₦airaland Forum

Amatarasha:
U yorubas knw hw to cover goodwill eh ,see hw u fight to cover some1s wisdom.

Google has become conscience that tells u wat 2 type shebi?

That is eh....., the mumu op is so jealous of his intelligence. Wow

Go and develop yourself jare, secrets ko.

chinchonglee:
old hag like u..

dat guy is too smart 4 u..


u shuld get ur empty brain off his mention

Sure he is intelligent and its obvious from his response but that can't be said of you lowlife old man.
Like I said earlier, crawl back to the gutter fool.

chinchonglee:
u re too wise 4 d idiot u re telling dis tin to...

jst leave d empty brain alone.

Please crawl back to the gutter where you came from, this discussion is not for stupid people like you.

FTF2069:
@ OP, it's never a good deal to have another man's baby mama as your woman. Here is my reason for saying so:

1. She shares a unique bond with another man and the very manifestation of the bond (Child) is your responsibility

2. The child is never yours. No matter how you try to convince yourself that it's okay, The child is never yours. it's better to go to motherless home to adopt than to raise a child your woman brought from another man.

3. The child becomes your responsibility. As a man of the house the child becomes your responsibility. but remember, you're not the Father, and you'll never be and she knows this. even though the child is your responsibility, the degree to which you can instill your values in the child is her call.

4. It's more expensive, because you're simultaneously trying to make the mother and the child accept you as the Man. Financially, time wise etc.

5. You're raising another man's child before yours.

6. Women will always be women, she'll constantly ponder on what becomes the fate of her child from another man when she finally gives you yours. she might even want to delay until her child becomes a little of age before giving that chance. Even though she wouldn't explicitly tell you that's the problem it will cause some friction and men don't win such.

7. If things goes sour and you guys, and you part ways with the woman. The relationship you have with the child just went down the drain.

8. Women by their nature, no matter how furnished she is with MSc, PhD.. her words don't mean shit to her when she takes on that nature of a sly. Could be to her defense or to the child defense, don't be surprised when she make you realize you not her child's father one way or the other.

9. It doesn't speak well of a woman who has a child for a man she's not with. It means two things.
(a). She has some bad character trait her baby daddy is not ready to put up with, that isn't obvious to you yet
(b). She got so irresponsible to hook up with a man who doesn't want to have his child with him; and that shows her level of decision making when it comes to choices. Forget her Bsc, Msc, PhD etc. majority of women suck at making basic, good life decisions.

10. This is Nigeria, you don't take a man's child away from him forever. He's coming back. prepare for that.

If you just want to have a fling with her.. then you might get a Yes from me. But if she's someone you're reasoning a future with.. Think it through thoroughly man.

For ladies reading this.. Just stop being Baby mamas. You're making decisions complicated for men that really wants you. If the guy doesn't give you a ring; as in marriage. Don't ever agree to make a baby with him. Final.

See list ooo. All these bitter Nigerian men everywhere. I'm sure you haven't seen cases where a man marries a single mom and they had a good marriage and years later the child becomes the one taking care of the couple even better than their own kids?
Ok, let us assume she made a terrible mistake, has realized her mistake and wants to correct it even throughout her lifetime, who are you to judge and say she doesn't deserve a chance to love?
I'm sure if it's your relative or your daughter that is involved, you won't write this epistle, selfish wicked men everywhere.

ahckmedkosy:
My "check engine" and "vsc" indicator have refused to clear. I don't know what to do again.

Same with me too. I have decided to drive it like that.

virginboy1:
Nigerian and itz Kangaroo kindof politics...mtewwww...


On the contrary, This Sunday at the men's fellowship meeting at our church I lost the quiz by one point. ..The question was " where do most women have thick hair"?........
apparently the answer is Africa. ....from the answer I gave they asked me to find another church.....

Lol, I couldn't stop laughing for over 5mins. You're really funny.

christejames:
Gradually we are coming to claim our rightfully position that became redundant for some years.

Great Lions and lionesses!

Great. Greatest gbosa.

adecz:


UBA mistakenly credited my empty acct with
40k some months ago,,,,

I quickly withdrew it & chop am.

I'm still awaiting to hear wehhn
from them.

I see it as payment for all
the illegal deductions they have been
cheating me all these years.

I assure you,
chopping bank money is delicious...

Ignorance is the worst thing that can happen to any human. It's very clear that you don't understand that there is nothing like bank money.
It is the poor teller who is paid peanuts that mistakenly credited your account paid for that from his/her meagre salary.
You better return that money before their prayer/curses follow you and your generation.
Mumu

Cute boy

This man has just exposed his wife. She can neither cook a good meal nor keep a house all in the name of being a working class lady. Such a shame and he is even bragging about it.
There are women out there who cooks, clean and still help out financially as much as they can.
Hiring a maid and a cook shouldn't be every man priority.
Anyway common sense is not common.

[quote author=nazablossom post=68313397]This table he is shaking contains ewedu and amala, it's going to be ugly. [/quote
The most beautiful comment so far. I couldn't stop laughing.

motherfucker:
My worry is you have not even learned anything from this girl.. U were too forward with the gift and money and NO woman in that age of hers value such gesture.

How will he learn when he is interested in starting serious relationship with teenagers.
What happened to all the ladies around him but no he wants secondary school leavers.
He should just leave her alone and find another teenager, they are everywhere and will show him pepper until he receives sense.

adekennis:
Bleep...Can't u read or u find it difficult to comprehend? The said lady came with two of her friends while he taught it's a date between the two of them.

You must be stupid to quote me without being able to comprehend and /or differentiate between an original post and peoples comments

Hanseel1:
And you'll be sued if you think Nigeria is a lawless country.

you can't hold the guy because he wasn't the one who ordered for the food... you can only hold the lady accountable

Bring it on then in court with your defense. Imbe

Op ,the two of you are very stupid. Why would you go to a very expensive restaurant that is way out of your league to eat.
What happened to all the cheap ones that are pocket friendly. Probably you want to show off, now you are running.
If I was the owner of that restaurant and I happen to hear of it, you won't be allowed to leave. The two of you will work there until you have paid the balance.

DIYhackers:
Not a way to go mehn.

Tobi is truly 23 years old.

That is an insult on all the 23yr olds around the world.
Tobi is a toddler even though he is actually over 29 years of age.

ikoduduakpode:
Mr president would have direct his statements to his kinsmen, they wallows in the country doing nothing but causing troubles here and there.

You are quite right. Those are actually the youths he had in mind to call lazy but he knows he cannot single them out, he decided to generalize it and call the whole Nigerian youths lazy.
Foolish man.

chukzyfcbb:
jumping from one housemates to another.

Some people just cannot stay on their own. always looking to hop into the next relationship to feel important. #So Needy!

My thoughts exactly, jumping from Cee-c to Anto and now Alex.
A dumb and confused soul indeed.

Danwil33:
Pls help a brother out.
This is not to coerce or deceive anyone to part with their money.
I am just truly in need of help.
My younger brother will be wedding at the end of this month.
I work and live in Lagos. My family members and well-wishers have contributed their quotas to support the wedding.
I took a loan which I am repaying with 50% of my salary monthly to finance a project which has not started yielding proceeds yet.
My taught these days is totally occupied with the upcoming wedding such that I frequently get scared as I have not been able to raise the money I promised to support him with. I am only hoping and believing God for a miracle.
I don’t want to be ashamed as everyone is expecting my financial support too as the elder brother.
Please reach me on 07056636441 if you are led to assist. You can get proof from me just to be sure I truly need the help.
Any amount will be appreciated as I am looking for additional 50k to add to my part salary at end of the month to enable me make the trip and also support him.
Thank you.

Learn this today and pass it to your brother.
Don't you ever borrow money to finance a wedding. That is the most stupid act on this planet currently.

This big brother people are confused. Ebuka said on Sunday that there will be no nominations.
Everyone should vote for their favorites into the finals, then I'm hearing this.
I hope Tobi, Alex and Nina's fans Will not be shocked to see them leave on Sunday because of low votes.

MrFuckallday:
My nigga dun already blow pass the people wey still dey inside house and even pesin wey go win am join.

So taking pictures Is now success.
Go and lick your wounds one side.
The winner will be better than him 1 Billion times.

sulakishop:
How much is 25 litres of conc acid these days?

Lol ...haters everywhere

femimailbox:
Cee-c needs to grow up. She forgot that nothing is hidden in this show and she messed up behind the victim of her gossip.

Tobi for the money!
Miracle for payporte Friday game money!
Lolu for any other money available!
Rico for Samvita endorsement!
Cee-c and Anto for their village People!

Tobi for the money. Hmmm in your dreams.

Mumu guy. He doesn't realize he's the next to leave the house.
He is underrated Nina, calling her 'that girl, you mean Nigerians preferred that girl'.
It will shock you soon because even cee-c has she is will have the highest votes among all 4 of you probably followed by Nina.
At least you agreed you've been messing around with bam bam. Ode

INDUSTRIALFAN:
it's one thing to air ones opinion, it's another thing to do so in a very rude manner. Not just that. She insulted an entire ethnic group by calling their outfits thrash then further insulted payport by the comment "RUBBISH" even me that has nothing to do with the show feels embarrassed.

You are embarrassed? Really, and who are you? Abeg go sidon one side jare.
No one should force anyone to wear such an ugly attire. The designer should've chosen another cultural attire that is at least okay from the same tribe and not that hideous style.
Am sure that is not the only style the whole tribe as you put it have.
Pls I'm not a fan of cee_c but leave the girl alone!
She won't be disqualified.

Insult yourself from now till end of this show. It won't change the fact that whorish bambam had been evicted and its not any April fool.
I'm not a fan of Cee-c but leave the girl alone.
Simple.

Yoruba peeps and their obssession with cee-c. Leave the girl alone. She is not responsible for bam bam's eviction.
Deal with your frustration and stop badmouthing the girl.
So because she has strong fan base, your next ploy is to pray for disqualification because of ordinary party cloth. Nonsense

Michael004:
They dare, who are you if I may ask? Don't you have home, or they bannish you and your kids away from arochukwu.

It is called basic human right. Olodo

I don't have a problem with them teaching Yoruba language in my son's school but they dare not translate other subjects to Yoruba to teach him.
What rubbish is that.

Apination:
Money is good as you said and I agree, but just what if you lose everything, do u think she would choose to remain and work with you till u move up or pack out to her parents house, which u are so afraid of? Let me be blunt, your wife doesn't love u as much as you think. If she cannot be contented with whatever u can bring to the table at any point in time and work things out with you as her husband if she feels it's not sufficient but would instead run to her parents by making u look weak and giving them the impression that you cannot be a man that they have to start providing for your family through gifts, then u are still living in denial. You said they respect u now cos u send them gifts and cash, what if there comes a time u don't have as it has already happened, would u still be respected? Marriages have always been between families,
it's not something new but how many of your friends have the same issues as yourself, with their wives undermining them and making a ridicule of them before their parents? And I still stand by what I said, that ur marriage is one of convenience cos if she cannot stand by u in the bad times forgetting that it hasn't always been like that and could get better by not giving u the respect u deserve as u pointed out, then I don't know what else it's. Character as I said is the issue not money.

Seconded

pinnket:
Hmmm... Hustle is real..


When there's really no much difference in price between the local and foreign rice, why won't smuggling continue, and why won't people keep going for the foreign brands since its known to have better quality than the local brands..


A lot is wrong with this country.!!

Foriegn rice is no longer better than locally made rice.Foriegn rice is tasteless.
I prefer the Nigerian rice now and I have been eating it for 2 years.
A trial will convince you.

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
THERE is nothing to be proud of, another dysfunctional woman raising a soon to be dysfunctional kid without his father .

How dare you call the woman and her son dysfunctional. You must be plain stupid.