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Groke:
Maybe u are the one that impregnate her.....Stop acting foolishly

you are the one acting foolishly for typing this rubbish simply because I defended her. I was not referring to her only, I used her as a case study for other similar case. obviously I'm the one who impregnated or is about to Wed the other women in such situation

he don tey na

wow, congrats dear. see as pikin fine

Lugianostar:
Idleness is a peril menace that has eaten deep in our system and is making us to loose guard and firm grip of ourselves in recent times.

Imagine these ladies doing what they weren't annointed to do and been punish by it.

All in the sake of what?

#ourladieswillhavebrainsagain#
#placevalueforyourselves#
#andbetreatedassuch#

just shut up your mouth joor, you are the one without brains here. just see the useless life of you and your group cry on your keypad

I just love these people, they dey think straight and just too selfless

pocohantas:
Sebi una say it isn't about money, but love.
Your sister has been misled by one religious leader into marrying a broke man. I don't know why they never connect someone to the rich ones.

How can I marry a poor ancestor? What did he spend his youth doing, if he didn't make good money?

Your sister should better go look for a job and fend for herself. Maybe her husband too

Nonsense and alfah males.

let them keep on shouting love love, he go over them

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ABCthings:
Ajayi I.T.K when they're getting paid now will they remember you?

this one is not normal

babzo:
Hmm. When i hear police apprehending criminals through all these stop and search, like the one last week, where they caught the guy with AK47 hidden in the car door; one begins to believe that maybe all those check points are not just for bribery collection.

the bad ones in the force makes it looks like that, I just hope one day the force will be able to flush them out. recovery of fire arms through stop and search is very common in Benin

Nostradamus:
oga,i repeat and I insist,the Nigerian police force are a disgrace to the term 'police'.

I don't care if you're one or any of your relatives is a police officer. All I know is Nigerian police force is a disgrace to the term 'police' and I get orgasmic joy when misfortune befall them.

If that guy was not arrested for only tattoos,then you should do well to tell us why he was arrested,mods no go ban you for that.



The worthless cops who killed that chap will meet their doom,and when it happens,i'll have more orgasmic joy.

cry me a river if 1000 police men die, we will still have thousands more alive. you can die, reincarnate, die again and again, Nigeria police dey where he dey

NewsMuncher:
He's dead already, the police left him to bleed to death. He's been trending on Twitter for a while now

i believe my guys

DanDeeBoss:
Immature

very immature. funny how people are applauding him as a sharp guy, I don't see any sense in this. this is the mentality of the so called leaders of tomorrow, what a shame!

Wisedove:
She might not be really rude as regards her reaction here, perhaps she's just acting based on experience.
Sending cards(though fake) is one of the format local scammer aka 419 use to get their victims.

She/someone close to her might have experienced this before that's why she's trying to defend herself. She might later realized you're not one of them when she tried loading the card and it was successful and that's why she called to know more about you

na true sha

ACE1010:
I'm a practical example...I lost dear wife 19 months ago...I'm still standing alone. What's the big deal??

And you are using yourself as a yardstick for others? All these holier than thou, people dey when nor marry again after the death of their wife and they didnt set rules for other na ordinary 19months you dey make mouth

Zinny25:
it's 100% wrong...how could she?, I guess she didn't love her husband, maybe she even contributed to her husband's death. Some of us sef that our relationship ended in the past,we stayed at least 2years sef before saying yes to another. 18 months is just too soon,not just that but you are also pregnant, that's barbaric. That means you didn't even wait for ur husband to rest before sleeping with another man..... Las las u r wrong, you should have waited for at least 2-3years .

I Dont think you are normal

lexy2014:
Ayo oritsejafor waited 4 just one year b4 he remarried. Even kumuyi was just one year. So what are u talking about?

Bro, i've made my point known, i know one or two persons will change their perspective about this issue. Some of them here are guilty of this that is why they are pained, the world is changing, people are becoming wiser

kazyhm:
I never said or support her in-law dictating how she live her life after what.........


However, you're covering up some very vital info.....how many kids has she with her late husband ?

She is a working class........what the hurry for dicck just few months after her husband demise ?

The husband died as a result of an accident........instantly or he made it to the hospital ?

What's her relationship with the new man when her husband was alive...?

For how long was she married to the late husband ?...etc


Nevertheless, a virtuous women as we're all made to believed are attached to their spouse even when he is no more......examples everywhere.

She have a son for her late husband, yes he died at the spot. I Dont know how you want me to have answers to the remaining questions. A virtuous woman you say, truely, we are victims of our belief (your signature)

mimimile93:
Any person, man or woman who jumps into a new relationship just after a breakup or death of partner needs to be weary of.

I was once in that shoe.

The fact that you griefed for long doesnt mean that is the standard for mourning, there is no fixed time, we should learn to let people live their lives the way they see fit

mimimile93:
sounds like she killed her husband just to have this new guy.

thorough investigation should be done.
Never trust a hoe.

Her husband died in a car crash, it was a commercial vehicle coming from Lagos

If you like, preach till next year, they will still send. I Dont know if there's something in their brain blocking out common sense

kazyhm:
I understand you to a point...........you're probably the new lucky guy........enjoy you short time with her

Lol, you have to come up with a better point as to why she shouldn't get married/why you think the mans family have a say as to when she gets married after their sons death other than me being the "new lucky guy". Like i typed earlier, put sentiments aside

Jfyzee:
@OP you are feeling pity for the said lady because the man involve is not your uncle or related to you in anyway. Assuming the man is your uncle, will you con dole this lady attitude towards him..?

Just a year and six months she's already pregnant for another man. Who does that by the way..? The in-laws have the right to act the way they are acting now.. unless you want to tell us the baby she's carrying is yours the reason you're defending her.

Kindly put sentiment and feelings aside and tell her she did wrong with her action. Her action is questionable already as to the death of her husband. Both she and her impregnator should be seriously questioned.

What a woman indeed

The said husband died in a car crash. Let me put this question to you, how long should it take for one (man/ woman) to get over a loved one? kindly state if this rule is for women only. PS she's my colleague and way older than me, her husband to be works at board of I.revenue

kazyhm:
You said she is pregnant not sleeping around....

How long do you get over people you love ?

There is on fixed time to mourn for someone you love, every one griefs differently. I Dont see anything wrong in it, marriage vows says till death do them part, why then do you think you have a say over the woman after the death of your kinsman? Do you realise you have no formal relationship with her after the death of your brother? Was there any signed contract as to how many years one party is to mourn incase one dies? Put sentiments aside, open your mind, you will find the truth

kazyhm:
What are you reversing for.........
This is a peculiar case......... You said she is three months pregnant............18 - 3 - the number of months she has known the impregnator =.......is that how easy it is to found love again ?


Does she appear as a loyal wife to her late husband to you ?...... Besides, you didn't tell us how many kids she had with the late husband

So loyal wives have to mourn for long to prove they are loyal? So if she stayed unmarried for 10years but continue to fvck multiple dicks she will be a loyal wife in the eyes of society? Who are we deceiving? So you think all those widows who stay unmarried for years Dont fvck? Why do we love pretence yet accuse women of being pretenders?

Davash222:
Let the woman die first, then you can bring this question.

Lol, the woman Dont have to die first, we've seen enough example already. Some Women die and their husbands move on in about 6months, its normal in the society

Logobenz1:
Look there is an undertone to everything bro.
Do you know what love is?if you love a person,moving on won't be that easy!
That's why the dead man's family is protesting because it kind of tells them the woman did not love their brother enough.
I remember 2008 when the first woman I ever loved left for France for studies.God I cried,did not date any other person till 2014 or so...
Love is not that easy to move on from.

People grief differently. Because mrs A griefed for 10years doesn't mean mrs B must grief for same number of years. Why exactly do we monitor how long people grief? Are we happy seeing them in that state? I thought relatives and friends are to comfort them and help them move on?

Davash222:
Just 18 months after the death of her 'beloved' husband, she wants another dicck..


Women summarised!!

Now reverse the roles, would you have typed same thing if it was the woman that died?

Let Her Go

I just want to write this short post hoping it will change someone's mentality base on the issue i'm about to discuss.

A lady at my place of work lost her husband almost 1yr 6months ago, now, she is about 3months pregnant and wants to get married but the backlash she is receiving eh? Her late husband's people have been frustrating her saying it is too early to get married (i thought marriage is till death do us part?), why are they trying to control her life simply because she was once married to their brother?

I want to believe the family members of this man have moved on with their lives since the death of their son, why then do you want to lock her up in mourning? The surprising part of it is that even women at the office are against her, some who have also lost their husbands are citing instances of how they watied 7years before re-marrying and so on.

I felt bad for her, all she do now is to cry, and mind her business. This is so wrong, free that young lady, she didnt do wrong in marrying your kinsman.

Natoski5:
Everybody won yellow sha.. ..
Happy marriage life...

She Dont look like one who bleached

Remember to come tell us how it went o, i'll be waiting.

Oluromantic:
Not commenting is not strength. Being vocal on social media is not weakness neither.

A girl is worthwhile when she breaks off being on d receiving side of anything and everything. When she works hard to get and gives all she gets, then she's strong.

when she works hard to get and gives all she gets then she is strong? You just confirmed my suspicion, all these guys calling girls names on this forum are just looking for girls to leech from, you are one of them

Oluromantic:
Girls won't comment on this thread o. ...self-centered things. If it's them it's done to now, it's wahala

Girls have learnt to be stronger over the years but what can i say about our sissy boys everywhere? Kids who Cant handle their personal issues without bringing it to the general public to seek pity party. I forgot my girls birthday twice (last year and this year), she have not gone to cry on any social media platform