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Mayb because I dnt carryout any transactn on my fbn acct, it has been an average of N12 4 several months nw

Airforce1:
So today I took my niece to go play with her mates at Sweet sensation children funfair in my crib..
She was so happy playing with her mates and I on the other side keeping an eye on her got carried away by the thought of not having enough love by that man that called himself my father back in the days as a kid.

I remember my dad beating me up at every slightest provocation even on children's day.

He is a bad man
I remember catching him with a strange woman while momma was away
But he fucking deceived me she was his course mate back in university.

What made me hate him more was the day he flogged me in the presence of my child hood girl friend .
I can't forget that day.
He messed me up so badly that I had to run to momma to ask if that man was actually my father.

I hate him with passion.

Till these present day that I'm grown up , I don't even call him , I don't care about him... I only care about mom because she gave me confidence , showed me love and treat me right .


So to the parents reading my story, you've got to be not just mom and dad to your children , you've got to be friends with them too so they don't go online and write my kind of story about you when they became adults.


Thanks for reading.
Airforce!

May I ask wu saw thru sch or u stl in sch? Fees wise

seunwen2:
Just finished my service this year and have been able to secure a job in a private school, studied physics though, but my pay this month is 20k. I just dey think when will i be able to buy land and do many things of life?

Do u wanna make teachin a profession? Jst start wit dt while u search 4 better jobs. At least u won't hv to beg 4 money 4 tfare to attend an interview and all dt. You u hv money to take care of fundamental expenses, nt being a burden or nuisance to any1. It wl only get better

Josegun:
I wonder what is their problem with subsidy, they should allow that sector to run on its own with little regulations and watch the price crashed. Telecommunication is a good case study and it's still crashing.

Telcoms too far, hv u ever heard of diesel scarcity?

So surprised abt dis wit d negativ comments abt gtb transfers, I always use it and it has neva failed me at least as at yestdy afternun, I stl used it. So it failed u doesn't mean its a failed system, its lik catchin a thief and condemin his whole family as thieves, that's wt we do in ds part of d world anyways, we use one person's xter or behaviour to judge his family, clan, tribe, village, state, country mayb race too wu knws

SuperSkata:
Thank you for the advice my people. I don dump am!

If she didn't tell u, no way u wld hv knwn. I beliv she has really chngd by openin up to u, mayb u shld'v lookd @ it 4m dt point of view

After keepin dm 4 so long, now u gat to break one's heart, whr do u want her to begin 4m? U knw if these types naked swear 4u, e dey come to pass. For mi OYO lo wa oo

teewai3:
kinda

Obviously #introvert anyway

excellence44:
this description fits me very well.are you that my GF?

Really, girls like talking so whats d bs with him being quiet. Anyways some of us like listening than ranting. To understand us always ask questions dont assume for us.

Tru dt, its as simple as dt

teewai3:
What you’ll slowly start to appreciate is that introversion is deeply rooted in someone’s psychology; it’s not something one can change overnight, and it should be something you want to change overnight..
What I mean by this is that what you give off in terms of your vibe and energy is often what you get back in social interactions. If you want him to be more expressive and passionate, you have to initiate it in the relationship. You have to share things that are more intimate than what you normally share, and what you will find is that he will reciprocate in return.

Gbam! U must b an introvert to knw ds or speakin 4m experience

[quote


author=Elxandre post=45047363]Many Nigerians have complex issues, and are quite insane.

They always see needless reasons to look down on people from some other side of a divide.

I understand that many are agitated by the high cost of schooling in a Private institution, but even I can't afford it right now, and it still wouldn't make me dismiss them as substandard.

People call themselves educated, but still think attending Uni in a school with abominable Toilet and Bathrooms is a standard which defines how 'toughened up' you are.

What exactly have you done special in your public Uni?
Any notable research, discoveries?
What is interesting about the sadistic Lecturers that fill up these universities?

The funny thing is there are even better polished students in private institutions, since a large group of the students are from middle to upper class families.
(take it from someone who has first hand knowledge on both)

I have several Public uni students/graduates on my Facebook timeline, who can't even make a proper sentence devoid of spelling or grammatical errors, yet we keep hearing tales of how 'bright' they are.

This is not to support either of private or public unis. It was written to point out the fact that a superiority battle is needless in this Nigerian environment where even the professors are just paper certified, with no notable research or visible impact made with their supposed scholarly prowess.

Also remember that there are good and bad public and private universities.

An example is FUNAAB which has excellent hostels, bathroom, toilets, study rooms etc, while even those bigger pedigrees have abominable facilities. (UNILAG and co).[/quote]Sometimes I wonder y blame is put on d higher institutns wn some undergraduates or graduates make errors when constructing senences. Wt concerns d uni or poly abt ds? Is dt whr we were taught hw to read, write n understand Eng lang? If d foundatn is poor I.e d pry n secondary schs, it can't b correctd in d higher institutn. Ma opinion though

Slimbideb:
OMG!! I blame your level of Understanding oooo!!!! Simple topic to understand is now a mighty topic for you to understand..

Pardon him, he simply misunderstood d topic

How many sch fees can u voluntier to pay in a private uni or poly, I mean hw many prospective studnts can u afford to sponsor into these private institutns? Even if jst 1,dts wn ur post wl mke some sense cos I dnt knw hw u want an average teacher, or fish seller or mechanic or a petty trader and d lkes with 2 or more children to snd their wards to private higher institutns.

Too much testosterone in her body. I pray she doesn't bring forth any female offspring, I beliv u knw my reasons

SmartMugu:
I don't t
hink it's going to fall. I've been looking at the picture for about an hour, it hasn't fallen yet. Still looking. I'll keep everyone updated. The picture should change when the tractor falls. I'll watch the whole day to see how this ends.

Guy, u go need see una family doctor asap

Jeffy1206:
It's simple, stay with your boss since he value your worth by swiftly increasing all your benefits... The devil you know is better than the Angel you've not seen... I like people who start from the very beginning. Stay put!!!

If he truly values his worth, y did he wait to increase his allowances wen he felt threatened of losing him. He didn't say anytin abt d benefits n allowances of d lag offer, wit dt 1 cld make beta conclusions

U dnt know hw to tell her u love her or ask 4 her friendship, dt means una neva enta talkin terms. Out of curiousity hw u get her no?

He spends on u, buys u gifts etc, u collect these tins yet u say u givin him attitude, hmmm d story no correlate somhw bt nt to worry, ur hubby go do am 4 1 babe or more as person husband dey do am 4u

Hadez:
Please tell the underaged girl arguing with me oh

U knw dere's no age limit ere on NL, u won't get ur desired arguments especially on d oppositn. To me I see nothin wrong in it bt d issue is d maturity on d guy's part and also his mentality in stuffs like ds.

How expensive are these procedures u talkin abt, is it wat an average family can afford? 25% chance of having an ss child on evry normal pregnancy. D guilt, pain, stress etc of havin 1 dey say is enuf to kill dt love, care, affectn dt u dnt wanna lose.its nt a situatn u wanna find ursef trust mi

Delete his number, block his social netwrk contacts wit u so u @least knw u nt expectin any msg 4m him. Then u really hv 2 get busy wit somtin, somtin dt wl occupy ur mind. If u dnt hv a job or a student,mayb u shld take up a vocational trainin, dt alone u gonna kill 2 birds wit a stone as in creatin an extra stream of income in future while gettin ur mind off him. U gonna be fine, its jst a matter of time,dts if u let it be

Since we all give him attention, hence he always has somthin 2 say. Ignore him n see if he wl continue making noise

I'm 30th

Thank you Jesus

If it was suicide, y arrest d man n jail him? Does som1 suffer if anoda kills his or herself?

Ds is so unnecessary as if u can do all things humanly. Is it a crime to hlp or teach her hw to go abt it?

Sex isn't d only reason guys walk away 4m a relatnshp, some other factors do causes it though nt coverin up 4 d guy if truely u knw wt u sayin. I hv walked away 4m 1 too without even touchin her. Bt u shld check ursef too $ hv it in mind dt a relatnshp aint a 1way traffic

MRBrownJ:
there is a very BIG difference between assistance, and paying a gf (for whatever she demands).
why dont you ASSIST her by getting her a JOB, or ASSIST her by helping her manage her finances better, or better yet ASSIST her by teaching her how to live within her MEANS?! why does your "assistance" must always be in MONETARY form?! giving a woman money/gifts for no damn reason doesnt solve anything. you need to evaluate the problem and solve the issue maturely. if your gf always requires monetary help then SHE has a problem that is bigger than money and therefore seek for the root of the issue instead of foolishly throwing money at her, because guess what? you aint solving anything, you are just turning into a very foolish ATM.

a man should ONLY offer a gift, when HE believes that his partner DESERVES one. the minute it is a requirement in order to stay in that r/ship then you have FAILED!!!!

Good thinkin bro

tosyne2much:
What's also my gf's joy if I'm not well taken care of?

Good question, I believe d spending shld b mutual not one way.

CivilzedTyger:
How are you so sure?

Got closer to some of dm

CivilzedTyger:
Their age is also a deep secret they hardly reveal

Not all, @ least non of d ones I hv met

08030471711, Serious mature gals pls