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Family › Re: Domestic Violence From Women by Richy4(m): 1:23pm On Jan 17, 2023
It's up to you buddy... But I will not take back a woman who intentionally go out in the night, striped herself naked and place a curse on me...
What is she really coming back to do? to finish me off?...her actions in my opinion is major.. and I am better off without that kind of person...

Assuming she was running her mouth normally like some ladies were blessed with,... I would have said that she said whatever curse she pronounced out of anger.. the extra mile she went to do what she did shows that she got evil intentions...

FYI people don't change overnight... it's a gradual process...Maybe she doesn't wanna be tagged a divorcee,.. or she may have overstayed her welcome in her daddy's house...or Her family forced her to go to your parent's home to put up an act...she will be better off a widow than a divorcee that is her major plan...And your major strategy is to make sure that you do not die untimely right? your friends and family will not be available to bear the heat with you when it comes..

I will take care of the kids if I was to be in your shoes with all my heart.. as for her, no way is she coming back to finish me off.. I will not take it.. But hey, It's up to you as I said.
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Family › Re: My Uncle Girlfriend Keep Showering Curses On Him For Not Marrying Her by Richy4(m): 11:45am On Jan 17, 2023
Nothing will happen to your Uncle.. You win some and you loose some...
She was only dealing with the heart break the way she understands best which was cursing him...

She puts all her eggs in one basket, unfortunately for her, your uncle diversified his relationships... So you too can understand the girl's pain..
She will be just fine because time will heal her wounds.. and your uncle will be fine as well...
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Am I Overreacting Or Is This Person Wrong In What She Did?? by Richy4(m): 11:15am On Jan 17, 2023
Honestly, I don't see any thing wrong here smiley...You are the master, and she is learning from you.. If u have a review, she too will follow the master's footsteps...

The only Issue I believe you were struggling with was because you were not so grounded yet in your business or let's say you have not arrived yet...

If not, the kind of good heart I believe you have, u will not be scared if she picks the crumbs under your table..I believe she did not even pay to learn from you...

As some said, just reduce the information shared, keep casting your net into the Ocean with hope that you will catch a bigger fish... With that, you won't see her as a competitor but a girl you trained who can pick left overs that you overlooked.. Good luck buddy..
Family › Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Richy4(m): 4:47pm On Jan 16, 2023
satandeterrible:
You need to check yourself in a mental hospital.
Don't worry, I'll pay the bills.

What kind of foolery made you to write rubbish in the name of dropping a comment?

You just disgraced yourself and your family. Not me.

I'll be praying for you.
I have given you enough attention already..U can now run along..
I don't know if you were always this stupid or today is a special occasion... But whatever it is,.. I can't come down to your level.. This would be my last reply... But as a lunatic, u are free to have the Last word...
Family › Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Richy4(m): 4:26pm On Jan 16, 2023
satandeterrible:
You have a low IQ. What sort of foolish submission is this?

How does this address the fact that the OP's wife is disrespectful? This is not about occasional provocations so stop with the stupid deflection of yours.
I don't speak to online lunatics... A reasonable individual can not roam all over the thread insulting people the way you were doing...
I don't know if lunatics do have good days... But have a good day undecided
Family › Re: Best Way To Punish & Deal With A Disrespectful Wife. by Richy4(m): 2:35pm On Jan 16, 2023
OP, I don't really know why I find your write up a little off putting ...Seriously Discipline a wife?.. Just maybe, you can shop for a word or words that doesn't sound condescending.... like you were talking about a kid who is below you.....Words like reprimand, admonish etc.

I will suggest that u do only what works for you and your family.. Do not borrow another man's ways because it might backfire...Remember, any one in a relationship is bound to encounter provocations either intentionally or unintentionally whether you are the breadwinner or tea winner it doesn't matter ... the bottom line is making up and forgiving one another...Whenever she is losing it, pause and remind her that she's starting.. and walk away..

In my opinion, The only way a man can avoid being provoked is when he is married to a deaf and dumb lady.. Whatever you say, she will not hear, She will only smile and walk away...and she will never respond, yell or scream at you...But as long as you are married to someone that hears and talks, you will intentionally or unintentionally provoke each other...
embarassed
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Experience As A Recruiter-chika Uwazie @chikauwazie by Richy4(m):
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OP..I totally understand you.. But sometimes, We have to see things in another perspective...The last time I checked, most of the unemployed youths do not have source of income to pay for data. It's unfortunate that ordinary country like South Africa usually give its citizens who were unemployed some little pocket change even though I heard that it's small but Nigerians cannot do it due to the fact that the law maker's wardrobe allowances needed to be reviewed every year..

The Applicants that were giving you long stories, you cannot tell the distance where they reside? They may have sorted for transport fare to locate you but could not?

Not trying to be the devil's advocate but I don't think Nigerian youths are finding things easy. though I understand you that some of them just don't care. But there are some who genuinely needed the job but can't afford to be online daily to check mails...
Sports › I’m Not Sure If You’ve Ever Played Football – Klopp Makes Awkward Nedum Mistake by Richy4(op): 1:17pm On Jan 12, 2023
Ex-Manchester City defender Nedum Onuoha saw the funny side after Liverpool boss Jurgen Klopp failed to realise he was a former footballer.
His fellow ESPN pundits found it hilarious as Klopp wondered if the former defender had “ever played football” when being interviewed by Onuoha after Liverpool were held to a 2-2 draw at home to Wolves in the FA Cup third round.

After Onouha asked him about how the game panned out, Klopp said: “I’m not sure if you’ve played football, but these kinds of things happen.”

Not only has Onouha played football before but the Nigeria-born defender had a more decorated career than Klopp, who didn’t play one top-flight game in his career.

Klopp scored 56 goals compared to Onouha’s 15 but the former Man City man played 232 of his 426 career appearances in the Premier League.

And Onouha admits he kept quiet because he didn’t want any “sort of argument” to come from the situation with the Liverpool boss.

“If he was in a good mood I probably would have said something back,” Onouha said on ESPN as his colleagues laughed.

“But he wasn’t in a good mood at all. And I thought for my first time interviewing someone so significant in world football, if I bit back it might just turn into some sort of argument.”


https://www.youtube.com/shorts/IiVp0M3rzEo


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bj437SLwMfE
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Sin For Man To Have Sex Together With His Two Wives?- Man Asks Daddyfreeze by Richy4(m):
1 Corinthians 6:15–16 — The New International Version (NIV)

15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never!
16 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.


<< Note: The Two...Not The Three

1 Corinthians 7:3-5

3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.


Note: Husband and wife were all singular...
Satan tempting you might be inviting or nursing the idea of 3some on a matrimonial bed that we are talking about...
Family › Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Richy4(m): 1:54am On Jan 12, 2023
fadilaMaikiriki:
Thanks for your input. He's single though. But, I'm still confused even.
If u were still confused, it's about time U ask him what he meant...I believe he won't point a gun at u for doing so embarassed.
Family › Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Richy4(m): 11:35pm On Jan 11, 2023
fadilaMaikiriki:
He's well to do though.
It is not all about money... There's a 'demon' that he's fighting within him that u have not yet figured out... Which is making him to hesitate and come out strong...Try and find it out...

I hate to speculate but my guts tells me that he's two timing U...He doesn't wanna let you go because he's into you..But will definitely offend the other if he lets her go and focused solely on U...

Usually people that says things like that were sugar daddies... They can't leave their wife and they can't leave you as a mistress as well... Hence wasting the woman's time... Just be vigilant Okay smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Southampton Vs Manchester City: EFL Cup (2 - 0) On 11th January 2023 by Richy4(m): 11:23pm On Jan 11, 2023
Nazgul:
Before Erling Haaland joined Man City, they used to be at the top of the league and at least Carabao Cup semi finalists, now they’re out of Carabao cup and 2nd on the league table. Why is nobody talking about how he’s made City worse or does the rule only applies to Cristiano Ronaldohuh undecided
Honestly that guy is a good addition to City in my humble opinion...
Teams win some and loose some.. It's not all about win win... When a team looses, They go back to the drawing board to find or figure out why such happened and what should be done...
Family › Re: Bad Parenting: Child Destroy TVs On Sale In Shoprite Because He Was Upset by Richy4(m): 11:15pm On Jan 11, 2023
Klass99:
cheesy. I told you before that we smoke different brands of weed na.

At the 1st bolded, Richy make I bend first! I have a strong dislike for badly behaved kids and I would be damned if any child of mine joins the statistics, not on my watch and not while I am alive.

That I carried you for 9 months in my womb and gave birth to you, does not mean I will coddle and pamper you to my own detriment/destruction ooo. Na you born me, abi na me born you? Not every woman is crazy in love or will be crazy in love with their offspring to a point of foolishness.

At the 2nd bolded, there's nothing wrong with adding beating to one of those ways, he must to collect. And yes if I was a parent I will beat my children whenever necessary. Aisha Buhari kicked an eight year old and missed? I was not aware of that, but I am not incapable of kicking my own kid given the right incentive, for example him sexually molesting a 3 year old, being cruel to pets with a knife etc.

Of course when I am done kicking and beating him, I will get him the kind of mental help he needs. This belief that all children are sweet and innocent souls who can do no evil, doesn't resonate with me. I've seen enough crime documentaries to know that such kids escalate from misdemeanors to more violent crimes like rap, brutal assault and murder.
cheesy cheesy grin
OkayOoo. I would have really loved to see your parenting style since kids doesn't come with manual, we tend to try our best..We do trial and error in my household..I can admit that it's not easy..

Aisha kicked an ill behaved young man that accused her online of embezzlement and corruption leading to her weight gain... She missed the kick and the result was a swollen foot because she kicked wrongly grin... That's the kind of things some unruly kids can do to parents if one goes physical.. cheesy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Southampton Vs Manchester City: EFL Cup (2 - 0) On 11th January 2023 by Richy4(m): 10:59pm On Jan 11, 2023
How did Southampton achieve such a tremendous result?..
SOUTHAMPTON?? cool shocked
Family › Re: Bad Parenting: Child Destroy TVs On Sale In Shoprite Because He Was Upset by Richy4(m): 9:55pm On Jan 11, 2023
Klass99:
Where is the Lyon a.k.a MufasaLion? I am very interested in reading your thoughts on this public display of embarrassment since you don't believe in beating children as part and parcel of their training/upbringing.

If this was my child he will not have the guts to pull such a stunt in public, but if for any reason he gets high on Richy's Igbosere weed then forgets himself and misbehaves like this, the kind of beating he will receive ehn, even Heaven will wonder if he is my child and I am his mother.



The moment they start to act up they should be quickly contained and removed from a scene to avoid causing harm to others, themselves or damage to property. Autism should not be an excuse or justification for this level of damage, if I had an autistic child I would be mindful of the public spaces I take him or her to. I'm not saying you're making excuses or justifying this, I am only thinking out loud in response to your post.
Klass, I'm not gonna generalise but I have seen your type way back that was vocal about parenting.... but the moment she had her first child, all her school of thought about good parenting disappearedsmiley.. she even went to an extent of warning a teacher based on disciplining her child..

Yea.. the kid acted really bad... But there are ways one can let a child know that he or she is in trouble without beating them....

There are things that a child desires so much that if u take that away, he or she will almost feel like dying.. that is what those parents have never figured out yet... Beating him will not fix the damaged TV...

There are different ways parents raises their children but if beating helps you achieve the desired results, cool.but I will not beat my kids.. Honestly I will like to see u kick your kid the way Aisha Buhari kicked that boy and missed.. cool
Family › Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by Richy4(m): 9:08pm On Jan 11, 2023
grin grin smiley
Trying to mark his territory...
Section 19 subsection 34 of the Bro code Act of 1845 grin

<< He is into you..
<< You are beautiful..he knows it but he can't face the competition of keeping you due to life challenges that made him not to come out strong..
<< He is hopeful that it will be okay and he will over come whatever it was that was holding him back and then show how much he cares..
<< Hence his oral statement for you to have it at the back of your mind..
Family › Re: I Am Not Happy With My Wife Please Help by Richy4(m): 8:11pm On Jan 11, 2023
EmekaStanley:
What is this doing on front page?
Just lighten up a little.. are u not tired of so many bad news making front page this days smiley
Family › Re: I Am Not Happy With My Wife Please Help by Richy4(m):
I hope you are not "Suckaholic" cheesy
Education › Re: Godfrey Okoye University Orders Students To Wear Faculty Uniforms by Richy4(m): 3:48pm On Jan 11, 2023
YoungLionken:
Do you see the same Harvard, Cambridge or Oxford students wearing bum shorts to campuses??

How many times have you come across their students caught in series of sexcapades, as in our Nigerian universities??

We hear all sorts of sexual misbehaviours about these white Caucasians online, until you land in their country..

Lastly, when it comes to learning and character development, we are no match for the aforementioned schools...
The institution doesn't have the right to impose school uniform on adults.. What a real and decent institution would do will be to hand down a school dress code...

I have never been to those three mentioned universities before but based on my experience with international institutions.. I know that while students were enrolling, a hand book containing dress code were handed to each and everyone of them .. so if u have not seen or heard them wearing revealing outfit, it's because they were properly and duly informed on what to wear..
Education › Re: Godfrey Okoye University Orders Students To Wear Faculty Uniforms by Richy4(m): 2:34pm On Jan 11, 2023
YoungLionken:
That's a nice concept..

"Wokeness" my ass undecided..

Too much freedom is turning the country into something else...
Just imagine students from Harvard, Cambridge or Oxford Appearing on faculty uniforms..
Is it the same degree Godfrey Okoye University students were pursuing with the above mentioned three or is theirs different?
Sports › Re: Serena Williams Baptized As A Jehovah’s Witness by Richy4(m): 7:36am On Jan 11, 2023
cheesy cheesy grin
She can come in to preach.. I swear I wouldn't slam the door on her face... Just for tennis's sake cheesy
Crime › Re: A 21 Year Pregnant Man Confessed Of Killing A Pregnant Woman. by Richy4(m): 7:29am On Jan 11, 2023
Tales by moonlight...The man on this picture equally swallowed 4 babies as well embarassed
I can't believe people buy these stories...

Family › Re: In Your Next Life Would You Still Want Your Dad And Mom To Be Your Parents by Richy4(m): 9:24pm On Jan 10, 2023
Karleb:
You are not a patriotic Nigerian sir. undecided
grin grin cheesy cheesy grin
I swear I am.. But I like change... If I have my way, if they were not From Denmark, Finland or Iceland, I'm not coming..I like these 3 countries..

If I see anything that looks like NIG, GHANA ,INDIA or China.. I'm aborting the mission straight up embarassed
Family › Re: In Your Next Life Would You Still Want Your Dad And Mom To Be Your Parents by Richy4(m): 8:30pm On Jan 10, 2023
Yes.. but on one condition...

Both of them would not be Nigerian citizens... cheesy
Family › Re: Please, Adivice A Brother. by Richy4(m): 8:17pm On Jan 10, 2023
My brother, please make a research about ulcer. As a matter of fact Google it..read about it intensively...You can also take a day off of your busy schedule and consult a doctor about it..

It's not Ebola, it's not mental illness, it's not sickle cell.. it is curable to the best of my knowledge smiley
assuming she was asthmatic, then it would have been a different ball game...
Family › Re: What Is The One Important Thing That Must Be Beside Your Bed At Night? by Richy4(m): 2:22pm On Jan 10, 2023
Head warmer.. smiley
Family › Re: Video Of A Young Man Giving His Daughter Marijuana To Smoke by Richy4(m): 12:33pm On Jan 10, 2023
Nature should have deposited sperm to some male folks and leave some out of it honestly... embarassed

This one would have been ok without a kid shocked
Family › Re: I Am Suffering From A PTSD by Richy4(m): 11:08am On Jan 10, 2023
Roboclopp:
I freeze, blank out and have nothing to say. Sometimes I quickly fill the suspense with meaningless words when I notice.

It is annoying because i sometimes give the wrong response to questions because somewhere in my mind, responding to certain questions, being in certain places just brings memories I’ve tried to bury away. So I notice i may be evasive
Ok, that's the more reason why you should talk to a therapist...

I'm just wondering now how you can cope with a panel interview.. incase you wanna advance career wise..

Please do so now before it becomes major..
Family › Re: I Am Suffering From A PTSD by Richy4(m): 10:44am On Jan 10, 2023
Roboclopp:
How do you handle when it looks like you are completely avoiding someone almost disrespectfully when actually you are just trying to avoid the triggers you will get when they come around, especially when you are not confident enough to handle the triggers?
I'm just curious... What do you mean by trigger?.. Do you become violent for no reason when people comes close to proximity? or do you just cry? How does it happen do you have an idea?
Christianity Etc › Re: May Your Children Have The Character Of The Man You Vote For - Pastor (Video) by Richy4(m): 10:02am On Jan 10, 2023
That cartoon is really disturbing.. but a sad reality embarassed
Celebrities › Re: AMAA Founder, Peace Anyiam-osigwe, Is Dead by Richy4(m): 9:51am On Jan 10, 2023
byinks:
Please let us know what you mean.
I believe he or she is talking trash.. she doesn't know her or her family members or anything about her personal space.. yet she comes here to give stupid innuendo sad
Celebrities › Re: AMAA Founder, Peace Anyiam-osigwe, Is Dead by Richy4(m): 8:28am On Jan 10, 2023
Just wondering how her mum will be feeling right now..This is just Wow!! sad

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