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Mooh247:




What the hell is wrong with Northern Nigeria for goodness sake

Almost all major NPFL matches and derbies hosted in Northern Nigeria always ends in serious conflicts and violence... Now they have made it International



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joshuaidibia:
During my final year, I had an F in a Geology course by 2 marks. I went to meet with my HOD cause that was his course. His office door was open as I sat and waited in the secretary office, two girls were in his office pleading with him to pass them in same course and he jokingly told them not to worry that they should go, they thanked him and left. Omor I was happy o, "thank God he's in a good mood." I went into his office and explained to him that I was the guy whose answer sheet was taken from him cos I was allowing someone copy from me. I told him to please help me with 2 marks that even though it's an E I get I will be happy cos I don't want to have extension and pay school fees cos of 1 course. This man insulted my life that day and told me to get out, I refused cos I was still pleading, It took the intervention and plea from the secretary that made me leave with tears in my eyes. I sold my phone that week and used it to pay for next session school fees. Ended up having a B in the Carryover.

Octobertwentysix:
.so you really believe him, this is a faceless forum, so many lies just to make a point.

It was a big mistake indeed Honestly....I was only doing what I was taught ... giving people benefit of the doubt

Kingozymandias:
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.I studied a stupid course ... Graduated with a third class worked in insurance earning a commission bumped into a.lady who liked my dirve she recommended me for a contract work in an oil firm I was sent for training joined the firm from there the rest is history ..

If your life didn't turn out well don't assume it's same for everyone... Infact just last week I turned down an offer for 850 with a firm in Lagos cause I didn't like the vibe during the virtual interview....
These ain't fairy tales kid I graduated with a third class I have over 10 years work experience so far currently earn over 500 I don't have a master's or an MBA still my third class kiddo...
Grow up

My Dearest Ancestor, I only asked you harmless questions, on how you earned the amount that you claimed after graduation with third class considering how Nigerian employers excludes those with such grade, and you flared up...You were doing so well in terms of telling me on how you went about that until the second paragraph where you showed that indeed you got third class.

You jumped into conclusion that I was not successful and that I was a kid ...How did we get to that point?...Again, how do you put your communication skills, analytical skills and problem solving skills into good use in your so called place of work?... Is it by jumping to conclusion without reading to really understand what your colleagues were saying, getting angry and bragging about frivolities?... you don't even know me and we have never met anywhere before.. haba Oga!!!!

Dear Ancient of days, as old as you are, you should have known by now that successful individuals whose heart are contented will most likely never act the way you did just to prove a point...That's because u owe no one an explanation.... deep down, u know your worth and what u have achieved...especially not on a faceless forum like this where no one cares if u were rich or poor...

I was expecting a decent conversation with an adult who claimed to have made it with third class to throw some wisdom, so that some readers who might have been in such situation will learn first hand on how they can go about their situations in a similar manner ...But hmmmm!!!! I guess oga got some more growing up to do than I should...

Look....If you are living in your own bobbles, fantasizing on a lucrative job in an oil company and lying online just to be relevant, please stop it.. it's not the best way ... We have seen lots of "successful" individuals online but in reality .....
I will not derail OP's topic more than I have done already...Cheers...and have a fantastic day...

Kingozymandias:
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I earn over half a million a month I graduated with a third class... Lowest job I have gotten since graduation is 150k a month .....

It all depends on his drive and focus.... Stop talking about things you aren't sure...

@the OP go and lay a complaint at the police station... Let them Invite him and he will sign an undertaking not to come near your mum again

Double0h7:
He thinks he found a good thing

234GT:
The scenario you are painting is not the same as the op's case. The mother in law in this case is not ill. She is just an intruder and she needs to be put in her place.

A mother in law who is truly ill will not be monitoring the sex life of the couple she's putting up with. I hate nosey people.

ImaIma1:
Lol @ the bolded. Funny thing is that my number unmasks numbers that are hidden. If you hide your number to call me, the number will still display.

Oh!! really...Technology has advanced indeed....It's been like donkey years that I have hidden my number to make a call.... I was thinking that the hiding thing is still like an option those good old days back then in Uni,...with 3310 at hand, you press * 31* press the numbers...the receiver will have a blank caller

234GT:
My mum does not go about her children's homes. She is very happy with my dad and they are inseparable. There is no medical check up she can't get in the city she lives.

The mum in the case here is not there on medical trip. The op did not say that. She just chose to come and spend 2 months in her daughters house ni.

Don't marry a lady whose parents are not in good terms if you cherish your privacy, because the mother of the lady will see your house as escape ground from her marital issues.

I won't allow my wife to go and spend 2 months in my child's home for any reason when the time comes.

There are many reasons why one finds themselves in an inlaw's home buddy.... The fact that she was there does not mean she was not happy with her husband...

Now, a situation where a couple resides in Abuja and their parent resides in the East or West for example... They got a disturbing message that one of their parent were sick.... and the couple brought that parent to Abuja... After he/she was discharged, the doctor recommend that he/she should be coming to the hospital 2 to 3 weeks for medical checkup and observation for 3 months...

If you were in such situation, will u ask your parent or her parent to be shuttling from the West or East to Abuja every 2 weeks for the duration of the 3 months as the doctor recommended because you cherish your privacy so much or will you accommodate her for that period?

234GT:
Why on earth would your mother inlaw come and spend 2 months in your house. I can't take that. I will send her away firmly ni. I don't care whether or not my wife gives me sex after she had gone.
I cherish my privacy.

Seunfretty:
Wen you tell me Izoho had a better game yesterday please tell me how...he literarily didn't really make saves i tink...and he kept shooting the ball blindly and trying to cool down wat isn't needed...his NT good with his feet ...his just a panicking kind of goal keeper who doesn't exhude confidence

always4peace:
Don't know why this is a debate, Kaduna is a gud modern goalkeeper, his presence allows the team to build from the back... Yesterday's match was an eyesore, I wouldn't use it judge anything. Maduka had a bad day at Nations cup and y'all crucified him, he is still the best Nigerian goalkeeper by far.

NoToPile:
You know as well as I know that a special needs child is better of in the US than Nigeria, if there is the opportunity. Just saying.

As much as you don't agree with her let's still say the truth.

lefemmechoclat:


Well apart of that is deception. He did not state he ever wanted to go back or leave to retire there. it was after the marriage he only mentioned building after some years.He carries responsibility to be honest so I can have the option to say no from the beginning
Honestly he should have been more transparent from the beginning I would.have told him to go and marry a Nigerian
I wouldn't ever retire in a 3rd world country and especially with a child with special needs I can't take them there with all the services in the USA. He should keep that mind set what about the child that has higher needs it isn't all about him. It's deceptive to not be forthcoming about these things in the beginning. Ot isn't fair to me or my kids that I work so hard and while he squeezes that amount of money elsewhere. His parents had a comfortable home. I could even see 20 to 30k etc but 60k come on. While I'm working 16 hour days? Come on.

Maybe I should just go ahead with the initiative of divorce as in 20 years I won't be surprised if he says that. I really don't do good with lack of trust cos I am transparent. Marriage can't be just for one person's benefit. I am putting my kids as a priority a country isn't a priority

GboyegaD:
And this incident happened two years ago as well. So it was likely when she was doing all that. In my opinion, the guy is wicked.

Ok buddy.. In My opinion, I did not see an atom of wickedness in him except the communication factor....

That lady was not ready to go to Nigeria... Not in this life time.... And there's no time she is gonna approve of the man building a house judging by her utterances...... The way I see it, I believe that he knows very well whom he is living with hence his decision not to let her know....

All I see is my kids, my kids.. my kids... I have never seen our kids...Abeg... Make she divorce him already and be done with it....Nigeria is never a place for special need kids... all the special need kids in Nigeria have all been abused and the rest have all died...
I'm done talking on this thread... as a matter of fact, this is the longest thread I have ever participated since I joined Nairaland 2009 ...Mchewwww!!!! Enjoy the rest of your weekend buddy

GboyegaD:
Did you read that the wife is also doing two jobs to ensure bills are met?