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Fabricated story from an unreliable source. Until I read same on mainstream media platforms this is nonsense. Prolly a hatchet job from PDP mischievous elements in Kogi state.

IamAtribalist:
1st bolded:Wake up! You are sleeping on a bicycle. This is what ladies want you to think but it does not mean this is reality. The only reason a woman will delay sex is if she is not sure if you will make a good 'slave' for her. The moment you pass the 'slave' test, she will turn yansh quickly. Of course the girl will not tell you the truth but she will say something like that nonsense you posted.

The first bolded stated that women indulgence depends on how 'nicely' men treat them. Herein, you're saying is dependable on a 'slave' test. By slave I'm assuming you mean spending money and material gift gestures. Now what's the difference between 'nicely' and 'slave' which both connects to same money and materialism. I take it that you just want to be vile about it and dismissing it as nonsense even as they're corresponding but just with a different narrative which is unwarranted. No need to rub it in.

2nd bolded: Absolute nonsense! Go to America and see women faacking freely - have you heard the phrase 'Bleep buddies?' In fact, the same thing happens in Nigeria except the Nigerian women are more discrete than their Western counterpart. What about all these 'runs girls' are they also in a relationship with all the 20 men per week that they sleep with? Open your eyes, bro.

Although American women are more liberal towards sex and the occurring no string attached sex that exist it doesn't mean the majority indulge or would entertain the idea of a fvck buddie affair. Such romance is in the minority scale.

I don't think the OP nor my initial submission was geared towards runs girls. Runs girls and their likes should fall within the category of prostitution but thread was addressed to decent/normal relationship.

3rd bolded: women spend money on unnecessary stuff men are more frugal and sensible in spending.

Your entire last paragraph just exposes women as childish, immature and materialistic. And also the truth that people hate which is that women date men for the resources the men can provide for them...fund her lifestyle. Shikena.

Again, you rub it in. Easy mate. I'm aware women prioritise financial security and comfortability before embarking on a relationship. But don't we all have priorities when initiating a romance? Don't men set out for the one with big ass, big boobs and beautiful women etc. I'm not holding brief for anyone but love/relationship is all about interest. Love in itself doesn't exist but all about what we can achieve and what the other person can guarantee us. Women go for the money bags because of financial security and love we all know depends on affluence. Just that one must not always rub it in unnecessarily.

Ladies.

In most cases guys are expected to spend money, call more, initiate conversation more and seamlessly have to impress their woman when in a relationship. Bearing this onerous task in mind, it's easier for a guy to stay single. In doing so, no drama and more savings for him.

A guy doesn't need to involve in a relationship to have sex. A guy can fvck without emotional attachment but ladies mostly rely on how nice you treat them before they can indulge. In view of this, a sexually active girl is in dire need of a relationship than guys. Escorts haven't downed tools yet.

Among peers females feel the constant need to talk about their boyfriend than its the case with male. When her friends all have boyfriends and talk fondly about them when hanging out she feel pressure to have one for herself and get concern about her looks being responsible for her inability to attract a guy. Women subconsciously need a man to validate their beauty.

It's easier for a guy to commit himself to staying single and maintain it but more strenous for ladies. Reason being that guys will never stop approaching them which can prompt them to settle for one at some point amidst consistent persuasion.

Women feel more pressured to get married than men. Society have conditioned them to get married if they want to be accorded respect. Else, they risk being tagged hoes and other condescending names.

Finally, women tend to have more monetary needs than men. They are more prone to compete against themselves than men in terms of acquisition. She's got trendy hair style to do, nails, eyelashes, shoes etc whereas guys aren't easily swayed by such mundane stuff. And for an unemployed lady whose parents can't afford these stuff and want to belong in the midst of her friends, there's a dire need to have boyfriend who can fund her lifestyle.

lomprico:
Ashamed of what? Arsenal is good truth b told. Nothing to be ashamed of we are loosing to a very good side.

The history and rivalry that exist between both team is not something that should be taken lightly and concede goals in this margin. It's not a problem if we lose but a scoreline like this with a competitive side and a title contender doesn't bolster the team's confidence. It should have been averted.

What a disgrace. Feeling so ashame as a fan.

Siena:
[color=Blue]Admiring ladies based upon what they are wearing is very different to acting on a fantasy, based upon the same. When one begins to blame a lady's attire for the actions of an animal like the one here, it's a major concern.

No man has the right to act on any dark desires he may harbour, even if the subject lady has no clothes on. There are no acceptable excuses.

Lastly, my insinuation was based upon what YOU previously posted below. You may wish to read it through once more, and possibly edit it accordingly.[/color]

Having sexual imaginations based on one's attire is no crime. It only becomes a crime when the person react offensively and pervertible in the manner the guy behaved. Everyone knows whatever one wears is no one business and shouldn't be a premise for sexual molestation but still it doesn't negate the fact that people are moved by what they see. The reaction is where the monster lies.

I only said the guy might have had wild imaginations based on attire which might have influenced his obscene behaviour. Never did I say she shouldn't have wore what she was wearing or faulted her for influencing it. In your bid to berate every comment that doesn't explicitly condemn the culprit and your pseudo sexual molestation activism you rushed to counter my annotation without grasping the content.

My initial comment didn't fault the victim neither has your rebuttal proved it was.

Siena:
[color=Blue]So you're saying it was the lady's fault? Her dress code made the mòronic chimp the victim?

Meaning you would do the same. You lack self-control, you would rápe a woman, and blame her dress code. Shame on you![/color]

Gerrarahere mehn. Where did I blame her? How does saying a revealing outfit can make a guy have imaginations same as blaming the victim? Did I applauded him for his act or didn't you see the part I said he's sick?

Don't you sometimes admire ladies based on their outfit, especially when it's revealing. Do you go about wanking or molest them publicly? You're the one who should be ashame for erroneously giving insinuation to something that was never mentioned.

olajorn:
I No dey fish oo...I just have business with mrs phyno

Na she be the new shark or its a work in progress?

Honestly if I were a Chelsea fan I'll denounce my membership. The disgrace is way too much.

olajorn:
boss of life...happy New Year

Guess you meant happy new month. I wish you same bro, been a while I see you 'fishing' here. Gotten a permanent shark?

SemuhleB:
Some women will never learn. If the fact that he is Nigerian and an illegal immigrant does not make you run, then I dunno what will.

My advice move on. You will never ever be able to trust him so what's the point. You don't want to be one of those ladies who come and cry here about these men using you for green card! Do not let it get to the stage of from frying pan to fire!

An illegal immigrant have same motive and exhibit desperation to regularise their stay when in a foreign country. No country is left out, not even yours.

HyDef:
I think she must have been really pretty. He was making his intentions known.

True. Perhaps she must have been wearing some revealing outfits too. Some of the attires some ladies wear can prompt one to start having wild imaginations sprawl round the brains. But not to the extent of wanking though, dude is just sick.

What would one not hear. Have call girls down tools

WTF is she doing. That thing is the young man's life madam. Get your hands off.

tosyne2much:
I dont deserve this cos i have never cheated and will never cheat


Dr. Ronald 4lif i throway salute ooo

Greetings sir. Wetin dey shele for this thread.

abbssx:
Lmao. This is what gets to me the most. Trust me I myself used to get annoyed when other girls used to go through similar stuff and I am like wth are you still doing there. It's different when you are in that situation. I have left him but I guess I just miss him and perhaps I wanted to find out whether in fact it was just me being paranoid.

Another thing about professing love quickly. I think it must be a West African thing cos men from my country do the same thing. Lol in fact my first boyfriend I dated of 5 years said it quicker than expected. But you are right though

It's hard to trust the motive of anyone abroad who doesn't have papers when they claim love. Such love never exist and it's a plot to regularize status abroad. Immediately you said you had lived in the States since you were 6months he knew you're a legal resident and had to start making advances. Whether it's real or not its not something worth risking.

Trust me if he sees an akata who can fall for his trick he'd play same rhythm of love to her.

Guys say I love you for various reasons. For a lady I just want to shag I won't hesitate to play the love game on her. It's designed to weaken her defence asap and straff and move on. If she's not the gullible type and stretches me I move on.

But for someone I like and feel something for I'd be cautious to tell I love you coz I'm aware most guys use on her a lot. We might go for months and months before I eventually say it by which time she'd hardly doubt me as my actions have proven to be that of love.

It doesn't mean someone can't feel love instantaneously but for the fact that its one of the most common words guys say to women and that lady hears it every time from different guys it'd slim one's chances to persuade a lady for a romance.

So this is it? All the I'm not that kinda girl and tough lady stint was just an illusion and false sense of self worth? Someone once told me that any lady that tells you she's not that kinda girl you can deceive are usually the most gullible. You just proved it.

When you asked him if he was in for the papers and affirming he's just wasting his time what were you expecting? That he owns up to his 'motive'?

You're certainly being played and dude is in for the "pali" and nothing else. The speed light in which he started professing love is suspicious. Get a grip of yourself miss braggadocio.

TrishaP:
So what then do you use to beat down sugar in your body?

Nothing precisely, except for my courteousness towards sugary foods. Though not certain but I try not to exceed daily recommended intake and rely on luck.

wristbangle:
Lmao


O God! I don chop 100k this night oooo


Ojigbi jigbi!

Muk ina2, ronal d4lif, king tom

Yawa dey o. If I were a Chelsea fan I'll denounce my membership. There's no point really.

malonephill:
I just need 2 more goals to shut all these people here up........

Yimu.

TrishaP, unfortunately I don't like anything bitter leaf.

What's he saying

ZedX9:
[color=#150000]Erm bro Ronald 4lif, this one you're viewing without saying anything, hope I'm safe?[/color]

What should I say, really. Matters of the heart is a sensitive one and it's best not to intrude.

Blackett or?

falconey:
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Teenage you say? To my understanding teenager is applicable to the ages between 13 to 19 so depending on the age range of teenagers you eye I don't think you'd classify as a paedophile. Below 15 perhaps but anything above I don't think so. Beside, looking is free but touching without consent is where the monster lies.

Halimi24:
Gbam!!!!!!!!
Gbammer!!!!!!!!

Gbammest!!!!!!!
U got it perfectly

This is why I like u

Ur a thinker!!!!

Perfect post!!!!!Absolutely&completely perfect!!!!

Welldone!!!!

Thanks for the compliment.

Halimi24:
In other words;

It is what it is

&nothing can be done 2 right d anomaly

Cos we're all guilty of d act&its better left

Ignored

Okay then

No it's dangerous to let such practice continue unabated. We have to keep creating awareness in the possible way we can. No voice is too little.

In my little way whenever I see an acquaintance or relative treat their ward or child-housekeeper unjustly I speak up and air my annoyance without restrain.

I think parents are becoming enlightened and most people don't even entertain the idea of sending their kids to live with someone else. It has become a common knowledge that people easily maltreat kids that's not theirs and would sluggishly treat them like humans.

But the issue is still having some setbacks because of some poor couple who keeps breeding like animals even as they know they don't have the resources to carter for these kids.

Halimi24:
Why wasn't it widely believed 2 be more hygienic

In d 1970s,80s&90s

Why did dis belief start being propagated in d

2000s esp by d media??

& since then pedophilia seems 2 be on d increase in many societies

Afterall av heard many men say they want nothing
2 do wit women without shaved pubes

If a man said dat in d 1970s or 80s

Alarm bells would ring(Pedophile!!)

Why do u think dis mindset is d new normal??

Evolution??
Changing times??

I think it's more of a media liability than evolution. The media has been the leading tool that propagate sexuality and it characteristics.

They grant audience to safety razor companies to uplift their sales by 'enlightening' people on the need to trim their pubes. Gradually it becomes a tradition and those who don't trim theirs are seen as unkempt and unhygienic.

Sex sells and the media is solely responsible for projecting it. It controls the mind of the masses and whatever image they project becomes acceptable in due time. Just like they have made us believe that light complexion women are more appealing to the eyes than dark ones. Which isn't true.

Oliviaarims:
I was going to ask the same question...

Since most people don't want to grow old and identify with their age group which subliminally influence their behavioral pattern and brain development there's a possibility they subconsciously adopt kids way of life and consequently feel attraction towards kids. Just thinking aloud.

dharay99:

0hk, wah do we av here,
ßitch figh†....?

Dharray gerrarahere. No umpire assignment for you today.

Halimi24:
I like u cos u are 1 of d few thinkers

On dis forum

I av a question 4 u

Why do u think adult women across various

Cultures av tried&continue trying 2 look

Like little girls??E.g
Chinese women bounding deir feet 2 look like d
Ones of little girls&many women across

D globe now shaving all deir pubes off
Aren't we in our own actions&mindsets also encouraging
Pedophilia?
I don't think child rape cases are as rampant

As they are being reported by d media esp
Bloggers

Its all linked 2 sex&sex sells
Why isn't there dsame outcry abt d physical&psychological
Abuse of child maids in ngr??


D american sociologist barry glassner stated all dese fear mongering in
His book 'd culture of fear'

Nothing is as barbaric as the practice of child maid. That's one heinous crime that goes unreported because most of the wealthy class are mainly guilty. We only here cases of child slavery when the child get severely beaten or in some cases get burnt with electric iron by their 'guardian'. A lot of Nigerians are completely unaware that for a child to become a nanny and domestic housekeeper and look after the kids of couple is a human right abuse and outright child cruelty to such innocent kids.

But then, when I see that the culture of maltreating young kids extent to their own wards I keep mum. How do one wrap their heads on the fact that a child who should be in the classroom and study after classes have to go retail their biological parents wares to help sustain the family. If some parents can allow their kids indulge then we can hardly fault when they allow their child slaves, can we?

Halimi24:
I like u cos u are 1 of d few thinkers

On dis forum

I av a question 4 u

Why do u think adult women across various

Cultures av tried&continue trying 2 look

Like little girls??E.g
Chinese women bounding deir feet 2 look like d
Ones of little girls&many women across

D globe now shaving all deir pubes off
Aren't we in our own actions&mindsets also encouraging
Pedophilia?

Sincerely I don't have a clue why Chinese women does that and not aware of it until now.

On the issue of pubes trimming I think it makes one feel more comfortable around their privates even as it's widely believed to be more hygienic. Not forgetting the fact that it's more appealing to gaze at when trimmed. Just like the usual shaving of hair by guys in barber's shop.

You may have another eye-popping theory to it which I'm anticipating to be educated about.

However, it would be insincere and evasive for me not to admit I don't know what you're driving at. I think you're trying to give credence to why paedophilia keeps thriving and reasons that propagate the ugly crime.

Lately, grown adults don't want to identify with their age whilst teens and kid seems to be more eager to identify and lead an adult life. I've noticed that when it comes to behaving and identifying with one's age young teens are more sincere and in most cases claim to be older than they are while adult pretends to be younger. People hardly tell their real age and claim to be young. We see ladies often talk like little babies in a bid to sound sexy and young. Likewise for the guys in some cases. But I'm uncertain how this connect to paedophilia and it proliferation.

Good stuff and deeply rooted message.

But for the number 6, I'll not teach my ward how to pray or bring them up in the manner or stipulated principles of any organized religion. Would let him/her grow up to an adult and decide on which faith they decide to adhere to or otherwise. I think they deserve that choice.