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Otitipupa:
She has been staying with us for over a month now. I don’t even know how they met each other, he just brought her one day and introduced her as his girlfriend.

I have tried to tell him it’s wrong being with an underaged girl but he told me to mind my business. I can’t say much to him because I don’t have a job and I’m squatting with him. He is the one feeding me and giving me money to go for interviews.

He is treating the girl really bad. I sleep on the floor while they sleep on the bed. One night, he wanted to have his way with her and the girl said she was tired. I heard him tell her that she is not a real woman that is always ready to please her man. He threatened her he won’t marry her again. She told him she is sorry and allowed him.

He has slapped her 2 times in my presence. He is treating her like a slave. I am afraid to advice the girl to go back home as she might tell him.

The guy is a notorious cultist and I don’t want to step on his toes. Please how do I report this matter anonymously to the right authorities without it backfiring me.

We stay in a akwaibom

Your friend is a paedophile.
Find a way and leave that environment.

Bvlgari:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hByAcrhHw4

Viral video of a lady praying and showing praises to her husband's D*ck for been faithful for the past 18years

Source:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnWZ3H4pMJS/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Lol
the woman is happy

2mercy:
https://guardian.ng/news/youve-lost-igbo-support-over-comments-serg-tells-tinubu/

From cassava and agbado to soaked slice bread.

purpose32:
I will be concluding my NYSC program on March, i want to know if it is possible for me to apply?

Go ahead and apply, good luck.

chariisGRACE:
Oga, I'm not saying the project is fake.

My point is that, Udom is not worth the hype. Dude is full of shvt!!!

You are right
Udom have failed his people, Akpabio's achievement is miles ahead of his successor, Udom.
Don't mind this Udom hypeman called Illaumoh a.k.a Hunchogee.
Always hyping Udom, even when it is evident that his master have failed.

TMSMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1436449/actress-nkiru-sylvanus-fiance-wed-traditionally-photos/

Seun Lalasticlala Mynd44 nlfpmod

Happy married life to the couple.

jamesversion:
Who is we?? How many states in the SEast are controlled by PDP?... Only 2.

How many states in SS is controlled by PDP?... 4.

So going by arithmetic, the most loyal PDP states are the SS states, chiefly Rivers, Delta, Bayelsa and Akwaibom.

Igbos should revive APGA and make it have national appeal.

You forgot to mention Edo state.
PDP have 5 states in the South south geopolitical zone.

HenryThegreat1:
NYESOM Wike, the maverick Rivers State governor, is a toxic influence on Nigerian politics. Like all narcissists, he thrives on applause and adulation from sycophants and praise singers. His outsized presence in Nigerian politics is fuelled by the oxygen of publicity he constantly receives from the media even for his most infantile behaviour.

But after next month’s presidential election, whatever the outcome, and after he leaves office as governor on May 29, Wike would gradually fade into political irrelevance and eventually end up in the “dustbin of history”. It would be a good riddance! 
If those words are harsh, well, it’s because they should be. Public life is too important to be the property of narcissists, of self-aggrandising megalomaniac, who see everything through the prism of self-promotion. Politics, democracy and the party system that underpins them must never be so personalised that any individual is too powerful and above party discipline.
In a system where only parties can hold political power, nothing undermines the robustness of an electoral democracy like when a major party descends into dysfunction, hijacked by self-indulgent rebels. 

By forming a renegade ‘party’, so-called G5, within a party, the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, and by working actively for the defeat of the party’s presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar, in next month’s election, Wike engages in extraordinary anti-party activity and subverts the party system that is the foundation of electoral democracy in Nigeria.
Even worse, he’s doing so not for any unimpeachable moral principle but for pure self-interest and vindictiveness. The G5, comprising the PDP’s five rogue governors, who behave like Wike’s bag-carriers, calls itself Integrity Group. But it absolutely lacks integrity.
Why? Because the G5 members’ actions contradict the principles they claim to be fighting for, the principles that give them such a moral high ground that they feel justified to go for the jugular, working single-mindedly to make sure their supposed party loses next month’s presidential election. It’s unprecedented!
Unprecedented? What about the PDP’s G5 of 2015? Well, the G5 of 2015 worked against President Goodluck Jonathan’s re-election, but they did so honourably. They left the PDP and joined the APC, helping Muhammadu Buhari to defeat Jonathan. But Wike’s G5 wants to stay in the PDP and campaign against its presidential candidate.
Think about it. Governor Seyi Makinde of Oyo State, a G5 member, who is seeking re-election, is saying to Oyo State’s electorate: “Re-elect me, but don’t vote for my party’s presidential candidate.” Similarly, Governors Samuel Ortom of Benue State, Ifeanyi Ugwanyi of Enugu State and Okezie Ikpeazu of Abia State, also G5 members, who are running for the Senate, are telling voters in their senatorial districts: “Elect me as PDP senator, but don’t vote for my party’s presidential candidate.”

The utter absurdity of these propositions is self-evident, as is the brazen breach of party discipline. An aggrieved politician can either fight his cause within a party or leave. But to stay in a party and openly support an opposition candidate is a no-no! A recent University of California study found that card-carrying Americans may disagree with their own party but won’t help an opposing one!
This played out recently in the US Congress. A core of 20 Republican members of Congress opposed Kevin McCarthy, a fellow Republican, as Speaker of the House of Representatives. They rejected him in 14 rounds of voting. The Republicans have 222 members as against the Democrats’ 212.
Given that only 218 votes are needed to elect the Speaker, just six Republicans could have voted for the Democrats’ candidate, Hakeem Jeffries, to become the Speaker. But none did. Despite their visceral opposition to McCarthy, none of the 20 Republican rebels wanted a Democrat as Speaker. Rather, after rejecting McCarthy in 14 rounds of voting, they elected him in the 15th round.
Party discipline prevailed. But Wike’s G5 would not only vote against their party’s presidential candidate, but they’re also asking Nigerians to reject him. Yet, as I said, they are doing so with absolutely no integrity because their actions contradict the principles they’re purportedly defending. 
Take the presidency. They argue that on grounds of equity, justice and fairness, another Northerner should not succeed President Buhari. I agree. But based on those principles, where should power go in the South: South-West (eight years as president, eight as vice-president since 1999) or South-South (five years as president, three as vice-president since 1999) or South-East (nil since 1999)? So, why did Wike want to be PDP’s presidential candidate? Why didn’t he, on grounds of equity, justice and fairness, support a South-East candidate?

Recently, when Bola Tinubu led South-West APC leaders to Pa Rueben Fasoranti’s Akure home to solicit his endorsement, Governor Makinde sent his deputy to tell the group: “Although we don’t belong to the same party, we belong to the same race. I will do what Yoruba elders say.” So, on grounds of ethnicity, Makinde favours Tinubu over his own party’s candidate.
Indeed, Wike and most other G5 members also favour Tinubu. But do they think Tinubu’s candidacy is defensible on grounds of equity, justice and fairness? Are they blind to his exclusionist Muslim-Muslim ticket and the ethnic and religious tensions his presidency would engender, not to mention his acute character and integrity deficits? They are enemies of Nigeria!
Wike says his umbrage is against Iyorchia Ayu, PDP’s national chairman, who refuses to honour his vow to resign if a Northerner emerged as PDP’s presidential candidate. Fair enough. But what about Wike’s own vow. At the PDP’s presidential primary election in May last year, Wike said: “Let me vow today. Anyone who emerges here, I will support the person to the fullest.”
What about that vow? There are two Wikes. One angrily sprouts grievances and proclaims his victimhood. The other sees politics as performance art and provides a rolling circus of political entertainment. Well, there’s a third: a deeply vengeful man who’s working day and night against his party’s presidential candidate. Whatever the outcome next month, he’ll be a footnote in history. His toxicity is bad for politics! 


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/01/2023-wike-is-heading-for-the-dustbin-of-history/

Wike is power drunk.

Barrylord4040:
8years as governor,you can't point out any tangible achievement.
Then am senseless if I vote for you.
Vote wisely

Are you serious?
Bala Mohammed was elected as Governor in 2019.
Words from the indigenes say he is doing well.

sharone21:
This is how my male friend was making good money and his girlfriend then told him to save or even buy land then at Lekki, he preferred living in hotels. When she persisted, he told her she can buy for herself.

The small, small change he gave her, she gathered it and bought a land. Later, their friendship went sour and she met another guy who married her and built on that land.

If it is an Ika girl, she will carry the money and buy bike(motorcycle) before any other acquisition.
Ika girls and bike is like 5 and 6.

mrksquare:
Doing projects upon projects doesn't quarantee that the people will queue behind a party. Rather it is about how many lives that have been lifted from poverty to self reliance. Projects alone without attending to the human element of develoment will amount to nought. Meanwhile, Ahoada is a stronghold of the APC. With BIVAS, it won't get any easier for the PDP.


If the election in Rivers state is devoid of monetary inducement, Wike will also get a rude awakening in Rivers state. Under his watch, Rivers indigenes most especially the youths have become despondent. No opportunities. And all avenue that would have created jobs for the youths through the state owned enterprises that was set up by predecessors, have all been shut down.

So true, but... PDP will win Ahoada East whereas votes will divide between PDP, APC and Accord in Ahoada west.

Hafeez5000:
I designed a keke napep I got a bank interested in buying 30 pieces but they want to see a prototype to know am capable of building it I know all the materials required to build it.i can build it.but I don't have funds to build it.i met a lot of rich people to invest or give me loan but they don't want to support me why is that? am tired and frustrated.

Nice craft/hand work, I pray you get the support you need. to develop.

Kewtt:
"When I was in prison, Tinubu gave my wife a house in VGC and pay my children's school fees....."

Asari Dokubo

One good act deserves another good act in turn.

edunaragold:
Good morning Nairaland, i hope our today is going perfectly well.

I have noticed recently that lagosian dont marry on time,unlike the north were things are cheap,and non stressful, i mean lagos is populated just like new York the city that never sleeps,and lagos the city of hustle and bustle.,

I have seen several lagosian of age 40-45yrs still single,and still hustling,and few % are called single mom or dad, i left lagos to the north because i believe if lagos dose not work our for me,i should try relocating and hustling in another state, lagosians ,are pure hustlers,and i too was like that until i got a job in the North,things are bit diff from lagos,a journey of 20 mins bus is 20mins,unlike lagos were hold ups are much,
If i was in Lagos still hustling ,and am sure i may never have settle down,i deceided to remain here in the north,because life here is much cheaper than lagos,u can marry cheap here, renting a house is also cheap,not to talk of transportation fair,from iyana-ipaja to dumpemu round about is like,100naira,if it was in north here,on same distance it will cost you,a charges of 400naira,

My point is that due to the hardships in lagos, most people dont settle down on time.in north here a boy or a girl of 20yrs old may have being married or have one or two kids,but many of them are struggling or suffering with no hope of giving the kids a better education, often an average northerner live on labouring jobs.

Lagos hustle ain't a easy thing
Anyway, Eko no. baje

Mastersure:
Great Nairalanders,
May the new year be good to everyone here.

Please, i have a problem i need to share with us all here, with the hope of sound counsels on how to manage the situation.

Now the thing is, i am in a serious relationship that is leading to marriage with a lady. But this lady is an ulcer patient. This condition makes her to fall sick almost every week. Stomach upsets and general body weakness, but she still works.
Monies are spent in the hospitals steady and in addition, my plan is after wedding, when we would have been married, i will ensure that those products that eases/relief the ailment like, Milk and Yoghurt together with the normal drugs will always be available at home. (She takes Milk and yoghurt steady for reliefs).

Now my problem is, she falls ill almost all the time, Her younger sister is also an ulcer patient, her mother too is an ulcer patient and her uncle is also a chronic ulcer patient. And these have been given me issues.

True i love her 100% but it will not still be a big deal to end the relationship.

Please, Doctors, Mothers, Fathers and all the experienced and learned people here, Is this a big deal? And how can i handle the issue?

Thanks and God bless you all.

Ulcer is a medical condition that can be cured completely.
You can try traditional/herbal medication if the Orthodox medicine you tried did not produce any positive result.

Lance00009:
Yes
Write a letter to the senate and state a resonable reason why you are absent or better go and contact the Hod and do what ever he says

The letter goes to the Registrar, then the Registrar will minute on it and send to the school senate for approval.
That's how it is done.

Freedomlurther:
Good evening bosses..
So, I got admitted to school 2017, but the school fee was 210k per section, I was able to pay for my 100level, but when I got to 200level, I could only pay 105k for first semester only, then I deferred the remaining semester about thrice, I got so frustrated and I lost hope because I couldn’t met up.

But earlier yesterday my late mom sister just texted me on fb from Spain,even though I have sent her several messages on fb, so I explained to her I’m no longer in school because help was not coming from anyone and my results were excellent, so she ask me to go school and ask if I can still be admitted, I’m on my way already I’m just scared and hopeful, because when I tried to login to my portal the picture below is what it’s dispalaying

Yes, you can but did you write down when you intend to resume study in your letter of suspension of study to your registrar.
The normal practice is like that, when applying for suspension of study, you have to state the session/year you wish to come back and resume study.

NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KeBYHu3bh3c

Intending Couple Shot Dead By Unknown Gunmen A Week To Their Wedding In Imo (Graphic Photos) - IGBERETV report



https://www.instagram.com/p/CnTj_XzNooM/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

So sad
the insecurity challenge caused by the UGM in the East is a serious National matter.

politicoNG:
https://gazettengr.com/only-when-igbos-vote-for-me-will-they-eat-national-cake-tinubu/

So funny
Ndi Easterners, over to you.

Zonefree:
Obviously, she's over 15 years older than the poor dude.


Nollywood ENPs are now targeting young boys to settle down after shouting "menascum" at their flower ages.

Nairaland ENPs are broke and wretched hence they can't attract any guy to remove shame from their body, the reason they always attack innocent guys on this forum.

Hian, this your post can cause vawulence

dre11:
•Magun traditional practice still exists —Community leader



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/01/mystery-how-popular-ekiti-native-doctor-died-after-sex-romp/

Another case of a man dying from magun affliction.

mrksquare:
Come and pay admission fee into my Casanova school of being an A-list man that doesn't give shishi but yet can have any woman for the keep.

Kukuma go open am for Casablanca or Azikiwe Road where there are notorious ladies.

odinga1of:
Beremx and TonyeBarcanista (those two monikers in 2014/2015 said Bubu was the best thing after fried rice.

Beremx? yes but TonyeBarcanista have never support/supported APC/Buhari before 2015 and thereafter.
someone that is a card carrying member of PDP in his LGA in Rivers state and in the National youth wing.

Efewestern:
The Ijaws not giving bloc votes is why APC still has chances in the forthcoming election. But I still think the Isokos aren't doing enough. Unless maybe the Ijaws come to their rescue, Manager may likely win. But so far I've Joel-Onowakpo will massively win Urhobo dominated areas in the Delta South. I know that won't be enough to crown him, but also a great addition.

Overall, Manager has the bigger chances.

senator James manager is not contesting this time, it is zoned to Itsekiri. Michael Diden is the PDP candidate for Delta south senatorial district.

ijustdey:
Internet Fraud: U.S. court denies Adesuwa Ogiozee’s plea to remove electronic monitoring ahead of trial

Adesuwa Ogiozee is the latest Nigerian to be charged for involvement in multimillion-dollar fraud in the U.S. while pretending to be a legitimate entrepreneur.



https://gazettengr.com/internet-fraud-u-s-court-denies-adesuwa-ogiozees-plea-to-remove-electronic-monitoring-ahead-of-trial/

Yahoo girl no laptop

shadrach77:
When did Sean who has been in the industry for over 10 years and who has released numerous hits suddenly become "fast rising"

The caption shock me too.
I like Sean Tizzle's last hit "wasted".

NigerianAngelo:
If it's Igbos in Rivers/Delta or Efik (Akwa Ibom / Calabar), they have been defending.

If it's Ijaws? 50% pagan, 10% idle, 30% militant... don't ever think of them. They are water water people.

Goodluck wasn't Ijaw. He's from Otuoke ("One portion" in Igbo), a side that is about 1.8% of Bayelsa. Likewise Alison Madueke and co. Igbo tribe is larger than you thought.

Otueke is part of what ?
Do you know Diezani madueke before you post these falsehood.
These ipobs always attached by force
Delusion of grandeur.

politicoNG:
https://punchng.com/people-who-vote-apc-love-suffering-sowore/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1673450431

Nlfpmod Mynd44

I see them Suffering and smiling.

Enemyofpeace:
Man shares his look before and after leaving Nigeria.

Life is better now for him in abroad.
Naija suffering eeeehn

senatordave1:
I know.am talking of other areas

Ijaw votes will divide since senator James manager is not contesting again.

No more bloc votes from the Ijaw dominated areas.

Delta south senatorial district election will be so intriguing.

1forall:
Hey OP, division among siblings is real! It can arise for different reasons like:

Spousal issues
Jealousy or envy
Money or inheritance
Unhealthy competition
Pride or superiority complex
Preferential parental treatment
Mismanaged individual differences

If these situations are not arrested early but left to grow and fester, they are liable to cause irreparable damage to sibling relationships.

Because everyone is important, leadership and maturity is required; particularly on the part of elder siblings, to navigate these situations without fracturing relationships.

The sad reality