₦airaland Forum

^ says who? The same germs from the toothbrush r what u may get when kissing.

@Poster
these questions should b directed at the wives of all the people who replied, and not them. The hypocrisy of men is very apparent while going through this tread. As 4 ur questions:

1. The leadership of a home is only true and valid if it is handed 2 men by women. Any leadership that is taken by force or fear is worthless.

2. Marriage is a union of 2 able bodied adults, who should do their best 2 provide the best 4 their family, so it is the responsibility of both of them 2 provide food clothing and shelter 2 the family.

3. They both have a duty 2 do everything in their power 2 ensure the general well being of the family. There will b something very wrong if a wife could raise the family standard but doesn't do it bcuz she doesn't believe it is her duty or bcuz hubby's ego is in the way.

4. If any person answered yes 2 all the above questions then they should b divorced the minute they cannot provide what they supposedly claim is their duty. Men should stand by their words or shut the hell up.

5. *I am sorry I was wrong* is a simple way 2 apologize, so long as the person means what they are saying.
Thank you.

Poster
Most people won't adopt a emotionally damaged 20yr old, even if they could. U should accept the fact that nobody will b able 2 give u what u require. There were only 2 people who could have done that and they sadly past away. For the respect of their memory, u should grow up, fix urself and *try* 2 have a family of ur own and act right with them hopefully.

Expecting strangers 2 treat u like family is wrong, but expecting strangers 2 luv u like parents luv their children is a bit sick and a clear lack of understanding of what parental luv is. U have emotional issues that needs 2 b resolved b4 u can ever find happiness, have u ever considered talking 2 a professional?

I highly doubt this will solve the problem, far from it. There r many ways 2 ra.pe or abuse a woman, a joystick is just one of them.
I think this will turn these men into doing more brutal attacks against women, bcuz the problem is in these sickos head. Ra.pe has very little 2 do with sex and all 2 do with overpowering/control etc. Many of these rapists wouldn't feel right being with a girl giving away the sex willfully, they need 2 take it by force to enjoy the act.
This bill is just a FG waste of time and money!

Mynd_44: ^^
okay

But seriously, I don't think I would wanna share something that is used to dig out dirt and germs from another person's mouth and clean them. Call me an hypocrite but that's truee

Ishilove: I couldn't agree with you more. Its just plain nasty

But u guys r willing 2 kiss the foul place u just mentionned?

*Kails*:
^^ and how they feel about themselves on the inside/as a person.

That's the most important part, anything else is secondary.

^ C this guy coming here 2 write crap. Don't bring ur religious nonsense here, this is a sane people's debate. The religion section is over there------>

190-the-clown:
Watch your words carefully young man
Uj-sizzle is all that I want in a woman and I won't stop in making her mine
Till then we sHall see

The above in bold is very interesting, I hope u can tell us more about what u r going 2 do if/when she is finally urs. I hope u treat her way better than ur past NL E-GFs. I heard some needed rehab after a few weeks of YIM with u.

U may b allergic 2 it, have u ever thought of that?

Whoever told u that an education will make u successful in life should b shot on sight. An education is just an added tool given 2 people 2 *possibly* succeed, and not the root of it.

I wouldn't do it intentionally but if there was no other toothbrush 2 use, then I would use hers instead of going out with a dragon breath.

hollandis: There is nothing wrong in carrying a huge amount .Nigerians don't know they have to declare the money.Many Nigerians are illiterates they dont know they have to declare the money.NIGERIA IS A USELESS COUNTRY

That's not completely true. Yes you must declare the money but u must show proof that it came from legal means.

The sad fact is that if many r brazen enough 2 try 2 do this and get caught, it means that many have smuggled money out successfully in the pas.

nice4life: I have talked with her very well, I think she is ready to wait for me as long as I don't withdraw my marriage proposal.So I d not think delaying the marriage will work.

U r completely missing the point, delaying the marriage is the only option until ur 150% sure that she is marrying u 4 the right reasons. Just bcuz she says she will wait doesn't mean she will. As I said earlier, ask her why she wants 2 marry u and come give us the answer she gave u.
Luv Dr Rudy Smith

Poster
What has age got 2 do with anything? If this is what she desires 4 her life, then let her go 4 it. Better happy and single than married and miserable.

Poster
The only way that someone should believe that they r beautiful is if they look in the mirror and c a beautiful person in the reflection.

Poster
If marriage 2 her is a do or die thing then chances are she is desperate 4 marriage. Just throw a hiccup in the marriage plans and study her reaction.
Sometimes, a simple question such as *why do u wanna marry me?* or *what do u luv about me?* is enough 2 make a wise man understand if a lady truly luvs him or not.

binger: 190.My reason-He's very good with his lines plus am not even sure Rudy will show up on that day

Why would u think that? winning against 190-the-clown should b as easy as taking candies from a newborn. We all know Uj-sizzle is a very smart lady, who would/could/should only fall 4 the words of a smart and versed man, and 190 ain't it. No offense 2 190-the-clown but all the copy and paste stuff he has lined up won't hold ground here.

The money the guy is paying his ex should b more than enough 2 find a suitable place for this freeloader of a granny. The only reason she was allowed 2 stay there was bcuz of her grand-daughter. The day she disappeared from the Lampard's picture is the day granny's stay wasn't welcome any longer.

Rubbish piece of material!

^Babe, the guy doesn't know u, so there is nothing 2 luv but diving between ur hips and chest. Watch out lil' sista and stop being deceived. If u look fuckable enough, most men will pretend 2 luv u just 2 have a dip in ur honey pot.
And as a supposed virgin, most men would stay with u simply bcuz they want 2 b da first 2 pop ur cherry, and not really bcuz of luv.

If a man doesn't know anything about u and says he luvs u then u r more clueless than them about luv, if u believe anything that comes out of these olodos mouth.

safarigirl: this theory is almost perfect, but if so, 70% of women would be termed runz gurls cos they fu.k for money, even purported 'housewives' cos some don't get money for housekeeping if they fail to perform in bed. That being said, your car comparison was on point.

The theory is perfect, bcuz the point we r making here is that women can package prostitution as they want but the deed remains the same. So, if a lady exchange sex 4 favor, gifts or what not then technically she is an undercover ashewo. If a lady f.ucks a man and demand 4 gifts, and the guy oblige simply bcuz he doesn't want to miss out on the vajayjay, then the girl is simply a smart girl.

Any direct demand 4 money, or any hint of money/gift/favour in exchange 4 sex is prostitution, EOD.

^ Or soft drink is soft drink.

^ but u didn't answer the question that I ask Lejeun3, which r equally important 2 u 2, since u guys have the same prob.
Luv Dr Rudy smith

^ Already did.

RudySmith: Uj-sizzle

^ Nobody can help the poster until we have a clear idea of the problem. The problem can b anything from ego 2 past relationships 2 emotional scar 2 fears etc. Only when we get the right diagnose, can this patient b treated.
Luv Dr Rudysmith

^^ exactly.

carefreewannabe: If a man cheats and has children with different women, who do you think suffers? CHILDREN!

Cheating is bad! Be it a man or a woman! I see no reason to excuse anyone.
Then the same men want to be the head of the family, when they can't even control their joysticks. Yet, they want to run a family.
No no, thank you! I am not going to expose myself to STDs just because societies consist of people who make the rules as they suit them instead of making the rules to serve everyone.

Not all men that cheat have children with their cheating companion.
Many men that cheat don't even have children themselves.
Many men cheat in a controlled environment and with the full knowledge of their partner.
Cheating has nothing 2 do with being da head of da family.
What is the correlation between cheating and running a family? there is none, u can run a family and cheat in blissful harmony.
A smart cheating man knows how 2 use condoms, and stay away from STDs.
People should make rules that suit them and there immediate family, and not society, so if having multiple women suits someone, then that's what this person should do.

And I am very sorry but many people cheat and their children never know that their parent are meeting other people.

^ and why am I not?

She should call both guys, have a meeting and tell guy #1 that guy #2 is her bf now, and he should stop spreading lies about him and her. There will b no doubts in guy #2's mind about who she wants but he may question her person for double dating.
I am not going 2 ask why she didn't break up with the guy #1 b4 starting to date guy #2.

onila: love is a two way thing
I find it difficult to understand when a girl or guy complains abt being in-love with someone who does not love them back. .maybe because I never be in this situation before

all the niggas i gave eye contact. .fell inlove with me instantly

u might think you love the person who does not love you but u just actually have a crush or an infatuation

The bolded part is the reason why u dont understand luv. Many men may want 2 4ck u and they will pretend 2 like u 2 get in ur panties. Don't b fooled.
It is very possible 2 luv someone who doesn't luv u, but why should u waste ur time doing it? If a person is the way u want ur charming prince 2 b, then u will fall in luv with him, even if he doesn't luv u back.

Poster
Luv Dr RUDYSMITH 2 DA RESCUE:
B4 we begin and u can b helped, I need more information about the patient (you).So pls tell me more about what u desire in a companion? What turns u on when u meet someone? What made u go 4 the last girl instead of another? How easy it is 4 u 2 get with women? How long it takes b4 u get bored? What criteria is important 2 u when choosing these women? Do u luv these today women like the ones u did all the crazy stuff 4 back in the days? And most importantly HOW OLD R U and WHAT DO U EXPECT FROM THESE RELATIONSHIPS?
thanx 4 ur quick reply.