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They like to think women are hungry dogs that need their money.

Sad

Na wa o

My tears and prayers are with her.

Painted this

Heavensent01:
I pity guys that she will date, she will even do it to the extent of killing and burying them now that she know had been taking on the journey of justice



she should have been punished perhaps cleaning some places in Lagos or a fine of a millions. I fear men will be come vulnerable with this kind of law, Nigeria emulating gender inequality gradually

Punished for what?

If true then she didn't do anything wrong. Some bastards here think that she should have waited or fought with fear for the mans life, when he wanted to chook her by force! She should lie down and be raped so he won't die.

Later you people will still blame the rape on her.

Yes, if defending yourself becomes a battle to the death, then you must kill! And i am sure she didn't do it deliberately, but in the process of self defense, the fight became brutal and a life or death situation.

She should sit down to be raped. So that her rapist won't die. So that the useless man( if true) won't die. She should let him satisfy his dick. I swear lots of you here are heartless.

prettyGabby:
I don't ask my Guy for money, i work and can fend for myself.. He sometimes gifts with surprises...
And we are both happy

Op speak for yourself

Those surprises he gives you, are what the O.P is referring to. It's just a little care from the one that claims to love you. If you had a bro or sis and you spend on them, will you call it payment? But some people are blowing it out of proportion.

Is it a bad thing that your guy takes you out on a date? Or if he 'gifts with surprises' as you said your own bf does for you?

I have also had someone that i gave rather than collected. Will i now call him a golddigger, or a prostitute? Despite all the op's attempts to explain, nl guys have turned it to golddigging.

I like these slim houses. I don't like fat houses.

Lol so all the girls that are not virgins were never virgins before?

I wonder where they were before they became non virgins. Maybe they fell from the sky.

Is it a surprise that yansh is trending?

mignone:
Not everyone is reckless though. It's only that the abominable has become d normal. We've replaced morals&correction with "Don't judge, are u a saint? He who has no sin..., etc".
Where as deep within, everyone knows what is right.

The thing is, people don't know the difference between CORRECTION and CONDEMNATION. When you correct people, you tell them where they went wrong, but not in a condescending, shaming manner. When people say things like you mentioned, its because the people who are supposed to correct start CONDEMNING instead.

People are not averse to correction. Its just the way some turn the errant male/female into a demonic entity that's the problem. Even God gives many chances.

Wow, this is sad. People's comments got the op so down that he took off the pictures.



I know how that feels.

This is heartless.

Humiliation can cause great depression.

Sorry about it and i hope you heal.

About time too.

Guys should stop harassing and raping our ladies. Today, you wont let women rest because your d is up. Sharp sharp, pressuring, using all sorts of manipulative and deceptive means to get your way. Tomorrow you will be looking for virgins. Well, not really looking for virgins, but just to shame those who have had sex. Yet it is still you people that will complain when ladies close their legs and are not open for sex.

Before looking at the ladies, look at male culture. Look at how they celebrate using women, as if those women are not children of human beings too, as if they won't like to be married too, as if those girls you guys pestered and bothered don't want to remain virgins too. But you pressure for sex, or rape, and then you come back to shame the same women. You people should fear God.

I cry for this girl's fate. It is so sad. May she rest in peace.

STOP RAPING WOMEN!!

maeola:
Hmm...not drawing related or anything but it's still an art. The art of crocheting and this is my latest project modeled by my sister. The outfit is handmade with yarn and a hook!!!.

I may do some drawings and post it soon

I love this! These are serious skills! Beautiful and amazing! Please keep posting, you and your sis are A-W-E-S-O-M-E.

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This is terrible, they have to do something. It can't end this way.

As a woman, your needs always come last. You should just support him with your own money and all and never expect any petting or spoiling from him. You should suffer emotionally and physically, thats the way to prove love to Nigerian angry men.



Lol don't even bother. I swore once never to ask any guy for any loving or romantic gesture again. Seems i have slacked but i will go back to my vow. Like, take a step and never look back. That even when they do it, its hard for you to notice or really appreciate it. That you see it as something not good cuz the giving is always seen as a means to an end or a payment. They are stingy as hell.

I honestly wish i could banish any good thoughts of them from my mind and NEVER, ever depend on them. And never see them as a helper and never see them as men.