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Very impressive! Takes great deal of discipline to achieve this!

Marry better person, dem no go hear, dem go dey follow street urchins because dem see small change for him hand, worse still this woman will not speak out!

ikeno:
when i met my girlfriend last year our sex drive was at the top of mount everest.in fact, we can't get enough of each other we do it 3-4 times a day at any slight opportunity.but recently my sex drive has nosedive like the price of crude oil and she is accusing me of getting my satisfaction somewhere else.i don't know if it's the fear covid19,the lockdown or being indoor for weeks,i just don't have the urge anymore.

Bros, it's just ur body calling for rest from sex! Am sure if u give it time, ur body will get back to normal!

IANAGI:
Ogade everyone has done something foolish in his life stop claiming holy, bcuz ur own sin was not written in the post.

Why don't u leave anybody that wants to be foolish because of kpekus? It's their cup of tea! Try to undo ur own foolishness.
The danger in ur post is that it may discourage those who want to genuinely help somebody!
Just like u said, everyone has done something foolish in his life, so why come here and talk like u are smarter than every other person?

Some foolish men, after realizing how foolish they have been, they will now come here and be writing poems and rhymes!

AIT1:
For those saying we will have a spike in the figures in two weeks time, you all will be DISAPPOINTED!

Bros u ain't seen nothing! With all these almajiris spreading the virus upandan! Nigeria is just yet to get to her peak, the next 2-4wks will open our eyes and I pray it's not too late then! Kano is paying dearly for her ignorance now! Let's just watch!

With due respect bro, ur father will continue to lazy around as long as he sees free food to eat everyday not minding if u guys have eaten or not! And ur mum shud continue to stay if she wants to die young and not reap the fruit of her labour! U really need to bundle her out of there if u care abt her or else I pray make that man no use am for money rituals one-day!

Guy, if all u have said is anything to go by, then ur wife has not done well! If she cannot take care of the girl, then the girl should be returned to where she came from. U need to be careful with this situation because when this story gets to ur wife's family, they will garnish the story so much that u will turn a bad person before them!
Bros use ur head!

Whenever there is any form of distress on the economy, banks is one of the first institutions that take the hit! That's why I never liked bank jobs and I don't envy them! I wish them luck as they are thrown back into the already congested labour market!

I wonder if the president doesn't read or listen to news regardless of what his advisers have been telling him! If the infection rates skyrockets (which is apparently what is going to happen) does this president have the wherewithal (professional and common sense) to do the right thing? I certainly do not think so!

Say wetin happen na? Nigba ti Ori e o buru!

Bros, u really f*cked up! You were too blind to see that you were only a means to an end for the girl! Just forget her go back to ur wife beg her, show her love and u will gain her love back but u may never gain her trust again! Good luck!

Bops! I don't see how u can look past that which Sha has told you abt her past! That kinda of thing will always remain in ur heart! However, since u said she has been a good girl since u met her, ifu really love her then let go of that thought and move on with her.
Do u also think if she gets to know d details of ur escapades with ur ex, she will be happy? Of course not!
The only mistake she made is sti keeping the guys memories in her device! That's a big red flag cos if u have gotten over somebody, then u need to erase that person completely, she doesn't seem to havedone that!

Nigerian govt in their usual manner have started playing politics with this pandemic! If truely the numbers are increasing as we have seen, lifting partial it total lifting of the lockdown should not be an option right now! The govt should have focused on cushioning the effective of the lockdown on the masses!
We might just be heading for a disaster with this clueless govt!!!

TonyeBarcanista:
Funny!

For me no experience! I don't chat nor reconnect with ex. I blank them off my life after breakup. No hate, No love, no likeness.

I feel u bro! May not be the best way to go but one cannot allow these girls that refuse to move on put sand inside ones garri!

Bros, u no get problem, pls forget abt the girl and double ur hustle. Every designer u know today started as a tailor! By the time EFCC start to run after those guys, na u dem go call come help them then! Give urself brain!

You should thank ur stars that he is not even going outside ur marriage to get it! What u should do is have a heart to heart talk with him and u guys reach a compromise. His libido may be in overdrive while urs is low but u guy shud be able to have a meeting point. Good luck.

When a girl does not have a mind of her own, she will easily be influenced by others! If u don't stand for something, u fall for everything! Guy leave her and let her go but double ur Hussle, I tell u in no distant time she will see babes flock around u and then u will laugh last!

After abusing ur mothers and father's, u now came back and said God bless us all! How can God bless u after u have cursed so much with ur terrible grammar? Take note that until the Nigerian society changes for the better we can never have good leaders cos the leaders we have come from the corrupt society!

I'll be here when Kanye west goes bankrupt because of Kim! Then y'all will know these Kardashians are gold diggers!

Location?

StennyB:
Its better he let's her go cause she isn't ready to commit to one guy.

Had one roommate who told tall tales to the guy she was dating. At d same time she would invite different guys over to our apartment. Turns out she had like 2 boyfriends and many side guys lol but keeps on lying to everyone. I couldn't even stay in d apartment for long.
How many casual male friends can a girl have?

@op your friend should find someone else

Thanks bro for the comment.

MARX77:
Permit me to list a few things

1. As a guy, dating a student is like having a chicken u rear and leaving your chicken to roam about, prepare to find it in someone's soup someday.

2. Guys that spend money UNNECESSARILY on students in the name of she's my girlfriend, hear this... Learn to make these girls EARN it, you WORKED for your money, stop giving it to undeserving girls...and for the ladies if by earn you think I mean sex, then ur brain is void of sense.

3. Sometimes Bleep second chances, people know exactly what they do.

4. If I dey date you and you dey ALWAYS run go answer call for outside, lol... One day you'd go outside to make call and I'd tell you not to bother coming in. Just GO from there, FOREVER.

5. it's Nigeria guys, too much forgiveness is now a sign of weakness, keep forgiving them for the same things over and over again cos u be deputy Jesus. On a good day, when they've run out of taste for you, they'd drop u like cloth when don fade. BE A MAN AND TAKE ACTION WHEN NEEDED.

My advice: Don't break up with her, just leave her for the relationship make she dey date herself. When she ready to settle down, tell her you didn't think she was serious about the relationship.

Brothers in the house, LET'S BE GUIDED. MAY WE NOT BE UNFORTUNATE.

**I'm out**

I say amen to that bro. Thanks for the comment.

Poseidon000:
Well, going out to pick call is nothing. The call may be family issue that might be embarrassing if discussed openly, taken that you were with your friend(her boyfriend) when the call came in.

Conversely, If I should pretend to ingest the twaddle of an excuse she gave on the married man. Then I'll diagnose it as express indictment on her. See, you get to know a lot about people just looking at their past, because it tell you much about their propensity as a person. If she haven't got respect for marriage institution that is predicated on loyalty, how then do you expect loyalty from her, when she have lost her capacity for the sublime on fidelity.

Bro, it's inutile for me to also hammer on her misadventures on badoo. Isn't it overt like the sun? No matter how well you take care of a pig(not demeaning her, just using a convenient idiomatic expression), it will still run back to the murk at every given opportunity.

I really feel sorry for your friend, because people like him who are drunk in the delusion of love, are almost impossible to reason with until their whole world come crashing before their nose.

Nuff said

Very well said bro, thanks so much!

daddytime:
My grouse with Goddy is his not taking, accepting responsibility for his shortcomings or owning up to his misdeeds, confessing, and truly repenting from them. Instead, he is still trying to sell a phantom story of how prayers got him his bloody wealth.

This one na people wey dem Dele dey "Ovate" up and down those days. Only God knows if Bob Dee will puck his calls these days.

Dude is a crackhead now.

Crime pays not indeed.

I saw this post after checking u out following a comment u made on my post. I know this dude personally. This dude had been doing drugs since way back! Anthonia left his sorry ass cos of this drug thing cos she knew it would wreck him! I agree with u that he doesn't like to take responsibility for any of his actions, he has always been like that!

Fidelismaria:






Your friend girlfriend is an OLOSHO
baddo is a mobile app for OLOSHOS
So she's an OLOSHO


So tell your friend to dump her ASAP cause he's simply a means to an end for the girl

I appreciate ur comment sir.

elmagnifico411:
Op, tell your guy to save himself while he still can.. going by what you’ve written, that girl is cheating. Badoo is not a site u just meet and talk to people only, it’s a dating site. I may be wrong oh, but most times, ladies u see on dating sites are the ones that are not into any serious relationship.

Another thing is, no matter how old and matured a student is, me cannot date one. Things would always happen behind.

Lastly, if her hands are clean, she wouldn’t be running out to take her calls. Most women are not good at hiding when they are cheating. Tell your guy to wise up.

Thanks for the advice sir.

daddytime:
You are obviously the person in question here, but it matters not if you admit so or not.

The truth is, you are helping to train someone's fiancee or even wife through school.

If you're going it for love's sake and you feel you have a future with her, gently refrain and save yourself any further surprises and heartbreak. But if you feel you want to learn the art of philanthropy through her, do not relent, continue and God will reward you.

Praise they Lord.

For the records it's not me! I certainly have no reason to say it's my friend when it's me! Secondly, I am happily married, this guy in question is more like my younger brother and I don't want to outrightly tell him the girl is bad news. Thirdly I would not date a girl that has so much secret or so many things to hide, the red flags are too many, I don't have that patience!

femmoy:


number one you are the person and not ur friend. you will not get my advice until you say the truth.

Bros, am not a baby if it was me why would I come here and say my friend? Besides I am happily married but the guy is looking to marry the girl in question, so I intend to show him comments from here to save him the stress of marrying the wrong person!!!

I wish to get Nairalanders advise on this relationship issue.

I have a friend who is more like my younger brother. We are close because we speak same language and he is a level,-headed guy.
This friend of mine is Yoruba (I am too) but has a girlfriend that is from Akwa Ibom whom he loves so much. The lady is a student. Although she started school when her mates have all graduated and are already working, but that notwithstanding, she still has the zeal to want to go to school.

This my friend supports the girl in every way he can, sometimes going out of his way to please her.

The issue is that the girl oftentimes will not pick her calls when with my friend, or sometimes steps out to pick her call or she speaks her language knowing vthat my friend does not understand the language. This girl has been caught once when my friend looked into her phone and saw all manners of messages between her and numerous men but she claimed they are just friends she met on Badoo. She begged and begged then that she doesn't have anything to do with those men.
Another thing is that the girl had told my friend about a married guy she dated before meeting him, according to her she stopped seeing the married guy immediately she met my friend because she loves my friend.

The suspicion now is that it looked so much like she is still seeing the married man or perhaps she is seeing other men. What I saw that gave me some concern was that we were all together recently and the girl just dashed out all of a sudden to go pick a call, the move was very suspicious. I just had to calm my friend down that day because he really wanted to explode that day.

If you were in my shoes what kind of advice would you give this my guy?

Bros, you have apparently been used. It is one of those things. I will strongly advise you to channel your energies towards graduating first. Then stop wasting your time and resources on someone that will not become anything for in future! I wish you the best!