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Family › Re: Osinachi: My FatherTold Us Beating Women Is Good - Osinachi's Children by Richy4(m): 1:23pm On Apr 12, 2022
I don't know her but based on what I read,...she died because of what people will say...That was why she decided to stay in an abusive relationship.... Highest thing people, the same people will talk about her death and sympathize for 2 months... then it's over... I wish people would learn from her that it's ok to leave instead of being one of the statistics...
Family › Re: My Husband Who Traveled Abroad Seven Years Ago Suddenly Sent Me Divorce Letter by Richy4(m): 7:07pm On Apr 11, 2022
I have seen where the problem was coming from.....The wife was IN charge of the building project... and the in-laws were left out cool...

She should get herself ready and prepared for what is coming....

But I don't see why a reasonable individual will cut all form of communication because of hear-say... Tell your sister to be strong and face whatever that he's bring squarely...let it be her 2022 challenge that she will need to tackle
Family › Re: My Younger Sister. by Richy4(m): 2:23pm On Apr 11, 2022
Ultraviolet5:
Exactly,he is looking for validation for what he did and refusing to accept that he is in the wrong.
He still sees her as "that my little innocent kid sister"...May have remembered when she was "pooping" and "weeing" herself ... That's the kind of eyes most parents uses on their children especially African parents...Reasons why most of them don't knock while entering the rooms of their 15yr old and above smiley...
Family › Re: My Younger Sister. by Richy4(m):
<<<What you were doing is the nightmare of every parent( though u are a sibling)... It is the relinquishing power and control over their children especially young adults...What they should wear, whom they should associate with etc. You are a good guy no two ways about it.. but u should know when and how to achieve certain goals without throwing muscles around...

<<<The funny thing is that up till now, You did not see anything wrong with reading an adult's messages on her phone...She gave u that phone trusting you as the big brother to do what you wanna do, and hand it over without violating her privacy. and u went into her private space, read her messages and even have the guts to confront her over it with violence...

<<<A 20 year old lady is old enough to contest for a local govt election... she is old enough to stand on trial without her parent speaking on her behalf, she is old enough to go to adult prison.. she is old enough to get married and make babies... to sum it all, she is old enough to make an informed/uninformed decision and be held accountable for it....

<<< You should not have slapped her or put her in a position that she will become defensive...if you have a vast experience, or you are street smart, and u discovered that she wasn't, U should have called her as the big brother u are and tell her about the wolves out there... U let her know that the game is still the game with the same rules but different players...

<<< Stop Lording over her buddy...She is almost a graduate... u were not the one writing her exams or doing her assignments...She was the one taking those decisions in the exam hall and have been excelling... Do not put her in a position where she will be defensive next time instead strike up a conversation of a big brother talking to a dear kid sister, With the information u have, U should have educated her on how boys behave without her knowing that u have accidently seen her messages....You are the big brother and your role is massive in her life... but slapping and being physical is not part of it..
Crime › Re: Man's Head Turned To Pig Head After He Stole A Pig In Malawi (Pics, Video) by Richy4(m): 9:47am On Apr 11, 2022
The way I rushed to watch the video after reading the head line MTCHEWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!! sad

Family › Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by Richy4(m): 7:57pm On Apr 10, 2022
Things would have been so nice, easy and wonderful... if you walk up to him and say.. honey, I saw screenshot on our misunderstandings years ago and recently, why are you saving it?... in a polite manner. He is your husband for Pete's sakes...Adult life is indeed complicated..
Family › Re: Please, How Do I Control The Way I Consume Beer. by Richy4(m): 8:41am On Apr 10, 2022
The question is, Do you drink and get drunk?
Family › Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Richy4(m): 8:11am On Apr 10, 2022
henmaris:
She's determined to blame someone else instead of the husband with the problems. Why did the pastor who saw the mom in the marine kingdom not break the chain?
Gullible pastor followers.

Read ur Bible madam and stop blaming others over u and ur husband's predicaments.
The dignified manner of saying I went to a native doctor is... I went to see a pastor grin
Family › Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Richy4(m): 3:09pm On Apr 08, 2022
ellaV:
you should be single...this write up is for people that are married and are the responsible type, thank you
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Family › Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Richy4(m): 3:05pm On Apr 08, 2022
ellaV:
well it's true cos he always goes to her for advise instead of me his wife, whatever she says it's what's he will do, so tell me why I should not believe it's true
So because your Husband goes to his mother for advise, that's what made her a marine kingdom candidate?
Family › Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Richy4(m): 2:57pm On Apr 08, 2022

<<<If the story is true, then I have issues with the "M" that shows that u are a male except maybe....

<<< Please kindly Keep his mother out of your matters...That church aspect is just irritating.
.undecided
Politics › Re: We Used Buhari’s Teeth-picking Picture To Depict Lazy Leadership - Scottish Uni by Richy4(m): 1:46pm On Apr 08, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked



There's no president in the whole world that is been disrespected as Nigerian president . Barely a week, a foreign university used Buhari as an example when teaching about bad leadership with a write up on the board " Don't be like Buhari" Now this one.

There's no way any sane person can give a useless leader like Buhari respect. Buhari is been insulted both home and abroad.

The office of Nigerian president is a joke and it's been ridicule by all the countries of the earth. Tell the dullard to resign and save us from this embarrassment.

Jonathan was too presidential and respected , for once Jonathan was not being mocked or been ridiculed except from the idiotic current zombie now who where so inconsequential and are still inconsequential.

This same Buhari , Donald Trump unapologetically called him lifeless.
Jonathan was ridiculed as well in 2014...At least I can't easily forget the snoop dogg insult....It's just in Nigerian DNA to produce bad leaders.
https://www..ng/talk-zone/snoop-dogg-insults-president-goodluck-jonathan
Health › Re: 60-Year-Old Man Commits Suicide In Kano (Photos) by Richy4(m): 12:37pm On Apr 07, 2022
There's still a possibility that he was murdered and the murderer(s) made it look like he committed suicide embarassed...
Politics › Re: Man Seen Carrying Big Reptile On His Shoulder In Lagos State by Richy4(m): 12:26pm On Apr 07, 2022
He is a patriotic Nigerian... Judging by the Jersey cool...
Family › Re: My Son's Behavior Is Getting Out Of Hand (feedback) by Richy4(m): 10:03am On Apr 07, 2022
I'm Happy that the result came out negative smiley...

Soccer is good but if he isn't interested, do not force that on him...I still think that Piano and violin lessons will help him...other alternative would be karate or taekwondo lessons,

Meeting other young stars like him in terms of Boys scout will also help reduce the degree of boredom in him... U will discover where his interest lies eventually.. Good luck.. cool
Family › Re: My Parents Are Really Annoying Me by Richy4(m): 9:23am On Apr 07, 2022
They are doing what they like and what gives them joy and happiness and you may or may not like it.... Putting up an appearance gives them happiness and satisfaction...

You can only Vent Your Anger when the money they were spending is yours... but if it's not yours, Please respect their decision and do not lord your opinion on them...they are adults.....
Travel › Re: Warri-Bayelsa-PortHarcourt Link Road: The Worst Road In South-South Nigeria by Richy4(m): 3:16pm On Apr 06, 2022
All these goods that were inside the truck, The owners,/ the truck owners do they have some kind of Insurance in Nigeria?...
Family › Re: Help! How Do I Get Back My Money From Her? by Richy4(m):
You must be the Aaron of our time cheesy...She has two kids already?... Anyways, Was there any form of written agreement or was it just Oral?... When you transferred the money to her, what did you write as reference... like loan, borrowed etc. those kind of references are really important....It will be like an evidence to show that it was never a goodwill/ freewill money...

If it was oral agreement, chances of getting that will be really slim...No one will buy your story because they might be thinking that you were doing it because she left you for another man....
Family › Re: 25-year Old Man Set To Wed 85-year Old Woman by Richy4(m):
Is renting an apartment really that expensive in Kenya? What is the meaning of this....That kissing or whatever they were trying to do on that pic is really disturbing to imagine embarassed
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Single Parent? by Richy4(m): 3:17pm On Apr 05, 2022
OlawaleBammie:
baba na so naa

I cant pay for someone else's excesses and ignorance
You are very funny and I like that Match stuff honestly... I would have loved to know if you were single or married...

But let's just assume you were single and have been protecting yourself... One day, an unfortunate incident happened in the bedroom that your condom broke.... she got pregnant and refused to abort ,....

she gave birth....and one beautiful weekend she showed up at your door step, dump the kid for you and disappeared....Stating that you were never the kind of man she wants to end up with..... Do you think it is appropriate for another lady to marry you as a single dad... even though u are handsome and rich..?But a single dad cheesy....Do you think you deserved to be loved as a single dad?.
Food › Re: The Hilarious No Sex Notice Pasted At Tanterlizer by Richy4(m): 2:24pm On Apr 04, 2022
Is that F word even appropriate in a Business establishment....The manager that wrote that needs his/her head examined...
Family › Re: TRAGIC: Vulture Disturbing Me At Night by Richy4(m): 1:12pm On Apr 04, 2022
You left your window open in the middle of the night? No fly-screen, Nothing.... And you are shivering? How come you don't shiver when mosquitoes comes in? Is it because it's a vulture?....As in witchcraft thing? cheesy
Family › Re: Sister-Inlaw Gets The New Car That Brother's Wife Sowed To Pastor Back (pic/vid) by Richy4(m): 8:36am On Apr 03, 2022
Is she trying to sow a seed of discord between the family and God?... Is She really aware of what it takes to send a car home?

Speaking of what she never worked for.. sad
Family › Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by Richy4(m): 1:48am On Apr 03, 2022
Actually, U were the one putting yourself into an unnecessary pressure... why would you lie to her in the first place when you have sorted the babysitting aspect out?

You said you have disowned her... And you still find the need to tell lies...Or is there something I'm missing here? or should I google to double check the meaning of disown for myself?
Crime › Re: 27 Year Old Man Arrested For Matcheting His Father To Death In Ogun (Photo) by Richy4(m): 1:33am On Apr 03, 2022
What a gory story.shocked
Family › Re: Exclusive: People Born In April Only!! by Richy4(m): 1:30pm On Apr 01, 2022
30th APR
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Richy4(m): 4:51am On Apr 01, 2022
I will only tell you to protect yourself... Insist on condoms when u meet...We don't want to loose you...

A smooth Operator is always a smooth Operator anytime any day... But this one is Leaving lots of traces behind and u think it only ends on social media? Hmm!!!!
Please prepare your mind for a hotel receipt of a "boardroom meeting" with some clients... U will find it soon if you try harder.....
Family › Re: Exclusive: People Born In April Only!! by Richy4(m): 4:06am On Apr 01, 2022
cool cool cool cool
Crime › Re: 'Tom Cruise' Convicted In Lagos by Richy4(m): 3:39am On Apr 01, 2022
They should stop showing us this shameful conviction... what is 6 months? just an ordinary vacation....
That's why whenever you see them holding their bill board, they looked so confident and calm.... when the Nigerian judicial system is ready to eradicate internet fraud in Nigeria, everyone will know..
undecided
Family › Re: Moment A Heartless Woman Left Her Maid Outside Their Home At Midnight (vid) by Richy4(m): 3:08pm On Mar 31, 2022
pocohantas:
Well said. Nigerians have normalized child labour and child abuse. Even supposedly educated people do not see anything wrong in it.
It's really bad honestly 12AM in the morning and someone's kid was outside... even if the house was 52-Room Mansion of 50cent, He couldn't account for a member of his household?...
That woman is evil personified and the man cannot be exonerated for turning blind eye
Family › Re: Moment A Heartless Woman Left Her Maid Outside Their Home At Midnight (vid) by Richy4(m): 2:29pm On Mar 31, 2022
The man is not on top of situations in his household honestly....Even his utterances proved that fact....I don't know if he was saying all those things because of the camera that was before him...

If he notice some element of maltreatment and he doesn't like it, he should have demanded that she send the girl back to her parent or he do the sending by himself...

Even if the young girl killed the household pet, Is that enough reason for this inhumanity to man and heartlessness?...How do some people sleep at night.
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Sports › Re: World Cup: Babayaro Names 2 People Responsible For Nigeria’s Failure To Qualify by Richy4(m): 1:05pm On Mar 31, 2022
smiley smiley smiley smiley
I'm guessing that the number of hisses by Nigerians around the world on Tuesday, If we should do statistical analysis, It will get to 91%

The Number of people that did not hiss through out that day in middle of a sentence might be just 9% embarassed

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