₦airaland Forum

Lastmankc:
And my mum is disturbing me to get married?I just told her that she can marry a second wife for my elder brother.And she's thinking that I am under a spell.She has been bringing different spiritualist to my house.The day I go break one of them head,he go shock everybody

Beebah2000:
But it is not compulsory for her to contribute na. Na wa for Nigerian men ooo...... Shabi u love here na, so u have to spend for her.
Stingy Men Association don turn their brain upside down.

emmanuelewumi:
Your employer deducts 7.5% of your salary, the employer adds another 7.5% making a total of 15%. The money will be invested throughout the worklife of the employee. You will get your monthly statement via your phone.

Funds in the Retirement Savings Account of most workers is their biggest assets

spice123:
My employer remit my pension to them. Stanbic IBTC is from South Africa and I can say that they are reliable. I have experienced them first hand.

spice123:
Part of my pension helped renew my rent when I lost my job during the pandemic. 25% of my total pension was handed to me. I use IBTC pension fund. You can make your research.

vickydevoka:
Women's character changes aunty.

They way my GF is doing now, she can't do half wen she's married. Me i don't have a problem bcuz i do all de house chores n i cook. Buh de question is women are usually wicked n inconsiderate to dere husband n he goes down ( not all o. Buh most).

N wen a lady does good thing for u n u crack her heart she will tell de world what she did for u. Buh in the man's case, most will keep quite ( some will speak up

elonmuskbaby:
Hanty you sef rest.whats with the social media obsession

If Mark close down Facebook and Instagram wetin you go do?

Abi if Jack shuts down twitter shey you no go rest.at least take time to heal and take care of yourself and your son.enough of All these social media attention and validation.be a secure woman and a mother for now.haba! Your son needs motherly care,if you denied him fatherly care at least groom him properly without social media knowing what is going on with your son and in your life

Unfortunately you don't have good people around you that will be truthful to you.at least thank God you and bobrisky have fought.imagine exposing your son to the likes of deviants and misfits like bobrisky? That one too Will grow to be another crossdresser

Cchuks27:
31 yrs old. apologies for the late response

AutoChick4U:
Unique mindset

alexola20:
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This reminds me of my present predicament.

I swear,never be too kind to any woman,even if she is your mother.
The only female a man should do everything to love amd to protect is your daughter(ti ko ba ti ja ifun iya e je).
I really doubt if I can ever love a woman again.
My life and heart are shattered for my kindness and being too good to women i.e. mother,wife,sis and MIL.

Mother sits on the house in 9ja.
Wife sits on the one in Europe.

I am myself homeless,living with 7 very dirty guys around while I have my houses completely paid for by myself with no single help from anyone.

Be careful what you do with any woman including your own mother.

They are mostly evil.

I don't fear women,I dread them.

nick50:
He who pays the piper dictates d tune!!!..one thing I noticed about women is thier hatred towards men..I can bet u that 98% of d so called love stories, relationships and marriages that are strong and intact is because the man provides virtually everything most especially finance..its very easy to detect a family that is financially dependent on a woman however ur prayer should be ...'dear Lord please don't let my pocket run dry, secure my job please and never allow me to be in a situation where I have to be dependent on anybody especially my wife/gf..amen'

colestephan86:
My dear
Any man that leave his responsibility of taking care of his house to his wife , has no say period.
If you are the one taking care of all bills in your house and your wife pays only for gas, well if that's ok by you go on
But if you are staying in a rented apartment, and you want to grow faster, share shed some responsibilities and let your wife handle them
In my case I let her pay for the govt, groceries and toiletries. While car ,gen NEPA, house hold maintanace and repairs are done by me
We share the house rent too but I take the lion share , so I can focus on our own site. And it's works well for me.

princewarri1985:
Bro you are fvcked! Bro you are in soup trust me i know what am saying, there is absolutely no way your wife is going to respect you if she is the one feeding you, she go even dey go outside dey go Bleep too that one na if he never already start to dey Bleep for outside now self, this is the reason why i always tell men not to be pressured in to marriage, marry only when you are financially ready and capable to shoulder a family responsibility, am now 41 and there is absolutely no way anybody is going to pressure me in to marriage, i will marry only when am financially ready, am still enjoying my bachelorhood, and i dont joke with my sanity and peace of mind, this night na better pounded yam and egusi soup with better goat meat i prepared myself and ate for dinner about 3 hours, no woman no problem, because i non want any woman to come dey worry my life and send me to an early grave, LET ME REPHRASE AGAIN BRO YOU ARE FVCKED AND YOU DON ENTER SOUP

Sterope:
My dad? No

My brothers? 100% yes. You think everyone's masculinity is as fragile as yours. . They are every Alpha male as well of that is what you are looking for.

Sterope:
He is useless because he takes care of his family?

Romanoff:
If I hear. She worships him.

They respect each other.

Romanoff:
You are right sha. The woman I cited above who just bought a house and car, her hubby takes care of the kids and runs the home while she's at work. She doesn't come back from work to start rushing to the kitchen to cook.

Hubby would have done that.

Weekends, she cooks soups, hubby does laundry.

saphiere:
In my opinion, he rejected her because she is a girl.

DieRich5:
bro don't buy USDT @570+ is too high, it will drop to 500 next year...........so save it in piggy

Happiness09:
The market didn't play out the way I thought it would this week, I agree there will be no rally. I've sold everything.

Cchuks27:
same here. my peers are getting married in droves and I'm still single, thereby, adding some sort of psychological pressure on me.

Lollittaa:
the wages of sin is death...

NwaAmaikpe:
You'd lose all your dominance, influence, and respect and ball. It won't be long before she starts sending you on errands to buy condoms for her to take to work.

reel14:
What if anything happens with my job, will I be able to stay in a verbal abusive home?

Kobojunkie:
I disagree.... marriage does not change people, it simply sheds a clearer light on our true selves at the point of entry info marriage.

If a person does not change willingly, no amount of gloss can make that happen.

Aurelius1:
Its okay if he doesn't want to get married but, by the time he gets to 65 years na then body go tell am say the life wey him dey live no normal. That was how an uncle of mine who had no wife and kids died. He was 66 years when he died. Before he died he suffered so much. When he was sick, there was nobody to take him to the hospital. It was the same mentality the op has that he had when he was younger. There was no help from anybody. No visitation, nothing. In fact, he died like a chicken and was buried like a rat.

Mftivi:
projection is down towards 28k on the extreme 15k. Gotta live volatility, it’s like Santa handing free paychecks

theForth:
For real bro.

Right now I am very disinterested in relationships. Close to four ladies I could get down with, it's so obvious they like me when I am around them, they are not always in a hurry to leave, in fact i end the conversations first.

I don't know where this empathy comes from, I mean not to smash them and leave because I am not really interested in what's happening in their lives other than for them to spread their legs.

I'll only get married for kids, I'll provide for my family just as my dad did but to discuss about my life and shit to my wife, I don't see that happening.