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obadiah777: NIGERIA HAS FINE GIRLS SHA. WHEN I GO ON LINDAIKEJI I SEE WOMEN CALLED OONA PRIDY, EDEWOR, OFILI, ETC ETC. NAIJA HAS THE PRETTIEST BLACK GIRLS IN THE WORLD. ( ETHIOPIANS AND SOMALIANS ARE NOT BLACK )

http://3.bp..com/-iwd6OjI7zek/TmU2-QIPKxI/AAAAAAAAEZg/wa44gAG8vlc/s640/seriously-doughnuts-DSC_3467.jpg <<<< WHAT NAIJA CHICKS LOOK LIKE NOWADAYZ

http://www.360nobs.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/eku1.jpg <<<ANOTHER NAIJA BABE

http://2.bp..com/-uDaLdhCkfdc/UCNhF5cGHcI/AAAAAAAAAYM/OcD6mAvibCk/s1600/makashe+ibru+shag+005.JPG <<<< ANOTHER NAIJA HOTTIE

What a bunch of moronic shyt!

No 1, you pile a bunch of half caste-looking girls and call them "how naija chics look nowadays".

No 2, so dark looking girls are not attractive?

I am not saying you should not have your taste but keep such taste to yourself when your promulgation of it makes you sound stewpid.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]@Sagamite, just seen the thread you pointed me to.

Dude, your expectations are way too high. You can't eat your cake and have it! Besides, I'm tempted to ask - how do you as a person, score on that rigid template of yours self? [/quote]Efe, I am the ish! I bring value. Ask ronkebp.

What is so high about my expectations.

On 21 out 30? Only 70%, not 99.9999%? Haba!

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Besides, haven't you heard the saying: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? You seem to place a lot of looks on the book cover and not the contents. Nevertheless, no situation is "unworkable". Where there is a will, there is a way.[/quote]Don't tell me to compromise again.

Why can't the book look as good as the content just like Macmillan/Wileys do it?

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Now, you claim that the not-so-fine girls make up for their shortcomings with very good / pleasant personalities, abi? So, why not take one of these not-so-good-looking girls that's got everything else (intelligence, excellent personality and manners, etc) - and take her to Harley Street for some cosmetic workover??

I'm sure waking up to your double DD bust sized, botox induced chic every morning would more than compensate for the that little "dent" to your finances...no? [/quote]I eat only organic food. Not GM-modified.

As long as there are few girls with both beauty and personality, and I have met some, I would keep trying my luck in those quarters.

I would have given another story but I no get time now.

One Sri Lankan hotness I was trying to hook up with once (I failed even though she likes me, family expectations hassle too much), asked me:

"I am not trying to be rude, but most black girls just come across as angry".

A Somali one I told that Naija girls are rude tried to defend her sisters, I took her clubbing and it did not take long for her to see what I was talking about.

Two cases I pointed out to her and she could not argue:

- One, another different Somali girl, very very cute, was going across the club and some riff-raff looking, my-refugee-boat-just-landed desperado was trying to hook up with her and started pulling her. The girl slightly wrestled her hand off him and politely said "No" with a little smile and tried to continue walking despite him being in front of her and thrusting his crotch forward. I saw her avoid his path on her way back

- The second, Naija girl with make-up to the hilt, 6-inch platforms, that was standing next to us all night with her friend (basically just posing, not dancing, only their to soak attention all night), had a well dressed good-looking guy that has been standing next to her for a few minutes turned and tried to start a conversation. As he moved to talk into her ears because of loud music, she turned gave him a nasty look and then gently pushed her friend a couple of steps (like "lets move away from this pervert", and then continued shaking her asset softly feeling all proud. The guy just gently took the embarassment and looked away without saying a word.

I asked the Somali girl: "Can you see the contrast I was telling you about?"

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ Or maybe, just maybe, you prefer the "exciting", extroverted, dare devil, pretty but bad mannered girls over the "dull", introverted, shy but well mannered intelligent girls.

Me thinks you're probably mixing with your average "wrong" black girl.

Anyway, rudeness is not specific to any ethnic group. You've also got rude Caucasian, Asian, Negroid girls too.[/quote]Why can't a girl be "exciting", pretty, intelligent, well mannered and extroverted/introverted (really don't care as long as she is not a tomboy)?

Why do I have to go for a "dull" girl?

Why do most of you feel the need to lecture me to compromise on my preference/happiness to take what YOU find as ideal (i.e. marriage, committed relationship)?

I want a beautiful woman with a good personality. Simples!

https://www.nairaland.com/312247/gf-material-vs-wife-material/1#4390898

That happens to be quite a rare phenomena. Majority of women have one or the other.

Beautiful girls have their head up their arsses because they feel they have options and some daft arsse men kiss their arsse. They only change when the looks starts fading and they need to tie something down before the BBE or UB date.

Ugly girls develop good personality to compensate for what nature has not given them.

I see this so frequently as I am very observant.

It is rare to see girls that have both. I have seen some and I am the type that is vocal because I tell them. I praise the right women alot, just as much as I condemn the wrong women.

I will not compromise when I have other options like "be single and fire them"!

Rudeness is not specific to any ethnic group but by and large Negroid girls are the worst by a mile that I have seen. Any second worst is like Usain Bolt running with my high school athletics team. It is somehow culturally embedded.

In terms of me mixing with the wrong black girls, then majority of black men must be mixing with the wrong black women and majority of men of other races must be meeting the wrong black women. Actually, we all mix with the same small pool of black women while the majority rest are locked in underground dungeons since we all have similar views about black women. You know the "strong" black woman, Hulk Hogan personality types.

afam4eva: I'm a social recluse and parties are a no no for me...but i've seen girls wearing that kind of outfit in parties. Even celebrities wear them. I really don't see how much of a deal those pictures are.

The big deal there is that she is not going to a party and feels the need to show such.

That is very un-African and break some of our solid moral codes that would be nice if we can retain.

I like the pictures though. I am immoral.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Sagamite

It is not up to grown women to correct grown women just like it is not up to grown men to correct grown men. It is obvious grown men arent doing that seeing black men are on the bottom of the totem pole. Is it the responsibilities of other to tell you which way to go? No. That's parents' job.

Who decide what is norm or expected?[/quote]Fair enough point.

But it does leave the risk of a negative generalisation and generalisation is a pertinent, useful and frequently used tool for formulating some opinions.

My perception of modern day black women based on simple generalisation is quite negative based purely on apt objectivity.

[quote author=Czar-Chris]I know the ladies will hate me for what am about to post, but what the hell, if don't like it, go bathe on top transformer. .
This is all true, it happened before my eyes(not some nollywood ishh). I was in Schlum then, I had a boss, real big man in all true sense of it and very kind. He had hotels and estates everywhere. He loved and trusted his wife so much, she had everything. One day we were having some drinks in his house, he went into his house to grab more bottles and overheard his wife telling someone "I love you" over the phone in a hiden corner of the house. O boy all hell broke loose that day. When we calmed the situation, he pretended to forget the whole issue. He somehow managed to take his six kids to South Africa on vacation, silently did a paternity test and found out that only two of his six kids where actually his. You should see a grown man crying like a baby, it was just heart rendering(i believe that this and other experiences i had in life made me view women differently, but this was the defineing one). Any woman I marry must sign a pre-nup, and the kids must undergo a DNA testing to put my mind at rest, that am not raising another man shit as mine.

PS:It later came out that his colleague in the office was responsible for 3 out of the external 4.
Guys underesteemate a woman at your own doom. QED[/quote]When Sagamite drums this into people's head on NL time and time again, they will say "Sagamite is abrasive".

I know women. Years of serious experience. I don't bury my head in the sand.

jidegirl12: Okay I hear you! I just don't get what you're implying,

a parternity test versus phone drama ,

not even close,

I will lose my spark for that man after he recieves the result of the DNA.

We are DONE!!!

Why is it not close?

afam4eva: What exactly is wrong with the picture. Is it the fact that she took it in the bathroom? If she had taken the picture with the same outfit in a party, would we have thought differently? It's not like she's stark nakked in the bathroom or something. People wear that to parties and heaven don't fall.

Afam, which parties do you go to? I need to start rolling with you bruv.

cotton101: sagamite not all black women are the same - thats the point I tried to make.

Sagamite: I love this white girl.

To be brutally frank, the value proposition of an average black woman is very low.

Nuff said.

I treat people as individuals (as it is obvious on NL), but if I am asked to generalise, then I would definitely not be giving black women high marks.

Some individual black women might not only have high marks, they will have excellent marks, but majority would have very low marks and they drive the average mark down drastically.

When you black women see your fellow black women (that maybe even friends) being shytheads instead of you thinking it is acceptable and men should just take it, correct the women. Don't let them spoil your identity.

Start with that philosophy on NL to get practice.

Shollypopz is an ideal representation of the low marks. You should not want people seeing her as part of your average score.

calculusx: Yes i listened to the programme that particular Saturday and i was surprised with the revelation. He also confirmed a greater percentage of First Born are not with their real husbands. Women women women, i hail thee

This is what I mean when I said:

Sagamite: Some of these women have exes or crushes (their ideal men) they will prefer to be with, so I would not be surprised if these women are having it hit on the side.

I personally would never marry a woman that does not see me as her ideal, who has other guys she obviously fancies more and who does not explicitly feels privileged to be with me.

pro01: Only a dubious woman demands trust from her husband or partner. A genuinely virtuous woman earns it. . .and strives to retain it - simply by keeping her hands clean and her path straight. You don't insist on keeping male 'friends' or going on 'business trips' with your randy boss, and yet expect a sensible husband to trust you.

Any sensible man would NEVER trust any human being (let alone a woman) 100%. That's pure foolishness. If there are sufficient grounds for suspicion, then by all means a man must conduct a paternity test to clear all doubts. A truly good woman wouldn't get angry with her husband for doing that. She would get angry with herself for not doing enough to earn his trust.

Only sneaky, slimy, deceitful women (and they are in the majority) would make foolish noise or threaten divorce (you can imagine) when their serial unfaithfulness is under suspicion.

If I ever feel the need to, and I do it. If she gets agree, she gets agree.

If she wants to separate, we will separate, no problem.

Never think threats will prevent me from looking out for and managing my best interest.

In my books, any woman can always fck off when she feels like it. Only be with a woman that wants to be with you and who would not give you much stress.

Such test is not out of place in the current world we live in where people rush into marriage to be married and:

- Women marry men that is not their premier choice because they had their head up their arsse in their youth when they had lots of admirers and then fcked with guys they want

- Men are dumb enough to marry women that love the way he loves them, not love him

Some of these women have exes or crushes (their ideal men) they will prefer to be with, so I would not be surprised if these women are having it hit on the side.

I personally would never marry a woman that does not see me as her ideal, who has other guys she obviously fancies more and who does not explicitly feels privileged to be with me.

Never chase a woman! Make a move on her but NEVER chase a woman. That is my simply policy.

Stunningly hot babe.

What bathroom? Was there one in the pictures?

cotton101: sagamite you have come again

I keep it straight and brutally honest, sweetie.

I don't take sides except the side of objectivity.

TalkItAll: Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.
I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good- looking,
educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's
attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because
the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were
either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too
materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became
engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men,
willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so
up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at
themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get
and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from
some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles
Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams,
Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi
Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry
Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a
little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad
with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts
together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better.
If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in
VA.

I love this white girl.

To be brutally frank, the value proposition of an average black woman is very low.

TalkItAll: RESPONSE
Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated
from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a
Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a
major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider
myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my
precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record
straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the
biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were
considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the
church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and
who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would
look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle.
So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of
brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A
lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall
weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women.
We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more
money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this
fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can
control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously
comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I
just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to
know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like
Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will
Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L.
Jackson,and Chris Rock all married strong! black women. And, to flip the
scrip, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who
openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson,
Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a
disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you
are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black
Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and
armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw
meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history!
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food.
It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It
was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during
slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their
fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail.
Black women were born with two strikes against them: being! black and
being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of
the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I
could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer
beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that
they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.
Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their
ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what
they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their
highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have
fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is
geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this
were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken
your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you jus! t be
happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips,
hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can
look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a
result of you wanting to have what the black woman has. BOTTOM LINE: If
I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control,
I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous
woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children.
Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am
looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately,
you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given.

Signed,
Black Royalty

Wow!! we must pass this on to make the day of the Black Queens of our
acquaintances!

This is a typical "I-must-defend-them-because-they-are-my-own", black panther, brother of Islam moronic person?

What strength? How is rudeness, classlessness and shrew-lyness a sign of strength?

How can such a person be a good wife or give me the joy of wanting her to be mother of my kids?

How can a black man have "fear" of their black woman being more successful than them but do not have this "fear" for white woman? Which of the 2 have better odds of being more successful than the black man?

Bloody cretin!

snydergp: My dear and we AFRICANS gave birth to ur forefathers and all humanity so we are actually responsible for every invention humanity ever created.

So u have some of me in ur DNA u should be very proud for being blessed with my creative GENES

He is not African American. He is a mentally-troubled Somali person.

They have no achievements, their mental capacity is below that of Baboons.

ayanle456: it had to be done. This looser is dreaming.

Learn how to spell loser, illiterate Somali person.

staaari: Welcome Ijebu State.
Ijebu omo alare.

Gidigbo illiteracy.

The "you must kill me today" mentality of a product of a failed education system.

[quote author=H-Star89]so stupid [/quote]You are witnessing the mental level of an uneducated Somali person!

ayanle456: Still dreaming of dating a Somali I see? Lmao

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.

sucad: are you not useless?

I am not Somali. I am superior.

sucad: i think you are useless

I know you are a person!

Are Somalis not useless?

sucad: Civil rights

We invented the peanut butter

we helped create America

So you agree Somalis are useless then?

sucad: your mama

You mean hungry Hooyo?

Ejike3: TB Joshua predicted it since July.
https://www.nairaland.com/1018624/prophet-tb-joshua-predicts-another#11806619

You are a pathological person!

addictiv: what does ijebu land have. can they sustain themselves?, do they have the infrastructure in place? these are questions they should ask before clamoring for state creation. Nigeria is already disunited, we should stop deceiving ourselves. In the bible when God wanted to put an end to the tower of babel, he gave them different languages and there was confusion. i believe that if we can practice true federalism where a state know that if it doesn't invest and generate revenues there would be no funds for it to run on and not wait for national allocations from the federal govt with no development at the expense of the public. i agree that the states would be like little nations but then the actual govt would be closer to the people.

Why didn't God give them different languages when they were building the Burj Khalifa, the Petronas Towers and the Taipei 101?

sucad: i can list pages of african american achievements.

Who asked you to?

sucad: y so rude nigga?

I said shut up. person!

funkybaby: sagamite, so you haven't changed?

@post
very foolish plan.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dj6_98tq4mY&feature=my_favorites&

Yeepa! Ghost o!

My enemies in Sagamu have become more powerful.

sucad: i dont know somali history abeg

Then shut up!

Banitez: It is quite unfortunate that there are some pple that dont understand certain facts behind state creation, that is why some disgruntled and uneducated elements are just pouring vituperations and casting aspersion unnecessarily.Keep your boggling mouths shut on elderly and germane iissues that border on development of this nation..Leave it for those who knows what to do, not nonsensicals and bigots.

Please educate us.

The floor is yours.