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She doesn't want to identify with him.

If women knew exactly what men thought of them, they wouldn't be able to fall in love.

Hi, pretty baby. Mom should've let you grow up to decide if you wanted that extra piercing or not.

That aside, I want to ask how nose piercing or colored hair or ankle chains affect a woman's vagina and brain and make her promiscuous. If we wear pink and blue clothes, how do pink and blue hair now turn out to be bad? What makes colored hair ladies sluts? Or isn't this just a definition by men? Surely it is. Men have decided it is a trademark of a promiscuous woman and since men rule society, the definition stays put.

Women staying controlled in respect of men's private organs but men can do as they wish. As per say woman no get urge too.

P. S: I'm serious o. Someone should come and draw the diagram explaining how promiscuity enters the bodies of ladies who choose to wear colored hair or what not.

iLegendd:
After all these expenses, she'll soon grow and start doing hookup on TikTok for 15k.

It is painful how parents train their girls with blood and sweat, only for some ill trained boys to come, bent on corrupting their daughters, and turn them to whores for their own entertainment. Also just to convince themselves that they are not alone in being sexually corrupt and what not. But everyone meets God and everyone pays.

I'm not happy to say this but quality education is expensive.

Look closely at the product of public schools and private schools. You see that the public school kids can speak English but not good English, they are bright but not polished, down to their style and all, their minds are still in the trenches while they have been educated, take a look at their attitude and mentality. A little kid from public school behaves differently from a private school kid. All those sweet accents a public school kid will never have, you can hear the roughness in voice and the savage attitude to life. Down to having good manners or what not, most public school kids lack good behavior.

Well, being in private school is not a guarantee to success either. Many average kids get sent to big schools but end up saturating back into Nigeria's middle to low class. Still it's nice to see your kid have a proper start in life. A good private school will impact their self esteem, behavior and mindset for life.

Just don't force yourself if you don't have the money. High class quality schools are what all kids deserve, but whoever will make it will make it regardless. Still, be aware that there is a difference and if the school is truly good, the money being paid is actually worth it.

BigYash:
One stubborn one can still do it.. It depends on the parent.. Thats what you get when you over pamper them.. You think they are small at that age,but they know much already too.. Until dem carry ur pistol blow ur teeth,you no go get sense

I don't think they actually know anything at 0 to 2 years. Maybe three years but before then... Well, some people start discipline right from the start. Even when most parents feel the kids don't understand.

For your sanity only have two kids. At most, three.

God forgive me if I'm blasphemous for saying that, but even one kid has me going crazy. Having three of four... Oh well. I think that's a way to depression. Can't rest, can't have peace of mind, always shouting, no break or chance to do much.

If you have the mental capacity, go ahead.

People are suffering.

I want to maintain myself and look this good at 54. She's beautiful.

Trevor125:
I make use of condom but you know how sweet it always be..hmm i remove the condom..
Skin skin is bae..🥺🥺😭

Skin skin is bae,
And that's why baby is dying.

😔

You people don't have any value or respect for life. And by you people I mean many men. Innocent babies suffer because you want to have fun. No compassion. Women should go on strike.

jeromestarks:
This is the kinda pvssy I like to fvck. Matured, fresh and warm.
This pvssy is like spaghetti: it has streamer a little longer. It is better the next day.
Nice clean and think pvssy.

You are effing pussy then you would go and degrade all women later abi? You'll come back and say you want to marry a virgin yet you contribute to the non virgin population you said nobody should marry...

God is watching all of us.

mrdharkchild:
Start looking for ways to double your hustle.
You're birthing a girl btw

How do you already know?

You better run.

You are lost... Lost kee you there. Better find yourself sharp sharp. When you were doing the do you were not lost, baby arrived and you can't find yourself again.

It is possible that you were expecting a plasma tv. Abi? I'm sure you were expecting a plasma tv.

What's wrong with these people sef. You refuse to buy condom, if you buy condom you do rough sex that the condom would break, yet you claim to have future plans. Ok don't come inside the girl and make sure she takes contraceptives right in your front afterwards, you say no.

You rebuff every single attempt to do things right or plan against pregnancy. When baby lands you will be crying that you are not ready and maybe the baby is not your own. Na WA for una.

6 whole months. Kirikiri. May God be with him.

As soon as I read the topic, I knew that many men here would say she's a prostitute. It is not good to come from a poor background because you would be reasoning with the level of poverty you grew up in. Most poor guys don't understand, cannot understand that some parents do pay well for their kids to live well in school. They can't comprehend a reality where parents would buy everything for their daughter. They believe everyone is like their female family members who will be sent to school with little and then everyone will be sending whatever bits of money they have for them to survive. This mentality is not good because even when it is discovered that these people are cared for by their parents, jealousy makes the poor men try to take advantage of these girls and make them suffer.

That aside, this is how to set up your child with a standard. It's how to get men around to sit up and reach a standard before they even think of dating. Which is fine, so that whoever comes doesn't just feel comfortable throwing anything at her, he knows he has to earn a living and be comfortable to date with the intention of marriage. The only thing lastly is that the child should PLEASE have common sense, not being soft like tissue paper, so that she doesn't get used for her stuff by wicked and jealous friends and boyfriends.

... As a fortunate student, you're buying stuff up and down for your boyfriend and friends, and inside them, they are enraged. Thinking of how to drain you and humble you, the more you buy for them, the more they see you lack nothing, the harder their resolution to deal with you, make sure they never help you graduate, finish you! I have been there. May God be with these fortunate students because the arrows of jealousy following them are not small. Wish I can do a tv series on something like this.

Men can't run away from responsibilities. Whatever man she dates must prove himself to be capable of taking care of their future family and offspring. What actually should she be doing with a man who cannot provide? Even the man would curse her as an additional problem if he has to carry her while being broke. If she has more money while he has none, resentment and jealousy might arise from him. So why are guys here complaining.

Olarewaju89:
Olosho dey give advice. It is well.

A man who has driven many cars is an expert but a car driven by many men is junk.

This post isn't about cars!

So you mean that a man is a human being when engaging in sexual activity and his value doesn't diminish, but a woman is a property that diminishes in value after use (sexual adventures).

Well done.

pocohantas:
The man didn't act Christ-like a bit and if I didn't watch the video, I would have doubted such happened. It goes to show the level of classism that has infiltrated the church.

While it is shameful a graduate doesn't speak well or know the degree awarded to her, she already stated her foundation was poor. You learn grammar/languages easily in your formative years. Subsequently it becomes a struggle. Hence the saying "catch them young". He should have simply told her the correct term and if you watched the video, before the microphone was put to her mouth, she said LLB. Maybe stage fright, she switched to the popular BSc and went back to LLB when he mentioned it.

I bet she had the longest walk of her life back to her seat. Maybe a pastor in a neighbourhood church wouldn't have noticed if she said B.Ed. Sadly she went to a big church where the head pastor dresses like a medieval magician.

Thank you for being sensitive to her feelings and to the level of embarrassment. I don't know why most people cannot correct others without embarrassing them.

Pinkyposh:
What were they men looking for that they had to enter their fellow men's car, if not for greed.
Business went bad, and you came crying a victim.
Abeg shift
Be content with what you have, stop chasing shadows

😂 What they say to women all the time!

Winnin009:
The men are the cause. They must have been dressing seductively and exposing their bodies.

They must have worn trousers that were too tight, calling men who could not hold their urge to them. Men should dress decently to avoid rape.

The uno reverse is too much! 🤣🤣🤣

They say the water spirits are very active at this time. According to some spiritualists. If you believe that, be careful around water for these current months.

R.I.P. man.

Arizoner:
are you a virgin

What business do you have with the state of my vagina? Which virgin did you and your peers marry without messing up? Do you know me from anywhere to ask me that? Would we be in any building for an event and you will ask me that suddenly as a stranger?

It's not your fault, it's faceless social media.

chidiokay:
If you havent being in certain situations don't fully assume you know yourself 100%

Not everybody that is bad planned to be bad, this phenomenon of life, the devil was created as an "Angel"

Yeah I understand not wanting to be bad but turning out bad, I get that. But some people just make jealousy and bullying out to be a normal thing and I don't like it. It's better if someone goes through their jealousy and then really regrets it but admits it's abnormal.

People with the traits you've mentioned have been in my life and they are menaces. They just keep going and they are very very bold about it. No apology nothing. So, can't support that.

chidiokay:
My dear, you never can tell until you live with such being, even among your friends if you are the one everything is going smoothly for no commas ... dem fit dey gang up against you thats humans for you

if you are a virgin or SU among your close friends naa you dem go pick on pass

Yeah I never understood picking on someone because they were a virgin. I would rather be a shoulder to lean on for such a person. People with this problem often claim it is normal, but it is not.

If my friend no get comma na to follow her jubilate and enjoy and to learn how to fish from her.

chidiokay:
That is a lie, naturally people just get triggered when they around someone who seems perfect.

I cannot get triggered by that, I like peace. Maybe someone you know, or some people you've interacted with. People that don't like perfection or peace have big emotional issues.

Some people dey craze small small 🤣🤣

Perfect? Perfect? That's the reason you left? The thing that one billion women out there are looking for?

No be small wahala.

They will put him in a cell that is more like a room probably, on his own. His money and connections can pull that. Certain prisoners can pull strings to be in a confinement that is more like a house arrest. It would be him alone in that special cell with everything except his freedom.

"Na mumu dey go boutique."

This is the real agenda of those that promote this saying.

If men leave you alone, it's actually a blessing. That aside, pick specific locations which contain responsible and capable men and make yourself fit in. Some guys will definitely come to you. Don't forget to keep yourself afloat financially and knowledge wise while at it. To keep things going one must have a little substance.

Olumighty123:
Lately, they formed the habit of taunting you when they noticed you're yoruba, The diversion from the purpose why you're there to going political can be very annoying. I dey do everything to ignore them.

Why are they like that? It is sad. I used to actually believe the stories that they are special and bullied by everyone because they are successful. My personal life experiences taught me otherwise about this tribe that I loved and admired so much ... Now, I don't judge them all by my experiences, but I noticed I'm more careful these days.

Goodlady:
What some are paying to look for. Na man impregnate one young girl like that come abandon the poor mother o!
In Nigeria, snakes and dogs are valuable than men!

They will abandon the mother to find how to fend for the baby so that they would come and claim the child when it's older and easier to manage.

They are blind to the male but always expect the female to accept the baby and the shame and the fate ahead. As woman no be human being na. It's only man that knows how to create and walk away. Women don't want to embrace freedom and avoid shame.

Through all this, I don't support what she did, because the baby is already here. In fact I don't support anything like this. It's hard, it's sad, it may be shameful, but one just has to try and take responsibility.

I'm just glad they found the baby.

Bolaji38:
Babe way Sabi… Hope you've subscribed to my page

Yeah I have.