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You will be told marry whom you like.

But if the genders were reversed, They will be calling her olosho and gold-digger. Some will even swear for her.

Double standards everywhere.

Why do we always say Men are using women for sex?

If two people are in a consensual adult relationship and they both agree to have sex. Why is it flipped somehow that the male is using the female?

Its very evident that most male and female derive great pleasure from sex. In short, i feel like I'm using my boyfriend for sex because I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend especially during sexy times.

Besides, An average Nigerian woman has more men clamouring to her compared to an average Nigerian man. Definitely, its the woman who has the power and ability to chose, approve and discard men as willingly as she wants.

Men on the other hand, tend to cast their net in the dating pool hoping to catch a fish. The average man takes an interest potential female and chases her. He might even be shut down.

Its just the top Alpha males who easily get the women they want.

There are unfair situations a person might be dating someone they do not see a future with. However its spread very evenly amongst all genders.

Idiataqueen:
excuse me lady pls is dat pant u are wearing or short?

G-string.

Her life would have been saved if not that the government has made abortion illegal.
There should be centers for women to have safe procedures like this.

honeygirl17:
This is the second thread about this story

I think its three now actually. I saw a third one

[size=17pt]OP Are you Yakub??[/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/2740722/conversation-between-yakub-cheated-him

honeygirl17:
Are u proud of cheating? how many threads will u create with this your cheating story fooool?

Get the fk out of here! dumm.y

No need to insult her nau. This is the reason we come to Nairaland. Drama! Drama! Drama!!!!

Tonyosas101:
Am I the only reading this

I am reading it too. Comoestas please what is your secret for holding a guy down like this.? What Jazz are you using?

Yakub and comoestas - Part 3 lol

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If you want to make it clear to him that its over, you have to tell him EXACTLY what he did to turn you off in the relationship and why he cant fix it. You cant sugar coat anything, you have to have specifics. You have to tell him that attraction works in a certain way and once its gone, its gone. You cant get it back by hanging around each other. stop stringing this poor guy along.

Today at the G20 submit, Obama and Putin sat down and discussed like civil people .

French fighter planes have dropped 20 bombs on the Islamic State (IS) stronghold of Raqqa in northern Syria.

The bombers hit a jihadi recruitment centre, training camp and arms depot run by the extremist group, according to the French defence ministry.

A spokesman described it as a "massive" attack and France's biggest to date in Syria.


Raqqa in Syria is an Islamic State stronghold
The aerial raid was launched from air bases in United Arab Emirates and Jordan, and involved France's 12 fighter bombers based there.

It follows Friday's terror attacks which left 132 people dead in the French capital.

ISIS fighters said they carried out the gun and bomb massacre - calling Paris "the capital of prostitution and obscenity".

Sky's Sam Kiley, in northern Iraq, said the French airstrikes should not be seen as a "wanton act of revenge" or carpet-bombing campaign.

"I think it's very clear that the French and the wider coalition have decided in a sense to give France the iron fist at least for the next 24 hours or so," he said.

The coalition has a number of targets of opportunity, targets provided by intelligence.

"The scale of these French airstrikes should not be seen as a wanton act of revenge, but really the French basically saying to their allies, 'we want to do all of the airstrikes' over the next period of time - however long that may be."

Kiley added: "I think essentially what's gone on here is the coalition have said 'this is your turn to hit back as France rather than as the coalition'.

"But I don't think this should be seen as some kind of carpet-bombing campaign.

"These are extremely precise airstrikes that are carried out after exhaustive legal processes required under French and international law."


The French raids follow US airstrikes on Raqqa last week which reportedly killed the British militant Mohammed Emwazi, known as "Jihadi John".

Emwazi appeared in a series of videos killing several Western hostages, including Britons David Haines and Alan Henning.

He is also thought to have beheaded Americans James Foley, Steven Sotloff and Abdul-Rahman Kassig, and Japanese journalist Kenji Goto.

A Pentagon spokesman said later it was "reasonably certain" Emwazi had been killed by a Hellfire missile from a drone.

Every week, At least one location in the North is bombed. There is no condemnation. There is no support from the government for the victims of the Attacks in the North.

The Hypocrisy is strong with this Buhari's message

SaiBuharii:
The problem here is he has presented this scenerio as if he is primarily opening the cinema to employ youths, meanwhile, it is more of a business concern. Politicians and deceit though.

So is it a bad thing? Would you rather people not open businesses? Which kain thinking be this? How do you run a large business without employees?

Jollyjoy:



can i come and help you

I would love help. What are you doing this weekend?

I am loosening my braids today.. So its a busy day!
Then I'm going to take some classes this weekend for driving so I can get cheaper car insurance.

Its gonna be an exciting weekend!

francizy:
Kk

You like or you don't like ?

francizy:
Hello!

Why are your lips this huge?

God!

londongal03:
even you!

What can I say. I appreciate everybody!

agarawu23:
[s][/s]see them

Hey Honey

Perfect list babe.

Especially the money part. I have that issue in my relationship. I am very stingy with my money but my boyfriend throws caution to the wind. He spends on impulse too much. Recently, I gave him a very stern talk. Get a budget and keep your finances in check.

dinachi:
Pls can nairalanders just go to raayahs profile and see the kind of lips she is sharpening for Op's punny! God have mercy! No weapon formed against Op's punny by those lips shall prosper! Now little worm, your input has been noted and aptly discharged in the trash can where they belong,so you can now crawl back to your hole.

Pig, isn't your dirty and misogynistic blog not working any more? Go and air your chauvinistic views there. From failed doctor to a failed blogger.. I would be a bitter old man too!

This will be the last time I respond to you. You really are not worth it.

obinnashady:
she will soon reach menopause,so all the demerits go to her considering her age and all

Do women die at menopause?, contrary to 'the nairaland male Bible for women '. I personally cannot wait for menopause to come sef, bleeding every month is tiring.

You are saying that a female business owner is a house-wife? Wetin I no go hear for nairaland

dinachi:
And to think that the reason for all this very long epistle is so that raayah thick lesbian lips will have access to her punny , abi? You are advising her to keep friends for emergencies, friends like raayah , I bet! Carry your thick , horrible lesbian lips away from this forum before you hurt someone!

Noted! Now Chuks, run back to the dirty cave where you emerged from.

agobentim:
The lady is just using the threat to life as an excuse to leave the marriage. That's what mostladies do when they want to leave. Marriage or relationship. Some will tag u being violent or asssaulting them if ordinary Argument ensued and hold you them if they are walking out on you (talking from personal experience). One guy is deceiving her somewhere again because I can see that she has big eyes and she love lies. Let her go, we will see who will suffer. It is because of all diskind long throat that she married late in the first place.

But the guy and the judge prove beyond reasonable doubts that she was infact assaulted. Its there in the post. You would think that if It was a lie, he would deny it

Love Machine:
Have you not lied to a guy that you were a virgin even though you are a pro in it?Be sincere.

No! If a guy cannot accept me because I don't have a membrane. Then he can move along with the rest.

jnrbayano:
It is a criminal offence to assault one's spouse and that I know very well but I will have to ask, is this assault as old as the marriage?

What triggered wanting divorce? Can't this assault and threat to live be treated without wanting to divorce?

Which marriage institution is Topsy-Turvy proof?

I bet you are a man so its easy for you to throwaway words like this. No empathy at all.
Have you tried living with a man with twice your strength beating you at every turn. Would you stay! Of course not!

But here you are, telling a woman to stay in an abusive home

fulanigirl:
It seems like the men on this forum are always ready to call a woman a goldigger. This man deceived her into marrying him but somehow she's the one in the wrong. Everyone knows what they want in life and a partner and he robbed her of it. If I was in her shoes I would've divorced him earlier. I've worked very hard to be financially stable and I wouldn't dream of marrying someone that isn't stable and can't support himself never mind a family.

They also ignored the assault part. But its Nairaland of course. Always find a way to blame women.

GentleToks:
Red alert!!!!!

Boys, the moment you see a lady picking on things like this, run for your future. She is one of those westernised screwed up ladies that would pick on your silly words and demand for divorce at every slight issues..

She never loved the guy in question in the first place. Certificate would ve been the least thing on her mind if she truly love him from onset.

But your are extrapolating from this news just as I am. You are imagining that this woman broke up with her husband because of certificate meanwhile she said assault and threats. For all we know, she could have known about the degree thing all along and went with it but for the insults. But you assumed the worst.

I will not support a Nigerian woman to live with an abuser. Its because you guys love to bash Nigerian women on this website thats why you can't see through your nose.

She divorced him for assault not certificate. In what way is death threats silly words? Please!!

Building a marriage on deceit is just wrong.

But to add insult to injury, this man was abusing her.

38-year-old Nnenna, had, on October 28, asked the court to dissolve her six-year-old marriage over alleged threat to life and assault, adding that the relationship was also built on deceit

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She should go ahead and divorce. Her life is precious.
Most of you calling her shallow have conveniently ignored the life threat and assault part which I am pretty sure is her main reason for divorcing this man.
Lying is one thing but assault + death threats +lying are warning signs of a sociopath.