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I don't know her but based on what I read,...she died because of what people will say...That was why she decided to stay in an abusive relationship.... Highest thing people, the same people will talk about her death and sympathize for 2 months... then it's over... I wish people would learn from her that it's ok to leave instead of being one of the statistics... |
I have seen where the problem was coming from.....The wife was IN charge of the building project... and the in-laws were left out ...She should get herself ready and prepared for what is coming.... But I don't see why a reasonable individual will cut all form of communication because of hear-say... Tell your sister to be strong and face whatever that he's bring squarely...let it be her 2022 challenge that she will need to tackle |
Ultraviolet5:He still sees her as "that my little innocent kid sister"...May have remembered when she was "pooping" and "weeing" herself ... That's the kind of eyes most parents uses on their children especially African parents...Reasons why most of them don't knock while entering the rooms of their 15yr old and above ... |
<<<What you were doing is the nightmare of every parent( though u are a sibling)... It is the relinquishing power and control over their children especially young adults...What they should wear, whom they should associate with etc. You are a good guy no two ways about it.. but u should know when and how to achieve certain goals without throwing muscles around... <<<The funny thing is that up till now, You did not see anything wrong with reading an adult's messages on her phone...She gave u that phone trusting you as the big brother to do what you wanna do, and hand it over without violating her privacy. and u went into her private space, read her messages and even have the guts to confront her over it with violence... <<<A 20 year old lady is old enough to contest for a local govt election... she is old enough to stand on trial without her parent speaking on her behalf, she is old enough to go to adult prison.. she is old enough to get married and make babies... to sum it all, she is old enough to make an informed/uninformed decision and be held accountable for it.... <<< You should not have slapped her or put her in a position that she will become defensive...if you have a vast experience, or you are street smart, and u discovered that she wasn't, U should have called her as the big brother u are and tell her about the wolves out there... U let her know that the game is still the game with the same rules but different players... <<< Stop Lording over her buddy...She is almost a graduate... u were not the one writing her exams or doing her assignments...She was the one taking those decisions in the exam hall and have been excelling... Do not put her in a position where she will be defensive next time instead strike up a conversation of a big brother talking to a dear kid sister, With the information u have, U should have educated her on how boys behave without her knowing that u have accidently seen her messages....You are the big brother and your role is massive in her life... but slapping and being physical is not part of it.. |
The way I rushed to watch the video after reading the head line MTCHEWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!! ![]()
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Things would have been so nice, easy and wonderful... if you walk up to him and say.. honey, I saw screenshot on our misunderstandings years ago and recently, why are you saving it?... in a polite manner. He is your husband for Pete's sakes...Adult life is indeed complicated.. |
The question is, Do you drink and get drunk? |
henmaris:The dignified manner of saying I went to a native doctor is... I went to see a pastor ![]() |
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ellaV:So because your Husband goes to his mother for advise, that's what made her a marine kingdom candidate? |
<<<If the story is true, then I have issues with the "M" that shows that u are a male except maybe.... <<< Please kindly Keep his mother out of your matters...That church aspect is just irritating.. ![]() |
MadamVanessa:Jonathan was ridiculed as well in 2014...At least I can't easily forget the snoop dogg insult....It's just in Nigerian DNA to produce bad leaders. https://www..ng/talk-zone/snoop-dogg-insults-president-goodluck-jonathan |
There's still a possibility that he was murdered and the murderer(s) made it look like he committed suicide ... |
He is a patriotic Nigerian... Judging by the Jersey ... |
I'm Happy that the result came out negative ... Soccer is good but if he isn't interested, do not force that on him...I still think that Piano and violin lessons will help him...other alternative would be karate or taekwondo lessons, Meeting other young stars like him in terms of Boys scout will also help reduce the degree of boredom in him... U will discover where his interest lies eventually.. Good luck.. ![]() |
They are doing what they like and what gives them joy and happiness and you may or may not like it.... Putting up an appearance gives them happiness and satisfaction... You can only Vent Your Anger when the money they were spending is yours... but if it's not yours, Please respect their decision and do not lord your opinion on them...they are adults..... |
All these goods that were inside the truck, The owners,/ the truck owners do they have some kind of Insurance in Nigeria?... |
You must be the Aaron of our time ...She has two kids already?... Anyways, Was there any form of written agreement or was it just Oral?... When you transferred the money to her, what did you write as reference... like loan, borrowed etc. those kind of references are really important....It will be like an evidence to show that it was never a goodwill/ freewill money...If it was oral agreement, chances of getting that will be really slim...No one will buy your story because they might be thinking that you were doing it because she left you for another man.... |
Is renting an apartment really that expensive in Kenya? What is the meaning of this....That kissing or whatever they were trying to do on that pic is really disturbing to imagine ![]() |
OlawaleBammie:You are very funny and I like that Match stuff honestly... I would have loved to know if you were single or married... But let's just assume you were single and have been protecting yourself... One day, an unfortunate incident happened in the bedroom that your condom broke.... she got pregnant and refused to abort ,.... she gave birth....and one beautiful weekend she showed up at your door step, dump the kid for you and disappeared....Stating that you were never the kind of man she wants to end up with..... Do you think it is appropriate for another lady to marry you as a single dad... even though u are handsome and rich..?But a single dad ....Do you think you deserved to be loved as a single dad?. |
Is that F word even appropriate in a Business establishment....The manager that wrote that needs his/her head examined... |
You left your window open in the middle of the night? No fly-screen, Nothing.... And you are shivering? How come you don't shiver when mosquitoes comes in? Is it because it's a vulture?....As in witchcraft thing? ![]() |
Is she trying to sow a seed of discord between the family and God?... Is She really aware of what it takes to send a car home? Speaking of what she never worked for.. ![]() |
Actually, U were the one putting yourself into an unnecessary pressure... why would you lie to her in the first place when you have sorted the babysitting aspect out? You said you have disowned her... And you still find the need to tell lies...Or is there something I'm missing here? or should I google to double check the meaning of disown for myself? |
What a gory story. |
30th APR |
I will only tell you to protect yourself... Insist on condoms when u meet...We don't want to loose you... A smooth Operator is always a smooth Operator anytime any day... But this one is Leaving lots of traces behind and u think it only ends on social media? Hmm!!!! Please prepare your mind for a hotel receipt of a "boardroom meeting" with some clients... U will find it soon if you try harder..... |
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They should stop showing us this shameful conviction... what is 6 months? just an ordinary vacation.... That's why whenever you see them holding their bill board, they looked so confident and calm.... when the Nigerian judicial system is ready to eradicate internet fraud in Nigeria, everyone will know.. ![]() |
pocohantas:It's really bad honestly 12AM in the morning and someone's kid was outside... even if the house was 52-Room Mansion of 50cent, He couldn't account for a member of his household?... That woman is evil personified and the man cannot be exonerated for turning blind eye |
The man is not on top of situations in his household honestly....Even his utterances proved that fact....I don't know if he was saying all those things because of the camera that was before him... If he notice some element of maltreatment and he doesn't like it, he should have demanded that she send the girl back to her parent or he do the sending by himself... Even if the young girl killed the household pet, Is that enough reason for this inhumanity to man and heartlessness?...How do some people sleep at night... |
![]() I'm guessing that the number of hisses by Nigerians around the world on Tuesday, If we should do statistical analysis, It will get to 91% The Number of people that did not hiss through out that day in middle of a sentence might be just 9% ![]() |
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...She has two kids already?... Anyways, Was there any form of written agreement or was it just Oral?... When you transferred the money to her, what did you write as reference... like loan, borrowed etc. those kind of references are really important....It will be like an evidence to show that it was never a goodwill/ freewill money...