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PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 8:42pm On Oct 11, 2014
FemoLondon:
as you wish to believe after all stubbornness is a characteristic of donkeys cheesy
Puuussy fuuktard!

FemoKabul? grin grin grin grin grin grin
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 8:22pm On Oct 11, 2014
FemoLondon:
I'll pray for you, as hopeless as your case may be, a few tricks can always dissuade a donkey, a carrot stick in the river may convince the donkey to lap at the water wink
Now bruv, go get a real job that can get you ILR rather than your current scraping for pence
Puuussy!

Puuuuuuuusy!

You went to create FemoKabul because your liver failed you? grin grin grin grin grin
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 8:13pm On Oct 11, 2014
FemoLondon:
No problem bruv, I'll pray for you in Church tomorrow, to get a real job. Your attitude though, is a concern, because you know what is said, you can take a donkey to the river but you cannot force it to drink wink
Puuussy!

Puuuuuuuusy!

Liver-less and ball-less womanliness! grin grin grin grin grin grin

Go and pray for people to keep on destroying your life. grin grin grin grin grin
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 8:05pm On Oct 11, 2014
FemoLondon:
You have not changed, still including senseless youtube clips in your posts grin Go and look for a real job in London that can sponsor your work-permit wink
"FemoKabul", are you praying? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Pussi! grin
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 6:53pm On Oct 11, 2014
FemoLondon:
What new account?? Are you suddenly in a state of dementia from the knocks i delivered to your coconut head? I had this account since February this year. It unfortunately became in-active and I had to re-register because I did not log in for many months and unfortunately lost my post history here. One fact remains unchanged is that you continue to remain the stúpid bloke that you are in NL and in London grin
You are a cretinous fuuktard!

What account? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

FemoLondon? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Why not FemoAjegunle? grin grin grin grin grin grin

Pussi!

Ball-less fuuktard scared to death of Sagamite and quickly set up a fake account today to have the liver and balls to talk back. grin grin grin grin grin grin

I humiliate grown men and turn them to sissies!

Yes, it is sensible you should be scared! cool


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlxPXH37xVI
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 4:30pm On Oct 11, 2014
skyladon22:
I dont always blame you guys but the ladies for being so stup1d with their life style atimes
A typical Naija woman once told us on NL that "guys need to pay (spend money) to get to know her".

https://www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/1#11885494
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 4:28pm On Oct 11, 2014
FemoLondon:
The chief of tribalism is on full display in his post ... SMH

He does that for sure .... I have seen him chase any thing "white" in skirt in London. The guy suffers from colonial mentality, hates the colour of his skin and brown-noses anything white. You can see his psyche from his post .... he is really a pathetic individual
Pussi, you had to open a new account to challenge me anonymously? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I am glad I strike that much fear in balless fuuktards! grin
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 4:24pm On Oct 11, 2014
FemoLondon:
I know @sagamite will be singing praises here ..... saying that this is a sign of "progress"
Coward fuuktard, you opened a new account because of me? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 4:22pm On Oct 11, 2014
obailala:
Very true... For all those shouting revolution revolution! from my personal study of the Nigerian psyche, I have come to a conclusion that a revolution by the people can never happen/work in Nigeria because the moment it is started, it is the same people you think you are fighting for that would slaughter you for the most flimsy reason. Simply put, a lot of Nigerians have got their priorities absolutely wrong. If youu criticise the governor of Bayelsa for this senseless profligacy, I am sure the first people to attack you would be some indigent Bayelsans who would accuse you of being jealous of their state government house being the biggest in Africa; talk of priorities.

In the Nigeria of today, the only kind of revolution which is possible is if it starts from the top; i.e. if a no-nonsense powerful hardliner with a goodwill and strong focus becomes the presidentt.
You know your people very well.

Moronic nation, moronic people.

Look at an example of one of them that was on my list you quoted, showing his pride in the stadium probably built for 3 times its worth:

https://www.nairaland.com/1942411/uyo-stadium-host-nigeria-vs/6#27051718
SportsRe: Uyo Stadium To Host Nigeria Vs South Africa 2015 Afcon Qualifier by Sagamite(m): 2:24pm On Oct 11, 2014
klem93:
Godswill Akpabio is working, Uyo is moving www..com
Yeeees!!!!

Abeg give him is N400m annual pension. grin grin grin grin grin

Moronic nation, moronic people.
SportsRe: Uyo Stadium To Host Nigeria Vs South Africa 2015 Afcon Qualifier by Sagamite(m):
pendusky:
BY TONY UBANI, Uyo

Newly constructed ultra modern 30,000 capacity stadium in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State will host the
Afcon 2015 final group qualifying match between the Super Eagles and South Africa.

This was confirmed yesterday by the President of the Nigeria Football Federation, Amaju Pinnick
in Uyo after an inspection tour of the edifice.

The stadium which has been receiving a lot of media reviews since its completion was described
by the NFF boss as “one of the best and could be compared with any other stadium in the world.”

Pinnick did not need much persuasion before approving the arena for the all-important
encounter which will define Nigeria’s fate in her qualification bid for the 2015 Afcon in Morocco.
Meanwhile, all is now set for the official commissioning of the stadium. It was confirmed
yesterday that Governor Godswill Akpabio will commission the stadium on November 20.

We also gathered that the state government and Julius Berger, the company that built the
stadium have reached a 10-year maintenance agreement.

source
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/10/uyo-stadium-host-nigeria-vs-south-africa-2015-afcon-qualifier

Akwa Ibom Ado Okay!
Fuuktard, AAYYYY!

AAAAHHHHH! Your state has progressed o! grin grin grin grin grin grin

Akpabio forever! grin grin grin grin grin grin

AAAAHHHH, he has given you something to be "proud of"! grin grin grin grin grin grin

Your head they swell and you are ecstatic! grin grin grin grin grin grin

Up Akpabio, Up PDP, Up People Destroying your life! grin grin grin grin


This is Akwa Ibom:

% of Ibomites households with treated pipeborne water for drinking and cooking
9.9%

"10% drink from wells"

% of Ibomites households who use electricity or gas to cook
1.6%

"74.3% use firewood or grass"

% of Ibomites households who have their refuse collected by government
0.4%

"76.3% dump it in their vicinity"

% of Ibomites households with flush toilet
7.6%

"80% use covered or uncovered pit latrines"

% of Ibomites with HIV/AIDS
10.9%

"Second Highest Rate behind only Benue"

Healthcare facilities per 100,000 Ibomites
12

"Not even in the top half in Nigeria"


But, no worry! You have a WOOOOOORRRLD CLLLLLLAAAAAAAAAAS STADIUM na! grin grin grin grin

We are jealous of you o! grin grin grin grin grin

Your state is the best please post more threads like this to show us your pride! grin grin grin grin grin grin

Moronic fuuktard!

https://www.nairaland.com/1943178/bayelsa-state-new-governors-office/2#27042594
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 1:07pm On Oct 11, 2014
khiaa:
lol... I said it the way I wanted to say it.

There are good women and men out there but you have to be a good person to deserve one.
I am not such a poor proposition to just be with a woman because she is "good".

Especially considering the alternative options I have as a desirable man.

I want a good looking and good personality woman, not just a good women.

Good men end up with ugly good girls or the decaying remnants bad men leave them because they are "real men".

Good girls that are good looking normally go for the bad boys because they see it as an exciting project to change him.

So you are very wrong about having to be a good person to deserve them. It does not work like that.
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 1:01pm On Oct 11, 2014
emmymdk:
e-warriors... Until people stand up for their rights and what belongs to them, few individuals will keep lavishing the money while we the poor masses die of starvation. This only happens in a coward filled Nation like Nigeria. If na to make all silly comments about each other here in NL, we go show talents. huh
Stand up for what?

Stand up where?

So that the likes of Sincere9gerian, tomakint, Jking001, PointB, Rossike, kobonaire, kingoflag, collynzo2, THUNDER4REAL, pendusky, EMERITUS85, Iceman296, fitzmayowa, eyeview, Aigbofa, Arosa, Firefire, Mabaleosi and egift can be given cutlasses and guns to lynch people for a few thousand naira or even out of passionate love for the politician because "he is from my area"?

The people you are trying to save or will benefit from the rights would be the first to gladly kill you.
PropertiesRe: Bayelsa State New Governor's Office To Cost 33.8 Billion Naira (205 Million USD) by Sagamite(m): 7:09am On Oct 11, 2014
ProfCorruption:
So sad!

A small state with just eight local governments; population less than a million, and an unbelievable huge revenues. One would think Bayelsa would lead in everything that matters- school enrollment, affordable health care, social welfare for the vulnerable poor, modern infrastructure, qualitative education for Bayelsans. But here is a f$cktard (apologies to Sagamite) of a governor wasting an unbelievable amount of money on what should be Bayelsa's least priority.
As a matter of fact, Bayelsa has the WORST Stats of virtually everything related to education and development in the South of Nigeria. Everything related to education, Bayelsa has stats that are like the North of Nigeria, with many middle belt states beating it, while the rest of the South have a huge gap on the North.

Afterall, this is the state where Shepopotamus Dairisgodooo is a Perm Sec based in the Education Ministry. A place she can use her stark illiteracy and market-woman mentality to destroy the lives of the future generation.

Let me give you examples from my information repository using just a select few states to give you an idea:

Quality of Primary School Teachers - Those with qualifications (NCE)

Lagos: 71%

Osun: 82%

Enugu: 69%

Edo: 74%

Bayelsa: 44%

Benue: 68%

Kaduna: 50%

Yobe: 31%

Zamfara: 30%


Statistics of WAEC results - % of candidates with at least 5 credit grades (including Maths and English)

Lagos: 11.98%

Osun: 6.32%

Enugu: 13.03%

Edo: 17.93%

Bayelsa: 3.42%

Benue: 4.54%

Kaduna: 8.46%

Yobe: 1.38%

Zamfara: 0.99%

Apart from seeing the way our education system is producing fuuktards, can you see how Bayelsa's stats is like Northern Nigeria? This is after I carefully selected mostly weak states in some regions.

Now, this is the same fuuktard governor that promoted the illiterate to Perm Sec using millions to build one building (obviously mostly looted) instead of improving the education and infrastructure of the state.

Then we have fuuktards like pendusky praying your their useless leaders.

Trust them as Nigerians (mostly pure fuuktards) to pride themselves with meaningless attributions:

"Ewhrudjakpo said the office complex, when completed, was expected to be the best not only in the country but in the West Africa sub-region."

And I am sure when most Nigerians like kobonaire read that, they will feel a lot of PRIIIIIIDE!

They will be like: "AAAAHHHHH! We are better than Ghana"!

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Moronic nation, moronic people! grin
PoliticsRe: Enugu Onitsha Expressway: A Reflection Of A People’s Nightmare by Sagamite(m): 11:51am On Oct 10, 2014
eleko1:
Are u sure U are ok?Reread what I write well
My bag of garri finished this morning, because of Ebola there is scarcity, so I ate cornflakes instead this morning. That affected my functionality.
PoliticsRe: Enugu Onitsha Expressway: A Reflection Of A People’s Nightmare by Sagamite(m): 11:49am On Oct 10, 2014
eleko1:
Do u read the part where I write PITY AM BIKO?
Oops!

Sorry, my apologies!

I have called my babalawo to cancel the N100m curse I sent for the sacrifices to be made. grin
PoliticsRe: Enugu Onitsha Expressway: A Reflection Of A People’s Nightmare by Sagamite(m): 10:48am On Oct 10, 2014
eleko1:
grin grin grin ;DThose whom the gods wish/would destroy,they first make mad.U dnt need to curse already CURSED man.Pity am biko embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
You are a cretinous fuuktard!

So you know the Gods have cursed you with stupidity?
RomanceRe: Code And Conducts For The Side Chic(s). by Sagamite(m): 10:44am On Oct 10, 2014
mirexxx:
oya side chickens whr una dey?
The day my wife will catch you with me, you go know where you dey.
PoliticsRe: Enugu Onitsha Expressway: A Reflection Of A People’s Nightmare by Sagamite(m): 10:01am On Oct 10, 2014
oluseyiforjesus:
Dividend of Democracy has die in Nigeria since 1820,but on a serious note, GEJ is trying only dat he's working with Ministers,governors,senators,honorables etc dat are big tym robbers, only God can forgive the government of GEJ is full of corruption.......
You are a cretinous fuuktard!

The ministers are the corrupt criminals and Jonathan is the clean progressive?

It is the ministers granting corrupt people pardons, felicitating with them, sending them as representatives to national conference, setting up committees to sack them for buying 2 cars for $1.6m, sacking immediately those exposing their $10bn loot, negotiating their loot for them with oil companies, hiring private jets to hide money to take abroad and having wives that want to build one useless building for N4bn?

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

GEJ is an angel while Okonjo-Iweala, Aganga, Adesina, Prof Chukwu are the corrupt criminals?

E no go better for your lineage, fuuktard!
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m):
skyladon22:
Do you patronise them? Or how do you know they single moms smiley
How is patronising them much different from patronising a typical Nigerian girl? undecided

It might even work out far less costly and the return is guaranteed.

A friend just stayed at my place in London and said anytime he hooks up with a Nigerian girl on date or just friends, apart from them thinking and having the air that it is a birthright for the guy to pay for all the refreshments they have, they tend to always order the top of the list beverages.

The guy paying is buying a bottle of Gulder for N500, and the girl is ordering champagne (Moet Brut Imperial) at maybe N7,000.

He said he asked one one day that "Is that how you drink champagne every day?"

She said some rubbish while flashing her 32.

And he asked her "So when you go out and pay for yourself, you always order top-range champagne?"

Of course the answer was "No".

He is not short of money, but it is the principles. Even the guys he hangs with and usually buys rounds for, if they are buying for him on another day, he does not order top of the range things or anything so far different in price from what the person paying is having.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 8:45am On Oct 10, 2014
khiaa:
I don't think your way is more or less sensibly put, but it's sad if that is true. Maybe that's why he's so bitter, but he found himself a good woman so he should keep that bitterness in the pass.
You could probably have said:

"Maybe that's why he's likes his power now, and he is happy to use the power as he wishes since it is his turn to have no consequences if he is inconsiderate and he can have plenty women now".

By the way desirable good women are hard to come by.

Women tend to be good when the looks goes or when they have something to benefit:

https://www.nairaland.com/1433735/ladies-attitude-when-breaking-up/1#18072016

Yours truly,

Sagamite (BSc, PgDip, MA, PhD, D.Phil)

Professor of Womantology
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 3:27pm On Oct 09, 2014
If majority of black girls are as classy as these girls, then definitely they would be help in far more higher esteem and goodwill.

Absolutely fcking classy girls and the one in the middle is hot as well.

From the classiness of the girls, you can tell that the university is not Fisk.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gJ0NIg5oTCQ
CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye's Funny Reaction To The Food In DUBAI (photos) by Sagamite(m): 12:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
englishmart:
You see that kind confirm food, you dey complain.

I remember when I visited china. These were the foods I was served.. I no fit eat am sha, but I snap am
Coward! grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Demands Retraction Over Inclusion In Richest African President List by Sagamite(m): 11:01am On Oct 09, 2014
He is fcking reetarded.

Did he not make $300m from the $1.1bn he and Adoke helped Dan Etete collect from oil companies as profit for awarding himself Nigeria's oil block?

Jonathief!
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 10:46am On Oct 09, 2014
carefreewannabe:
You could have done it without supporting the rest of the brainless people here who think it is ok and good to discriminate against single mothers.
Intellect comes with responsibility.
I support only valid arguments and do not support arguments that do not make sense (especially ones that attack kids) hence why I was attacking people like this:

https://www.nairaland.com/1929092/marry-someone-child/7#26798704

https://www.nairaland.com/1929092/marry-someone-child/13#26921529

I attacked maternal because that was his first post I saw on my re-entry into the thread. I was very pissed he could support some useless woman saying she would only allow her grand-kids in the house and not the step-grand-kids.

I was so pissed I went back to read more of his post because I got my Scythe out to attack him, only to find that majority of the things he said were facts but emotional arguments lead him sometimes to stray and say things out of line. Hence why I backed out from the attack.

That is not the first time I back out of an attack on NL. When Igbo people attack Hausa people on NL, I don't criticise them that much despite my rage at tribalism because I understand that many of their relatives have been historically randomly killed in the North at the slightest hint of "you have insulted my religion".

Maternal made some extremely valid arguments so I have a bit of understanding for his lack of respect or concerns that leads him astray.

The women too on this thread were not given valid arguments, hence why I corrected them with the disadvantages. Just the same balanced way I corrected this guy about his disadvantages:

https://www.nairaland.com/1921974/6-reasons-bald-men-better/2#26681785

I am an objective God!


I have said it several times that if I am walking on the streets of London and see a black women struggling with a pram to multi-task and load shopping in the booth of her car, I would walk past. If she is white, I would ask, "Can I help"?

I don't like black women's attitudes, and except I know them personally, I tend not have too much concerns because of their inconsiderate reputation.

carefreewannabe:
If you say that single motherhood MIGHT be bad karma then you say that single motherhood is a form of punishment. It's more than an implication, it is a logical conclusion.
A logical conclusion to you, definitely not to me.

The logic breaks down if anyone knows me and my mentality.

Sagamite does not do RELIGION, SUPERSTITION or UNSUBSTANTIATED ATTRIBUTION.

So Sagamite can NEVER, EVER, .......EVER, EVER, EVER believe in Karma.

As I said, someone was making invalid points that was "real man" mugu training about how karma catches people that have done wrong. And I asked a rhetoric question that, according to her logic, maybe it is Karma that is catching black women for their own earlier stinking personalities.

So Sagamite asking a rhetoric question using Karma as "might", can never be logically concluded as meaning Sagamite believes in Karma.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 11:12am On Oct 08, 2014
carefreewannabe:
And then you asked if single motherhood is bad karma? You continued talking about single motherhood as a form of punishment (=bad karma).
I am sure you would never ask if men in the West lose a lot of money due to bad karma.
I merely reversed a real man mugu training principles as a question, not even an assertion.

I never talked about single motherhood as a form of punishment except in the illogical mind of Professor Implier who might have implied it for me.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m):
carefreewannabe:
You have happily participated in putting single mothers down.
You have sided with people who offend them.
Really?

So me stating that women in Saudi Arabia are not allowed to drive or travel without a close male relative is "participating in putting Saudi women down"?

So me stating the men in the West are milked through the divorce courts is "participating in milking men"?

Merely stating the obvious is putting people down.

I am sorry but I don't understand such logic. It does not mix well with the blood in my veins.

My first post on the thread states everything about my opinion.

https://www.nairaland.com/1929092/marry-someone-child/7#26798704

carefreewannabe:
You called it enlightenment and education to tell them what ALL of them know.
Some did not appear to know, and I laid my facts down the way it is.

carefreewannabe:
And to come at people whose situation CAN be very tough, especially in developing countries, is very weak.

And the worst of all is that you don't see anything wrong in it.
Wow! As usual, the feminist angle!

So when you stated single fathers have the same issues, you did not see it as a "put down" or "offensive"?

It is only when it is said about women that it is a "put down" or "offensive"?

You get very emotional and outraged at situations that can be very tough for women, but if it is a situation that can be very tough for men you are taciturn and only want to talk about ................"what about women".

And you see nothing wrong with it. It is fine as a feminist.

I guess it is okay for women to be "me, me, me".

carefreewannabe:
I don't see having a child as a disadvantage just because some or even many men wouldn't want to be with me for this reason. My life is not about how many men fancy me.
If anything ever happens to the father of my children, he will be able to Rest in Peace, because he will leave this world knowing that I will never consider my position as disadvantaged but rather cherish motherhood and make the best out of it.
https://www.phillysportstc.com/Black_mother_and_daughter_800x532.jpg
Having a child has its pros and cons just like any complex human interaction.

Marriage has its pros and cons.

Living in wealthy neighbourhood has its pros and cons.

Having only sons or only daughters has its pros and cons.

Living in Nigeria surprisingly has its pros and cons.


When it comes to the dating game, having a child already has its cons that puts people (women or men) at a disadvantage. Far more so women.

Just like being a divorcee puts people (women or men) at a disadvantage in the dating game. Far more so women.

Just like having a disability puts people (women or men) at a disadvantage in the dating game.

Just as being uneducated puts people (women or men) at a disadvantage in the dating game.

Just as being unattractive puts people (women or men) at a disadvantage in the dating game. More so women.

Just as being extremely short puts men at a disadvantage in the dating game.

Just as being poor puts men at a disadvantage in the dating game.

Whether this people choose to see it as a disadvantage or not does not stop it from being a disadvantage they have to somehow overcome.

The society you are in dictates the magnification of these disadvantages. Some would be pronounced, some would only be slight.

Simples!

Hyperventilating in your feminist red mist at the obvious does not change anything. A mist you never have for men being disadvantaged, obviously, otherwise it would not have the appended "feminist".

That is not to say people should be ashamed or not love their child. I just stated what is the fact! It is what it is.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 9:38am On Oct 08, 2014
carefreewannabe:
Deviation tactics. grin

Keep debating with Maternal. He seems to be more at your intellectual level.

And you are not even ashamed.
So asking you to prove that is "deviation tactics" and unintelligent? grin grin grin grin grin

Okay, thanks for highlighting that. grin grin grin grin grin

Thank God that is not my normal state and approach, I was just applying imitation. cheesy

Who was I imitating? grin


YOU! cool

https://www.nairaland.com/1929092/marry-someone-child/14#26938386

Telling people to give you proof of the obvious is grasping at straws and a drowning-in-the-ocean tactics, and an attempt to waste the person debating with you's time. It is a trait I have come to observe in your argument patterns. And I decided to use on you so you see how illogical it is. I thought, "ask her to prove the obvious too like she likes to".

I decided to use it on you because I knew you will NEVER see it as wrong except it affects you. Typical woman. cool

Sagamite:
Also, trust me, she would also be the first to ask someone using a bigger sample pool "Have you interviewed all women on Earth to know that" even when you say something as obvious like "most women are emotional judges and would support their only child if the child faces a prosecution for murder and faces the death sentence"?
Observe these in her argument patterns in future.
Thank God, you are the one that labelled it yourself as "deviation tactics" and unintelligent. I need say no more about it then.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m):
maternal:
I also see no reason why on every thread broke and unsuccessful men are put down by women when it comes to finding a partner to marry. While I may sound like a broken record, I must point out the hypocrisy by these same women, who are now asking for understanding, who also join in these broken men bashing.
maternal:
It may not be you specifically, but its common in African/Nigerian culture. Its ironic every women, specifically those who are single mothers are now understanding or would have sympathy for a broke man in this thread.
Two things you should know as part of her traits:

1. Concerns of men and anything discriminating against men carries less weight in her views than those of women. Her mental process is that she would give it the briefest oversight, dismiss it with the lightest agreement and want to switch the discussion to focus only on what affects women even if the thread/topic is dedicated to the men's discussion or the discussion is mainly that. We are supposed to see wrong-doing to men as wrong but significantly unworthy of attention as that to women. She gives little hoot about men's concerns, but gets very emotional about women's concerns.

2. She frequently uses herself as the sole example in a sample pool and as a representation of all women. It is something I have told her over and over and over again that she needs a bigger and geographically diverse sample pool to make generalisations but it falls on deaf ear. A small or singular sample pool makes sense to her even though she would also be the first to say she is different from most women. Also, trust me, she would also be the first to ask someone using a bigger sample pool "Have you interviewed all women on Earth to know that" even when you say something as obvious like "most women are emotional judges and would support their only child if the child faces a prosecution for murder and faces the death sentence"?

Observe these in her argument patterns in future.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 7:26am On Oct 08, 2014
carefreewannabe:
No, I am not taking it personal.
I am not a single mother. I don't have kids at all.

I just know how much strength it takes to be a good single mother and it is irritating that people will put these women down by telling them that it is bad karma.
Some of these women lost their husbands due to an accident or an illness.
Others were abandoned even if the father initially wanted the child.

You don't have to marry them. They ALL know that MANY men are not willing to accept their children, for one reason or another.
Yet, I see no reason why on every thread about single mothers people have to put them down by, for example, explaining to them how their "market value" diminished BECAUSE OF THEIR CHILD.

I see more reasons to lift them up, to help and to encourage them, which will also benefit the children. This doesn't mean you have to marry them.
Prove these.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m):
carefreewannabe:
Look, it's here:

Sagamite's "facts":

Women are at an advantage because they are granted custody.
Women are disadvantaged because they are granted custody.

Sagamite's "facts":

Women are selfish.

Objection to his "fact":
Men are also selfish, human beings are selfish.

Sagamite:

On a scale, women are more selfish.
carefreewannabe:
And here
https://atlantablackstar.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/black_mother_and_daughter_800x5324.jpg
And here
[img]http://www.caltrate.ca/sites/default/files/motherhood.jpg[/img]
And here
https://savvyauntie.com/Admin/Images/Article/Thumb288x201/Article_article-chinese-women-delaying-motherhood-savvyauntie_949716176.jpg
Are you feeling like a genius now because you have told women that their pool of potential partners is limited?
And you think you enlightened or taught anyone anything new?
Or have you rather helped yourself to feel better because you showed them that HAVING A CHILD is a disadvantage for women?
Okay, now I see how you have proven my point that single motherhood is a disadvantage in the mating game wrong. undecided

By showing me single mothers love their kids and take care of them, you have proven to me single mothers are not more disadvantaged in the mating game compared to girls without children.

Women ||||||Brick Wall||||| Logic

Men need to make sense in debate = handicap.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Sagamite(m): 11:08pm On Oct 07, 2014
carefreewannabe:
I already have.

Now I will show you how objective you are.

Sagamite's "facts":

Women are at an advantage because they are granted custody.
Women are disadvantaged because they are granted custody.

Sagamite's "facts":

Women are selfish.

Objection to his "fact":
Men are also selfish, human beings are selfish.

Sagamite:

On a scale, women are more selfish.

Unfortunately, the scale is invisible because it is Sagamite's SUBJECTIVE perception.
Where? undecided

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