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Zeal0000007:
For a serious relationship leading to marriage , do you encourage going through your partner's phone for trust to be built ?.

I discovered my partner has been flirting with other guys online, thanks to the fact that I always go through her phone when she's asleep. I have done alot for this gal, just disappointed while gals wouldn't be faithful in their relationships.

This is someone I wanted to wife next year, and I love her so much despite her flaws .

I swallow alot of her flaws, like whenever we have issues she will abuse me from head to toe, on occasions like that I will ask her out of my life and my house but she'll be so bent in staying that nothing can separate us after how many years according to her "over her dead body" she wants to eat her cake and have it back.

I'm really stalk, after abusing me up and down at night I find it very difficult resist her body, I will still try to have sex with her especially when I see her nudes, I be flesh and blood.

I can't continue like this 2023, Guys please don't cohabit with a gal you haven't married.
Now I have issues of driving her way or I relocate to somewhere far just to have peace of mind. I can't continue like this next year, God forbid.

If she was coming and going ending this toxic relationship would have been effective. This is someone I have paid two sessions school fees for, care for her like she was my wife in my own little way, as we speak I have written her final year project for her chapter one to five, its just left for her to type it and present it.

I don tire for this relationship I really need a way out, I want to leave her cos its no longer healthy for me, though I really love her. She lacks respect for me , she still flirts online, she's very abusive . I have told her if you feel you have seen someone better than me, kindly move on or you feel we have stayed long enough and you can't wait anymore kindly move on, I won't hold anything against u. But you can't be staying in my house and be seeing someone else, frustrating me all round.

Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.

What's stopping you from being toxic and stamping your feet.

rickpat:
whether he tells the staff about a potential take over or sale of the company,it will not change anything with regards to how the new owners would treat the staff or run the company..NEW POLICIES MUST TAKE EFFECT

Gbam

youngsahito:
start doing lot of exercise to reduce your weight.

I do exercises alot and still snore ,but what type of exercise.

I snore which is bad, I don't mind a gadget that helps me snore less

Good successful men are scarce, na FB full outside.

Why can't we kill these people

Oversaturated with qualified devs ? cuz Senior Engineers are still scarce.

Lagos is overrated, unless you're making massive money.

Runningwater:
You could search on Github using search filters like python, JavaScript, react, etc. After seeing the project you like, read the project readme to understand what it does, why it does it and how it does it that way.

You could then help by:
1.Writing or improving on the documentation
2.Write articles about the project(How-to, etc)
3.Add features you like or improve on existing ones(features like maybe a GUI if doesn't exist)
4. Look at open issues you could address in the project
5. You could even do translation of readme files if such projects need it


But it would be better to first search on Github for opensource projects that help devs on using Git and Github for opensource contributions. Repos like the Eddiehub, first-time contributions, etc

My little sense

Oh... you could search on GSoC repos on Github to look for ones you contribute to, too

Those 2 are always the best, as you get to learn about the project structure as you read and document.

If you know Svelte and can help maintain Svelte devtool, you will be popular. it's Chrome API/ JS/ HTML

pocohantas:
It is still a better deal for most Nigerians considering where we are coming from.

When they get there, settle in, enjoy the stable electricity and saner clime as we love to call it - then their expectations would increase and that is when the grumbling begins.

However, it remains a better deal when compared to our 200k Nigerian salary. Though there are cases of misinformation and bogus/unrealistic expectations.

The only average person that can give you money in this Dec 2022 is your relative abroad. Life is hard in Nigeria.

Fact, next year alot of us are porting, the cost of Lagos makes no sense for the money one pays.

yinkbell:
Thanks


@qtguru. Thanks for enlightening us on this forum. Pls, can I send you a dm sir?

Sure

tollyboy5:
I no get any ego to show here. I'm still struggling with understanding design patterns.

I understand design patterns are how code are structured to solve problems good.

Qtguru when does algorithm comes in.

In my experience it's when performance is key, a function that takes 5 secs to go through all items in array might prob take more time, when going through 1 million items, so Algo and DS comes in that context, so u can know your order of growth and best algo to run at optimal time.

Sulele04:
Hello Qtguru, please if you have any spare laptop please consider me.

My laptop has packed up, and I will be resuming second semester where we will do python coding.

Thanks.

Don't derail this thread

AdetayoS:
Good evening Qtguru, this is completely unrelated. I read your diary and saw your post on giving out some stuffs. I am particularly Interested in the laptop, being trying to safe to get one but things keep coming up depleting my account and price keep going up. incase you can't find the owners, please remember me in your kingdom. I don't mind sending what I have. Thanks

Stop derailing this thread