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[quote author=Sisi_Kill]See, this right here is why I will never understand people who commit suicide.

So here I was feeling all depressed and suicidal because it is almost mid morning here and we haven't heard what Linda Ikeja's thoughts are on something. . . . anything. Now anyone who is somebody knows a day without knowing what Linda Ikeji thinks on a subject will be a dismal day for sure. I was ready to take the easy out of what was starting to look like the horriblest day in history, so I decided to log on to NL one last time and the bam. . . what do I see. . . on the front page no less. . .Linda's Opinion on a very veeeeeery pressing life and death matter and now all is well with the world.


Once again the intelligent powers that be on NL have saved the day.

Thanks guys!!! More grease to your collective elbows. https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/113.gif[/quote]This girl she de kill me oo!! *azonto dance* lol

@topic, seriously linda is actually hilarious. She might be joking, it is her job!
but that aside, everyone has different aims in life, spending millions on a wedding doesn't have to be one of them.

slimzme: I remember watching a match between El-kanemi warriors of Maidugiri
And sharks @ d Maiduguri township stadium,and I wonder haw manage a GOAT
Got into d picth to eat grass,and d foolish ball boy was chasing the GOAT
In d field while d match was still going on

A goat! A goat! Too funnay! a goat! eating grass on the pitch!

@post, how long has the npl been around? It might just need a bit of time to grow, obviously it can't be compared with a system that's been around for years, they've had the time and the funding to garner enough support.

Its backwards to state women are irrational and even worse to use their hormones as an excuse. Maybe in Nigeria there is something in the water making them mad and irrational.

A woman that is only comfortable with male friends is the insecure type that seeks validation from men. You've been raised to believe you are nothing until a man says you are and you've intentionally seeked out male Friends to further validate you.

Pettiness and bickering is down to personalities and nothing to do with gender, what of men that bicker, gossip argue and fight in the absence of sexism soo many nonsense notions will never exist. If you are insecure and irrational that's personal to you don't group women up as all being the same or try and use nonsense like pmt or hormones to excuse your securities. Makes me sick to the bone. Take one step forward and comments like yours drive us 500 steps back. Mshew.

Sweetlemon: If during an argument,
a guy tells a girl that she's the only one apart from his family that he can take bullshit from,
what is he trying to tell her please?

That he is whipped?

[quote author=Sky-walker]Maybe i was ignorant when i was in Niaja. Never heard of pedo before till i got into UK.A friend of mine told me it was not a Black man's disease . Yea its culturally acceptable to people who give their kids out at young age but is that getting common in Naija now? if it is, thats some sick stuff going down there[/quote]Thats the thing, there is no label in Nigeria because it's normal! You cannot say you havent heard of teachers sleeping with students (unless you went to a super plush school ooo!) It's always been common in Nigeria, I was even surprised at the outrage when that official married a 9 year old. I was thinking most men do worse.
We have the same problem here in the UK with black communities not paying enough attention to sexual predators hanging about schools, the men take advantage of that. Nobody is apprehending them or looking out for these young girls. It has to be because it's normal to them.

Does a beautiful person earn being beautiful? Does an ugly person ask to be ugly?

It's a shame the way people look even matters at all, but to those who place value where value is due looks will never matter.

luckgames: why are Nigerian men afraid of intimacy gadgets
I am not afraid if you want to play with urself

Will you use one with your girl?--I am not sure

No2 how do you feel about a woman that smokes pot. No to any type of drug

Do you see it as unladylike?--Pot head

For those that like to ‘indulge’ in such- what do you think of women that do? --Bad girl

Do you feel it’s unattractive? Yes

Do you have the same views for women as you do men about weed?--Yes

Will you jam with your girl and smoke? Hell NO

I’m just curious, if a group of men can enjoy getting high then why can’t women?

Thirdly, will you date a girl that significantly out earns you? Yes but I am still a man

Will you feel threatened by a woman with her own house, car, and housemaids? hell NO because i have mind own thing

LOL- pothead is the right word!

How many Nigerian men have you dealt [s]with dated to come to such a hasty and unfounded conclusion?

Well the Nigerian's I hang out with are like myself, quite open minded so their thoughts don't apply. I was looking for the typical response.

It can't.. A man is not a machine, performance varies. I'm well aware of my limitations.

Very important, too many men here think their joysticks vibrate.

I'll look at her askance.

Why? The stereotyping of the people that smoke or just from the smoking itself?

If we are to go by the old English definition of lady, then yes its very un-ladylike.
What of a man?


Weed is weed, it has the same effect on men and women.

Who says they can't/shouldn't?

People do, double standards of society.

I will date her, I think it equally evens out the playing field.
That ish is so retro, the more she has the merrier it will be for the both of us
Definitely not typical, thats the way men should see things!

nwanna89: And this made front page. Am sick on the moderators on Nairaland. You put an ignorant individuals post on front page! Gosh! Its always tribalistic topics or very d*mb topics that make the front page. If u don't want to lose subscribers and not drift from the purpose of this forum, change this trend Messers Moderators!

Thats not even the point, their rules are incoherent . I don't think they're organised or follow any sort of plan. Just erratically deleting banning and reposting what their emotions respond to. Illogical knee jerk reactions in something some will call a business.

What sense does it make to discourage tribalism yet encourage blatant racism?

[quote author=Sky-walker]To be honest i dont know what people see in chasing young girls.The guy is a yanch hole.[/quote]It's a perversion, these men are sick in the head. The main problem with this situation is that it's (sort of) culturally acceptable. It's not today teachers are having sex with young girls and it's rampant in Nigeria.

justwise: British justice system is too soft, he probably will not get more than 5yrs for that crime and he will be protected in prison, if attacked he will sue the prison authority for not protecting him.

I don't know about this, from what I heard the system is incredibly tough on sexual crimes. Especially pedophilia. And the fact he was a teacher and abused his position isn't going to look good in court at all.

Apparently you can get a shorter sentence for murdering someone than you will raping them.

ayanle456: The only thing saving Africa is Somalia/Ethiopia. Were it not for us being on the continent, what would be left would be wide nosed, short, nappy headed, muscularly over developed Africans who have an inferiority complex to whites for enslaving them.

This is a racist post? What moderator didn't notice that this post is racist?

Wow the moderators here are something else, whether it's ignorance, illiteracy or the soo called inferiority complex the op mentioned time will soon tell.

So it's not ok to insult a tribe but it's absolutely fine to insult a continent? Then you encourage the op by putting his hate filled rant on the home page?

The whoever is responsible you are a coon. Well done.

*vomit*

What a weird arse question, Are you not happy for them?

On the contrary, the tramp dog insists on following me about. He has better chances with Naomi Campbell.

[quote author=Kevin_II]you again? Don't you have any other theories? Don't let me get off with you again o. Park well well, your yansh dey enter road [/quote]gawsh it was a question, if you werent gay then women falling for you wouldnt be a problem. . . .jussayin

dasparrow: I am not suprised. I know what my eyes saw when I lived in Nigeria. Lustful men both married and single everywhere who had no atom of self control. Most Nigerian bred men lack self control because the overwhelmingly negative Nigerian culture permits them to be so. Moreover[b], Nigerian society does not frown at paedophilia, r/a/p/e, and chronic infidelity.[/b] This is why Nigerians look away when such acts are being commited because it is a chuvinist and tribalistic nation.

Nigerian bred men then think they can take their demons of lust and obsession with s/.e/x outside the shores of Nigeria to advanced and orderly nations and think they will get away with their paedophilia acts there. May this paedophile rot in jail. No wonder we Nigerians are not liked anywhere in the world we go because every bad thing under the sun we must take part in.

Ah dasparrow is too sensible. You have taken everything I was thinking and written it down.

When you reveal the truth about their culture they start getting defensive and rant like rabid animals, they lack the ability to sit and reason things for themselves, just blindly following any trend thrown at them. He will rot in jail, and many others like him when people realize what these disgusting Nigerian men are like.

Sagamite: [Retches] Urgh! Keep away from me.

Tranny......


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EEGi7Hm7UgA&feature

Keep away from you? Your insane- mentally unstable. Your dismissed.

justwise: He can kiss goodbye to his teaching career in the UK and even getting another job, he will be made to sign sex-offender's register for many yrs if not for life

How was he not on it from the first offence?

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Today’s high-earning women are justly proud of their paychecks — I explore the rise of the female breadwinner in this week’s TIME cover story — but they still often feel that men will be intimidated rather than attracted to them as potential mates. They think their success will seem too threatening and be held against them. As a result, some women in the dating pool devise camouflage mechanisms. A young ob-gyn working in Pittsburgh tells men she meets that she “works at the hospital, taking care of patients” — subtly encouraging the idea that she’s a nurse, not a doctor. When a university vice president in south Texas was on the dating market, she would vaguely tell men she worked in the school’s administrative offices and avoid letting them walk her to her car for fear they would see her BMW. “I want them to give me a chance,” says the Pittsburgh doctor. “I want them to at least not walk away immediately.” ...Continue to read more at http://dadycandoit.com/business-economy/why-men-are-attracted-to-high-earning-women

Well they shouldnt be surprised when they marry and their husbands ask them to quit their jobs.

[quote author=Kevin_II]They tell me 'I love you'. I reply 'I know' with what should be an annoying smile, yet instead of getting angry and flaring up they become sad and start asking why I don't feel anything for them.

I let them know 'there are others', yet they go on as if they didn't hear me. (I try not to disrespect them tho when I'm with them - I step away to receive calls from the other girls, or I simply don't pick).

I tell them 'I have to go now' after staying with them for a while and they become sad. 'Please stay a while longer', they beg.

I tell them 'It's over' and they start crying, asking what they have done. I don't know myself. I just know I should be moving on.

I feel for girls sometimes, but I'm just too much of an opportunist to care. Girls like me naturally (or maybe it's the things they see around me. Not that I care which) and I just have to go round and hit that while it is yet day.

So babes, why would any girl fall in love with a man like me? I'm not exactly too bad, but I ain't a good boy either - that should be clear as daylight.[/quote]Are you gay?

your best friends girlfriend? You better respect yourself dude.

If he had a history of molestation how on earth did he manage to get back into teaching? Only in croydon smh

Freesia: Don't get me wrong ladies my relative is so used to the stares she smiles and laughs off some comments she gets.She has had a few occasions where some women randomly get bold enough to ask her all sorts of questions like does she suffer from back pain and all.
@ Queensmith lol no massive cleavage was on show... you could still wear an XXXL T shirt and people would still see you have a big pair of twins

Lol- my friend has ultra long hair and she gets all these women touching it and digging her scalp to check if its fake. So I understand someone being frustrated.

shymmex: I don't read your utter tosh, you're boring.. You post is the same everyday, and you lack creativity...

All you ever talk about is dyck sizes, your hatred for Nigerian men, your hatred for Yoruba culture, and how miserable your life is.. Who the phuck wants to read that everyday

I'd rather read Becomrich's maps, than read your thrash... At least he exhibits more creativity than you do.

I agree with you, go forth and read queensmiths posts no longer. You have my blessings. bye bye

Sagamite: You!

Give me a beautiful, lovely and convivial woman anyday. [b]I have not sinned that badly to get YOU! ;[/b]D

Just listen to yourself! Listen to yourself, Did I tell you I want you? your obsessed with me saga. That is not my fault.

All the insults you throw at me you mean for yourself, because you hate the fact that you cannot have me. You hate yourself for being a ghetto rat, and queensmith cannot get with ghetto rats.

Look here deranged lunatic. Go and get yourself professional help. I cannot help you.

Sagamite: Tranny, keep your joystick away from me. Don't let me throw-up the rest of my breakfast.

Look at you, another m.o.ron making an arse out of himself.

It's not your fault, there is no reasoning with the insane.

You are a confused, deranged lunatic. I hope you get the help that you need.

[quote author=Sagamite][/quote]Here we go again, listen; I cannot stand you, I have absolutely no interest in you. You are a pathetic piece of sh*t. I wouldn't go near you with a barge pole.What is your business in my affairs? Why do you keep trying sooo damn hard!

You think you are a man but your nothing more than an empty shell. You are a miserable human being and this is the happiest time of your life.

A real woman having some sort of contact with you, well done.