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Engrgabi:
Early last year i met this lady that happened to be older than me, things kicked off early and we were having fun with no serious intention for relationship. Mid of last year I met my current girlfriend and i love this girl so much.
The lady i had a fling with , got pregnant and she gave birth to a girl which i am 95% sure I am responsible. There was nothing I could do about it, getting her pregnant was the last thing I wanted with that lady, I was careless myself.
Now my current girlfriend is aware about the saga and we have had arguments about it. I have reduced communication with the lady to safe my relationship but at the same time I am thinking about the relationship with my daughter.
This morning the lady called and my girlfriend saw the call, I had to pick up . My girlfriend insisted I put the call on loudspeaker but I refused. My girl is acting up and wants us to Break up that she cant stand the baby mama sh*t. I want to know if I was wrong for refusing to put the call on loudspeaker....

threatening to breakup, is your gf ur life? if she cant understand that ur a father now you can walkaway from her and still meet another and fall in love, she can cheat on you,break ur heart and the relationship will end, shes only being insecure if you'll go back to ur babaymama, but you have to assure how that what you guys have is bond
BUT WOE

the mother of your child should come first if your gf doesnt accept her then she can leave, you have a child to care for now..if she cant understand how will the relationship work

we still dey here? abeg next news jare

55 staff nawoo tgat place must be really rowdy, why steallung no go occur, no onw to check balance na

I cheated on her severally then brokeup with her, she belonged to the streets anyways

Reason
greed, sturbonness, laziness

lol

masterfactor:
Hope they will not turn power to telemundo and zee world series.

honestly bro this book11(ghost) was just like a love series to me, I cant wait for raising kanan to premier this year

Offpoint1:
Yeah! that's what they made you believe, but such arguments can't hold water.

Those who went with their families and still ended up divorcing, that's high level of respect right?

Respect is earned and not given, being married to doesn't mean they've automatically earn my respect, they have to earn via other means.

GIVE RESPET TO WHOM RESPECT IS DUE, whatever happens or might happen between you and thier daughter is not thier fault neither is it thier business, you asked for her hand in marraige,they didn't put a gun to your head. It is left for the couples to either fixup the marraige or walkaway.

Since you have decided to buy the cow, then you do right by the cow

AngelicDamsel:
Amaka: They found out when I stood and urinated and it came out like tap. How did my mother think that she could know this through urine.

have we met before

no stories..here

next

Offpoint1:
I don't intend bypassing it, I intend to CHANGE it.

You cnt neglect the counsel of the elders, it means you dont have respect for her parents, making thier daughter like a cheap commodity but if you go wit ur people it aknowledges that you honor her family

wait o vickym1 bress small oh ,

but E go shock say if u remove bra, na watermelon go showcase

pussy ass niggaa

Ekehwinz:
Not again!

YES

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lefulefu:
ladies that make u draw close to them cos of their intelligence are good for normal friends..as in friend zone things.friend zone is not a bad thing though in nl we always make it seem as something bad.if u want to be doing romantic relationship or marriage with a woman that u just like her intelligence and nothing physical attracts you to her u will certainly cheat on her o.

your right no doubt,a woman has to be appealing to attact a mate, then what bout the offsprings?
An offspring has to be the best of the former generation in terms of surviving, last time I checked beauty is not a prequisite but an asset

butterflies get drawn to beautiful flower but if theres no nectar it will fly away, then next will come and go,and the cycle continues.

I will go for beauty in my youthful days for philandering, for as many as my eyes can behold, but when it comes to for contuintuity, I cant settle for a beautiful but dumb and slow female and watch my kids struggle to spell thier names, comon nw

Zzor:
Beauty fades but its permanently inscribed on the offsprings, beauty can take a lady very far in life without stress,I wish I can tell the story of my greatgrandma here but nairalanders are terrible people

beauty is aplus for a woman but beauty without content(intelligence) Is wasteful

Intelligence is needed for success in todays world especially Nigeria if ur not born with a silver spoon

hey guys just discovered this thread

News spoilers for y'all

ghost had a twin

As effie was to tariq, so was monet to ghost back then( a fling) in the drug game

hmm

I've only had 2dates outdoors the rest in my bedroom, so i can bang sharperly and move on, feel me?
first date the bitch was overbilling me,table full yet she no fit finish am, I change for am that day,
laslas we share the bill 15k each.

second date, she was overtalking more like blabbering, bout her makeup,hair,etc. but yet I sat through it, after everything she no gree me enter promise land. E pain me die

So I decided never again will I do outdoor dates,ever.

dochenaj:
You realize your post also makes you the same as the "simps" you're berating.

I didnt quote her I only passed a message to the guy I quoted

Righteousness2:
Get wisdom! In all thy Gettings, get Understanding!

bros too savage kai

Tectono:
Bankers are the ones that aid money laundering and fraud. Check out my signature if you are interested in making millions of naira from export trade.

explain how?

zzor i wish not to make that decision to choose btw beauty &brain but if am to make that choice I will go for brain for the future of my kids, why you may ask? because beauty fades

k

Zzor:
You see young men and their wahala abi,I will just vex and marry one of these chiefs hovering around me after all Shade Okoya,Bianca Ojukwu,Regina Daniels did it and didn't regret

cc richmond500 can you see this bloodyhoe, considering dating her papa agemate

nexttime you try counter me, I wont go easy with you, bloody simp

SanctifiedSista:
Short women are one of the most intelligent and patient women on earth

short woman spotted

oshey advocate of heaven