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I cut my hair too. She is even fine with the bald head, I wouldn't be able to do skin cut.

I pray for her eyes to be opened so that she can leave and find a good partner that will have a serious relationship leading to marriage. I pray that every indignity and stagnation you intend to bring to her will not be possible by God's grace. Amen.

Tightpussy2024:
Why are men obsessed with women not leaving their marriages?

If its not threatening them that no one else can marry them, it is emotionally blackmailing them by claiming single motherhood is destructive to society.or shaming them.

Is it by force?

They need women but still have that devilish pride, they want the women to chase them rather than for men to reveal that they need them.

They want women to believe they are less and be following them whilst they pretend they don't need women.

No no no. Not today.

It is better for her to divorce than to steal a baby's placenta to do diabolical things, just to make the innocent baby suffer for crimes it did not commit.

olamilekan9:
This is not true cuz I first hand have a friend who is in a relationship with a married woman quite old enough to be his mom, they have been nacking since 2 years ago and counting, and the life of my friend keeps elevating. She has him a Camry saloon car, got a good apt for him, and so on, her husband is still very much alive too but he is always traveling in and out of the country,good life wan kill that my friend that i sometimes envy him 🤗

When people do bad things and yet get elevated, they are being used as traps to encourage other people to do what they are doing. After people follow that 'bait', they won't be as lucky as the person they are copying. Their lives are spoilt and only a few who are to be used to bait others to commit the same sin will be allowed to prosper. It's a vicious circle, try not to be dragged into it.

Nigerians don't have compassion.

She did all that sexual stuff - she was a victim of abuse.
She faked her death - she was getting attacked in real life.

She is fully responsible for her actions, but they are not valid/justifiable. Her FEELINGS of pain and fear are valid, her ACTIONS were not.

She needs therapy, not to be arrested. In saner climes, she would be registered for a mental health treatment in a facility.

That's why I said Nigerians are heartless. Someone wants to kill herself, faked her death, and you want to punish her more.

She needs love, not hate.

Shebi some people created a thread and others were comparing it to men's work, belittling the process of childbirth.

One woman came and was showing herself that she cooks right after childbirth. Her reward for demeaning the struggle of other women is waiting for her.

Happened to me too. I hope you won't see shege pro max before you stop helping above your means.

Ashawoman82:
geez what kind of entitlement mentality is this... Why can women seek help from their fellow women then
..

So women should not ask for help from men? I don't understand the entitlement in that. Or why it's paining you guys.

Ashawoman82:
why can't u seek help from ur fellow men... Why do men not feel so. Entitled to be helped the same way women especially in Nigeria feel they must be helped just t like that... Nothing goes for nothing... No man, especially one who's a stranger to u, has the obligation to help u, none... This is what u women say to justify the begging y'all do online... There's no dey that one strange girl will not beg or ask me for favours...

Strange favor or not, men help other men from time to time, even men they do not know. Men are known to accept each other without qualms. When they help each other they don't demand for payment through sex. At most they will let the helped guy know that he has to bring money forward. That is reality.

Because women have vaginas, men directly or indirectly expect sex in return for 'kindness'. It's gender discrimination and unfair.

He's a public figure, he should employ a personal stylist privately who will pick his clothes and assess him before he goes out. I'm sure he can afford it. Just to avoid things like this.

razzydoo:
I will keep quiet.

That's great.

Ashawoman82:
just shutup, it has nothing to do with you women entitlement mentality, the guy is just a sicko... He's mentally deranged that's y e can even have erection for a 4 year old girl.. Mumu. Girl, u want to suit this story to suit your entitlement mentality, untill you women realise that no man owes u anything in the first place that's only when most of you will start having sense... Because u get toto, u just want favours from men every time, just like that.... Why can't u feel entitled to ur fellow women for help too..

It is not entitlement for women to want to be helped without their vagina being used. I have the right to bring up any issue I want.

If rape of a minor cannot bring up other issues of females being taken advantage of in YOUR world, that's none of my business.

razzydoo:
Due to my Mental depravity, i can't see any way this rant here corroborates the story. I shall seek all forms of help.

I wish you the best.

This is the 100% version of those guys that believe in sex for money transaction. You can see how horrible it is.

The lesser versions of this are those guys that believe in the exchange of any favor done for a woman with sex. Taking advantage of women up and down because they want relationships, marriage, love, etc. What I want to emphasize is that this version isn't irrelevant because the victims are grown women. It's almost as horrible as what that man did, but the rape of a minor is the worst.

Any person that supports this kind of exploitative behavior or excuses it is just bitter inside, deeply bitter. The groundnut seller was mad that the girl asked for groundnut from him, he was also Hot so he did that, what do you call his mindset and condition? Bitter, stingy, selfish and sex starved. Then when men do it to grown women they mask it as red pill and all sorts.

I love this and I also wish those that bullied me on nairaland can be arrested. One that just started harassing me to the point where I stopped writing in my diary and the other one that suddenly started insulting me, got me suicidal and nobody could beg him to stop urging me to kill myself. I would be very happy if I can witness with my two eyes, those peeps arrested. Also the one that came and posted my picture on here one time when we argued.

2. All the people who insult with foul words on here. It's time people paid for their actions online.

He should do the time and be taught a good lesson!

He couldn't have gotten away with the money of he tried but he did well returning it.

I think Lipton can help me stay slim.

After all this suffering, all I saw and heard was the changing of the national anthem. It seems those up there don't care, it just looks like that. If you have the heart of Nigerians, why will you ignore their pains by creating a new national anthem? Will that give the woman selling akara on the street food to feed her kids?

This isn't tribalistic or political. I'm just saying my mind. Those for and those against, everyone is shouting now. Even those that never cared about politics, even the kids are now concerned about political dealings. Because of hunger and high cost of living. Even the rich are shouting and managing now. Igbo, Yoruba, hausa are all shouting now. Nobody can even lie that they are not touched.

Come, what is the reward of those that have sat down in this country? Now those that relocated abroad since, plus those that relocated recently are all laughing at us while we bear the high price of food. I don't blame anyone who wants to leave.

Those that left in 1990 be looking at us like 👀👁️👁️

Orlu13:
I like olosho..so I think every girl is olosho

Eya. O ma sé o.

Orlu13:
olosho....wats ur price now...I know say e no go pass 5k

I know you are used to those type of girls but please don't generalize.

lexy2014:
Off point. That is not what I asked you.

1. pls what exactly is the standard? if a woman has standard, she will go and work for the money she wants not use her pussy to get it.

2. when did being a liability who makes relationship a source of income become standard?

I gave you an answer but obviously it's not an answer to you. I understand that we see the world from different angles, so I agree to disagree.

Woman should go and work for the money she wants, lol. Y'all want old time wives, but you're not ready at all to provide like old time husbands.

lexy2014:
pls what exactly is the standard? if a woman has standard, she will go and work for the money she wants not use her pussy to get it. when did being a liability who makes relationship a source of income become standard?

A woman wants a physically strong and financially capable man, then she will go and work for him? It doesn't match. And nobody said she had to use her pussy.

Just as a man wants a young and fertile lady that how a woman wants a financially capable man. So why should the woman close her eyes and just accept any man while the man crosses all his boxes before approaching a woman?

Men cannot ever live with who they don't want, accept a lady that isn't their taste. So why do you want women to drop theirs?

Orlu13:
typical fish brain....must u comment

Oho. I know say Una go vex. Drink water and sleep. I know when you see money you will go for the most expensive girl of your taste. Yes you, you will go for the cleanest youngest thing on the market that is so expensive and you won't bat an eyelid.

All this deceit is for those lil girls Una wan bang for free.

When a man has many standards, it's normal, when a woman does so she's seen as demonic and selfish.

May God give you a man who will not wish you death because you want him to spend money on you.

This news pain me. 'I can be promiscuous but you dare not try it' na him cause am! You can see the result!:

People can never believe that ones age is their real age in this country. At the school I worked they never accepted I was 26/27 at the time. Older women dey always claim any adult female as their mate (what is happening).

I have really wrinkly hands and I'm turning 32 this year. Lots of people forge their age but it's very bad to always believe women are lying about their age. Anyway. With this, maybe women should stop saying their age and accept any age people want to give them.

There are older women that look VERY young. I know one. And there are younger women that look older, so mature, not because of anything, it's just their luck.

If anyone asks me, I'll just ask them to give me the age they want to give me so we can all rest.

Tommydare:
I don't belong to that category. I've never and will never carry olosho.

Good but don't dehumanize them by indirectly saying that the work caused the killing. No matter what anyone is doing to survive, a murderer is a bad person and shouldn't be encouraged because it's sex workers they killed.

freeborn02:
Lolz. Perfect hiding for a defeated, senseless idiot like me, freeborn02.

Reversed and fixed.

Countyguy:
I am trying to work on number 1

Me too.

I don't think you need to reply this purples25
I don't understand why men always have to pay for sex when it is just a fun between to genders.
Even if I tend to give, it should be voluntary and not a must or negotiation. See was design for human and animals freely.

See how you joined humans and animals? The freedom of this generation has caused a big problem. Because they used style to remove marriage and encourage rampant premarital sex, that's why you feel it is okay to just pick a woman and you guys will just have sex and then you move to the next one without any work or process or giving. I wonder if this logic can apply to your daughter whom you wish the best for.