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Hmm
The husband should ensure he carry out DNA test on his kids if they have any.

Taystee:
All coins on my portfolio are all red except SOL I bought SOL @$35, but it's quite unfortunate I sold 2 SOL at $80 each only left with 1 SOL, thanks @openheaven,I owe you a deep kiss,that one if you still they single...

Openheaven is a guy!

Divoc19:
No. Bad idea.
Use to be good idea in the past though

Lol
Why is it no longer good idea now?

NamelessOGBENI:
I earn close to 60k minus the side gig.
Now my monthly expenses look this way,
1. Food & Groceries 8-10k
2. Tithes (y'all know the figure)
3. Transportation 3k
4. Siblings support and pocket money 8k
5. Miscellaneous 3k

N.B: I lived the MGTOW life so its the elbow to elbow lifestyle for me, no commitment and I stayed up north.

Folks should kindly factor in their locations while dropping their punchlines here.

How do u spend 8-10k for food monthly?

ashafson:
1. Reduce spending,spend only when necesary
2. Use car only wen going out with family else use motocycle
3. Stay at home except wen extremely necesary to go out
4. Reduce meat qty or replace with egg or fish
5. Buy different/cheaper food stuff
6. Reduce amount of gifts giving
7. Try some small petty businesses at home
8. Buy stuffs in bulk
Etc

Though the bold sound funny, i agree with u lol

Nnemuka:
Salary earners are trying oo
I earned about 150k from a small gig I did last week Friday 3rd sep. As at today 7th of September I have 18k left of the money...

Omo Naira is useless
I cant even believe I blew over a 100k in 3days...
Ok I bought one human hair and paid my own contributions towards grandma burial but....

phewww....

U are not serious lol

Ayo2004:
Whoever said that adulthood makes sense is truly a liar
As a student,I was surviving,paying my school fees and everything on my own through social media influencing on Twitter
Now the useless FG has banned Twitter,none of the companies are no longer using Twitter so no more money for me

The 300k I was saving to set up a work station for programming and learning online is now what I use to pay my fees and other bills...
Nothing like hardwork,honesty and determination pays
Only the wicked and cunning survive in this country

Shey man no go start yahoo like this
There is no worse hell than Nigeria

Quite sad @bold
Reason govt should stop making senseless decision just to please their ego! What have Nigeria as a nation gained from the twitter ban? It has only make things more difficult for people! This current govt is something else. Ban twitter, ban crypto, wetin youth wan take survive!

mariahAngel:
To be honest, the Yoruba people are the most accommodating tribe in Nigeria.
They are humble and free minded too.

I totally & conclusively concur with this with immense alacrity!

saphiere:
I wish my mom sees this.

Do u also have issues with your mom?
Thought it was only your dad?

Lol

Frales6:
something wey other men carry, e heavy them...na you wan go carry...I ga ebuli kwa? the sound of bitter kola is not the taste oooo baba.... anyways; go try luck na. and make sure you get enof money oooo, if not she go use you do joke

Seems u grew up with boys?
All your siblings na boys right?
Slangs too full your mouth lol

ModelLook:
You wrote a good post yet couldn't state the Country which is the Subject of your narrative

So much for "don't let people know the country you are in o".

Nigerian Mentality Sha.

Honestly @bold
So many persons have been asking which country, the op stylishly ignored it.

Rotiix:
Double wahala for aunty tonto

Lol
Tonto lost a good man, I am not saying Churchill is perfect though, but I doubt tonto will ever find a man as calm as Churchill. Reason women need to be careful, tonto was the one who drove Churchill into the hands of this rosy girl with her attitude & she took advantage of it!

Good
She is learning gradually!
This her response look less dramatic than the way she handled the break up with Churchill!

cococandy:
Ndi polygamous in nature. How will 50 men mate with 50 women while believing that they each deserve more than one woman without actually sharing and sowing in each other’s garden?
Spare us the nonsense pain that arises as part of the culture y’all promote. It’s a cycle

Stop pinning your inability to stay faithful to one man on polygamy! Don't even try to use polygamy as smokescreen when she wasn't raped! Are u women this daft! One is saying up there it is because the man is impotent & here u are using polygamy as smokescreen? A woman bringing an illegitimate child into a man's house got nothing to do with any culture but the woman! U women are more ridiculous than I thought!

pocohantas:
Men make majority of our lawmakers. The president is a man, the vice is a man too. They should use same energy they use in looting and fighting for age of consent to be reduced to 13yrs to fight for DNA testing. It is in their hands to do it. Make them no disturb me abeg.

This one is shaking already smh
Most bills pass into law starts with such awareness. It is a gradual process! We will get there...

peacettw:
Gosh, this argument is becoming exhausting. What is the root problem of this matter? Why do women birth another man's child into their marriage? Common sense dictates that majority of these situations are secondary to infertility, and since the woman can get pregnant, it is quite clear where the problem is coming from.

Now, I know for a fact that most men do not do fertility tests following marriage to detect the cause of infertility in their marriages. The woman usually bears the brunt of this 'failure' pushing her to get pregnant from other sources. There may be other reasons but this appears to be the prevalent cause.

So, to prevent this issue from ever occurring, why not also declare just like the DNA that men must first do a fertility test? How are both issues not equivalent?

This is pure evil! Gosh! If I find out my partner is showing symptoms of HIV & I ask her to carry out test & she refuse probably because she is hiding something, what will be the right thing to do? Is it not to quit such union? If as a woman u are sure your husband is not fertile & has refused to carry out fertility test, why not quit the union?? How is giving him another man's child without his knowledge the right thing to do? A lot of u women are evil honestly! Where u people get the mind to give a man's child to another & still live under the same roof with the man & kid without your conscience pricking u is what I don't get. Any woman capable of giving a man's child to another is more heartless than the leader of tiliban & every terrorist group in the world!

peacettw:
Speaking of being daft, if you expect women to go along with this mandate of checking their children's without question, then by all means, your abundant wisdom should take into coignance the fact that most men reject the idea of screening when infertility problem arises. To worsen matters, the society supports this abhorrent behaviour believing women to be the cause of the infertility in most cases.

You will agree with me that since the later issue almost always births the former, 'wisdom' demands that all men should rise to the occasion of checking their sperm count before embarking on that journey called marriage since we know that you most likely won't after the union is finalized.

If you want DNA checks legalized, then add to it the screening of both couples to prevent this from happening. If this isn't clear to you up till now, look no further than sickle cell dx and HIV.

What is this u are saying??
Where have u seen it being an issue men rejects screening?? Any man rejecting screening has something to hide & as a woman u should divorce such man! It is like saying u won't carry out health tests like HIV, genotype etc, sperm screening is fertility test! So why should any man make an issue out of it?? Moreover the fertility test will be done by both the man & woman! Is this your excuse for woman shivering at the mention of DNA??

LutanFyah:
Stop spewing rubbish.

If your husband refuses to go to hospital to check and treat the cause of childlessness in your marriage, you divorce him and marry who is willing to bear children with you. You don't become a whoree and start committing abomination in the guise of "safeguarding your marriage ".

Exactly!
I was surprised to read that coming from her! You can see how selfish some of these women are? Na person wife be that one so!

moneyissweet:
As for me, I don't care whether a child is my biological child or not. I am a very handsome guy and love beautiful children. As long as the child is cute,and my wife is beautiful, loyal and don't deny me sex. I don't give a damn.

Like my father always said,what you don't know can't kill you.

The most interesting thing about this whole thing is that people like Deji may be training another person's child without knowing,but he will be busy running his mouth up and down.

I just hope a girl is behind this moniker, if not, u are a big disgrace to your family!

descarado:
Some have zero sperm count yet they marry.
Tell them to go to the hospital for all round check, they will blow hot.
Meanwhile, MIL and her coven is on your case.
Give us grandchild or my son will marry another woman. You will be labelled barren.
So many ladies out there had no child cos husbands refused to seek medical help or open up.
Women have resorted to safeguarding their marriage the other way round.
When we look at what drives women to have kids from outside, infidelity is at the bottom.

This is pure trash!
What are u even saying?
You give a man another man's child for your selfish interest & u are trying to justify it? If u feel a man is impotent & u can no longer take the heat from his people, quit the marriage! That is the right thing to do! Giving him another man's child to sate your selfish desire is pure evil & can never be justified! This is the reason why u women fear DNA so much, at the mention of it, all of u start going mad! U all have something to hide!

Biglittlelois:
Guilt has nothing to do with being afraid of DNA test, there should be trust between couples before tying the knot, if a man should wake up one day to suggest DNA to his wife, he has created doubt which will breed hate and eventually divorce, especially when DNA is conducted and it is confirmed that the husband is the father.

It is guilt!
If a woman has nothing to hide, I see no reason she should be afraid of DNA test!

peacettw:
In the same vein, they should screen all men for low sperm count before marriage to decrease the likelihood of women introducing strange DNA in the family pool

This is no issue!
It is expected of intending couples to carry out all necessary health tests before getting married. But my question to u women is; why do u women fear DNA so much? Saying a man have low sperm count is not enough reason to give him another man's child! That is pure evil!

ecolime:
See them

Men are scum... Men are cheats.. Blah blah blah.

Just mention DNA and they shitting in their panties.

The way women shiver at the mention of DNA is worrisome!

ivolt:
I hope Deji will fund the test that is 5 months of an average earners wage.
Or is he trying to restrict child dedication to rich people only?

One mumu up there even suggest that the government make it "free" when
we have not solved the problem of fuel subsidy.

What has fuel subsidy got to do with DNA?
Are u hiding something from your husband?
I see no reason a woman should fear DNA if she got nothing to hide!

Quite a sad one

Quite sad!

CharisEleos:
Its not wrong. Understanding is what matters. As long as it's not different religions, no qualms.

Where there's going to be a little clash is if a penticostal marries a celestial or K and S because their religious beliefs and practices differ on all levels.
Well.. this is just my opinion.because some people are so understanding that they can't let religious differences come between them.

It is wrong!
Which church will the baby be dedicated?
Which church will the children attend?
In cases of family Thanksgiving, which church will it be done?
There is no way couples attending separate churches won't detract from the bond of any family, both spiritually & in the Christian life of the children.

If as a man u can't get your wife to worship in same church with u, just know your wife doesn't respect u.

pocohantas:
[s]Na your whole family be mad dogs. Ekuke for that matter. E pain you too ba? Na me una wan face now, make Lola rest? Onye ara[/s]!

Stop making noise on this forum like say na your papa get am! State your points without raving like a mad dog on steroid! Wetin go pain me? Say Paul wife divorce am? Be like your mental disorder don dey deteriorate...idiot!

donhils:
And Lola the Yoruba girl is still with her husband. Not the tree you expects to fall falls eventually

Lola with her husband doesn't make her a perfect woman. Do u know the things peter tolerate from Lola to keep the marriage, Paul may not be willing to tolerate from his wife?