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The shege is yet to begin.

iLegendd:
Yes, not good, but American wokeness has destroyed most women globally and this is affecting men's mental health.

Men just want peace, a faithful wife and a happy family, but it's mostly unattainable now.

In this case, he has no choice than to make do with baby mama. The only disadvantage of baby mama is the fact that your children will grow to know their mom sleeps around. It a shame to them, but at least, you have children and peace.

So all baby Mama's sleep around.

Why kidnap a woman and force her to marry you? Why not pick from your people? What is wrong with your own women, that eyes are entering other women to the point of kidnapping them to marry them?

When people do radical things to others who are just living their lives, we warn that it's not normal, but people keep doing it and hailing it. Intolerance of others lifestyle leads to things like this.

So many people are little terrorists. They can't stand to see others live how they are not living. They do things underground to frustrate them into living how they want. This one is just the open type.

Op wants to leave but he doesn't want to be implicated in any way as the bad guy. He may also be scared of his wife and his wife's family, and what they can do to him 'spiritually'.

He wants his freedom but doesn't want the title of the 'bad man', hence pushing the in-laws and wife indirectly to get frustrated and let him go.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Una worst jurr.

End of debate.

I always say this ,... We should be aiming to be better, do better, be better self.... No one is perfect but being the person is a goal

We worst...

Licence for you guys to keep doing it openly and celebrating it while killing and destroying women for same.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
Whyyy?


Why would you even do that 😤

I didn't say it's right for any gender. I stated that men take it as a right, a bragging right even, while women whether better or worse at it, are expected to suffer and die for doing same.

dkidd:
I can agree with the bold because we don't know how to cover our tracks even if we try unlike females. And U don't have to be a witch cos general behavioural patterns are mostly repeated... So those things are pretty obvious

Bold assumptions, seem to be made to compensate and cover for men's own.

Apart from unknown facts, what I see is that there's plenty excuses for guys, even in their traditions and since early ages till now, the world has supported them in theirs and it's quite bold and rampant.

I didn't say women are innocent. Just stating facts.

dkidd:
Women are the ones doing it on a much larger scale and make no noise about it. Men just do little and make too much noise it's why it seems we are worse but everyone knows about women and secrecy when it comes to such matters. They're ready to take it to the grave unlike a man. He will cast himself but the devil would rather die than confess the truth

I don't know about that and I won't press it to win an argument. I don't know who does it more on a secret scale as I'm not a witch. I just know that the one we all see, men are better at it.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
I blocked her last night because of this conversation... We all know you women worst aje

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Women are not angels, but I believe that when men choose to do sexual shit, they do it on a larger scale.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
You and I knows ..

I don't know your thoughts.

We4all:
It doesn't work that way. I know some fine runs girls that are struggling to make it. Meeting the right man that is generous is the ultimate.

Seems strange, beautiful girls are often good at landing spenders but, life doesn't have a manual.

I know that people will pour more salt in her wound through their insensitive comments.

When people see that you are in a deep hole, they dig a deeper one for you. When people see you are sad or down, they do and say more to hurt you. The worse it is, the deeper the insensitivity.

Yeah, depends on how fine you are sha.

A crayfish cannot go into that business and flourish the same way a dolphin would. Understand the undertones if you will.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
I'll just keep shut, cos if I talk

Talk.

It's a human beings job, but as a young lady, just know that there will be psychological effects waiting for you. In Nigeria, people will scorn you and degrade you so much for that job. Then some kinds of men will approach you thinking you're helpless, they can destroy your life, every man especially broke guys have a tongue of honey. Some can attack you because they think you're a helpless cleaner. The way some people will put you down, even if you come from a respectable background, by the time they finish with you, even you won't believe you didn't start to exist from a gutter.

Please pick something else, you may think you can deal with all those harassments, but you cannot.

Men will not care for all these reasons. They feel they have the right to cheat, even the right to have excuses to cheat, but the woman does not. And unlike women, they often don't forgive it.

okoroemeka:
10-11 years with tiny mangos on her chest,she is just a doing what she is seeing on her aunty phone,I will not be surprised that the child maybe masturbating already,I know one in my area that is already sucking dick with no mango on her chest even,I can no longer be shocked anymore by this things,the internet has shocked us senseless

A minor girl child sucking dick is not an evidence of rottenness in that child, it is an evidence of rottenness in males, grown males.

You can't be shocked any more. That child doing that is not wild, the adult allowing her to perform the act on him is a pedophile.

It is men that should be ashamed of this.

If only she knew that boys should be her low key enemies until she finishes her education. 😁 But the poor innocent girl doesn't know. If she knew she would hold her book tight and look forward until she even finishes her masters.

Hier:
Sincerely, I no dey tolerate rubbish sha, normally, they could have settled the matter amicably as friends and the owners of the dogs will promise it won't repeat itself and they will have the dog chained, no be Naija we dey

According to the op, those dogs haven't learned to behave. By the way, which settling will bring that boys parts back? We aren't talking about a piece of meat here. He will suffer psychologically for life. His parents should be mad with grief if they truly consider what happened to their son. If it is yours that the dogs cut, won't you pay someone to kill that/those dogs? Won't you sneak in with a gun one day? You can't have sex for the rest of your life, imagine.

I'll be unhappy if God forbid, it was my child and my husband even laughs and settles with them and tells them to bring no money. Over something that that has killed my child for life. I'll feel something serious is being taken for granted. In my heart, what I will want is for those dogs to be killed for such a grevious offense, and the owners should also pay lots of millions.

How can you cut my child thing off and just wave it aside? If a human did it won't that person be in the cell? I wonder why the guys here, who should be more aggrieved than me, are not even taking it seriously.

ShinjaWWest:
U leave the gal blame the guy ..women way of thinking sha...

Both of them are to blame.

Hier:
Lol, you know what came to my mind, like the dog caused so much harm to someone and the owners of the dogs have not taken measures to stop the excesses of these dogs. Like what did the parents of this child even do. Cause, omo, I just don't know what the parents of those children did. I will even like if the guy can share about that

I'm so surprised that the dogs are still alive. He should tell us what justice was done for the boy.

DeeScan:
could it be functional after getting stitched or are you making a failed attempts to mock the 12yr old ..

I think if they fix it back fast enough, it can function. That's a terrible thing for a male to lose at such a young age, which is why I'm hoping for the best.

This is such a painful story. Why do guys do this with someone else's daughter? How I wish he married her and made her respectable like he should. Why use someone's daughter and leave her undignified like this. Sorry op. 😔

Hope they were able to stitch the penis of the 12 year old boy back and get it functional. That's damage for life. After doing that, those dogs should have been killed for destroying the boys life or attempting murder. I'm confused, so the family of the boy didn't sue, they weren't settled, why would anyone let those dogs be alive after that? Is it until they kill someone?

Imagine almost killing a two year old. Dogs who are a threat to life and cannot be controlled by their owners should be killed. If I'm the mother of the 12 year old or the 2 year old, I won't stop until they kill that dog. I will press charges. People don dey craze sha.

Bobbynobobby:
How do you mean everybody is ruled by lust? Everybody has passions but again and again some people are able to control their animal instincts. Simp, speak for yourself alone jor

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lendahand:
you obviously have been attending the church of Satan knowingly or unknowingly. Afterall all of them Na church

It will shock you that even in the good churches there's an eye and a special favor for the beauties. It's sad that it is very hard to find a place which seriously, truly represents its title.

So the preaching against vanity is just void for most.

I am so happy for her.

So, despite all, he is still exposing his movement and boasting? He still hasn't learned to do his things silently?

😲😲

Hmmm.

Righteousness2:
My Dear Sister! For the sake of your Soul in Eternity! Flee with all your Life from these Evil practices and Lifestyle.
It will Destroy your Life and Package you to the Lake of Fire!

Listen!
A minute in Hell Fire, will Dissolve all the years of so called Enjoyment and Flexing in Sin and iniquity!
We came to this Earth N.aked! We will leave here N.aked!



The value of your soul in Eternity is worrh more than benz or anything in this earth.

Eternity is Forever and Ever.
Hell Fire is not a Place where you go and come back. Its forever and Ever.

Dont let your lust for UnGodly gains destroy your soul for Ever.
Settle the Matter of your Eternity
Surrender to the LORDSHIP of JESUS CHRIST.
Now is the Acceptable time! The next Moment is not Guaranteed

Do people believe in this? Do Christians even believe in this? In a church, everyone will glue their eyes and love and favor to the most beautiful and sexy sister. Everybody, even there, is filled with lust. So what are you preaching and to whom.

Lust rules, beauty and sexiness rules even in the church.

I can condemn a doctor wanting money first in a life and death situation. But where you were pregnant for nine months, and you are poor, why should there be pride in poverty. You just have to beg for funds and gather and get yourself fully paid for before delivery. She didn't go to anyone to beg so she can handle these funds around childbirth time. She kept her dignity and sat, probably hoping on people's promises at most, now the hospital was kind enough to take you in without payment, they told you to pay, you became strong headed, you said you have rights.

I don't think the doctor was exploiting her, because for every day you spend in the hospital, your bill increases, no day there is for free. So why would you claim the price was being 'hiked'?

Kudos to the activist that helped the girl and her babies, but she wasn't in the right. Neither was her family, because they are supposed to stand up and beg whichever big people in their religious community, state or whatever. It is not the time to hold pride, yet they used pride and force of human rights to leave that hospital.

Please, apart from the girl's release, those bills should be paid. It is unfair to the hospital and doctor to do work and not be paid too.

pocohantas:
As she should.
She doesn't want to be indebted to you.
She doesn't want to hear "after all I did for her".
Nothing to say she likes you in the way you think.

Please draw up a repayment plan like a responsible young man. Thanks

Yes, she doesn't want to owe him her life for the money.
Some men think they can buy or have bought a woman's body with indomie and eggs.
A man will buy a woman a meal or do the slightest thing and he feels he owns her body.

You are given money as a woman and suddenly you owe your life, your soul, for that money. Let it be refunded and let there be peace of mind to the lady.

If they get married he can bring money, as per responsibility. Until then...