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I feel that more was donated for him but it was 'eaten' before the remnants were given to him.

calabaman:
Nice feedback

Thanks.

cr7lomo:
So she is now a robot that will not stop until its deprogrammed .... he owes her nothing...she is not a child... wake up and smell the coffee.....

Imagine a man spending on a woman that don't even regard him.... she only remembers him when she needs funds .... and she still rejects his proposal, but the foolish man still spends on her whenever she requests.... then he starts to say she dint end the relationship, so I will keep on spending on her ... no be mumu be that ?? His fellow men his laugh at him and curse him out... they will not even blame her, but u women will support ur fellow women into making stupid decisions like u are toddlers... that's the difference between men and women... reason women shouldn't be given authority.... u women have no logic ....

No decent man or woman will keep their partner on a string when they know they don't want again.

The people who go to the extent of changing their locks and properly defining their status are fools right?

cr7lomo:
U women have fish brain true true ...and uts astonishing how u women defend how very stupid u women can be , that's even what's baffling ... once a man proposes to a woman and she rejects his proposal....immediately, spending will seize and he will start looking somewhere else...to him he relationship is over ... nothing like she only rejected my proposal, not like he relationship is over....reason they say u women have fish brains and una no wan improve ...una still de defend una fish brain

Men also hang on when not totally dismissed and their sob stories are all over the internet.

It is very important to let your former partner know that no chance remains. Else you are playing games.

So sad... The teacher should have known to turn the tip of her cane to the floor. Safety measures. Just like turning a knife to the ground every time you carry it. Most especially with kids around.

Kids are very impulsive and swift in their movement. Every adult should be careful to keep sharp or harmful objects of any sort out of their way. It was carelessness.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I think you're right , I explained to my bf about everything and I didn't accept his friends proposal , we were on the verge of breakup and I guess I was emotional about everything , I think my spirit wanted to get back at him and my body was not in support but at the end , I remembered promises I've made to myself , not to date someone in the same street , talk less of same circle.

I think the guy knew I was sad and depressed and almost used it against me , because he began to act shady , he started promising me things and calling me excess , even when I told him that I was settling with my current bf , until my bf saw his texts on my phone , which I stopped responding and now he's planning to confront him.

But in my defense , i really was over my bf , he broke my heart , he only realized once my heart was dead to him , it was a fight of 8 months , fighting the same fight , even typing it now makes me upset and even now sometimes I look at him and ask why?
He just rushed to go and pack his friends to come and beg , for something that was not supposed to be an issue , omo

At least now he feels very different , its been almost 2 months since the fight and begging started , I'm healing gradually , on the edge

I'm happy all of this happened , I believe it happened for a reason

I'm glad you didn't go with his friend. Please don't even go near this kind of temptation again. It ruins relationships totally. You will still be in pain when the outcome is evident.

cr7lomo:
And when he starts to beat her , u will start to say men are mean ... imagine defending a scam marriage that he doesn't even know about.... imagine forcing to be with a person that don't even want to be with u... and ur foolish other women are supporting it... can't u see u are sick mentally.... and u think he is the one ghats being punished.... she will even go to jail , cos she committed a crime

Yes, yes, if you don't want her don't touch her coochie, don't tell her lies, get in bed then change your mind, because other men will be looking for body count. If you don't want a union you will regret for life don't taste what you won't eat and finish.

If it is purely sex, remind her of that clearly every time, let it be a song in her ear. Some men do that and they have not died.

Aah. Abi what is it. You'll be indirectly playing games with someone's life, and you don't want to see any repercussions.

cr7lomo:
Are u a child.... or can't u read and comprehend ?? Someone changed his mind about proposing ...and u are saying he was still leading her on... is she a toddler ?? Always making excuses for women like they are bunch of 3 Yr olds .... and u say u all should be treated with respect like men, when u all avoid accountability and want us to be giving u guys free pass like toddlers ... he changed his mind proposing to her and u are still making excuses for her ...haba ...are u women this naive ??

He holds the responsibility of telling her straight, not allowing her into his home, cutting off sexual ties between them as well. He is not a decent man.

Yes, plus her reading between the lines, he is supposed to cut off every tie. It's his responsibility to do that too. HE IS NOT A DECENT MAN. No decent man will continue to sleep with what he can't marry.

I did NOT absolve the woman of her fault. But I refuse to make it all about her when HE had a proper role to play!

isacolukay:
But he told her already that he changed his mind. Who no dey change mind? And it's left for the lady to continue being used or leave. But the level of desperation in her evil heart will not let her... So she has to go the route of crime.

No matter how you sugar coat it, her actions are criminal and punishable under the law.

He changed his mind about the PROPOSAL. He didn't end the relationship or stop her hopes of being a wife. Is it hard to be straight forward? Please read what he has been doing with her after changing his mind on proposal. What happened to a total cut off and ending of everything? He's a greedy man then, who deserves a fraud as a partner.

cr7lomo:
So what?? He changed his mind ...certainly after seeing her flawed character ... women do that even more ..... so if I promise u marriage and along the line , I hear terrible stories about u and I investigate and I find out its true , or I notice that u are now being very disrespectful towards me and my family or I see other terrible flaws that's a deal breaker for me ... I should go ahead and marry u cos I promised to marry u ... as he said she had changed his mind... it's left for her to leave , but if she still stuck around, then it's not his fault...I guess she needs to milk his D cos she can't hv enough

Where did he clearly state that he has changed his mind on MARRIAGE? Please state what is in the article. Even as at the time of the hidden marriage, he that is unaware is still giving her compliments along the line that she is wife material. I read it to the end.

Where did he state that 'I am no longer interested in ever marrying you, and if you stay, the consequences will be on you' or something like that? Don't lie, he never stated it.

Changed his mind on proposal, but still hosting the same girl in his home, continuing to encourage her as wife material, even surprising her with a decorated room with the word WIFE there, does that sound like a serious man to you? A man who wants to let go of what he won't eat, and not confuse anybody?

He is a greedy man, if not, he will boot her out of his home for good and leave no room for confusion.

cr7lomo:
He dint lie to her , he never promised her marriage... she was just hanging and believing

Reread the article.

cr7lomo:
Story..... just like women deceive men ... you think men are ATM machines only ... there is also aftermath, in this world and the hereafter .... the funny thing is that the sex u talknabout is also enjoyed by the woman.... how many women can even go 6 month's without sex ... most of women in relationships will ever fight the man if he stops touch her, claiming he is getting from somewhere else ... stop with the " men use women for sex" talk.... we no be pikin .... women love sex too even more than men...u all think men are fools , that u lie about to make up seem like only men enjoy sex ... tell.that to 10yr old ...cos even teenagers will laugh at that ridiculous talk .... a man will suffer and spend his money , while the women in most cases will just be receiving and not spend .... it shows that it affects men more ..

You are just denying the obvious. Nothing justifies a bad act. He will see the consequences, like anyone else who does wrong.

cr7lomo:
There's nothing like aftermath...he dint force her ...

Yes, he deceived her. You think someone is for sex only, and you are talking about proposal and hinting about wifehood. There is aftermath. In this world and the hereafter.

advanceDNA:
Lol....How did she finish him? He can walk away anytime and easily prove he was never married cos he ddnt sign shiit....

She on the other hand has committed at least 2 felonies and a few more misdemeanors... She's the only one that knows she married, can't even call herself wifey to her family or his family, cant even change name... As in.....she can't even officially divorce and collect his money.... Like how is this a win to you pple in this cóck and bull story

I know it doesn't end well, but I don't blame her for taking that action.

cr7lomo:
Is she a fool....if u allow urself to be used ..its on u ... women do same to men... they know they don't want the man , but they keep requesting for money

Eh, no problem, but there's consequences for taking advantage of even a fool, so he should swallow the consequences. Or what he did is right because she's a fool. Let him enjoy the aftermath.

cr7lomo:
She wasnt raped...she also wanted it...why dint she shut her legs ....imagine how many times she sef wud have been pressing the guy that she needs his D ... stop acting like men are the only ones that request or enjoy sex .... and some men get broke sponsoring women thinking she will marry him only for money to finish and he will never recover

Oga she fvcked with the hope that she is a wife to be. Don't pretend you don't understand this game. If he told her straight out say he no dey marry, those legs would have closed and wifey duties ended.

As he don spoil the package, as he don open am, make he chop am.

simpleseyi:
The girl was pressuring him, it is a man that should ask a woman to marry him, not a woman asking why will you marry me.

Then if he sees that he's not ready after a long time, the decent thing to do is to dismiss her. He is greedy, that's why he kept her even if he will not marry her.

cr7lomo:
Just like u women string men along and eat their money ... who will now marry him when u finish his money and u drop him ... do u see men cry all about ??

Women hardly finish money, money is replenishable. Though that is also very wrong. Can you unfvck a woman though? No.

simpleseyi:
Wetin he do wrong?

So if I meet you and say “fine girl, I like your figure-8, let’s be hanging out and know ourselves “, does this mean I want to marry you? Don’t we have people both men and women who never ever wants to get married?

Did you read of the gestures he made and the promises he also made? Without sincerity. Is that right?

simpleseyi:
You are saying nonsense.

He saw a girl he likes. He asked her out. They started fuccking. She moved to his house because she cannot pay her house rent and she cannot afford to buy food for herself. So he is living rent free and eating free food. She is also fuccking the guy whenever she is Hot and reaching multiple climax.

No, she is pressuring the guy to marry her. A guy that has his intended wife somewhere, but just doing test run and learning the act of fuccking with this cheap Olosho.


What has the guy done wrong? Has he done bad by housing a homeless girl and feeding a poor motherless child?

Listen to yourself. If this is what he thought of her, why not tell her straight. ESPECIALLY knowing that she still thinks of herself as a wife to be. So he cannot wash his hands off an accusation of deceit. He is meant to tell her the real deal.

simpleseyi:
You are saying nonsense

I know you will say so. You think your guys can be doing wrong and get away with it because it is two adults.

Cunny woman finish cunny man. She is responsible for herself however he should not get away with that wastage of her time and deception.

It is good for him. He's not mentally prepared but he's very prepared to be stringing one woman along with false hopes, is that not wickedness.

He's not prepared but he's chopping her steady, for who to collect. It's not really a solution but I do not blame her.

Lovely food pictures... Keep it coming 😊

Thought your reason would even be jealousy.