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I loved my enemies and they dealt with me more

SenecaTheYonger:
you’ve only seen one this year. Stop lying and it wasn’t because of her job. Also suicide is not a good as many men with regular jobs do that too.

I don't know what's making you come towards me with aggression, and I don't know when I stated that suicide is good. Whatever may be bothering you to the extent that you cannot express yourself good heartedly, I'm sure I'm not the cause.

essentialone:
Then what are you doing on the thread? You will spoil the thrill.

I gave my opinion and that is all for me. Anything Una wan do, is up to you.

Rukevwe999:
Lunch is ready!

Send via internet magic lol.

Silentgroper:
You would have stated from the start of this conversation if you were ..

Some of the statement you made already gave an impression about you not being married...


Besides, it's not exactly what you think though but it still is.. 😌😌

Ok I'm glad the picture is clearer now.

I really wanted Chidinma to come first, it's painful but still great that she was first runner up, it's not easy, and it still has many perks.

That aside, the world worships whites and then anything close to white or light skin and it's prevalent in Africa too. You're not fine until you're fair, to Africans, but miraculously we see the beauty in some queens like Chidinma, former Miss Nigeria/miss world.

Silentgroper:
I don't believe you ...

Well... That's too bad.

Silentgroper:
Maybe you best need to get the experience before you ascertain that ...

You only live once, you know...

Married, no need.

Silentgroper:
oh I see ..

Well , you still need that one good memory still...

Maybe others do... I don't.

Silentgroper:
hahaha 😂 .. no .. not after series of orgasms .. you won't even get energy to be angry .. you'd just be smiling sheepishly all day ...

Trust me .. 😁

Na after the whole kpanshing and subsequent breakup, the girl eye go clear. I no fit shout.. .

Not all that glitters...

Silentgroper:
but you do agree it'd be a nice experience anyways 😁😁

Even if it is I wouldn't agree because the after effect makes me angry 😤

I was just thinking about my old job this morning.

Silentgroper:
lol .. it never mattered in the first place..


Has a guy body count ever mattered

Exactly, that's why you aren't bothered about a girl coming to your house which opens the potential for quickie sex.

Silentgroper:
Wouldn't that be a better experience filled ecstasy and pleasure rather than bore each other to death with food and boring talks ..


😋😋😅😅

Better for you. Your future wife isn't going to ask you about your past or body count.

hkidola00:
bus driver dey suffer discrimination for our naija so.. i shock cos bus expensive and making cool cash

They suffer it o, I know bus drivers do, but not up to porn stars. Porn stars, even their parents don't want to know them.

Skooltynz:
Who told you pornstars don't have friends? They are not lonely as many of you think once you have money in this life you can never be lonely

I usually see news about them commiting suicide or changing identities totally, moving to far countries to start afresh just to have a normal life. Even if what you say may be true.

SenecaTheYonger:
lol women are too funny. You guys are naturally not givers or providers, it’s just DNA. Men work like crazy, even in fields that are not considered “cool” like bus drivers and conductors or bricklayers, people that women will look down on. But this men give out money they earn and provide for their families too. Kai. Social media really exposed this gender

Not this profession. Families disown those in this profession. People refuse to marry those in this profession. Imagine a profession where you have mad money, but nobody wants to be seen or snapped in a picture with you. No family to share with. No one to openly spend on, they are running away so they won't be associated with you. For life, men are running away from you.

That kind of life be like curse na. As if you did rituals or you're living dead. You can buy a mansion but nobody will visit you there, you can buy clothes and food but no one to share the joy with. Only people who know you and maybe ask of you are your fellow porn stars. Don't you see they often commit suicide? These are serious psychological pains that are the consequences of such. Bus drivers, conductors or bricklayers no dey suffer discrimination to that extent now.

So, all this I've mentioned, is enough to decide to eat alone.

Caicedobets:
No your words support the OP's post promoting prostitution.
You can't use reverse psychology on me cos it won't work

Even if you have your opinion about my comment, you could have called me out respectfully. This is a chat forum to discuss opinions. You approached me anyhow and I returned the favor.

Caicedobets:
your papa go get well soon
Olosho

Your words reveal who is from an olosho environment between the two of us. Insult me further and risk banning.

😂🤣🤣🤣

Funny people. After asking what they will gain from a relationship without sex, they are here, afraid of marrying the women whom their fellow men have given past because of their stubborn blokos that must test bearded meat.

Many of you will eat the left overs you positioned for each other by force. You think you're doing women when you collaborate to be sleeping with them and bragging about it amongst yourselves. Na your fellow man go marry am for house.

Caicedobets:
see this one stylishly supporting prostitution
Come clean and stand for oloshoism instead of sitting on the fence

Get well soon.

She can't do what has stigmatized her for life, having very few people who will like to be directly associated with her.... Then those who never did what she did, enjoying the status of respectable women in society, will be eating with her from the shadows.

This particular work, the worker deserves to eat alone if she wishes.

Nicepoker:
So if a man give you a house can't you give him a car? Must it be Toto in return?

I'm actually against toto in return, but it's your guys that promote that more. Checkout the thread asking what they gain from relationships if not for toto. Y'all want it that way, and want it that way even when the woman has more to offer.

So, if you guys must go for toto in return, and you want your gifts when the relationship is done, return the market value of the toto as well, because na una dey do body count for women.

Like this, every lady should be documenting what a guy dating her has spent on. And she should also ask him to return the market value she had before the sex, that is if they had sex before breaking up.

femi4:
You are shallow in thinking. She is being addressed as 2face ex cos 2face is popular . It has nothing to do with sex. Studies shows that women don't settle down with their first boyfriends. They remain her exes whether sex was involved or not. The guy Regina Daniel jilted is addressed till date as Regina Daniel EX BOYFRIEND cos Regina is more popular, not because of sex cos Ned married Regina as a Virgin

Read to understand and not argue, the lady that committed suicide cos of heatbreak was a virgin, so you can't accuse sex here as the cause of her predicament

I never said anyone's ex was being named so because of sex. Plus, with your response, I think you are the one who read and failed to understand, rather you replied in argument. You are still talking the same facts about the virgin woman, while I already pointed out that had she had sex, she would commit that suicide with more pain in her heart. Perhaps worse than that.

Since you like the testing in the name of relationship crew, you don't see anything wrong with it, good for you. I noticed that you didn't stop throwing demeaning comments at me even when I suggested we try to get along respectfully.

I'll end with this. People may be unable to resist sex in a relationship, most especially the guys. You can see the outrage from guys here on having relationships without sex, including you. It's not right because it poses many disadvantages for the female gender.

I will not go beyond this with you because you're becoming aggressive and insulting and I don't like that. Have a nice day.

femi4:
What a clown! She's now a Pastor's wife, meeting people of high calibre your generation even unborn can never meet. Discrimination my foot.

Emotional heart breaks are norms, after a break up cos when they were together they did other stuff together apart from sex like eating, playing, spending time in each other's company etc. That is where the emotional attachment comes from. Stop trying to tie it down to sex. The other day, a woman in a non sex relationship committed suicide cos her guy left her after 5yrs

That's 5yrs of exchanging calls, visiting places n being in each other's space together

Whatever the damage, when sex is involved, it is worse, especially for a woman. The pain would have been worse if that woman had been having sex with him.

I'm no saint, but i am certainly not a clown for being against you guys so called testing. 2face ex, 2face ex, is that the criteria you'll use for hundreds of girls across Nigeria? Baby mama is the trend now, and it's all because of this testing testing. That is the mass effect. Then girls will be hoping to be like her, which is one in a million lucky or ten in a million lucky. Please o.

Try to debate without insults, I see you getting towards insults. If you are getting stressed or tired, you can express that and end the argument.

femi4:
There you go.....another wrong mentality. With or without sex, relationships can go sour. We have many unmarried "no sex" ladies in their 30s roaming around

You are just daft to think a lady can keep a man with "no sex" thing. BTW, even prostitutes do settle down and have a long lasting relationship. 2face ex is now married to a pastor.....stop creating a non existing formula

Just daft to avoid emotional turmoil that comes after a relationship where sex was involved? No, I don't think I'm daft, and certainly a lady who you'll meet who hasn't been used up due to giving sex freely to her lover wouldn't think so.I think you'd want such a woman. I think a hardly used woman would consider herself smart because she is still to be considered in the top rank for respectable partners. You're a man, don't try to decieve me that an abstaining and so therefore less used woman isn't more likely to find a partner. A partner who will do everything for her because her non existent or low sexual history makes her top notch ín his eyes.

Mentioning 2face ex like you don't know that the majority of women with sexually active pasts due to testing are being discriminated against, even on this forum. Prostitutes marry happily, you guys should pick a side. Tomorrow your fellow men here will say they aren't marrying us because we have high body count.

luminouz:
Be calming down
Your blood too hot....long nose!!!

😄

So you are happy the marriage crashed because he didn't give you the money. Can you listen to your thoughts? You are advising people to put marriage aside and help family first. I'm not sure you can't tell someone to throw away their life and happiness to help family first.

So while your bro sprayed money on his own wedding , you were angry wishing the wedding didn't happen so he can spend it on you. You are so selfish and entitled to money that isn't yours.