looked around and, truly, in my area sha, dunno of others, it was these food sellers (groundnuts, fruits, etc) that wear it. My area, they looked at that skirt like it was local. So i said i would cut mine to be short and better looking. I ended up not cutting it, and never wearing it. Until this post, i have considered giving it away.
RomanceRe: Whats The Creepiest Thing You've Seen That You Haven't Shared Anywhere? by purples25(f): 12:02pm On May 10, 2020
I don't know if i was imagining, but i saw a very beautiful woman wave me as if saying bye.... And then she vanished. I regret not telling her bye back, she was smiling, gentle looking, very pretty. Well maybe i was imagining, since i was a child then.

Another time i was going through trauma and i started to see a ragged man inching to my bed every night. I would wake up every time he gets closer. But every night he gets closer. I dubbed it as psychological because i was having emotional pains. I couldn't sleep every night, it took a real toll on me. But i felt i would be laughed at if i told anyone. Until the night i fell asleep, and my eyes were forced open. My eyes were forced to look at him from his feet to his head. It was different from sleep paralysis, which i know. I was very awake, and i had been seeing this guy for long, now he was in my bed.

Right next to me. I wanted to scream, but couldn't. What he forced me to see, he was an old man black as charcoal, wearing black clothes. He had a black cane for walking. His eyes were red and he grinned at me with a very wide unnatural grin. Right next to me, we were face to face. He made me look at him for a long time. He made me unable to close my eyes. When i broke out of the trance, i cried in terror all night. My roomy was so nice, she gave me her cross chain to wear, calmed me to sleep. The next day i cried all the way home. They had to do deep prayers for me. I was always roaming round the hostel after that. And i hardly pray. Luckily, there was this room where they were madly nice to me, they always invited me in, gave me so much love and expected me to sleep there. That was what i was doing until the next semester.

That thing looked much more like a monster than a human.
FamilyRe: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by purples25(f): 11:21am On May 10, 2020
That woman, according to the story, treated him so harshly and badly. Its really sad. Wish he didn't succeed at killing himself.

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