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PoliticsRe: Niger Delta Avengers Bomb Chevron Oil Well Amidst Heavy Security (Photo) by ritux: 3:16pm On Jun 01, 2016
Idrico:
you should be ashamed of yourself.Many villagers of Gbaramutu kingdom are now living in bushes without food and you come here to support the criminals. SMH.
Goat!

When I said proudly Niger Deltan, did I tell you I'm in support of their actions?

You guyz just come here and draw different meaning to people's comments. SMH
PoliticsRe: Niger Delta Avengers Bomb Chevron Oil Well Amidst Heavy Security (Photo) by ritux: 7:59am On Jun 01, 2016
Proudly Niger Deltan
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is this fair on a job applicant? by ritux: 7:43am On May 13, 2016
maxwell767:
Have bread is better than non.
Nigerian graduate. Smh

When they say most graduates are unemployable, people say it's a lie.
Christianity EtcRe: Who Is Your Favourite Pastor In Terms Of Message Delivering? by ritux: 12:37pm On Apr 24, 2016
Late Bishop Idahosa.

Anytime I listen and watch his preaching, I am always inspired.

I wish he was still alive.
CelebritiesRe: Eniola Wright Graduates From US AirForce Academy by ritux: 4:30pm On Apr 22, 2016
Mediapace:
Rubbish!
Why can't he join Nigeria Air Force,are we that badhuh



**ASS LICKERS SHOULD NOT QUOTE ME**
Make him go die for nothing abi!
PropertiesRe: How Much Is Your House Rent by ritux:
800k for 2 bedroom flat in Dawaki News Engineering opposite Gwarimpa, Abuja.

Small rooms and small parlour.

I wish I reside in southern Nigeria and earn same salary I get here in Abuja.

Abuja rent is killing.
PoliticsRe: Obiano's Donates House & Borehole To Widow (with Pix) by ritux: 1:33pm On Apr 04, 2016
Good
Car TalkRe: How To Process Your Car Tinted Permit Plus My Experience by ritux: 8:34am On Apr 04, 2016
Please I need help.

For more than a week now, I have not been able to get into the web page http://www.npf.gov.ng/tinted

Secondly, how do I register my company's official car. All the cars belonging to my company are in the name of the Director's son who is not a Nigerian and also not in Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Dakuku Peterside Resumes Work As NIMASA DG Today (Photos) by ritux:
I pity my country.

When will our govt start appointing people to head our govt agencies on merits & credentials and not sentiments & compensation.
Car TalkRe: What Type Of Engine Oil Do You Use In Your Car And How Much Is It? by ritux: 5:16pm On Mar 12, 2016
Mobil 1 5W 30

Before now, I buy one for 9K but with this new dollar issue, the last I bought was 12.5k.
FamilyRe: Lets Celebrate Our Nairaland Children ( post Your Pictures) :) by ritux: 12:30pm On Mar 05, 2016
My Hero

CelebritiesRe: Charles Novia: 'Olajumoke’s Unleavened Bread And The Oven Of Opportunists' by ritux: 10:23pm On Feb 12, 2016
100% on point. My wife told me this morning that she fears for her marriage.
PoliticsRe: Appeal Court Nullifies Impeachment Of Nyako by ritux: 2:43pm On Feb 11, 2016
After the reggae play the blues.

Waiting to see how the drama would end.
Jokes EtcHilarious! First Nigerian Makes It To Eritrea by ritux(op): 10:06am On Jan 28, 2016
Photo of the day.

CrimeRe: Landlady Arrested For Connecting Water Well To NNPC Pipeline by ritux: 5:45pm On Jan 26, 2016
See cool hammer.

Oil well in back of my house. grin
InvestmentTrue Value Of ₦1000 In Our Current Economy Situation by ritux(op): 3:08pm On Jan 25, 2016
A true reflection of ₦1000.00

Thanks to our Government in power (APC) and the past Government that was in power (PDP).

$1 in hand = N305 from aboki.
$1 in hand = N197 from Bank.
N1000 in hand = N1000 in pocket.
N1000 in hand = N950 in Bank


Choose wisely...
PhonesRe: don't trust people that locks their phones by ritux: 6:24pm On Jan 20, 2016
I lock my phone strictly because of my bank alert I get as sms. Nothing more
EventsRe: Five People That Can Ruin Your Wedding Ceremony by ritux: 6:46pm On Jan 16, 2016
Cake Baker

Hall Decorator

Wedding Planner if you contracted one.

MC
PoliticsRe: AfricanSunTimes Names Jonathan International Person Of The Year by ritux: 1:00pm On Jan 04, 2016
[quote author=OgbeifunErom post=41637820][/quote]Kai....the news pain you ghan.
PoliticsRe: Chibok Girls Alive And Kicking, Says Boko Haram’s Contact - TVC NEWS [ABUJA] by ritux: 4:18pm On Jan 02, 2016
Hmmnn dem don come again with another one. Story for APC gullible supporters.

Kudos to them for not passing this to us through Liar Mohammed
CelebritiesRe: The Car Reekado Banks Won At Headies2015 (Photo) by ritux:
Baby Jazzy fall him rep. He should have kept quiet for the kid to rant.

Now, nobody sees him again as a Don but now boy Jazzy.

But why is Olamide calling D'banj in his tweets? Eja Nla is still the biggest Artist recognised outside the shores of Nigeria and Africa in modern African music.
PropertiesHuge Fire At Dubai 5 Star High Rise Hotel by ritux(op): 9:48pm On Dec 31, 2015
(CNN)Firefighters battled a massive blaze that engulfed a luxury hotel in Dubai Thursday night while a spectacular New Year's fireworks display lit up the night sky nearby.

Video shows orange tentacles of flames engulfing a large section of the the high-end Address hotel for hours after the fire broke out. Witnesses told CNN they heard explosions.

Early reports from Dubai authorities said the fire started on the 20th floor of the 63-floor hotel. Jaqueline Hurtado, a CNN en Español correspondent, said she was at a restaurant in the area when she heard an explosion, "like a loud pop," and thought the fireworks display may have started early.

She and others noticed flames at the hotel, and were soon evacuated from the area.

"That fire was big. The fire was just going so fast," she said. "It just started burning real quick."

PoliticsRe: US Opts To Buy Nigeria’s Crude, Says Kachikwu by ritux: 8:00am On Dec 29, 2015
They want to start deceiving us now. False hope.
PoliticsRe: Suicide Bombers Attack Mosque, 25 Persons Killed by ritux: 9:17am On Dec 28, 2015
I thought Bubu and his APC led federal govt ended Bokoharam!

Where is Mr. Lielie Mohammed?
PoliticsRe: We Now Have 23hrs Eletricity Supply In My Area: Is It The Same In Your Own Zone? by ritux: 10:28pm On Dec 27, 2015
NgeneUkwenu:
For The 3 Weeks, In fact since the beginning of December, we have been having almost constant power supply in my area and I wonder what could be responsible for this, though one of my neighbors attributed it to "Harmattan Season"!

Can I hear from you guys?

~Miss Ngene

lalasticlala Can we get the general views of the people...We need to hold government accountable to the people.
The road to my house is not that good but I refuse to relocate because of the steady light. In my area, I have always had at least 21-24 hrs power daily since early January 2014 when I moved to my present house. Anytime we have light less than that, the problem is a general one from the national grid or from our transformer because you can see light in the next street.

The name of my area is Dawaki. You can verify from anyone that reside here
CareerRe: The Authority Structure Of The Nigerian Police Force by ritux: 11:16am On Dec 27, 2015
mokset123:
2 V - corporal
3 V- sergent
1 straight bar - Sub Inspector
2 straight bar - Inspector
3 straight bar - chief inspector
2 * - ASP
3 * - DSP
1 coat of arm - SP
1 * & a coat of arm - CSP
Thanks
CareerRe: The Authority Structure Of The Nigerian Police Force by ritux: 4:20pm On Dec 26, 2015
CFCman:
Sergeant
Thanks
CareerRe: The Authority Structure Of The Nigerian Police Force by ritux: 3:51pm On Dec 26, 2015
What rank is this?

CareerRe: The Authority Structure Of The Nigerian Police Force by ritux: 3:43pm On Dec 26, 2015
lanrema:
The Ranks In Nigeria Police Force are divided across three structures; Administrative, Authority and Organizational structure. The authority ranks in Nigeria police force (NPF), from top to bottom is the Inspector General of police down to the constable.
The Inspector-General of Police
In accordance with section 215(2) of the 1999 Constitution, section 6 of the Police Act, 1990, “the Force shall be commanded by the Inspector-General of Police”.
This simply means that orders, directives and instructions to carry out the duties with which the Police is carried, flows from the Inspector-General of Police, through the chain of Command, to any Officer positioned to implement such order.
The office of the Inspector General of Police is the highest rank in the Nigeria Police force.
The Deputy Inspector-General of Police
According to section 7(1) of the Police Act, the Deputy Inspector General of Police is the second in Command of the Force and shall so act for him in the Inspector-General’s absence.
Section 5 of the Act makes room for as many DIGs as the Nigeria Police Council considers appropriate. Every other rank below the IG, takes order of Command from him, in the performance of their lawful duties.
The Asst. Inspector-General of Police
The Office of the Assistant Inspector-General of Police is provided for by section 5 and 8 of the Police Act. He shall act for the Inspector-General of Police in the event of the absence of the Inspector-General of Police and Deputy Inspector-General of Police
The Commissioner of Police (In-charge of contingents in a state)
Section 5 of the Police Act, in accordance with the provisions of section 215 (2), of the Nigeria Constitution, provides for the Office and rank of a Commissioner of Police who shall be in Control of contingents of the Police Force stationed in a State. He is subject however, to the command of the Inspector-General of Police or who-so-ever acts for him, in his absence.
Every other rank in the Force is legally provided for by section 5 of the Police Act. The Command structure of the Nigeria Police can be presented in order of hierarchy as in the chain here under.
The Deputy Commissioner of Police
The Asst. Commissioner of Police
The Chief Superintendent of Police
The Superintendent of Police
The Deputy Superintendent of Police
The Asst. Superintendent of Police
The Inspector of Police
Sergeant Major
Sergeant
Corporal
Constable
Source:http://www.ranksng.com/ranks-in-nigeria-police-force/
I will like to see the symbol which indicates each rank. For example I see some police officers with 2 v or 3 V at the hand of their uniform close to the badge or so.

FamilyRe: Upside Down Marriage by ritux: 8:11am On Dec 26, 2015
samocholi:
Greetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife that is what I thought back then.so I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church,not all these money making churchs.so I confided in him , so one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her ,that she is God fearing ,a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states,which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating,


I even took her to see my parent.to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.when my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material.but my Mum was like don’t conclude oh as per girls of nowadays that we should keep praying.at first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November,2011.i thot about it,and with my naïve mind said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry.


I agreed and we got married in 2011.we did both court and church marriage.immediatly we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another.it began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me incase we are recruiting so that I can submit for her.so the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room.it was around 7-8pm.after the call my wife started quarreling,that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her,she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert.that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways.i became shocked ,I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence.that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone,the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.



I left her with my phones and entered the room.this was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding.as the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem.after like a year two month into the marriage,one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk.and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was satuday unless if the matter is btw life and death then I can wait.she said it is not btw life and death and was insisting that we talk before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to stab me so I manage to collect the knife and threw it into the wordrobe.


By then the sleep in my eyes cleared immediately and I was like what is the matter what is wrong or what wrong have I done to her,my people up till tofday she has not given me an answer.so she stood there speechless so I assume all is well then as I was going tom bed she took one of her high heel and struck me behind my head I fell down and went blank.after a while I woke up and saw her looking at me.so I got up and entered my car with blood all over me to her uncle’s house and showed them and told them what happened.before I continue we live in Abj,so the uncle called her parent and her mum came to Abj the next day.before then I had written and taken my divorce letter to the pastor that am not doing again.


After that the pastor and her people intervened and talked to her. I went to that my colleague that introduced her to me that what does he know about her that I may not know so he said she told him in confidence that she was in cult in the university and that her boyfriend then was the capon.she also told him that the boy friend was shot in school then and died in her arms.when I confronted her she down played everything and wanted to pick a quarrel,so that one died down.


Before I continue,am a banker ,and my wife has a boutique that she sells men wears in Abj. She hardly laughs but b4 we got married she was always laughing.i havs severally asked her what the matter is but she will say it is nothing. Before now I did not know that my wife is a runs girl,after our baby’s birth in Dec 2012 my wife went and did family planning without my consent,it was in the evening when the stuf started disturbing her that I got to know. In August last year that is 2014,I was watching news when she came back by 9:30pm,she started making it a habit of coming late in 2014 and that has caused serious quarrel btw us. So when she came in she droped her phone on the center table and went inside to take her shower.as I was watching the television I now said let me go through her gallery because she likes taking pictures.after that I now checked her messages.i was shocked what I saw.

She sent a text to a married man,saying that she cursed him with the sperm he pured inside her and the man said it was mutual that she is the one came to his house to collect money for the shoes and shirts he bought,he also said he will curse her with his children’s life that she is not the only one that has a child and insisted that it was mutual.at that point my hands started shaking and before I know I she jumped out of the bathroom with soap on her body to take her phone.immediatly she came to the sitting room and saw me with her phone she frozed for like 15seconds not knowing what to say after that I asked her who is the man and she said that I was one of her friends from owerri that used her phone to chat the man.

when I checked the chat history it was not just one day chat it spans four days becos the chat was very lengthy. So I was pissed off, I reported the issue to the pastor where we got married and he down play it that she cannot do such a thing..
My wife has quarreled with all my neighbours in my compound of 8 flat,she has also quarreled with our security guards at the gate to the extent that they have refused to wash her car.On 25 of dec 2014 after returning from the church my wife spreed her cloth under the sun and my neighbour’s puppy came and played with the cloth and tore part of it.the next day she went to tell then but she did not grt a good response so she went behind and boiled hot water and pured on the puppy. My neighbor’s wife went and call police for her the next day being Sunday.but their aim is to keep her in cell till Monday to teach her a lesson.unknown to them my uncle is a top police officer so I called him and we were able to bail her putting Monday date.since then small thing my wife will start saying things that she is suspecting me , that am having am affair.i now told her how,she now said a man that does not drink alcohol and does not smoke will surely womanise.i then asure her that I have done nothing of such.and truly since I married her four years ago I have never looked at any woman aside her.

To cut a long stry short,February this year as usual during valentine I to her to a shop and asked her to pick whatever she wants.then she picked cloths and shoes worth 70k and I paid. After that February ending I usually give her 50k for upkeep so tha day I had keep the 50k but there was a plumbing problem that I had to take 5k out of it to solve so I gave her 45k promising to bring the balance home or I credit her,and that faithful morning we were having a meeting in which a top official is coming from head office and my head of operations was nor around so I was sitting in for her.

so I asked my wife to help me take our daughter to sch that day as I have to rush to the office b4 time. After giving my wife the 45k she threw it on the floor that it is not enough and started insulting me that what kind of useless job is that ,unknown to me she had gone and locked the entrance door and taken the key,as I was about to go out I discovered that the door was lock,so I called her aunte to talk to her,as she was on the phone with the aunt I went through the back door. As I was about to drive out I saw my wife rushing to close the gate with only pant and singlet,I mean pant and singlet not bump hort or rapper.i was surprise,but before she could close the gate I had already passed she now took a big stone and stared running after the car.
she threw the stone at my suv ,it sounded like a bomb very loud.at first I did not know what happened untill I saw her running towards the car so I stoped,she now came held my side mirrow and started breaking it so I had to drive off. I was devasted and could not make it to work,so I called someone in the office that I won’st be able to make it to the office that am having some issues at home.


She went back to the house and called my Dad that if I come back she will kill me.so my Dad called me and I explained to him immediately what happened. so he said I should not go back home that day, I went and slept in a hotel In town .so the next day her mum came and I went home.Now it is not that am afraid of her but because I respect women and will not want to beat ofr fight her,I am far biger and taller than her if I decide to cough she will vanish so is not that am afraid of her am only respecting the marriage institution. When I got home the second day to resume work the third day I discovered that she had tore all my cloths,my shirt both office and casuals,all my suit including my wedding suit,.so I had nothing to wear the next day.so I missed work wednesdy,Thursday and Friday,during all these happening I have been in touch with my office and told them am having some family issues and could not make it to work.



I resumed the next Monday to work and everything seem to be going well, then on Tuesday I got a sack letter from human resources of the bank.unkonwn to me. the new manager that was posted to my branch got a querry for myself and the head of operations not being around for the initial meeting. so he was angry and he wrote to the bank’s human resources and when they checked that I was not logged on for the three days I was sacked,all because of my wife.most times she sends abusive texts messages to me while in the office.For instance if am attending to customers and she is calling and I did not pick on time she will now send a nasty text that I delibertly don”t want to pick her calls.i have even told her to come and see how we work in my office.so since march am yet to get any serious thing to do.
I January I had 2.5m I paid our rent 1m and part pay for a land 1m and the remaining 500k lasted us from march till june.as usual with banks I was not paid anything.so when my savings finished in june the major financial burden fell on her,with little coming from me now.Since then my wife has made my life a living hell with all sorts of insult. For example in November,there was nothing in the house so she went to southern fries and bought rice and chicken for herself,then bought a watery oha soup with out meat that I should make garri and eat with it.it was when I wanted to microwave it that I discovered that it was watery and has no meat.i did not say anything.


Most times I stay back at home unless I have an appointment or an interview just not to spend unnecessary .so I was checking one of the cupboard in our room and I saw somethings she got from a native doctor,they include a bottle of concosion with the label witches and wizards destroying oil,the second one was two of her bathing soap with burnt candle on it when I looked at the soap closely I saw small cross buried inside,the third thing I saw was the complimentary card of the native doctor.All these things I just mentioned are real and I have their pictures that I snapped.i picked them and went to her uncle’S place to show him and he was mad,he immediately called her parent to come to Abj immediately and I called my parent to come becos I told them I don’t want the marriage again. Both parties came and the meeting lasted from 5pm to 12 mid nite and continued again the next day.

she could not defend her sellf and I said am not doing again and everyone started beging that I should give her one more chance.and it seems the issues was resolved.i started my investigation and discovered that unknown to me my wife is a runs girl even b4 I married her and after marriage she continued .that is why she went and did family planning without my knowledge so that she can be sleeping with me with out condom.and this days she dresses sugestivly.i have reported to the pastor ,her parent about her dressing but she has not changed.presently she is fighting with a lady in her former church the lady is a leader in the church.she said the lady has been attacking her in the dream and anytime they lady sees her the lady calls her prostitute.She told me that the lady is sleeping with her pastor.My wife has bad mouth and insult at every provocation,she hadly laughs always moody but when some kind of men call her she will be laughing as if tomorrow no dey.

Today being Christmas as we were preparing to go to church,she was noW feeding our daughter who just turned 3 last week.becos the baby was being slow to eat she started shouting that if the baby does not eat quikly that she will injure her.when I heard that I came and told her that such statement to a baby is not good,I have cautioned her severally not to be telling the baby that she will injure her.because there was a day I was playing with our baby and the baby was telling me that she will injure me.so becos of that I cautioned her.that was all,instead of her to take corrections she started insulting me.that am useless,that the whole burden is on her that she regrets marrying me.that she will surprise me one of these days.


My dear brothers and sisters in the house especially the married ones I frankly need ur candid advise as I am tired of her ,her bad and unrepentant character and her evil ways but am only looking at the term Christian marriage in terms of divorce as I ultimately want to make heaven just as every one.

Thank u for taking ur time to go through my ordeal.
1. That your pastor or your wife's pastor is sleeping with your wife.


2. I don't trust that your friend that recommended her to you. She confided in h that she is/was a cultist and he could not tell you? He is not a friend.

3. You are under a spell. She has charmed you that you cannot do anything.

4. Your parents don't like you. With all that has happened, they should be the ones pulling you out of that hell not marriage.

5. You don't like your life.

6. She tore all your clothes, you have 2.5M in your account you could not go look for some quick shirt and trouser to buy so you can get to work that you had to be absent for 3 days! You are not serious. You don't like your job. In fact you are under a spell. Pls watch some home videos and see.



VERDICT: Divorce her, relocate from that house to somewhere that she won't find you because if she knows, she will come after you. Leave the kid with her for now. Align yourself with God
TravelRe: Passengers At Abuja Airport Sleep Under Turkish Airline Plane by ritux: 10:55am On Dec 25, 2015
I don't understand how these people managed to get to the tarmac.

Do we really have security in our airports?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Graphic Photos From The Anambra Gas Explosion by ritux: 9:57pm On Dec 24, 2015
Every December, there seems to be one disaster in this country.

God have mercy on Nigeria.

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