desreek9: Please take time to read this, I really need your advice.
I am a working mother of four kids (2 sets of twins) been married since 2012; I and my husband communicate well, our sex life is great (we explore diff. styles) and I make sure everyone is contented and satisfied or so i thought. How i found out he was cheating
I noticed I didn't see my period for two months which is weird, I checked if i was with child but it was negative, before then I noticed burning feeling when i pee and pains so i decided to see a doctor, that was how i received the greatest shock of my life. I was told i had STD, I was in shock, crying and shaking cos i know i got it from my husband, was told to do an HIV test.
After the longest wait of my life and vomiting due to anxiety and panic, it was negative. Three months later was still negative, I went home thinking of ways to kill my husband. Later that night i first asked him if he was cheating he blatantly denied but when i showed him the test result, he was dumbfounded and started begging, i asked him why with tears rolling down my eyes, he couldn't give any reason because he knows everything was great btw us, i told him we would never make love anymore that i can't risk my life because of sex, he was begging me saying he would change, i told him i can never trust him cos once a cheat, always a cheat.
My people, it's over a year and we've not had sex, he can't chase me away from the house because we both built it and the land is in my name, sometimes he comes home late but i really don't care since we have separate bedroom. He said he can't leave because he will have to tell his and my people but he doesn't want the embarrassment.
Apart from all these, every other aspect is great at home, so my question is this; is my decision too harsh or am i justified?
Hasty decision. Should have tested him first. You can get STD from other sources (poor hygiene). Your vagina is next door to your urethra and anus. Both are powerhouses for e.coli and proteus. If you had gono or syphilis, then you can hang the man on a cross. If he hesitated to get tested, then you can make your conclusions. Anyway, hope you sort things out fast before it turns violent someday
solasoulmusic: Your hand is swelling especially the left side and I can see the bone has shifted sending healing and prayers your way also see if you can apply some ointment or ice pack to the affected area do you have any pain still ?
I can recommend a good physiotherapist
Not a swelling. It is a growth plate injury. His distal radius has stopped growing while his distal ulna is still growing because he has not reached skeletal maturity.
On June 3, 2017, I fractured my left wrist in a minor accident.
4 days later, I went to the orthopaedic hospital & they placed POP on it.
On July 21, 2017. The POP was removed & I could see my hand very tiny compared to the right hand. But as time goes on it keeps looking healthier just like the right hand. The doctor recommended some drugs for me (which I'm still taking till today)
I visit the hospital every time for my checkup. But the doctor keeps telling me that the wrist is still undergoing CONSOLIDATION stage.
This is my major concern... My wrist which I highlighted in the below pics, is that how it'll look deformed or what?
What could be the exact problem?
You had a bone break that affected your growth plate. Nothing the doctor could have done except explain that risk to you earlier. The fracture must have affected your distal radius growth plate but not your distal ulna. So your radius has stopped growing while your radius is still growing. It may get worse until you reach skeletal maturity (16 to 18 years old). After that, if the deformity affects how you use the wrist, you can get a corrective surgery to fix it. If you can use it effectively, forget any surgery and just ignore the bump. Can you post a picture of the wrist from another angle (camera looking straight at your opened palm and wrist)
ChangeIsCostant: Some Nigerian police officers were spotted drinking beer at a motor park in Onitsha, Anambra state. Facebook user Udechukwu, who shared the photos online, revealed that the policemen who were on duty - drank with area boys and conductors in the park.
Explorers: Images of a romantic encounter between two male lions in Kenya's Masai Mara has upset the country's 'moral police' who has blamed gay men visiting the national park for 'influencing' the animals' behaviour.
Dr Ezekiel Mutua, who is responsible for TV and film censorship in Kenya, has called for the two lions in question to be caught and kept in isolation until scientists can 'determine how they acquired homosexual behaviour'.
Despite the fact that homosexuality among lions has been observed for decades, Dr Mutua is convinced that the lions would either have spotted gay men having sex in front of them, or been possessed by demons.
Angelanest: A tragedy was averted today in Lagos due to the prompt intervention by Lagos State Emergency Management Agency (LASEMA) Response Unit following a multiple accident involving some vehicles and a container truck along Ikorodu Road. The intervention by the emergency officials led to the rescue of 9 lives including a family of five (father, mother and three girls and others)...
The NPA set up a department to rent out or even sell container straps to these clueless idiots that continue to dump their unrestrained containers on people. I would insist that every loaded container leaving the port must be restrained. By the time they gross in so much money, the FRSC and Customs will start fighting over that responsibility.
ThuGnificenX: it itches her crazy, and painful too. She fell and her ankle was slashed by the sharp edge of tiles on the stairs.
It's been going on for over a year.. Sometimes it totally dries up , some days later it gets wet again. She complains that it burns inside, I physically placed on hands on it and the temperature was high..
Sounds like chronic cellulitis. As already suggested, take her to LUTH to see an infectious disease specialist or even a general physician. They may put her on an extended period of antibiotics. Not your regular 'chemist' antibiotics. The more you self-medicate her, the more drug-resistant the causative organism becomes.
[quote author=niqqaclaimz post=62004965][/quote]1. Brush and FLOSS your teeth twice a day (chewing stick or toothbrush/paste) 2. Drink plenty of water 3. Rinse your mouth with water (not coke) after a meal 4. Rinse your mouth with mouthwash after brushing
PrettyCrystal: Pictured is a 4-year-old girl identified as Favour Lawal who was born without the anus. According to reports, the little girl who excretes from an opening below her abdominal region, is said to have lost her mother, leaving her 7 year old brother to take care of her while their Iron Bender dad Mr. Abimbola Lawal who is always at work.
According to reports, Favour’s issue have deprived her brother education because he needs to always be with her. Their father have severally been sent home from sites because of her persistent stooling, which he must abandon his duties take care of.
The young girl is set undergo a surgery which will enable her have a real anus.
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ThuGnificenX: She fell and injured her leg last year. The injury healed but afterwards the leg started decaying now it has spread to the other leg in the same position. The doctors at the general hospital has run series of tests including diabetes which they confirmed her blood sugar is okay. We haven't seen anything like this before. Please can someone help with a drug that can help. She has been on antibiotics and other drugs ever since.
What type of injury did she have? Broken bones? Was she in a cast? Does this itch? Is it painful? How long has it been going on? Does she have decreased sensation in her legs? Is she on any medication for any ailment currently?
frustratedrat: i'm short-tempered. I probably inherited that trait from my dad. Due to the way my dad handled his affairs, my mum was plunged into penury. Currently living with her. The situations of the past has made her bitter. She complains about everything.
I open the pot to take my meal, she raises her voice, i come back empty-handed, she runs me down as being a leech. I lie flat without touching anything, she comes back complaining of so many things. When she starts, i find myself exchanging words with her.
I feel bad afterwards but the cycle continues once she makes me pesky again. how do i salvage this situation? Sometimes, i'm pushed to the edge that my frustration about her slander and my predicament makes me wanna hit her.
You open the pot to take your meal
Whose pot? Whose meal? You seem to have been asleep for far too long. You have been sucking your mother's breast for far too long. You need someone to wake you up and fast too. How about you try this: go and sleep under the bridge for one week, and then come back and hit your mother if you still have a hand left on you by then.
InyinyaAgbaOku: It's not his fault. It's fault of Muslim immigrants. If Trump had restricted it to Islamic nations, theu would have said he is Islamophobic. So, he made it general.
See, don't blame him. If Buhari had done the same thing and tightened our borders, we wouldn't be hearing that Fulani herdsmen are from Libya.chad and co. He can't stand and watch radicals wipe off his country.
Radicals including the one in las vegas that killed over 50 and maimed over 300.
Angelanest: A serving Police officer serving under the Delta State Command Asaba, Inspector James Ani, has cried out for help following a fatal motor accident he was involved in while embarking on a journey to Asaba from Agbor to resume his duty, with the intention of participating in the governorship primary election on the 6th of December 2014.
The accident which occurred at Ekwoma left Inspector Ani in terrible condition, as his left leg was divided into two, from his thighs, and a piercing around the ankle area of the same leg. Speaking to an Ika Weekly Newspaper Reporter at his residence in Agbor on Thursday 19th October 2017, Inspector Ani said, ever since the accident which occurred in 2014, he has been abandoned by both the Nigerian Police Force and the Delta State Government whom he has served for over seventeen (17) years.
In his words, “after the accident, a signal was raised to my office at Asaba. I was taken to Kefas Hospital Umunede for treatment, and later taken to the orthopedic home (traditional healers) also at Umunede Delta State.” “Since then, I have been treating myself with my meager salary, which is not enough to take care of my treatment. I nearly lost my right leg, it divided into two. I have been looking for assistance to get quality treatment. I am still in active duty; I have not received any form of welfare or assistance from the Nigerian Police Force, not even from the office where I work directly.
I need help, I owe the Doctor treating me a huge amount of money, and I need to go for further treatment to bring my leg back to a normal condition. It has not been easy taking care of my treatment on my meager salary and I can no longer afford it.
According to him, he did not raise alarm since 2015 he has been at home, with the hope that the Police force will come to his aid, haven informed them of the condition which he found himself , adding that he can no longer bear to die in silence.
Inspector Ani a married man with three kids who are all in school lamented his state of neglect, saying that he has been in pain treating himself while paying his children's School fees, paying his house rent and PHCN bills, all from his salary.
“Since 2015 I came out of the hospital, I have been at home, going to take treatment from home, and now they can no longer treat me. I appeal to Governor Ifeanyi Okowa and other well meaning Nigerians to come to my aid, either through cash for my treatment, or by taking me to a hospital where I can be treated. All that matters to me now is for my leg to get back to normal”.
Sorry for him. In solidarity for their comrade in need, all the police in Delta state will dedicate tomorrow as operation road block to save leg and donate all their road block collections, extortions and proceeds to Inspector Ani to take care of his leg.
Kolababe: According to a hilarious story that's gone viral on many Kenyan blogs. This man posted a photo of his and his wife after sex and the comments that followed will leave you speechless Kenyans trolled him and his wife, saying his wife's chest looks like that of a man. Most of the comments are in Kenyan language but you can easily tell that the man and his wife encountered hell in the hands of the trolls...
Towncrier247: A 34 year-old female soldier who made headlines for cheating with her neighbour's son has eloped to the neighbour's son.
There was commotion when Eulogy Jaya went to her lover Lovemore Nyamukapa, 24's home with her belongings before his mother refused to accept the married woman.
Eulogy was forced to pack by her husband John Simbi after she gave birth to a baby identical to Lovemore leaving the flight sergeant with no option other than eloping to a man 10 years younger than her, impeccable sources told H-Metro.
"I want to believe that Eulogy is regretting bedding her neighbour's son because it cost her nekuda kwekusakudzikana nemurume wake chete," said the source.
Contacted for comment Lovemore's mother Mbuya Nyamukapa threatened to commit suicide if the story sees the light of the day confirming the incident.
"The issue has emotionally affected me that if you publish it this will UnCloth me to the point that taking my life will be better," said Mbuya Nyamukapa.
"It is disheartening to learn that my neighbours are ever informing you about my family zvichireva kuti mucamp medu munevanhu vanemukuhwa musadaro mukuwasha inyaya inonyadzisa iyi ndapota zvangu musaibudisa zvakare," she said.
Eulogy's illicit affair with Lovemore came to light after their photographs kissing each other leaked to John and unconfirmed reports were that her maid was behind the leakage after she clashed with her.
In an interview with H-Metro on the first story, John confirmed discovering the photographs saying he has since resolved the matter and forgiven Eulogy.
His forgiveness might have been waiting for the birth of the child since the photographs were discovered the time Eulogy was expecting.
Eulogy and John could not be reached for comment after H-Metro was denied entry into the Manyame Airbase Camp.
kirajustice: Embattled Ex-pensions boss, Abdulrasheed Maina is seen in the video below saying that he is not a thief and narrating his side of the story.
Maina says he is in possession of documents that will expose the level of corruption in Nigeria. He called on Nigerians not to believe the rumours about him, saying that he never stole N195 billion and alleging that N300 million was being stolen every day.
The time or date of the interview could not be ascertained but it is believed to have been taken during the period he went into hiding.
LifestyleTonite: Below are pictures showing Warri Billionaire, Ayiri Emami at the wedding of Bukola Saraki's daughter.
Chief Ayiri Emami, on his first outing as the Ologbotsere of Warri Kingdom (prime minister), represented the Olu of Warri, Ogiame Ikenwoli, at the wedding.
Tosin, the daughter of Senate President, Bukola Saraki, got married to her husband, Adeniyi Olatunde Olukoya at an event which took place at the prestigious Eko Hotel and Suites in Lagos .
Ayiri Emami took the opportunity to greet some dignitaries present at the event. He was pictured greeting the Ooni of Ife and the Oba of Lagos who were both seated beside each other thereby quelling any rumors of a feud between both kings.
He was also pictured greeting Chief Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Senator Remi Tinubu, Senator Dino Melaye, Aliko Dangote and Senate President Bukola Saraki.
Letenwam: A beautiful lady and Facebook user, DeAsia Symone, shared photos of herself taking an overdose of drugs as she claimed that her time is up and she doesn't want to live anymore.
DeAsia went further to say that she's better off alone and doesn't need anyone to come look for her. Here are some of her heartbreaking posts;
Word on the street that she survived. In hospital. Had a bad breakup with her boyfriend Falonnzo Silas (Dreadhead Falonnzo). It is unfortunate how people especially zoo Nigerians have besieged her page, taunting her left, right and center instead of consoling her.
Stop enriching your millionaire jet-age pastors who do not give a f*^% about what happens to you as long as the offering plate is full each week. Send a fraction of that 10% tithe to someone who has been working silently in our midst to cater to the innocent and blameless children that fellow Nigerians have rejected and cast out in the streets as witches and wizards. Her name is Anja Ringgren Loven. Her works speak for themselves. She is doing what Jesus would have done in his days.
GLeesMODEL: [sub][/sub]The bill titled “Not Too Young To Run” initiated by Hon. Tony Nwulu, which bothers on youth involvement in governance and leadership has indeed gotten the nods of several youth agencies and social groups as one of the few bills that encapsulates the plights of youths and promotes the feats which youths can achieve.
Amongst other proactive engagements and constituency projects of Hon. Tony Nwulu, the House of Rep Member Representing Isolo/Oshodi Constituency in Lagos State, “Not Too Young To Run Bill” seeks to extract the resources hidden in the strengths of youth vibrancy, as well as the peak of intellectual exploration in youth-hood.
Several youths have embraced this bill and arrangements are being concluded to promote the acceptance of this bill in some other states, so as to establish a soft landing for youths in politics and leadership, says his media aide during a cross section with journalists at Abuja youth summit event.
However, as the people of Isolo/Oshodi constituency treks boldly into the visionary promiselands built by Hon. Nwulu through the several ongoing projects in the constituency, which cuts across human resource development, redefining the availability of social amenities and other innovative programs in the constituency, may his sacrifices for youths and Nigerians be written in gold.
Health › Re: See How My Wrist Looks Like 5 Months After Wrist Fracture, Is It Normal? by Rhea: 7:43pm On Nov 05, 2017
