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nasbiafra:
Funny enough this is the kind of prayer i need in my life now,Thank you for this,you do not know but it means alot,you should also know that its the internet anyway,people tend to be what they are not in real life in terms of comments mades on blogs,

It will be alright, I am praying for my soul and myself as well. 🙏🏽

nasbiafra:
its all good thoughmaybe we all need someone to change our view on things,i am not a bitter soul or wicked soul but life has made me so,hate to admit it but you did change my view on somethings.

I believe life can make a person bitter and all that, but by God's grace life will turn in your favor so you can have softness in your heart again.

nasbiafra:
its not that she does not deserve pity but she does not deserve one from me,I AM A PERSON WHO BELIEVE EVERYBODY SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS OR HER ACTIONS,life has made me so because when i needed help even when i realised my mistakes,there was no help,i faced it alone,maybe that is why i feel that way not that she does not deserve pity.

You have been through a lot, and I hope life will treat you with kindness and mercy despite your mistakes in the future, so that you can extend that to others.

nasbiafra:
thats my point they do not repent and nigerians are too gullible to understand though there is a little bit of truth in what you said though,her coming to church shows she might be repentant but if they donate funds for her,we cannot be guaranteed that she will not go back to the streets again,there is a tendency she will backslide,take for example bobrisky co worker for the gay living Jay biigie,when the useless fool do BBL and was on the verge of death,the fool solicited for funds and what pained me the most nigerians contributed whereas there are some nigerias that needed meaningful contributions and they will not get and after he survived he went back to the useless lifestlyle

That's a valid painful point. Still, give a chance first before total condemnation. I can't defend who has been supported and forgiven many times but went back.

For me, if not at the expense of others, you keep fumbling but you finally separate yourself from the sin before death, it's still okay. For me o. And not a kind of repentance that others will keep paying for.

nasbiafra:
lets go to the bible and i want you to read this verse since you want to dirext it to if god should restore my blessingsSo shall we then continue in sin that grace may abound? Paul replies with a resounding “God forbid” (Romans 6:2). To desire to continue in sin shows a misunderstanding of this abundant grace and a contempt for Jesus' sacrifice. Either we believe what God says is true or we don't

Human beings do evil with their whole heart knowing the consequences of their actions,then after doing such you will come and be disturbing people for funds.WHO SEND YOU

She coming to church means she just realized her wrongs. As long as she is alive and if she repents this once without going back, then it's not a case of her continuing in sin.

nasbiafra:
i am sure you know what is right and wrong,i am not trying to be a wicked soul but look deep withing your heart,

does this girl deserve pity
Is BBl a good thing to do,i know you might feel she deserve pity but not me.

I am not supporting anything wrong she did.

However, despite all the wrong, there are ways to handle wrongdoers. It's in the bible, it's in the Quran. There are guidelines. You don't just exhibit someone and condemn them to the pit of hell.

If you feel she doesn't deserve pity, well, it's wrong for me to try and force you to feel pity for her.

nasbiafra:
i take responsibilities for my actions and if i deserve punishment for my doings so be it,i have made some costly mistakes i should not have made and i did bear the unbearable results of my mistakes and made things right,what i am saying in essence is everybody should be responsible for there foolish actions,where was the money she made all that while

And if God says he will forgive you despite making you bear consequences, and restore blessings to you, you will reject it right?

What you will like for yourself, don't reject for others out of hatred and spite.

nasbiafra:
what are you saying,why do you all glorify nonsensewhats the essence of doing bbl and you know the consequences,they deserve no pity,why did the lady in question not appreciate her God giving original body,if she wasd my sister i will not donate a dime on her,they all make mistakes and come online to seek for pity,she enjoyed it why it last so she should suffer it all the same.

Thank God for being compassionate and pouring the same mercy on others as I will want for myself.

nasbiafra:
where are the rich men or rich guys that screwed her,no where to be found and now she is soliciting for funds from the poor ones she would not mingle withto hell with her,i wish her death

Too bad. Tomorrow you would be happy when God forgives you and blesses you despite all. You can accept good treatment but when it is your turn you want her dead. I am grateful God is not a man.

nasbiafra:
Girls like that girl deserve no compassion

Yes, because she didn't agree to be some poor boy's cum and dump,.

nasbiafra:
you well so,waiting you dey talk you just dey yarn dust,why them go help her,when she dey flaunt who she help,women supporting women supporting rubbish

Oh so those who no dey flaunt are angels abi, that's why they raised her on the platform to shame her. Be supporting underdogs filled with jealousy.

TrustNone:
they're not parading, the called her to come in stage for healing session

Eh, nobody should put out her story or snap her picture.

drsibz66:
If you want to argue stick to the argument and don't derail. The topic and argument is ... Is she known in the society and the simple answer is no. The only person known is her father and falz. It's doest matter weather she is successful or rich. That's not the argument. That's why u people fail exams.

Only a child will accept that. There is more to words than their main meaning and that is the fact. Some questions are meant as insults, let's not talk as though we are not adults. Are you trying to say that there aren't deeper meanings to words.

Also, this not an exam. This is real life full of deeper meanings and diversities, let us address it as such.

There is a deeper meaning and purpose to what he said. there is a shame attached to the answer she's meant to give, which is wrong of him to inflict. If the answer is that she's a nobody without her father, what then was the purpose of asking this question? He wants to shame her into silence.

For a man who claims to be fighting for the nobodies, why would he shut her up for being a nobody. Why should she not approach him because she's a nobody without her father?

Why did all her friends abandon her, leaving her for all those who secretly envy her to gloat, those who aren't holy because they believe, but because they lack the courage to live their truth. They left her for these people to use her as an example and a comfort that they are better off.

True holy people or helpers will not narrate any hypocritical pitying grass to grace story, gloating in secret. If they want to help, let them help and let her be. Why parade her. Like those that have been in the church all along are better.

drsibz66:
What are her achievements as a lawyer, ? . What's her impact or effect on the general public.
That is the meaning of who are you apart from your fathers name. She isn't known ...fact.

Vdm has a name...he is a known activist and has help many people fight for justice .. fact

Falana is a renowned lawyer and SAN. Also know for his part activist. Who is the daughter.
Any one can be a lawyer. What makes her different.

So because she isn't known, she shouldn't talk. The so called oppressed is the one telling someone she is a nobody without her father so she shouldn't talk.

I noticed that poor men have a deep hatred for rich men. Just as rich has disdain for the poor. But in the poor man's case, he will often discredit anything and everything about the rich man's child.

Like how they go about saying private universities are useless and easy and unknown. Because they can't afford them.

Like how they classify the rich man's child as slow and too soft. Dumb. And the kids in public schools are the bright ones.

Person wey no get Papa, hustle to survive na good and useful person wey go get good future due to his hard work ethics. Rich kids that their fathers were there for so that they won't suffer are always seen as unable to make it in life, in fiction stories you always see them ending badly, squandering money etc.

As if poor man is an angel lacking vices.

Is it a crime to be fortunate and have a father whose name you can ride on.

Sorry to all molested guys. It shouldn't have happened to you, it is very bad, you weren't ready. Please it's very important that you see a psychologist to help you so your mind can be put right, so you can heal, and also buy books on cleansing yourself, sexual control of yourself, so that the perversion infused in you through the molestation can be removed. Abuse causes perversion in people and lack of boundaries and that's why many men just end up using women anyhow. It is because their own boundaries were broken as children and nobody cared and they never healed.

Bob should have hidden, acted sober and hurt after release, to avoid suspicion if he didn't want trouble. But no, guy flaunted how good he was doing. 🤷🏿

This is because of how Bitcoin boomed when nobody paid attention to it, it had just come out then. Those who paid attention were lucky, some became unexpectedly rich. So people didn't want to miss out on getting rich with any other coin and that's why you see people running up and down when they hear of a new cryptocurrency. They want the same fortunate luck that the very first Bitcoin investors had. Well, Pi turned out to be real, that one cashed out. Too bad the hamster thing didn't.

I believe she can change. Fake story, real story, let's give people the chance to be rehabilitated after they made terrible mistakes in life. The same way God has mercy on us, let's have mercy on others and give them chances to leave the bad life. After all, prisoners are given rehabilitation programmes and funds upon leaving prison as a chance to do better, why not her?

God have mercy on us all and forgive us. May he give us hearts of repentance from our bad deeds, may he forgive us. Amen.

People who are not without sin are casting stones.

Alphajunkee:
In life you use what you have to get what you want. Hunter set trap for Bush and animal enter the trap who is to blame then? Same way there are girls using different tactics and strategies to milk a man of everything he has then moves on to the next one. We are all playing the same game but on different sides.

Toh, everybody is doing it justifies it. The scary thing is that after all the generalization, everyone gets their punishment separately...no be say all these people we dey use as examples go take some hits for us.

When a man is milked, everyone agrees he's been deceived. When a woman is taken advantage of, everyone feels it is solely her fault, she 'can't be deceived'. That's what irks me.

Wow. After using all these tactics, you guys will say that women are the gatekeepers to sex.

Meanwhile you are using every hack, screwdriver, mind bending means available to manipulate the 'gatekeepers'. After the gatekeepers fall to these deliberately arranged strategies, you'll later come out and say the girl knew what she was doing.

And one silly girl was condemning a lady here for falling for a broke boy and having so many bad things happen to her ... Guys know that they use different strategies to decieve and manipulate ladies into despicable acts, but when the deed is done, they pretend that the ladies just make the decisions with their open eyes. 😒

Your thread is proof.

Fear some people. You're probably welcoming her, friendly inviting attitude, yet you will tell others that she is disturbing you.

Please reach out directly and tell her all these nasty words, don't sugarcoat them, so she will know her position.

zoeymikey:
I'm trying to understand why you so pained..
So, it's now a crime to ask for jobs or skills to learn,and where did you see me begging.

Ignore him.

Bostin:
I rebuke it in Jesus name .. I've seen more dirty things about her movement which couldn't find her a husband in the past seven years she left . Now she thinks I'm still the doomy she left and can easily manipulate me to come back ...I don't want to die young .

You did not rebuke her in Jesus name when you put that baby in her.

Well, you really don't need to pretend to be friendly or friends with her, because she may actually not have married with the secret hope that you two will get back together, not that she didn't have options, like you think. Chats like this will leave her in the dark on where she stands. You do not need to decieve her, or attempt to decieve her with friendly conversations.

Go to the families, let them insist on her presence in a family meeting and let your people relay to them that you need to see your child and make arrangements, even if you aren't planning to marry her. In the meeting, finances and distribution of visitation should be discussed. Straight and simple. You are not together but as adults, you can make a decision over your child. There can be a go between that is not even the mom, but an elder in her family, to ensure she complies with visitation.

I can't advise you to go to court. She might decide not to show up, messy legal battle, etc. meeting the family is close up and more effective.

I hate pies with thick crusts and thick outer layers, with very little inner content. It's so nice to see a pie filled to the brim, and the outside is just a very thin layer. It might cost more but it's worth it. Also. The Nigerian crime of making the potato the highlight of the pie. I really hate that stuff. They call it meat pie, chicken pie, etc, but it's tiny meat and plenty potatoes. All these people naming their pies with variety of names, but it's really potato pie. 😡

Well done op.

This Nigeria where people will crucify you for being different. They wíll be preaching the consequences to you, meanwhile they are the ones punishing you, both in front and behind the scenes.

Teenwolf:
Reptilians are nephilims created by fallen Angels by mixing thier angel DNA with human and reptile dna

Ok fallen angels, so God is above the fallen angels, so we are safe if we look to God for protection. 😁

Go and complete the rites needed to make her a complete wife. I'm sure if you express your desire to marry her properly and show proof, she will consider, connect properly and respect you.

You don't need to talk to her first. Organize a meeting between your family and hers and let apologies be exchanged, and plans made for a simple wedding. After this, the people she respects in her family will call her to order and if she agrees, the beginning of a respectful union will start.

You really cannot hang her in the air with just an introduction, and expect her to be happy with you.

You are so right.

Nazgul:
A guy would only demand sex from you once you start making monentry demands.

I have female friends whom I don't sleep with but I can assist them financially whenever they call me because they have contributed to my life one way or the other.

Dating is more than sex. A guy would spend on you without you asking once he sees how valuable you are to him.

The moment you make everything about money, he'll want to hit and run as fast as possible. And you should note that the decision to give yourself to a guy rests on you and you alone.

Well, I don't think so. I think many men around spend nothing but ask girls for sex after professing love to them. Yeah some guys do respect some women, the 20% they like. The 20% they see as human beings. But the rest will ask for sex, cover with romance, get sex for free and still borrow said lady's money.

One tactic is gold digger shaming. Many girls give sex for free because they don't want to be called prostitutes. And the guys gladly ask for more.

Nazgul:
My dear I disagree.

The problem here is that girls start dating earlier than guys. So by the time she's 18-21, she's already a pro. And has mastered the act of breaking the hearts of innocent guys.

A girl who wants genuine loves doesn't go about demanding the world from someone who asks her out.

Yeah she doesn't ask and she gets nothing and that's when she wises up and starts asking.

goslowgoslow:
I can see that there is a generational gap between me and you even without knowing you. You ladies always present yourselves to men as a sex object. The man never asked for sex but all you keep talking about is sex sex sex sex.
I already agreed with you that sex is part of relationship nobody is denying the fact that sex will come in.
Where you got it wrong is where a lady is asking a man "can you take care of me"? at the FIRST INSTANCE! Una no dey shame?
You don't even know to man's intentions! Some men wants to get serious with a lady, they have good intentions but asking such question immediately is a red flag.
If they get into friendship or relationship are they going to have sex immediately? As a lady without even asking such question you should be able to discern to an extent the capability of a man before you get down with him.
If that is what you do then good luck to you!

The more you see, the less you know. Discernment is deceit. You ask. You get your family to investigate secretly, prove what the man is saying. Trust no appearance nor words.

When does she ask, anyway? After the relationship has gone on a while and derailed into sex lane, where she's no longer thinking straight and can even marry the man with her money if she has it.

Real relationships should not waste time. It should be cold and direct. Ask relevant questions. Make serious moves. Involve family immediately. If it works, respectful union. If it doesn't we move.

But this take it easy, move slowly union is just a scam.