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cherryice:
n ppl at ur work understands?

Yhh he has..hes very fine. Thanks dear

You're welcome. Yes they do. It's very normal to engage in part time while studying here so every employer understands.

tosyne2much:
Bros i throway salute

My oga, how many of your ex-babes lie say dem be V before wey their honeypot was unobstructed when accessed?

cherryice:
ohhh I see. thts an interestn dstraction.but sch n work?? mehhnn hw do u cope ?

Not easy but life itself isn't a bed of roses. The bills have to be paid lol. I have classes just twice a week, rarely 3days so I have got at least 2days for work and sometimes weekend if I find it necessary.

How's lil chairman? He must have resume school as well.

cherryice:
money n good living

wat u bn upto

Chop the money, nothing do you. Yolo.

I commenced my PG program recently so I have been incoperating school and work which affects my calendar and time to look for trouble here.

I don't know if it's just me but I haven't come across any lady who for no reason told me she's a virgin, at least not in the last 5years. I think I have a way of telling women that I don't care about virginity and I don't entertain a sexless affair that they easily figure that telling about their sexual status is irrelevant and vague.

Men are responsible why women lie about their virginity and it usually depends on the guy involve. For someone who doesn't hesitate to infer suggestive talks into their conversation with a new 'fish' the lady won't bother about lying or even telling about her virginity status.

To put it in perspective, if during our get to know each other phase and I tell you a no-sex relationship is not an option for me and I love sex then how would you tell me if you're a virgin or not? In doing so, I have told you I don't give a damn about virgin. So you won't see the need to chip in virginity talks. This only works for guys who submit to no premarital sex rule...perhaps.

This issue of women lying about their virgin is not my concern. Who cares about virgins? Not me. Another stúpid and unnecessary lie some take pride in nowadays is telling even without asking that you're the second ever person they're having sex with. Some of you might have noticed that each time you have sex with a lady for the first time they try to portray themselves as reserve and say things like you're the second after the person she lost her virginity to. I understand there's a need to preserve some self-worth but no one asked.

cherryice:
im fine.. longst tym..
Nigga

Ya been a while. You just dey shine now. What's the secret?

cherryice:
ronald 4lif how you. .?

I'm good belle, thanks. How about you?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xUyNCJbZzA

Interesting comments.

I admire and have nothing but love for women who takes financial responsibility in relationship/marriage and don't have a problem relating with them on equal footing. But I find it hypocritical and selfish for any woman who doesn't or can't take up equal share of bills in a relationship to champion gender equality crusade.


Until feminists and their pseudo egalitarianism cronies learn to take up responsibility their equality charade is dead before it even commences. May amadioha disfigure the mouth of any lady who would expect and demand I fund her hairdo, dinner dates and other monetary gesture and expect equality. What codswallop.

ChuzzyBlog:
Your perception sir... people think and act differently. Thanks for stopping by

You don't have to agree. Good luck with the chase, all the same.

If really the OP is the one on his dp then I'm sorry to say but you're bigger than this infantile display. You like someone, a lady for that matter you initiate private correspondence with her, not this. What you've just done will only diminute your chances of producing a friendship/romance with her.

bxcode:
What else do you need to do in other to make it sex inclined?

Your caption reads relationship is not all about sex which evince all sexual relationships are sexually inclined. Having a sexual affair doesn't mean it's all about sex. Same way one can say relationship isn't all about money, doesn't mean a relationship can function efficiently without money. Similarly, having sex with one's partner doesn't implies sex is the substantive and foundational rock on which the affair is premised and founded upon.

Don't make an issue out of sex, no one is coercing you to indulge. If you don't fine, but others do.

ChiSun27:
This story get as e be.

You just walked into someone's apartment where you haven't been to before and the gateman still allowed you on small persuasion?

I refuse to digest this unpalatable jollof rice.

I taya o. She didn't just make her way into the compound but inside the building and right inside the room where they were having sex. This must be some nollywood script were people never locked their doors. Sorry, I don't believe this story.

Why not and what's the problem with divorcee women?

The car on the pic looks like a Q5 not Q7. The husband shouldn't bother, she should buy her choice car herself or use public transport. Ende.

Bevy12:
I saw them kissing.

You saw him kissing with another girl and belayed the affair? Ordinary kiss? Not like they were 'doing'. Alright Kontinuu but remember boyfriends are scarce o.

Having a sexual relationship doesn't make the affair a sex inclined one, does it?

I'd be a fool if I cheat and tell. Well, except if I want a split then it won't be a bad initiative.

She was never his babe, so the issue of betrayal is negligible and trifling. Shouldn't even be discussed. Ask him to explain to anyone who cares to listen how you betrayed him.

Although you might have picked interest in her after the friend indicated interest in her. Perhaps you were motivated to chase her and wanted to find out what he saw in this girl you never noticed. Either way, it's still no betrayal. They were never an item.

Well, everyone have their choices to make; to marry or not to. For many they hope and wish to get entangled in matrimonial, for others not so much. But whatever one adopt as reason to get married can still be obtained without a ceremonial piece of paper.

Companionship, procreation, bloodline conservation etc can still be achieved without marriage.

tosyne2much:
Make i buy land for this cooked up story thread

Ronald4 lif i throway salute

Oga mi, I prostrate before thee. Na nollywood script be this one o.

Fabricated codswallop. Dream on with your imaginary millions.

jomile:
if u don't know what happened den don't judge

Both of us were student in the same uni

He wanted to drop out of school cos he couldn't pay his fees, I sacrificed my fees for him right from 200level till wen he graduated

Our plans were wen he graduated nd get a job he will assist me in clearing the debt i was owning in school cos of him

But he did not keep his promise, he did not, he left me wen i needed him, but i was dere wen he had nothing

His only excuse for d breakup was dat his level has change nd he wants to change his taste in women

Ok my bad, now I know better. I was only concern in repelling the belief that a broke guy who hustle his way out of poverty should or must be mucilage to his girlfriend. It's their choice to stay in the affair or move on.

Your experience wasn't just about that he left you for someone else but that he refused to clear the debt you took for him. That's sheer wickedness and he should have cleared the debt and move on.

cc150615:
Dude,i can't get the bolded...you're really going out of scope...I didn't see where the lady said anything like she being broke wen d guy became rich or anything like dt...she only said the guy dumped her for reasons wic I don't think are financial...some guys are just like dt...wen dy arrive they'll start seeing flimsy excuses why dt old gf is no longer in their class and dy need to step up or dy just start giving the girl funny attitude as opposed their humble sef wen dy were broke.....
anyway 21st century women....we are wise...you may call us gold diggers but we don't invest our time nd resources on guys who can't take care of us either now or in the future.....men of nowadays even seem to do more of the gold digging
Men shd have something to do/love before looking for someone to love..dts why God gave Adam sth to do before creating Eve...the OP has explained it all...

21st century women can date any category of men of their choice, they're entitled to their choices. But I won't hesitate to dismiss the misconception that dating a broke and struggling guy means the guy should stick to you once things becomes better, that's baloney. Women shouldn't just place their hope on a man hoping for his life to improve without doing nothing significant to better their own life.

If I'm broke and dating a lady, I'd not work hard to improve 'our' lives but my own life and I can decide to stay in the relationship or move on. Didn't stop her from hustling when I was doing same.

jomile:
U guys r here calling ladies gold diggers

Wat about those ungrateful guys dat will have a good woman dat will suffer with dem for years wen dey have nothing, through thick and thin she will stick with him, den at d ending wen d guy gets a job nd start making money he will abandon d woman dat was dere for him wen he had nothing nd starts chasing after girls dat did not know how he got to where he is

Trust me it happened to me

And after my experience u expect me to date a broke ass nigger again

NEVER

You sound like success and wealth is exclusive to guys.

Okay so he succeeded in overcoming hardship and made something out of his life and now rich, I guess?

During the period you both were dating and he was hustling to enrich and better his life what were you doing? Relax, rely and hope on him to become rich while doing nothing to improve your own life? Only to moan about later how broke guys abandon their 'loyal' girlfriends once they succeed.

Dating a broke guy doesn't mean you're doing him a favor or he's obliged to stick to you when rich. Relationship is not a business venture where you invest and hope to yield the gains of your investment. It's a game of hearts, not money or comfortability. If your broke boyfriend is hustling to better and improve his life, you do same too. He's working to better his life, not your life. He doesn't owe you allegiance.

canDy4eva:
d women dnt enjoy rape, but hw a -penis would hv an _erecrion on durex is wot I cnt put 2geda... Na wa o!

Typical of women to think men love to be sexually assaulted while they don't. No one enjoys tape, get a grip.

canDy4eva:
I still dnt get it! Now is it dat he would still enjoy d s.ex as he would if he did it at will

Does it matter if he enjoys it? If you think a male victim of rape enjoys it then female victims too enjoys it. Perhaps we should embark on a raping spree then since the victims might enjoy it, right?

The brother must have observe some characters about him that he doesn't like and don't want the sister associate with. Or they don't rapport and relate well as neighbours. Or he thinks the guy isn't grounded financially to provide security to her. It's up to her to find out from him the reason for his objection.

canDy4eva:
plz educate me more cos I used to tink dat a man cn only hv an erection wen he is in d mood?

Arousal is not consent. A man can be raped just like women can too.

You haven't met the lady that will captivate and sweep you off balance. When you do all that would change. You're just testing waters with the ladies you have been meeting to ensure you are up to date with trendy skills to woo women. Some guys are like that and it's fair if you don't sleep with them before withdrawal.

But I'd advice you stop playing with peoples emotions for the fun of it. You can collect numbers but be certain you want a relationship before initiating one.