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^^ I reward my gf with both, and if I ever think it is ok 2 spend 15K on an ashewo then I will make sure that she gets 5 times as much in gifts and kind, since she fu.cks me 4 free all month long, instead of only when money is present.

Just bcuz u dont value what ur gf has the kindness 2 offer u 4 free, is not a reason 2 dismiss her when u have extra change in ur pocket.
KNOW UR PRIORITIES.

Different strokes 4 different folks would only be relevant if ur gf didn't deserve a gift 4 all what she is doing 4 u. But we all know that she does, u just are 2 narrow minded 2 c it.

@Poster
In such situation, I will reply:"Babe, any man in such situation will tell u that he loves u, even if he doesn't. This is not the time or the place 2 ask such question unless u want 2 b fooled and lied 2. Also, I can see that u r as ho.rny as I am so the question does not really matter in this instance, since u r dripping wet, and only a hard co.ck can satisfy that. So let's not fool ourselves and let me mess the hell out of u and then we can have this discussion later. But if this really matters 2 u then YES I LUV U."

What lady ask such stu,pid question anyway? after a few weeks of knowing u?

@Poster
I have a hard time understanding the 2nd example.

2 me it's about knowing where ur priorities r, and if u r willing to reward a runz girl more handsomely than ur very hard working gf, then something is very wrong with u.Yes, it certainly shouldn't b about money, but if any man out there is willing 2 spend his, then he should do so in a proper manner.
If a night of sex with some ashewo is worth 15k 2 this man, then the work of his gf should b worth 5 times as much.

The problem is that many men can only see as far as their co.ck can go, meaning not 2 far away, and so they don't value what the gf is doing bcuz they r used 2 it, and instead would value the street corner ashewo or dirty and nast run girl.

MEN, KNOW UR PRIORITIES!

@poster
If it is true then I would have lived a life of fun and happiness on earth and so I wouldn't mind to repent on my death bed and enjoy another life of fun and happiness in heaven.
But imagine if it is just a big white lie, then most of u christian sheep would have had a life of shi.t down here and then a life of rotting in dust after life....poor souls.

But u keep going back 2 her blog for more? If it is dry then don't go there, case closed.

It makes u quite a boring person if this is what u do. Don't u have stuff 2 talk about instead of asking her the same question she asks u?
Why do u even do that?

She asks u questions bcuz that's what she is interested about. Why don't u ask her questions about what u r interested about?

@poster
If u r not sure if the girl has a bf or not, then this must b the 1st question u ask her. If she says that she is single then u continue, if she isn't then u walk away.
There is no way 2 know 4 certain if a girl is single until u ask. Don't be fooled.

Why not? If I had a problem with it then I would do something about it, like open my own business, or shut up.
U should b happy that this young person was kind enough 2 offer u a job, instead of focusing on the wrong issues here.

U have been misinformed, when it comes to alcohol only beer drinking will make ur belly grow bigger. The French drink wine everyday and they dont have a population of pot bellied men.

Ur diet is also a reason for the pot belly. All the greasy African food added with the lack of gym activity is the reason why so many get pot belly.

Men will naturally get a pot belly after a certain age (35yrs old and up), if they don't take care of themselves. If u dont often go the gym, r a couch potato and don't take care of ur body then it is a certainty that u will get a pot belly.

Ur solution is 2 go to the gym, care for the food u eat and have a healthy lifestyle.

360command: yes they did .. but they are suckers now....

Open ur mind instead of focusing on the small picture. R coca leaves grown in Mexico? NO, so just because the owner of the business decided that he didn't want to carry sh.it any longer, does not make him a sucker. After many yrs of carrying sh.it, Colombians decided 2 pass on the dirty duty to the Mexicans, and instead make the real money stress and worry free.
The real genius is the Colombian on top with his hands as clean as a baby's bottom.

^^^ r u saying that having any contact with ur breast with anyone other than ur husband is wrong? Have u ever been in a jam packed bus or subway?

ultiliberty: remember, the Bible also says 'the love of money is the root of all evil', if one uses money as the foundation of his or her relationship, i'm afraid, it may not stand a test of time. pure love is enduring, persevering, encouraging, hopeful, faithful, strong, powerful, helpful, mild, etc with gud attitude no matter what comes u. money is powerful but is too proud to stand a test of time because it will definitely mislead one(trust me), but wit love, humility is key & positive intension always(which money cant buy). pls dont build the foundation of ur relationship on money...let money/wealth come naturally as an hardworking dude/woman

someone tell me, what will hold a marriage of after 10 yrs without issue/child stronger? is it money or love? pls argue constructively

If luv was the factor 4 them 2 get 2gether then luv will b what keeps them 2gether. If money was the factor 4 them 2 get 2gether, then money will still b what keeps them 2gether, as we all know that people get addicted 2 the good life, and r not ready 2 go back to poverty.

^^^^ LWKMD! Colombians perfected the art of drug smuggling before the Mexicans took over their dirty business.

The tip off probably came from the same guy who was shipping $100Million worth of drug in another container, on the same ship. The custom officers were busy dealing with this distraction.
The drug was bound for Mozambique, why r they talking about Nigerian drug syndicate in Malaysia, I don't get it?

do not ban me:
Very badt guys. Only 16 out of 980 cartons contained the real consignment. Without a tip off, they would pull through.

It's the other way around, only 16 out of the 980 cartons contained the drug.

Poster
2 some people money matters most, and 2 others luv matter most. Everyone is different and there isn't 1 set rule 4 everyone. Many girls out there don't care about luv and r only focus on wealth or their immediate financial needs. u can try to drill the notion of luv being more important, into their sad minds, but 2 no avail, and they wouldn't b wrong.

As 4 the ones saying that money is the all mighty answer, go c if u can fix an ugly person with money, or try fixing a person with no class, disrespectful or a LovePeddler with money.

zuchyblink: you are right,what is good or bad is environmentally determined.they should not be complaining when bullied and treated like thieves by their so much cherished bad dudes.it should be fun to be beaten up by their bad dudes.a lady was beaten to the extent of one of her eye was condemned,and she was still shouting ''but i still love him'' that is obsession.

If they don't complain themselves, then why anyone else should? Google Sadomasochism to understand that some people derive pleasure from pain, and i regret 2 say that a nice guy cannot inflict pain.

LOL

tirex: @Rudysmith...in her exact words,she said she was going to work on herself,so then come back.

This makes no sense. u ask her 2 b serious and she says she needs time 2 work on herself?
What is working on herself gonna do? Wasn't she at her best b4? It says a lot about this lady.

Stand ur ground, and the next time u hear that she told lies about u, create ur own lies 2.

Wizee: Dont come hear to cry after u wld have don sumthin wrong. Mke sure u wear 2condo*m, bcoz it doesnt appear in the face if anyone have it. Dnt b carried away in 5mins pleasure.

Wearing 2 condoms is worst than wearing 1, bcuz it will tear up more easily. What anyone should do is wear 1 condom that is of fitting size.

I guess native doctors r looking for new ways to acquire fresh limb for their sacrifices. Oya poster, go nah!

So long as the lady hasn't made a move on u then u have nothing to be scared about.

mondi_cheeks: but still the statement u made and what the legislation say are 2 different things

I replied ur post and attached a statement to corroborate my claim, u should have added 1+1 to make it a beautiful 2, instead u got stuck @ 1, and blaming me for that, kai!

zuchyblink: they are being decieved by their emotion or stockholm syndrome(loving the abuser)

LWKMD! So now it is wrong to b with a bad boy, because U don't like them? many ladies love 2 b roughed up, love 2 b in an adventurous relationship, why should that b wrong? If this is wrong 2 u then that's great but u shouldn't try to make it look like it is what everyone should aim for in life.

It's all about being happy with UR life.

As much as she lied, I can understand why she was ashamed 2 tell this guy the truth about her not so great social background. This should not b a reason 2 break up with someone, unless she told him a lie about something important. Her parent's profession is not really important, unless they are native doctors.

She should tell him and explain why she did it, no harm done.

Lost

mondi_cheeks: this is where i was saying u made an error...its not if she wanted to...its if conditions to do so were not given!

If u had read everything written in my post, it would have been clear 2 u. Here, let me post again what u failed 2 focus on:

As stated by this article:
The gift of an engagement ring shall be presumed to be an absolute gift; this presumption may be rebutted by proving that the ring was given on the condition, express or implied, that it should be returned if the marriage did not take place for any reason.

Although it seems unfair, this means that unless there was an agreement to return the engagement ring if the wedding is cancelled -- which a court could imply if the ring is a family heirloom -- a cheating fiancé/fiancée is under no obligation to return the ring.

Michky: Huh? I don't get your point. Please elaborate.

So u don't remember what u wrote? U wrote about how strong tough men were back in the days bla bla bla, and compared that with bad boys. I am just making u understand that there is a big difference between a strong guy and a bad boy.

zuchyblink: women love the bad guys so much that so many of them have been bitten like thieves still they still say ''but still love him''.that is why our society is in shambles,we adore bad things and condemn nice things.

U r talking as if being with a bad boy is wrong? It may b wrong 2 u, but many r happily married 2 bad boys and proud 2 b.

mondi_cheeks: its not a matter of her choosing to keep it if she wants to, she can only keep it if a condition to return it is not given.

U r now saying what I have been saying all along: unless they have a contract in place for the engagement ring to be returned, there is no ground for suing as you claimed. If there r no contract, then she can choose 2 keep the ring, and there is nothing that anyone can do about it, as it was a gift.

So what u wrote below is wrong and a sure waste of time.

mondi_cheeks: its sueing for a breach of promise to marry

Michky: Ladies would not date nice guys because nice guys are too soft for this tough or wicked world. Being tough USED to guarantee the survival of man during the hunting-and-gathering phase of human evolution. Picture the times of spears, bows and arrows. Only the tough would have survived any leopard invasion. Innately, ladies' brains are still hard wired to that time. Good thing is, now, you don't need to be wicked or bad to survive (being tough is still important though). All you need is doh!. Ladies that have discovered that that small-muscle nice guy with the brains is a great pick are the smarter ones of this era, i tell yah.

LWKMD!
So now, being strong means to be bad, and not nice? Abeg, go 4 deliverance, as u need it asap.

Some women like or prefer bad boys bcuz it is exciting and adventurous to be with guys that is different to what they always know and get. Not all women want 2 b treated nicely, not all women will look up 2 a guy opening doors for them, and let's not forget: not all women have it in them 2 b treated nicely. Some women out there can only attract bad boys bcuz they are bad girlz themselves.