Anabell2:


The American hubby looks scary with rough beards all over

I have seen their wedding pictures

Haha. She’s got a daughter now.
Hopefully her hubby has sorted himself and they are both happy together.

How come nobody has said anything about toyinrayo/ilekeidi/flgators? Is she married now?
She made many men compete seriously to get her love and attention

Kobojunkie was plain hardwork. Lock her up in a room and she would happily argue all day with herself.

Tpia- I loved her to bits. Always angry, talking off point and making very weird insinuations.

Anabell2:


platinumnk is married and in a miserable marriage

Karma? https://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/very-depressed-about-upcoming-wedding/

speechless. really sad. but why marry a non-educated American guy when there are several single well educated Nigerians

i remember the issue she had with inspiredm
nairaland was on fire when the inspired exposed her
the whole nairaland literally rose against her.

Gboliwe:
I swear down, if Coogan is married and to a NLdr and didn't invite us, wicked does not even begin to describe him.

I mean, we are all one big family. Just small fight and he ditched us all. Is that fair?

not fair at all.

I am very upset that I didn't get an invite.

sassysure:

He is looking for tight puccy. Maybe he wasn't fully loaded and now it's wobbling especially if it wasn't handled well after child bearing. ( I may be joking but this is the most common thing that makes married men start behaving like person wey take tramadol and codeine)

if I remember correctly, she had all three kids via C section. so puccy issue is ruled out.

wonlasewonimi:


He was on my case then calling me a security guard at tesco... So I wanted to prove there's dignity in being a security guard than being a fraudster.

Then he swindled the girl and that one now contacted me to help me nail him.

did he really say that? lol. cougar was badly mouthed and very insane.

KanwuliaExtra:


Abi oooooooooo. . . .and snippets of kray-kray too.

snippets?

several ship load you mean

Gboliwe:


As for OAM4J, he is saving to buy someone a porche. He doesn't need distractions

OAM4J is decent. there was a time he was chasing one decent Yoruba girl here but that one didn't seem to get the message that he really fancied her.

wonlasewonimi:


Wow...


I signed off when he was exposed... [b]Part of me still regret it. [/b]He is a cool dude except for frauds.

at the time, I felt you were too harsh on cougar. he might have had his faults but he was a decent and intelligent guy.

I am happy to hear that he is married and all settled now.

i am keen to know the ID of the girl he married though

JoannaSedley:
:Inked nerd
Spiked cylinder
Freecocoa... Stirring the hornets.

spikey was Doyin's babe at the time.

i heard she had moved from naija to Aussie. ,. ,

KanwuliaExtra:



A man must choose between being a good husband or a good father. Very few men can master the art or science of BOTH. . . . AND ONLY A CURSED MAN FAILS AT ALL.

Shikena.

Apt !!

this is deep.

Almondjoy has been dropping snippets of wisdom since 1896

wonlasewonimi:


Don't support EfemenaXY she has started abusing tramadol.
Everything about the relationship was done on nl except the nyanshing part. They bombarded us with pictures at every milestone. Once you bring your relationship online, you have subconsciously waived your right to anonymity.

Sienna can easily stop this by being responsible and doing the right thing.

You are right.

I remember seeing pictures of her even whilst she was in the hospital shortly before and after giving birth to their first and second kids.

EfemenaXY

esther has spent nearly 10kids in the UK
she has three kids born in the UK to a british dad
her eldest child is over 7 years old

there is no government that will deport her from the UK.
Absolutely NONE !!!
she will get her leave to remain and ultimately British passport. it is just a matter of time and even siena knows it.

I have not even brought domestic violence and emotional abuse into the picture. with this route, she doesn't even need to pay visa fees. it is all waived.

the whole essence of her regularising her status is so that she can get a job, provide for herself and kids. get more opportunities as a 'makeup brand influencer' as well as travel/see the world with her kids.

not forgetting that if she can easily remarry and move on with her life

wonlasewonimi:


Have you been taking codeine too

I think she has.

The link she posted is totally unrelated to this thread and the lady captured in the gofundme screenshot.

Both ladies even have different first names.

shaybebaby:

If you have links to the thread, please post it here as it will serve as further evidence.

I’m too busy to start digging up old threads on nairaland.

However, here’s one for your reading pleasure

https://www.nairaland.com/289834/fight-finish-sienna-v-coolface89/6

IAmMercedes:
I can’t count the number of times Siena lost his job in the space of 6 months or so.

He gave people an extremely false impression about himself.

[b]When he told me he wanted to come to Nigeria and annul his marriage to Esther without her knowing, [/b]that’s when I contacted her.

People can call me what they want. Quite frankly, I don’t care. But I say it as I see it.

Go to naija to annul which wedding? Wedding that was conducted in a UK church? you should thank your stars you didn't fall for his lies.

he married Esther here in UK and did not step a foot in Nigeria for anything - courtship, engagement, proposal, traditional wedding - absolutely nothing. Esther was already pregnant at the time they had their church wedding.

I can see where he is coming from regarding his claim that he is not 'legally' married to Esther. their wedding was done at a 'new generation church' and not at a Church of England that is 'officially' recognised. they didn't go to the council for any civil ceremony (registry wedding) because at the time strict rules were already in place regarding British citizen marrying non-EU nationals because of the high rate of fake/scam weddings just to obtain spousal visas.

it is obvious he just 'used' Esther for procreation purposes. this is the time for her to fight back. emotional abuse exists in marriage and it is just as bad as domestic violence. he played on her vulnerability and will i say her desperation to escape 'poverty' in naija. she needs to be open up to the authorities with the truth regarding his treatment towards her so that she can sort out her legal status asap.

EfemenaXY:


I agree information on registered Ltd companies can be found on the net - in compliance with the Companies Act.

Any company can be declared insolvent. Happens all the time but that doesn’t prove he’s / was a scammer, nor does it prove anything about his character as a person.

Companies declaring bankruptcy/insolvent indicates they had serious financial issues and were unable to finance their debts.

No if this was really the case, it shows that his family was under immense financial strain and that alone is enough to rock the foundation of any marriage.

I do not for one second believe the stories and claims on here. Sienna is no teenager wet behind the ears. He came across as a decent man trying to do well for his young family. People do not change overnight from near perfect to absolute monsters.

No one ever truly knows what happens in a marriage apart from the husband and wife. There is a lot more going on than what is shown on the surface and I think people should be wise when playing the role of judge and jury without having the facts.

Sienna isn’t here to defend himself.

He confirmed the financial issues/disqualification here himself.

If I remember correctly, he was disqualified for 10years. 10 years has since passed, so he is free to register another UK company.

One of the ladies he was deceiving at the time was based in the US. he tried convincing her to relocate to the UK and setup a limited company on his behalf. the lady in question exposed him big time on this same nairaland.

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

Bloody hell just when I thought I have seen/heard it all.

I’m honestly not shocked.

I don’t know which one is most amusing - soliciting for wedding funds from gofundme or the $15,000 goal

Ishilove:

Wow... so what took her so long to regularise her status?

beats me!

she could easily have returned to Nigeria and have her husband file for her. max 6months and she would have been back in the country. maybe she was scared that if she left, siena won't let her back in.

in a country like UK that is full of opportunities, I wonder why anyone will choose the path she has taken. Nearly 10 years in the UK. no education, no money, no job, no house, absolutely nothing (except the kids she has for her dead beat husband) to show for it.

oyb:
Sad

so its all true then

na real wa. no higher education
is her instagram thing bringing in money?

of course its all true.

the instagram space is highly competitive. too many brand influencers.

I personally find her makeup pictures overly photoshopped, too fake and way too loud. her style of makeup is definitely not what I want my Mrs copying. but hey, what do I know?

sunky97

how can you forget to add 'lose' vs 'loose'

a lot of people do not know the difference between both words and how to use them correctly in the right context in a sentence

naijagypsy

This is extremely sad.

. . . .Esther was warned not to remain in the UK with her visiting visa. She was warned/advised to return to Nigeria and have Siena file for spousal visa for her. At the time, visa rules were relatively easy (no minimum income requirement, Indefinite leave to remain after 2 years, etc) but she chose not to listen.

I really pity her to be honest. I cant believe that she is yet to regularise her status. So what has she been doing all these while? No higher education, no job, nothing and she has been busy breeding babies for siena?

I know she has a popular instagram account where she does makeup tutorials. Isn't that bringing in income for her?

siena has been linked to far too many scandals on nairaland even before Esther married him (she was well aware of his scandals), yet she went ahead with the wedding. both of them met on nairaland. she was one of the numerous online ladies he was frolicking with before he decided to settle with Esther.

I know (from reading about one of his numerous scandals here) that he had serious financial issues with a company he setup years ago to the extent that the company was made solvent and he was banned by the UK government (companies house) from holding any post in the UK as a company director.

Both of them should be very careful with social services involvement. If they are aware of domestic violence issues or they suspect that the kids are subject to neglect, emotional harm or that they have witnessed any violence between their parents, social services will obtain a legal order and those kids will be taken into foster care.

this is just sad.

the main priority right now should be sorting out her legal status. however, how will she be afford the services of a solicitor or pay the exorbitant visa fees?

her best option is the domestic violence route. if there is documented evidence (health and police records), she can obtain discretionary leave to remain as a female who has suffered domestic violence.

AJJ17:
My own 13th March.


Vo ..how many kids,

Me..None yet but my wife is heavily pregnant dd may

this is what killed you.

so you want to leave your 'heavily pregnant' wife to travel to the US for conference.

Even if the conference is planned for after her delivery, your wife and child will still need you around.

the fact is you should not have mentioned that your wife is pregnant, neither should you have said whether she is 'light or heavily' pregnant and you should not have said when she is due.

the question she asked was very simple : HOW MANY KIDS?

your answer should have been simple: NO, I DO NOT HAVE ANY KIDS AT THE MOMENT. no need for unnecessary story.

EngrSaks:
Greetings everyone,this is a really great zone for info...I have gone through everything....

Thanks for this thread fatima04

Please I need info about chemical engineering jobs in the uk...how easy is it and how much I'm I looking to be paid...I got my ist and 2nd degrees from Naija

such roles are sometimes sensitive and usually required detailed checks/vetting. Majority will require security clearance - something that can only be gotten if you have lived a specified number of years in the UK.

that said, go to the career section of top engineering firms like Schneider and also top conglomerates and see what jobs/roles they've got available.

it is too early to start talking about pay - get in first, apply for the jobs, get called for interviews, PASS, get offered the role/work contract and then you can worry about pay. keep your options open and do remember that you might have to start from the bottom and work your way up.

your Nigerian degrees won't get you far. however, your work experience (depending on the type of companies you've worked for), your level of intelligence and the skill set you possess will open doors for you.

GeneralOjukwu:


RalphLauren, my ibibiogirl is related to him or is his GF. She doesn't sound unbiased.

Yup. She is either of the two. The guy in question is from Akwa Ibom state.

GeneralOjukwu:


2012....2016.... Isn't only you? Of course, he did it![/b]

of course he did it !!!

two allegations within the space of 4 years is not just coincidence.

here is the link to the judge's sentence
http://www.scotland-judiciary.org.uk/8/1947/HMA-v-Kufre-Uwem

he actually got off lightly. the judge was actually considering a sentence of 10 years !

Mamatukwas

Apologies if I sounded crude with my initial reply. I was in a rush when I got your mention.

what are the ages of your kids?

my wife and I have two kids under the age of 3 and we both work full time. my wife works as a contractor (she is not entitled to maternity leave, etc), yet within those 3 years, she has worked all through at 3 different top firms, had two babies and kept her contracting role (she 'hides' her pregnancy and doesn't let her bosses know until a week she was due or even after delivery as she did with our second and she requests for a few weeks off). we usually have a relative around to help out for the first few months and by 3-4months, we enrol our child at nursery. so it is possible to have kids your age and work full time. I have worked with female colleagues with 3-4 young kids, yet they are working full time.

there is nothing impossible to achieve if you put your mind to it.

one of the easiest ways of stepping into the UK corporate world is by getting a job in customer service. another option is complaint handling. I have heard of a bank at Glasgow that employs a large number of people to deal with their complaints with some people earning over £300 per 10 hours shift. a few months working on such roles and then you can easily move to your desired career path or move closer to your desired career path.

does your visa come with any restriction? many permanent roles these days come with flexible working as a perk. I work with colleagues that work from home as many as 3 times a week and no - they do not have young children. many firms will also allow you to do compressed hours (work 40hours within 4 working days and have the 5th working day off). Since your husband is a doctor, you can always have his shifts arranged to suit yours (for example, he might work only all night shifts or late evening shifts during weekdays)


in addition to what have been said by iamnotconfused about nursery places/funding, the government offers 20hrs a week (it will be increased to 30hours a week in 2020) for each child aged above 3 (depending on what month of the year the child was born).these free hours are also accepted at most private nurseries. there are also 'not for profit' nurseries that charge very reasonable fees. there is usually a waiting list for such nurseries so why not look around and see if there is any around your post code and then have your kids registered. there are both cheap and expensive private nurseries. there are nurseries charging around £35 and other charging as much as £55 a day. I strongly believe that if you had sort out affordable/reliable childcare, you can get yourself a very decent/well paying job.

on the business side of things, I cant really think of anything you can do that wont involve a driving license/reasonable amount of start-up funds.

I know a lot of people are looking at cheap/non-bulky/unique items that could be bought from china (aliexpress, etc) and then sold on platforms such as amazon and ebay. I know amazon has a certain feature where they keep your goods in their warehouse and they handle delivery/returns for you in exchange of a fee. You might want to look into that option.

Mamatukwas:
Hello All!

New migrant alert here. This thread has been great, thanks a lot to all who have contributed.

Pls my perspective is slightly different. I'm a Tier5 dependent (Wife) and we all moved with our 3 children. It has honestly been unbelievably expensive and we still have not settled in a house we like.. have been doing short stay which is very expensive.

Anyhoo, we are North and even though I honestly won't be able to work for at least a year or two coz I have small children, I want to invest the time wisely doing courses etc that will allow me be immediately relevant when I'm ready. So for those with knowledge pls help your sister... which areas are perpetually hot in the U.K. especially the Scotland area. Pls note that - I have over 10 years experience in Entrepreneurial endeavors/Business management. - No passion for IT or Medical fields plus Hubby na d medic. - For now considering Social work or Project Mgt or Event Mgt (Events coz I have a passion there) but I don't know if it pays this side.

I honestly have never not contributed to the household purse and I dey pity Oga as I'm seeing how the money is vanishing.. won't even mind ideas on what I can do online at home from now to earn in the U.K. Pls oh my peeps give me ideas based on your wealth of knowledge. Many thanks.

Cc: @Ralphlauren @dupsyhoo @imconfused and all the other greats on the thread including OP.

Regards.

having 3 small kids is no excuse to be a full time housewife.

you can get a contract job and put all 3 kids in nursery.

ibibiogrl:

U are here giving your opinion of %100 LIES! AS the truth & even responding to comments.
1st Kufre was never in prison & relocated to join is wife in America since early 2017 & works for an oil company in Texas where his wife & her family lives. He has been a free man traveling with his wife all over Europe and the carribean Islands since 2016 before and after their engagement.
So you were that jealous of their wedding & feel that he alone sponsored their lavish talk of society wedding without any contribution from his Doctor of Pharmacist wife or her prominent American based extended family
Next time give your opinion on matters U have inside information about so as not to come across as a jealous gossiper online


No He Absolutely doesn't know Kufre just extremely jealous & blabbing nonsense & LIES!

Yimu.

Kokoberrie, is this you?

Who ever said he was in prison before the judge’s ruling?

Did I talk about who paid what towards his wedding? Where did I ever state that he sponsored the wedding alone ?

Who talked about his wife’s financial status ?

All you’ve done is to spill more tea online

The fact remains that he was on police bail throughout the period the case was in court. Both offences were committed in Scotland in the space of 4 years. this case was ongoing before and after his wedding.

It seems he fed you lot a pack of lies. You are in denial about the gravity of the offence.

he should thank his stars he didn’t rape anyone during his visits to America. He would have been looking at a sentence of 30years+.

However, since he’s currently at Her Majesty’s pleasure, he should be out in 3 and a half years with good behaviour.

P.s. What’s there to be jealous about a rapist and someone whose name is on the sex offender’s register

Geetrix:
Does anybody have experience with marrying an overstayer? Someone who came for Masters, but overstayed her student visa? I have a friend who is in predicament....She's overstayed for like 3years...If she leaves and gets married in 9ja and re-applies as a dependent, would her previous history reflect in the applications....could she be denied? Or if she gets pregnant and claims her visa status that way...any experiences??

If the husband to be holds British/EU citizenship, then she can return to nigeria and apply to join him on a spousal visa.

If the husband to be is on any type of visa, she should forget it. Her application will be refused outrightly and she might even be banned for a while.

Geetrix:
How do those overstayers who marry themselves do it?

They have kids, wait until when the child is aged 7-10 years and then apply for British citizenship for them. Once the kids are granted, the parents with the aid of seasoned immigration lawyers apply for discretionary leave to remain. They are usually granted. After that, they apply for indefinate leave to remain and later apply for citizenship.

wonlasewonimi:


This doesnt make sense..why would you go and get married when you have a pending rape case? Naijababe would know the guy sha...

Makes absolutely no sense.

Maybe he was 100percent certain he would be acquitted.

wonlasewonimi, get in here.

see how this guy destroyed himself

bezimo:
The way i read this story suggest, He may have been framed up.. This is so unfortunate.

two different girls CANNOT set you up for the same offence in a space of 4 years !!!

he should have learnt his lesson the first time and stayed off girls completely.

the second crime occurred in the girl's flat !!!