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themainman600:
82% possession by arsenal Liverpool go hear am

where were you getting your statistics from? stop deceiving people who couldn't click to find out for themselves

victorazy:
I tell you
He supposed to be writing from the other side make he no go accuse innocent person. poison dey purge?

victorazy:
Toy poison. Which poison makes man shit and not to die instanta?

Is he not supposed to cough out blood like we see in movies instead of going to the toilet

He got the "my mom says" kind of personality... and. I believe a prophet was behind the scene

baby124:
You obviously don’t know how it works. Emotional cards indeed. Lol. The welfare of kids trumps their fathers feelings you know. The law does not care what he’s thinking and if he’s an Alfa male plus other cultural jargon.

I know how it works obviously... It is said that when two elephants fights, the grasses suffers the most....

The law you are talking about should be the Nigerian law right? because she is in Nigeria..if she will sue him,it will be heard in Nigeria.. and the abandonment/ Escape happened in Nigerian soil right?...

Maybe you have lost touch of how it works in Nigeria... Based on what I have been reading It's still the same..... nothing has changed...

If the woman is not a citizen or permanent resident and the children were not Spanish citizens, she cannot go back to join him...

What the embassy will do is to mandate the man to pay for the children's welfare anytime the case comes to their notice...

baby124:
It’s only in Nigeria that abandonment is a family dispute. It’s a big crime in these Western countries. Big one. She just needs to approach the Embassy to weigh her options. That guy is a fool, he was not born in Spain so he can be dealt with like an immigrant. Citizenship is also revokeable. People go to jail if they refuse to pay court mandated support.

baby124:
They can sue him for abandonment through the embassy my dia

baby124:
Those children are Spanish yea? If she can prove their citizenship and prove she’s been abused by her spouse. Plus that the Spanish children need to be in Spain, in fact see her see am Citizenship. Lol. All these drama Na for 1930’s mamas

And if they were born in Nigeria, what happened next?

figel:
It’s always good to carry out holistic evaluation before typing or commentating. Saves you from making embarrassing comments. How can someone who is illegal travel out of a country and be allowed the re-enter the country? If the woman is his dependant, she can never enter Spain unless the man consents to it. QED!!

Mendeline:
I had sex with my ex mistakenly

Igbofam:
There is no democracy in Russia. They have a dictatorial government. Putin is supposed to be in power for 6 yrs but had now ammended their constitution in In mid-January. He submitted proposals for amendments to the constitution and formed a working group to refine the legislation. On March 10, a Russian Duma deputy proposed an amendment that would reset Putin’s presidential term limit clock to zero. A move that would allow him to run for office in 2024 and 2030, and potentially remain in office through 2036. Within a week, Russia’s parliament and regional governments ratified the amendments and the Constitutional Court approved the changes. The popular referendum is now the next step.

Putin is doing everything to coerce and intimidate everyone to do his bidding and to enable him remain in power till 2036 (if he would still be alive by then)

That sounds like European Mugabe

Richsteemit:
Let livepool catch them

My brother just exercise a little patience ...We should give them just a little space... Just little for a bragging right because they deserved it this season....

It's been awhile their fans opened their mouth.. like almost 6 seasons....we need to see how white or yellow their teeth are now... Let's give them some space

nahr:
You will be surprised to know that majority of them are in support of their president's actions. They believe that the west is transgressing.

U might be correct... I believe majority Were in support.. and that actually silenced the minority...

I believe the Russian Economists were muted as well... If not, they would have explained to the citizens what is coming...

They will start feeling the impacts of these sanctions in a year or two years to come... it's not dawned on them yet..

bennybuhari:
Arsenal is the best team in the world at the moment. No team wants to play against them

It's been like ages since we heard of Arsenal fans making some noise... They always takes cover like a snail when others were talking

Now this your comment sounds really offkey odd

Mariangeles:
What do you expect corpers to do in an unfamiliar territory?

I don't just know what to do with what I saw on those pictures honestly my Sis... I didn't even want to watch the video because it will irritate me the more...

I mean how can the whole community be that backward...

That was why I mentioned corpers... Atleast they can enlighten them a bit on what could have happened to the man....

lexy2014:
All this fiction and made up stories. A 60year old man coming to nairaland to seek for advise on what to do with his son. Una weldone

Is there a particular age meant for people that comes online... Or is there an age limit that is above being advised

Munzy14:
Like you said, a son that has a liberal mindset to give...Unfortunately he isn't.

And I still maintained, the money is not there..

Lastly, parents should find a way to teach their children how to be responsible from that tender age..
For example, there are little little things you could pay outsiders to do for you, You simply let them do it amd and you pay them..Then ask your wife to monitor how they spend their earnings.

Parenting is a serious job..How you train them is how they will grow.

Growing up, I and my siblings were taught to hustle from teenage..We revolt when my parents try to get labourers do some jobs..We rather do it with our friends collect the money and share.

By the time we became adults, there are quite a handful of things we can do in addition to education..Now, my parents are relaxed knowing they have done their parenting to best of their ability...

If you don't your kids training well, you will grow old to keep struggling when you are meant to relax no matter how small.

There is no way you can force a 29year old man to do anything aside sitting him down to have a man to man discussions.

When you said that the money is not there, I just kind of wonder how much should be available before someone can decide to take responsibility...

If his father is not leaving with him,
<<< Won't he pay rent... Won't he eat or will he go to the shop owner and tell them to give him their products but that the money is not there that they should bear with him?

<<< If he stays on his own, electricity bill will be paid with the money that is not there right?

<<< I will not blame the man for anything because even if he instilled good values on his kids... Some will still turned out to be what they wanted to be... Some turned out to be selfish, some liberal minded...I wished that he should go with tough love on him....

Munzy14:
The honest truth is that the money is not there..When a child starts earning, the first show love to their parents, before extending to a lover/life partner.

Again, it depends on how you trained them, did you raised them in a way they must accept responsibilities? Were you the type of parent that is always giving?. If so, he has become comfortable with that..

Nowadays I don't have money is no longer excuse, we have many ways of making legit money...That teaching can deceive people a lot and push the person to poverty with comfortable mind.

With current economy of Nigeria, teaching that is not in the tertiary institutions shouldn't be for a man.

It is mainly a woman thing now, as she will use it to support her man.

Lastly,don't put pressure on him, some human move at their own pace...depression is real...Allow him work at his own pace and grace...Talk to him às your fellow man...He must assume responsibility now..if he can't now, I doubt if any woman can tolerate that..make him understand things he learn now, will be what he is going to live with when he marries.