₦airaland Forum

blackboy:
Blame yourself. She is not into you . Probably you are both just there level friends and you think its boyfriend girlfriend things. Guy it just dont make sense. Probably she is sending you a message. How do you treat her on her birthdays?

I Forget my girlfriend's birthday twice and i still love her o. Some people are just like that, well i'm not in the relationship with them, op should go sort his relationship out

it's easy, just keep repeating the words to yourself, you will get there soon

Tocynone:
Bleaching on point

Its like your entire village people do bleach

madridguy:
See where you messed up. You should have accepted her request and use the opportunity to correct her and who knows maybe na your be dat.

Nah, that kind friendship nor go work o. For a girl to pour Insults on someone she Dont know just because he sent card to you by mistake, i Dont think i can cope with such a person

DanDeeBoss:
Girls dey wey be commandos for nairaland but dey gentle for real life, we still get some wey be real commandos both online and offline... lol... but then it's better you stay on your lane as you just typed

yes o, i nor dey like try online things

carter009:
I would have loved to try this, but they way most girls here bash guys and insult them, I don't think is a good idea.

Lol, you when be king of bashing? Hehehehe

madridguy:
Fear of wetin?

Some girls can be so rude, let me give an example. Once i wanted to send card to my sister for sub, i sent MTN 1000 but i missed her first three numbers (i used 070 instead of 080) being that i knew the number off heart. When i realised, i called the number back but she ended the call, after two attempts, she answered and warned me not to dial her number again and started raining Insults on me, i couldnt understand what i did wrong. I sent her a message that if she had load the card, there is no problem, she could just say thank you so i'll know that the card had been used. That was when she sent me a thank you. I just forgot the whole thing, about four days later, she called me to ask if we could be friends and i said no, not because i Dont know her but because of the way she treated me the last time. I like being friends with girls i know their character, once i know you to be a rude person, i back off so meeting people online is a no for me

DanDeeBoss:
Fear of say dem no go reply your PM?? And you be commissioner for women affairs

Lol, bro many things dey my head. First, i have a girl i'm serious about even tho i'm scared i may be loosing interest, the uncertainty is too much like what will she be like? I hate rude girls etc. I nor get body for this kind headache

SMJay:
It was a thread of post your picture and wish a Nlers merry Xmas, I saw her picture sent her a dm. She visited me, told me to charge her phone to boot so she will inform them where she went to, we married with 2kids now and the phone is still booting.

Wow, this is so hard to believe, fear nor go let me try am o.

Lovelyn451:
I pity the next girl he meets...she go hear am

Only a stupid and low self esteemed girl will suffer in the hands of guys. As a lady, know your worth, once any guy tries Rubbish with you, you dump his Sorry ass, same goes for guys. Try this only if you are a woman of substance cause i've noticed that most girls just want to depend on a guy not minding if their self pride is being trampled on

ubunja:
which part of marriage is feminism compatible with?

My brother, the old patern of marriage cannot hold due to changes such as women sharing bills etc. I for one will not even wont the old patern of marriage, a woman being a feminist (not those slay Nonsense) does not mean she is not a wife material. I love out spoken women

I hate unrealistic expectations. How many guys in Nigeria can boast of 1m in their accounts? The country is hard

ubunja:
Why the hell would a feminist be asking about marriage??

So feminists Dont get married?

TonyeBarcanista:
Nigeria police pictured with tyres trying to set facilities ablaze so as to credit it to Shiite

Just see how you expose yourself, your lies will lead to your death one day. Useless thing

Jinad50:
Just like what the OP said, women are loosing respect as the day goes by and you are a perfect example of that statement.

Instead of u to heed to his messages and retrace ur steps if you are suffering from one of those deficiencies he mentioned, u are there doing unnecessary comparison.

We tell u say we no no say men get their own for body before?!

Why then Dont you stay with your own and allow others say with theirs? If you want change, Let the change being with you

This one go fvck the girl into submission, she nor go see body take quarrel sef

destindd:
Who will you marry? A lady that was there when you had nothing or a lady that make you rich? Be sincere

Is this babe your sister? Pls Dont say she is your girlfriend

seanwilliam:
@RYAN03, Well, this will be my last response to u. the earlier u learn that nobody should be trusted-women especially-the better. ur posts reek of naivety, unexposure, insincerity and not-ready-to-learn attitude. i cant stoop so low to conquer ur senselessness. nw swerve!

Your post reeks of low self esteem, insecurity, lack of respect and childishness. Now you can Comfortably sit your gay ass on your silliness

I read that kegels work for women, but some are too lazy to do it. dear future wife, better get ready

None, even as side boo, some will pretend is if you are the main boo. According to one of my brothers up there, just knack her once or twice then find your way

Omega30:
Same as before u ask for money, care and love, u have to give it too!

Exactly, i stand for equal treatment

seanwilliam:
u b mumu, stop pretending to be sensible when you are nt. i didnt want to insult u at first but exposed ur foolishness. where did i attack ladies? i'm nt a sissy like u that choose to ignore obvious facts for cheap popularity.

I wonder who is exposing who You just proved that you are an attention seeker who is moving with the wagon of "all women are scum" hoping to sound tough and tap into the cheap popularity, Sorry, i Dont roll with such crew Little advice bro, bashing women wont heal your broken and lily livered heart. Go build your self esteem and you will have a good woman in your life not all these your indomie and egg slay queens

seanwilliam:
i am nt exempted too.

Why then do we act like we are saints and the women are demons? There is immorality and wickedness in both gender, lets stop this e-attack on our ladies

seanwilliam:
@Dannibozz, shut up and face reality. the only woman i can vouch for is my mother(and that is because she's nt of this generation). wether wife, sister or daughter i cant vouch for them. stop being a sissy. u cant knw someone's character 100%

You shut up and go sit your stupid gay ass somewhere. Girls this girls that, if beyonce come to you for sex even if you are married, lie that you will reject her? The married men that cheat with every mgbeke in town did not even wait for a celebrity to come ask them.

chenzen:
and who is Ryan03

Someone who doesn't roam Nairaland seeking attention from faceless folks. I had to dig deep into the soil to find your self esteem, still didnt find it

This attention seeker again

SaucyBenks:
happy for you. Even if I settle with a girl that loves me, I'd mess things up with my weird attitude n lifestyle... Its complicated.

Thats why you need to start adjusting some things, it will take time but if you really want to, you will do it

This kind of mindset is terrible, do you know how many women we have in Nigeria? Do you know how many happily married women we have? I have a girl in my life and she is not an angel, but who is? Are you perfect? She is an angel in her own way, and we have many of her type. Not all girls are into prostitution, and just so you know, prostitution is in all countries, stop with the Nigeria girl thing

Lol, i use to feel most of these things especially the alone part. I hate being around people, Dont visit me, i wont visit you, Dont call me, i wont call you either. I pretend to like people so that i wont look out of place. I laugh when they do, talk about things i'm not interested in just to seem normal. I keep to myself due to several betrayals from so called friends but i Dont hate compliments tho, i just hate you touching me or coming too close. But now, almost all that changed. First, i accepted that its my person and there is nothing wrong with me, then i began making some adjustment, i stayed true to myself, if i Dont like you i wont pretend to. I stay around family members i'm Comfortable with, i Dont feel Sorry for Telling you how i feel especially when you say something bad to me, i applied for a job i love, got employed, started working and focused on making money. In the process, i met a girl who is so real and love me for me. Its been over a year now and i'm just so happy

there's something this man is not saying. Maybe he is among those men who abandon their wife and children when the going was smooth, lavishes his money on other women and alcohol. Now old age is not being fair to him and he wants them to come and take care of him . Just my thought tho

And girls Dont commit suicide because of guys? Cant take you serious with this your one sided advice, imagine in the first paragraph, you said either she breaks up with you or did something that makes you break up with her, so in your little brain, guys just Cant be bad? shift make i see road

Very soon, you will come and ask how to shi.t on nairaland. You are not normal o