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rubi96:
I used Nokia 1100 first before Xpress music. My xpress music came with a speaker. It was special to me because my dad bought it.😁

Yes, Nokia 1100 was my first phone ever, then the Express music.

wonder233:
If you guys don't mention marriage, you won't feel you have made sense ba? Why are Nigerians so dull?

So not sharing an opinion with others makes them dull? You're the real dullard here.

kyber:
Was it open and close?

Was it flip you meant?

Josephamstrong1:
You know as they say, did you hear from her?
You when you caught someone red handed, that smile you give listening to his or her lies. I wanted to listen to her tales.

Oh, okay. I get your point.

Josephamstrong1:
You think I’ll come to a faceless forum and starting typing fictional story?
Bro, another of my ex visited on weekend after close of work, spent Friday and Saturday with me, left on Sunday morning that she wants to see her sick mom before work on Monday. Well, I called to speak with the sick mother. Girl refused. Said mom can’t talk at the moment. I understood abi? Later called in the evening, some guy picked and was warning that I should stop disturbing her woman🤣. That was when she was coming out from God knows where and started shouting at the guy for picking her calls on the background.
I called for 3days, girl didn’t pick call. She called one week later to apologize. Is this fiction, too? Things dey happen, bro. Person wey you dey with for two nights? What’s she looking for just one night?

You calling her for three days after what happened wasn't necessary bro. Haba noww! U be man naaa!

biyams:
Exactly....I thought as well sadly.... people who knew us together in church were also shocked then, after service both me and her were asked alot of questions from different people...there were cool rich kids there..those pampered boys who can just point a lady and the next thing you'll see is a wedding invitation...she stood cos of such for sure

She disrespected you big time bro. Good thing you let her go tho.

Vinnie2000:
If u checked well, there are some CLEAN, RICH-LOOKING Guys
That were seated on that Church service.

And she aimed to Catch one of them by Standing up.😊

Naija Ladies are VERY calculative and smart.

That's disrespect pro max.

popp:
The worst thing that can happen to any man in this life is when his wife "sleeps" outside.

Infanct, it's a step towards "six feet".

How do you mean pls? Expantiate.

Rilwayne001:
I’m an expert at ready energy.

Once I noticed my energy is getting more and more than I’m getting, I’ll automatically erase you off my heart.

Same here.

clockwisereport:
I sabi this thing die that year. I got Pitman's textbook that year.

Wow! Can you still write with it?

ifinger:
I have been fuckn dis married women for about 4times now she does it for the migre amount of 7k and her hubby is bed ridding she would risk it all to come FK me ! More so she is 8yrs older than I am I just enjoy spreading her matured cunt

I'm impressed with the fact that you're fully ready to face what will most definitely befall you for continuously sleeping with another man's wife. Wow!

MASTAkiLLAh:
I don't know, I'll check up on them

I'll like to read your response from your findings.

LARRYOBRAIN:
Thunderbolt (Magun) will teach you lesson. Continue

Na lack of experience dey worry am. U try some men wife u die like cockroach.

mario2k:
Is this supposed to be news. True some of this married women throw themselves to these men

Married people (men/women)don't always ask for money. So, many of them are doing it for the pleasure not for financial gains. Those of them who are good financially, especially older ones, would even pamper you finish.

If a married wo/man makes herself available to u for sex, and it is not against ur principle, f@ck the hell out of them. U don't ve any moral obligation towards their partner. Karma won't affect u. It is them who took an oath of faithfulness to themselves infront of God and man not u. U re only a passerby.

YOU LIE,IF YOU SLEEP WITH ANY OF THEM MARRIED YOU WILL BE CURSED AND IT WILL AFFECT YOU GENERATION. THEN IT WILL BECOME A PATTERN IN YOUR GENERATION. NEVER TAKE IT A JOKE THE AFTER EFFECT IS VERY REAL AND TRUE.

Just leave am. E no know life.

kingreign:
Kingreign cannot can anymore ejoor sir!

E don tire you abi??

lavylilly:
I stated facts

Karma or reaping what you sow has no respect for your so called principle. "He who breaks the edge, the serpent shall bite."

lavylilly:
Is this supposed to be news. True some of this married women throw themselves to these men

Married people (men/women)don't always ask for money. So, many of them are doing it for the pleasure not for financial gains. Those of them who are good financially, especially older ones, would even pamper you finish.

If a married wo/man makes herself available to u for sex, and it is not against ur principle, f@ck the hell out of them. U don't ve any moral obligation towards their partner. Karma won't affect u. It is them who took an oath of faithfulness to themselves infront of God and man not u. U re only a passerby.

See strong self-deception.

dododawa1:
goggle it

gOOgle.

feckos:
I bet many won't read this.

The subject is enough summary.

I enjoyed the intelligent interview/conversation, and I learnt some new words to add to my vocabulary.

Tonalphs:

I guess this is a novel and should be in the literature section. How did it find its way to front page cos few NL read novels.

This is one in a million stories/experiences, so it's worth the front page.

cococandy:
I’m asking you to prepare to care for your parents. How’s that connected to who I’m going to marry?

You in particular, how are you preparing to care for your parents? That’s my question.

And I'm telling you that I did my best for my parents before they both died.

frozen70:
Yes you are right
But my submission of the react, is centered on the children who may witness nonsense from both parents when the drama starts

That's another reasonable factor. Nowadays marriage sef.

cococandy:
That’s why you should prepare now and learn how to care for your own parents instead of hoping that one day you’ll marry someone who will do it for you.

Married, an orphan.

Na normal thing na.

cococandy:
All emotions. No logic

Make dem use logic drive ur mama comot for ur house now!

cococandy:
When sick and old in-laws come to love with the family, the expectation is that the wife will be the one to provide care for the sick and old family member. So your wife should have the final say on who’s coming for extended say in my opinion.

Because let’s face it, your wife would have been the one to give your mom bed baths, bathroom care etc. now that her mom is coming, she’s still the one who will be expected to do that. Not you.

So it might not be the presence of your mom she didn’t want. She just didn’t want the extra responsibility which invariably falls on her. Before you ask why she can’t treat your mom the way she treats her mom, know that her mom will be willing to die for her but your mom won’t. That’s the difference

Na talk be dis??

ChybuzzDD:
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The Op can also accuse her of being responsible for the death of his own mother, if she thinks accusation is her hobby or exclusive preserve.

It's definitely not her exclusive RESERVE.

GoldSantana:
What's good for the Greeks is also good for Uganda

What of Namibia?

frozen70:
I understand how you feel about her treatment to your mum and eventually she passed on because she didn't get the care you have planned for her due to your wife refusal to cooperate with her

Now it's her mums turn, just allow her to come the one let her provide her needs while you focus on the family needs as usual

What she denied you off is what she is requesting your approval to get, such is life

Your refusal may react to another thing

I agree with your submission but the bolded Anything wey wan happen make e happen. Na man mama dem treat like this for him own house o!

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

Such accusations are baseless. Nothing like that.

ojun50:
Discuss with her and remind her how she treated yr mum, then tell her to give you time to think about it.

In the end still allow her mother to come and stay for peace and unity.

Every married man should understand that the wife is not your blood so expect anything expectable but is children is his blood.

I totally concur with your advice, however, let me lend my thoughts to this topic thus;
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
Nothing, again I repeat, nothing would make me send my own mother, my mama, person wey born me out of my house.
Op, make your wife see that you have every moral justification to act to her mum like she did yours, but still let her come due to her age and health status, but let your wife's conscience beat her to seek for your forgiveness. Good evening.

NBTI alerted now.