Romance › Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by rubyjan(f): 8:36am On Aug 13, 2020 |
alllivesmatter: What the Guy did was totally wrong and I condemn same. However, this happens both ways...
Had it been the tables were turned, some women or girls ( as the case maybe) wouldn't even consider refunding a kobo and they'd be justified that they haven't committed any crime at all in as much as that money came from a guy.
That being said...I think there's a reason we all have what we've come to recognise as conscience. Everyone has it. It's just that some people deliberately choose not to hear it whenever it speaks and that makes a case for an individual's action(s). Exactly, you nailed it. The problem here is that most people are not honest. As long as the two people are not married(cos that is between them and God, i have no input there), if you borrow money, then treat it as loan and repay. If you know you are not willing to pay, then just ask for help. If you are fortunate to get, good for you. It is better than opening topics to bash women. |
Romance › Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by rubyjan(f): 1:11am On Aug 13, 2020 |
 You guys are so funny. Well mine is if you borrow money from a woman, remember the emphasis is on borrow, kindly repay when you promised. This is different from minor helps here and there. A certain friend of mine borrowed N400k to a friend of hers who she thought she was in a serious relationship with. This guy had an accident with his car and needed to fix it up and sell it and return the money borrowed. At least that was the story he sold to her cos they live in different states which is far from each other. Well long story short, he returned half of money and refused to return the rest after close to 2 years reciting one story after another and mind you during this time, he has withdrawn emotionally from her. No calls and few unemotional chats here and there. If you were in her shoes ,what will you do? Most of the guys talking do not say the whole truth most of the times about their dealings with women ,so don't just jump and conclude what you don't know about. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by rubyjan(f): 6:48pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Kiki Osinbajo Denies Owning N800m House In Abuja, Slams Jackson Ude by rubyjan(f): 8:33pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
zeusdgrt: With all ramifications and answers u have made available,I say u know nothing about business and please don't insult a profession with stupid grammar cz u want to prove a point and u went as far as lying about biz acronyms which is damn Annoying to us that are product of business and worked in different established finance institutions.Sorry you are too low to be educated on this as you have shown,I made reference to before covid and citing case scenario of the present covid just to get ur mind to know that there's no hope for the brand to be better now as of the former pending ur detailed proof on questions I asked.Try not to claim what you are not cz u don't know who will respond, take correction and shut up!  I'm enjoying this banter  |
Health › Re: I Can't Smell Or Taste Anything, Please Help by rubyjan(f): 9:18pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Naijabams: its typhoid sir you will recover after 1week ,don't worry ursef its common now ... Don't be afraid its not covid19 It is funny how suddenly loss of sense of taste and smell became symptoms of malaria and typoid  Nigerians lol. Please those are signs of Covid19 especially the recovery stages. We thank God for the lives of all above who had the symptoms. |
Travel › Re: Coronavirus: Nigeria Shuts All International Airports To Foreign Flights by rubyjan(f): 5:50pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Gforce2019: Coronavirus go make motor plenty for Lagos Road than necessary. The terrible traffic is making many people to park their cars because you cannot be getting to work late everyday unless you're the MD of the company. |
Travel › Re: Coronavirus: Nigeria Shuts All International Airports To Foreign Flights by rubyjan(f): 5:28pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Please is there anyone with a useful information on when the Eko bridge will be reopened?
The traffic is terrible and it has forced many people to ditch their cars and opt for public transportation to work.
Leading to many people at bus stop fighting for few buses in this corona disease period. Na woah. |
Politics › Re: Coronavirus: Lagos Enforces Rules On Social Gathering. by rubyjan(f): 5:12pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Please is there anyone with a useful information on when the Eko bridge will be reopened?
The traffic is terrible and it has forced many people to ditch their cars and opt for public transportation to work.
It has increased the number of people at bus stops fighting for few buses in this corona disease period. Na woah. |
TV/Movies › Re: Ultimate Love Reality Show 2020 Thread by rubyjan(f): 5:33am On Mar 17, 2020*. Modified: 5:56am On Mar 17, 2020 |
Amya: I like Sylvia, I also like Chris but Presh is a highly vindictive individual that let's malice eat deep into her soul.
The Bolar and Roksie you claim are conspiring didn't even nominate Preshdavid yesterday but Presh David nominated the both of them after peace talks last week. They even said they'll keep nominating them going forward.
I haven't watched a single footage where Bolar and Roksie were conspiring on who to nominate and if you've seen any, please post.
Jay talked to 4 other groups on why they shouldn't nominate themselves going forward leaving the only groups left to be nominated to be Chivia, Roksie and Bolar. ( If you didn't watch the meetings this afternoon then it's better you don't say what you didn't watch) Jay is a terrible person who usually acted like being nominated wasn't a big deal but the moment he got nominated started trying to play God.
If Iykeresa wins, then it's fine, but I'm rooting for Roksie and I'll want want them to win not only for the bragging rights, but for also the fact they'd break the tribal bias, older women bias and the baby mama bias. If Kachi loves her as she is, who am I not to see their vision to fruition. Wow, I wish I can like this post a billion times. I wanted to reply that person but you did an amazing job. Some people watch things around them without discernment. Yet they feel they can judge others about their past. Smh |
TV/Movies › Re: Ultimate Love Reality Show 2020 Thread by rubyjan(f): 8:44pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Peter Obi: I Used 22-car Convoy As Governor Until I Found Out 13 Were Empty by rubyjan(f): 3:02pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
cupidFlint: counter ambush kwa for area where there isn't war... who would plant the IEDs in Anambra abi you think na Sambisa we dey.... guy no dey form military strategist for war free zone  Lol, Nairaland is my tonic every day with comments like this. |
Car Talk › Re: Can You Drive On Nigerian Roads Without Scratches? by rubyjan(f): 11:11pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Lol, This is my best comment this year  thesicilian: You can drive without scratches in Lagos, as long as you don't drive out of your compound. |
Politics › Re: Lagos Impounds Trucks Of ‘Opay’ Motorcycles (Photos) by rubyjan(f): 9:22am On Dec 03, 2019 |
migeoart: I just wish every nigerian will go to heaven,we are partially in hell we dnt need to suffer anymore!!!How can you ban bikes when you have not fixed the cause of traffic jam!!!if the roads are free no one will want to fly bike on express road!!Oga start with clearly the ports, remove all the tankers from the roads!! On sunday here tankers where parking triple lanes on a tiny road and i wonder where are the law of this state! By banning opay bike more unemployed people thrown back to the society The annoying part is this people will never provide an alternative!!God help the average Nigerians Thank you for this. Yet someone here was talking about Rwanda, USA and Europe as if fuel tankers blocks highway and even streets there. The way the average Nigerian thinks is appalling. They will leave the problem and chase shadows. |
Fashion › Re: Ladies, Can You Drive In Heels? by rubyjan(f): 11:21pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
I drive with barefoot cos it's so comfortable.
I don't feel the brake with shoes, maybe because I didn't learn how to drive with them and Lagos is a crazy place.
One day i tried just driving into my compound with shoes on, I didn't find it funny not to talk of high heels abeg. |
Family › Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by rubyjan(f): 11:40pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
E pain am well well. Lol, shut up. The world doesn't revolve around you.
Ode
[qquote author=victorian post=83908145]
Awon go and marry crew!
Come and drag me to go and marry the man I'm dating. People like you, all your lives revolve round marriage. If una, no marry una go die! See them, seeing husband and marriage as poverty elevation scheme!
Smhhhh! Rubbish!
If I decide not to marry and date forever is not your fucvking business and if I decide to accept whosoever I feel deserves me as his wife, it's still not your fucvking biz!
Face front! And lemme enjoy my relationship in peace. We are not complaining to you or anyone to come marry us.
If marriage dey hungry you so bad, go and marry.
Ode![/quote] |
Properties › Re: How Much Will It Cost To Build A 3 Bedroom Flat In Benin City? by rubyjan(f): 5:18pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
ak22: You are talking about low cost building one here ?. moreover do you have any building plan ? From there people we know what to estimate on. But location is another issue
Your foundation of 3 coaches will cost you around 550,000 with iron and dpc but without dpc and iron 300,000 on 9/10.2meters building of 2 bedroom . but this depend on your land texture.
From foundation to level roughly 1200 block If you use 9" block budget 900,000 with pillars and lintel to level . without pillars 600,000
If you use 6" budget 800 to 850 Without pillars 500,000
All with workmanship But materials price might different from your area
Copy rubyjan # DIY# note there is no professional charges in all Budget 4m without flooring, fencing and borehole.But this including POP, Parapet, Electrical ,plumbing sanitary # do it your self # Thank you. The area is Lagos mainland. |
Properties › Re: How Much Will It Cost To Build A 3 Bedroom Flat In Benin City? by rubyjan(f): 3:04pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Please how much will it cost to build a standard 2 bedroom bungalow?. I don't mean the gold-plated ones ooo.
The 2 rooms will have toilet and bathroom and a guest toilet in the sitting room.
A small store inclusive. Land is not included please. Thank you |
Properties › Re: How Much Will It Cost To Build A 3 Bedroom Flat In Benin City? by rubyjan(f): 2:55pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Maybe it's a gold plated 3 bedroom bungalow. Icon4s: The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. My 3 bedroom bungalow with two sitting rooms, well decorated interior with wall papers and sitting room with stucco paint and very high quality rooms and exterior painting cost me N18M in 2017. Mind u, i supervised from start to finish. Roofing alone cost me over N3M |
Family › Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by rubyjan(f): 1:44pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
All this long epistle for what Every story on nairaland whether made up or real relates to you. Everyday your man, when will he turn your husband  Nonsense and ingredient. victorian: Lemme say my own.
Sighs, if only you know how easy it will be for the devil to attack your home and it's finances, if as he his married his wife is not a praying wife.
I'm not Muslim but one thing I know is this. I dont get tired praying. It's not when troubles or problems bombard your life or your husband's life before u who remember God.
Your husband is just being careful and cautious. He prays 5 times a day even though he's comfortable, simply shows he knows the devil can attack him or his family at any time. He's already covered himself with prayers, the weak line for enemy to attack is now you. Don't u know if illness is thrown your way, God forbid. He will be the one to spend and carry your enemy upandan. Dont u know such attacks can collapse his financial standing in the family and make him poor aftewards? He's trying to protect all he has laboured for. And with you not praying? A weak link is already discovered which enemies can use and attack his life or yours. Especially yours. And there is no way he won't spend money to make sure u are well again.
To before arm is to be fore warned
I'm Christian, tomorrow is church. I'm kind of weak to go out tomorrow to church. I feel like sleeping and relaxing indoors but whenever I think of how comfortable I feel at home, I will be like lemme just relax Jor and not go to church.
But my past of how I suffered will flash through my mind and eyes and my inner voice will say, sighs Victorian don't be all too comfortable and relaxed in your prayer life. U don't need suffering again to appear before u remember to go out and worship God, just twice in a week. It's not too much.
Immediately the way I suffered flashed right through my eyes, Na church Straight the next day or prayers before I sleep every night. You don't tell deaf and dumb say war dey come. Ive even introduced prayers into the life of my man . It's very very important.
Don't see prayer as a task. See prayer to God as a way of appreciating God and placing your family in God's hands.
The air you breathe today is not yours. Its just a Privilege. So please remember to always pray to God. Few minutes and u are done. Try and make it a habit.
Be prayerful. And remove the idea of remarrying another man . It's not as easy as u think . |
Food › Re: Fisayo Soyombo's Nigerian Local Rice Tweet: Nigerians Blast Him by rubyjan(f): 4:30pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Nigerian rice is very sweet. I have been enjoying for more than 3years.
I ain't going back to that tasteless foreign rice. |
Crime › Re: Two Men Exchange Blows Over Who Will First Use An ATM by rubyjan(f): 9:58pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
Donchukz: .
This is exactly what happened between a soldier guy and I,we were all on the line,everything seems to be moving smoothly,out of nowhere, this soldier guy appeared,with any plea,he went straight to withdraw,everybody was scared to ask the soldier guy any questions,but the guy no even know say my own craze pass him own,I tell am say baba,e no go work o,u better join d line,the soldier guy was like,"do u know who I am,I tell am say," I know wan know,the next thing I heard on my chic was a thunderous slap,I didn't even hesitate,I retaliated with same and equal measures,lifted him up,on top of him I was,punching him repeatedly,until I broke his mouth ,his upper eyes,before people could rush to separate us,I had already inflicted serious injuries to him. Mehn,u needed to see how people were hailing me. People just need to respect themselves,that's all,just do what's right This your story get as e bi ooo. Are you sure it didn't happen in your dream?  |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: Mike's Wife, Perri Shakes-Drayton, Speaks On Final Results by rubyjan(f): 12:35pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
You can support your hubby all you want but.....
the 60million is not following the two of you to UK that's all.
It is for Nigerians living in Nigeria. Thank you |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Mercy Issued Two Strikes For Fighting Tacha by rubyjan(f): 11:12am On Sep 28, 2019 |
skukimania: She wasn't on her way winning anything! Her village people even saved her from the humiliation of escourting Mercy to the stage to win her price. WORD |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Mercy Issued Two Strikes For Fighting Tacha by rubyjan(f): 11:00am On Sep 28, 2019 |
bazooka1: The public have focused so much on Tacha thereby giving Mercy a free ride. Hypothetically, if the tables turned and Frood picked up iron to strike Omotshola, I'm damn sure he would have been disqualified. Tasha and Mercy should have left the show this night. QED Stop typing rubbish. They were given equal punishments, 1 strike each for fighting. One was already on 2 strikes and that was why she was disqualified. Why is this so hard to understand. Na waoh. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Tacha Disqualified From The Big Brother House by rubyjan(f): 8:48am On Sep 28, 2019*. Modified: 9:35am On Sep 28, 2019 |
QuickStandard:

So las Las no leave no transfer, AKA 99days, left disgracefully!!!
Inside life!!!
Moral of it all, Stay humble.
Respect is Golden.
But I still feel Biggy was bias, he should have disqualified both Tacha and Mercy. You all should also be humble and accept the fact that you do not understand the game. They were given equal punishment which is 1strike each. Tacha was already on 2 strikes and that was why she was disqualified. Ask questions before commenting pls or passing nonsense judgments. |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija: Gedoni Spotted With A Beautiful Lady After Breakup Rumour With Khafi by rubyjan(f): 3:53pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Olodo24: Anything from Cross River or Akwa Ibom shouldn't be trusted WORD |
Health › Re: Help Needed: Sleeplessness, Persistent Pain In The Head And Neck by rubyjan(f): 9:22am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Hello all, op I have some of your symptoms but not all.
I don't have a stiff neck and I sleep well but I have this headache that has stuck in my head since January this year. I have been treated malaria in hospital severally but the headache continues. High blood pressure and typhoid were ruled in the hospital so I am confused. Immediately I wake up the headache continues till I fall asleep again.
Please I'm tired of going to hospital without a solution. |
Travel › Re: My Uber Driver Came With 4matic, Gave My Baby A Seat And Also A Toy To Play With by rubyjan(f): 9:14am On Sep 11, 2019 |
Richdad50: Don't waste your time on a Pig who thinks he has a golden crown. Why are you pained?. Just leave the guy out of your frustrations. At least you recognized he has a Crown  |
Family › Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by rubyjan(f): 2:25pm On Aug 25, 2019 |
[quote author=ReeLoaDead post=81580283]So how short is this your brother that her village people are complaining?[/quote
Lol, please ooo I'm eating, I don't want the food to get stuck in my throat pls.
Very funny. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Ladies Scared Of Dating Single Fathers? by rubyjan(f): 4:23pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Op80: What about dating a guy who doesnt have any child from the marriage yet and wife packed out of his house? Without kids, he is not a single father. He is a single married man  |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: Ebuka Expressed His Hatred For Tacha Tonight by rubyjan(f): 11:47pm On Jul 28, 2019 |
WorWorBoy: And Mercy is smart?  Yes, much more smarter than that Tacha. She got her puzzle in the Friday night games in less than 2 1/2 minutes, while Tacha could not even attempt the puzzle. If you don't watch the show, ask questions before talking rubbish. She is the dumbest in the house and so full of herself. Ebuka and big brother decided to teach her life lessons since last week. |
Celebrities › Re: Ex-Bbnaija Male Housemates At The Reunion With Ebuka by rubyjan(f): 11:30pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
olu77: We are always celebrating mediocrity. Those days, we used to have Jet club for young undergraduate scientist and a lot of other educative activities. They've all been replaced with these nonsense, phonography-in-disguise entertainments.
Our leaders need to wake up and fund meaningful researches that will restore our pride and help our continent. We have a song we composed then in secondary school for those in Jet club : We are the future of the world We are the hope of our nation We are tomorrow's people We come with new inspiration We come with plans to change the world to brighten our future bring joy to all. Chorus: This is the Jet's day for you and for me and our nation (our nation) *2 For improving our skills and discovering new things around us ( around us) *2 Making use of our hands to build up a new world of computers ,robots and (computers, robots and)*2 Come join the Jet club today, to make this dream a reality.  sweet memories. |