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Lamanii22:
Maybe cause I grew up in a house filled with many people... I don't think I can ever live alone... Whenever my husband isn't around, kia I would go over to my sister's to pass the nights ...

Kanbe:
I'd add that even if you are fearful go anyway. There's no magic wond that will cure you. Accept yourself because it's the "not accepting" that causes all the pain.

What's the worst that can happen? You'll get there and feel self-conscious, you'll feel uncomfortable, you'll want to leave. If that's the case focus on being present, engage your senses, feel the chair under your butt, or the ground under your feet, smell the air and listen to the sounds around you. Look around the room and people watch. Get up and walk around.

Shit, if people ask you what's wrong say you're not feeling too well. Just be present and you may even have a good night but even if you don't it's okay because the goal was to go there and if you're there then you've won so pat yourself on the back and celebrate that

Ps. I'm telling this to myself and you guys because we're in this together

Kanbe:
I think you should push yourself out of your comfort zone. Dress smart casual, and shake hands with those who approach you. Go with a friend if you're afraid you won't be comfort with anyone there.

The thing with introverts is that we live out the experience in our minds and it's never as bad as we think it is. When you get there you will enjoy yourself, it's the getting there that's a challenge.

Treat yourself to a nice haircut, some new clothes and go there for a couple of hours. Leave when you want to but go. I have to go to my nephew's wedding next week and I'm dreading it so I have decided to make it a day to treat and pamper myself. I'm looking forward to that and it makes it easier because I think about my massage, facial, new haircut instead of the event.

Let's do this together! It's a one time occasion so we can do it.

starbuck:
Better forget going and send a simple text and if possible request for account details..

Anonymous9345:
Good day everyone,
I am a terrible useless introvert, I don't have girlfriend and I have never ever had one. My self confidence, self esteem, etc are very low. I can't walk to someone especially the opposite sex to talk, even just saying hi. I can't maintain eye contact, I can't speak well, I can't do anything well.
So please I am begging your guys here to help me. I am dying in loneliness and depression. I know some of you guys are in a relationship, please help me, train me.

Romanoff:
Team Hygeia. I've never had any bad experience with Hygeia.

BRATISLAVA:
Everyone is making money, or didn't you go to school with girls and aren'tt they aren't educated and have jobs too? Or you want to claim women don't have jobs all around you?

If men think criteria such as working over a pot is important, why can't women find a criteria like the man making money important? Or men don't want their inadequacies touched?

Why on Earth will any responsible man not know how to make money? It's a very bad one. And I don't expect any woman to take it lightly.

BRATISLAVA:
So what if she couldn't cook?

When men can't make money, they expect women to stick with them. But once a woman can't cook, what do you think the response is?

Iamicekid:
I was in this situation once, had to carry bus from wema in Ibadan to Abuja, we move around 9:30pm cause it took a while for the car to be full, and by 7 I was in Abuja and this was 2018 and now I only go to Abuja during the day and even with that we still hear that they just rob or kidnap some mins ago but with the current situation, of insecurity u should be very careful cause the way them dey kidnap and rob people for that lokoja to abaji side is mind blowing, but since you have no choice all you have to do is put your journey into God’s hands, wish you a safe journey

nokspos:
I cooked rice and stew for her by myself coz i didn't want to stress her, i served her while she was pressing phone on the bed. after a few minutes , small portion of the rice and stew fell between the bed and the bed foam. i pretended like i didn't see it and she just let it slide. its not even the side of the bed that is close to the wall.

9japride:
Its wrong to do that, it shows pretence. Its just African mentality and mediocrity. It could have been different if you guys weren't in motion first and she joined you guys. But as far as you guys where already in motion, no need to give way. Its when you finally reach your destination that she can then come to the front seat. Its all these yeye pretence that encourages elders in the society to messed up the system for the youths.

Odinaka00:
It shows that your brother Charles was right, you don’t have the balls to face your wife wey carry the madness enter online. You re here asking us to stop the madness as if we grab your wife phone and started posting your personal issues online. Abeg leave us your online in-laws alone and go talk to your wife wey nor consider the kids before bringing this online. E be like say na your wife dey wife you oo 2Baba. You be dey type wey dey behave like mumu if your wife dey around… Too quiet and soft now I understand why your brother Charles dey vex

emmyyoung688:
pls nairaland so how can I open this type of mail...IAM helping my brother with his registration I. FEDERAL UNIVERSITY LOKOJA ...
they said I should login in to their University email that further information will be communicated through his University email...

johnson.neke@fulokoja.edu.ng
how do I open it.. pls help

Dozieson:
Guy in 2018, my colleague bought Voltron N2.2m . The price range was between N2.1m to N2.4m

Grupo:
He was not saying any truth.

During Jonathan's time, that car was selling for 700k.

OfficialDJ:
you're mad

badoh:
You can't get tokunbo of this car at 1.3m now considering the current exchange rate. Even during Jonathan's tenure, this car sells between 1.250 and 1.3.
If 2003 Big daddy could be sold at 2.1m presently, it means 2001 camry will be between 1.6- 1.7m.

Whazar:
after men don sample the toto finish lol

cococandy and saphiere look up to you

they will end up marrying themselves too someday

Modrov:
Not into Fuji music...but Pasuma looks like a young man ..not like the father of an adult child.

Anyway, that's showbiz, you have to look good for the fans , or else...

Ritateach:
I wasn't happy when he came initially but somehow there was nothing I could do.

My major challenge now is hubby isn't so strict with him partly because he is extremely busy and isn't always home and don't even have the time to be talking and cautioning always. He also feels it's his late mother's last wish to see him train the boy in his house and that he can't let him go.

Ritateach:
I wasn't happy when he came initially but somehow there was nothing I could do..

Ritateach:
I am getting tired but hubby won't see it. He even said I am beginning to sound like a broken record.

Ritateach:
I actually wanted him to go stay with his mum a bit or his aunty whom I know they are struggling, maybe life would teach him some sense. I myself, I am equally struggling but struggling get levels. So when I say I wanted him to go, that's what I meant but you're free to choose whatever you believe.

elantraceey:
You watch too many nollywood movies.

Ritateach:
You didn't read well. But it's okay. I asked for opinions and so anybody is free to talk. The final decision lies with me.. Thanks anyways

Dtruthspeaker:
Men, know this, if you have a good child in your house, evil reports is what you are going to be hearing.

Women can not bear a good child whether their own or another.

They must torment and destroy them.

mysticgal:
You people should stop watching nollywood movie about turn.
This woman out here never mentioned throwing him out but spaghetti body would not let you read.

If that boy is not careful, he would end up 6 feet underground when he steals from the wrong person.

Ritateach:
. I agree. This boarding house issa goal. And yes. I will give compaliners hubby's number. I have told him about the dangers with the kids. He asked him to sleep in the parlor while the kids sleep in the room but my guy would watch tv till the wee hours of the morning and reduce the volume so one won't know so when we found out,hubby sent him back to the room but separate beds. What I do is to ask them to leave the light on always and the door open. Nairaland is a faceless platform, what is my gain? A child that stole a phone from the nurse treating his grandma(my mum inlaw). You never jam kids who weren't monitored and allowed lots of freedom all in the name of he is still a child? Even his mother suggested we get him arrested so fear would enter his body but I declined.

QuinModah:
I was waiting to grab more at the dip, remember be greedy when others are fearful and be fearful when others are greedy.

AIT1:
Omo...See as betece plunge.

Oya una wey dey find dip, food don ready. 80% of those waiting for dip no go buy!

Tolu181:
Btc went from 50k to 43 within one hour


This is a fucking scam