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younglleo:
Them no tell u say u be werey?

Kolawole2130:
We have been married for 3 years now. We stay in a self contained apartment. He tries as much as possible to pay his bills while I support him too with paying the bills.

Since we married, anytime I talk about childbearing he gets angry. Like he may not talk to me for days. I will be the one to come and beg him later. He says his not ready to start bearing kids that he wants to have enough money to take care of the kids. He says he doesnt want his children to suffer.

I am so pissed off, I am 32 now and he is 35 and he earns 100k while I earn 70k. Is that not enough to raise a family. Plus age is not on my side he doesnt look like he will be ready in a year time again. Am already getting tired and people around me are getting married. No body can even talk to him. His mind is made up already.

The last fight we had he said i can go and divorce him if i cannot wait till he is ready. He is busy reading for professional exam instead of him to be thinking of how to produce seed. Professional exam that will last another 2 years. His family can't even talk to him. Am just frustrated already.

TooMuchStuff:
..........Behind the Shape of the LIST.......
Musa Rago
Mohammad Wawa
Kabiru Nono
Adamu Sakarai
Rahinatu Karuwa
Abdullahi Saniya
Aishatu Durunwa
Ibrahim Burantashi
Lawal Daníska
Jummai Duwawu
Bashir Barawo

dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

Telekinetic:
Yes sir president of estate and private servant

ezra01:
if I memory serves me right
Emili didn't say HIV can't be transferable.. he said the chances of contracting HIV is 0.04 percent.. that value means it is likely not possible though it is..
he only argued that HIV is not the cause of Aids
those persons that died, probably died of Aids and he claimed HIV is not responsible for Aids
well I am not saying people should act irresponsibly because of what Emili is implying

ezra01:
I'm sorry I am doubting you.
with my experience on social media, I have learned that people can just decide to type whatever they like. Emili is sounding factual and still I don't believe everything he is saying
those journals and doctors he quoted may just be looking for attention. but Emili's argument is sounding more real. And no one has been able to dislodge his assertions with fact.. I feel you are with the bandwagon. you are not Open minded enough
As human we should be rational and we should be open to critical thinking.

Zizizi:
Merry Christmas ��� my people. Please it's very lengthy but I will make it brief .

So my brother happen to join one guy in the neighborhood who's into yahoo. I mean in less down 8 months he bought two cars a day , buying landed properties in PH , lag and Delta . I mean all there men buy cars in two once . Almost all have hotels or are building hotels or one house or the other , they go to club they spend like politicians, go to area they are known they dash like Anini . But ,what I don't understand is they all attend white garment church , they travel from pH to oweri to attend the church not that they were born into the church oh , the new found yahoo made them to start going to the church, they no longer call God , God or Jesus' ,Jesus but rather Yahweh .

Sometimes they sacrifices rams and other stuff that's what they show us oh we don't know if there's anything beyond that .I happen to hear one say he will have to stay in the church for a month to be able to have the blessings. I am not exaggerating anything I have said . What I have said about the spending is more . If they want to go worship,they use two Hilux of police to and fro to avoid harassment that's how they hv gone wide with it ...I mean all small boys none is up to 36years .

Well, I am just concerned about the possible consequences as I have brother in it . Fear no de allow me go close to am one bit cause I hate anything spiritual season I am not too deep in prayers make person no go rob me with evil . ...


I forget to add, sometimes de travel to ABJ or lag only them know waiting them de go do der .. sometimes spend 1 week or two in each of these state no be say na flexing oh....I personally don't know what de do der .


I am just curious! What's the possible consequences? Is it normal that white garment blesses people that way ? ...their priest they call him Kohem the king maker ..as young boy too ...base Owerri and the owner of the white garment church.


Please forget my typo and say one or two u know about this .


Mynd44
Seun

biafraisdead:
And what is memorable in what u just told us? All these rubbish will stop the day Seun will introduce premium(paid) service to nairaland. U will only be entitled to post 10 free posts and create 2 free threads a month when u are not a premium member.

Chamakh93:
I will go first . Earlier this year, there is this girl we have been banging each other .I got to her place this particular day , she said she hungry (typical Nigerian girl are always hungry). I got food for her and myself. we gisted for some minutes, after eating. Before you know it , we were already kissing , hands on her boobs , down to her p####. small time I don carry rod comot. No need to wear rubber because she is a deeper lifer. Long story short , she collected the first round....... and second.......... and finally the third before i left. I nearly died that day because it was my first time going 3rounds. And I was equally happy for the same reason.




Note: while telling us your story, you must tell us why the sex was memorable for you. cheers.

ezra01:
you said ghetto...hmmm
could be most of them died of starvation , malnutrition or poor life style.
I will take ur assertion serious if only you have doctors report on the cause of the death of those persons..
I am not saying what Emiliano said is entirely correct but he is being rational and he is backing his point with confirmed stat.
however, no one knows which is correct..
this medical people can easily deceive people even the so called expert in medical Line just follow status quo

post=108829366:
Emilo2stay I'm following you.. I like your point of view on things.. don't mind these people with closed minds. Swallowing what the white man has said hook line and sinker.

FriendsAndFans:
Since you chose to resign, you should have considered where you were going to stay. They gave you enough grace to move which lapsed today being 24th.

That being said, the owner of the school shouldn't have injured you. Even if you report it to the police, you will still be asked to leave the house asap

Stay away from trouble abeg bros

jeff1993:
N.A ..... Unless my child wants to enter through NDA ... That one is acceptable

Flight attendant!!!! .... Are u serious ..... I so much love that Job .... You have access to people and visit lots of great places.... There is rusk in every Job

arthurwillia:
You my friend Confirmed my suspicion as a god of conspiracy theory, I’m sure you are part of the anti vaxxers, anti 5G.
They want to reduce Africa but do so with a drug, why can’t they just release a virus that kills within hours?
Too much movie
You my friend are impossible

alphaNomega:
emmanueloti65, if you three (i.e. including that emilo guy) knew how HIV functions, you will understand the challenges behind getting a vaccine for it.

I'm really happy the internet has created an opportunity to get you educated on the right stuff and not hogwash like Emilio posted

DenreleDave:
This is the first time I'm seeing this nairaland and I must confess, I believe him....

soundOsonic:
I just schooled you on what research is and now you are repeating what I explained.
Do you have sense at all?
I told you what you initially said by injecting HIV blood into ones body is not by any means research, foolish people have injected stuff into their body can you call them researcher?

And besides because Experimentation is part of research doesn't make it research,
If I inject the blood in my body that isn't researching. Until I have made a purpose for it and draw data and make comparison with other factors that's when it becomes a research.
Reading what you wrote I perceive you are still in secondary school at most an undergraduate and maybe not even a science student.
Let me school you more. Research doesn't always involve experimentation. And also a researcher doesn't always need to carry out experiment himself; he can just study other people's work compare their data and draw out a logical conclusion.
If at all you have made any scientific journal you should know this.
Please don't reply me again. It is okay to be wrong.
I made my research and site my reference which is CDC if at all you know what it is. I didn't cook the data if you have problem with the data go and confront CDC with your own findings simple

vannessa7:
Not true, I grew up in ikeja and I saw ashawo small girls that contacted hiv and became very dry gradually and died, do you think when immune system have problems you will not do a lifestyle change immediately that will get rid of the problem, do you think Fela didn't die of AIDS, what about children born with it through their parents. I know a born again woman who got it from her husband through sex, she has been going to churches talking about it. Let's just thank God that His mercy has reduced the incidents of HIV infection. Many married men have infected their wives and I know someone like that, he infected the wife and stated treating himself but didn't inform the wife until she got sick and was tested at the hospital and found out she was positive, it was too late she died.

doyin01:
Show me where the guy said that HIV does not exist...

infolekan:
I knew half the junk you were saying was definitely from a source that you took hook,line and sinker. You're here talking about experience...how many hiv patients have you seen? How many have you managed....how many have recovered? There are a million research in pubmed and other journal review sites on hiv. Having this conversation with someone that read a end of the world publication that is neither scientific based or experience based is quite funny.
Just people putting up funny hypothesis to mess up your knowledge. Read where you talked about different illnesses given a new name....that's when I confirmed you know next to nothing cos you obviously don't know what AIDS mean.....it's a syndrome and you don't even know the meaning of a syndrome.
There's a professor somewhere on the net claiming malaria doesn't exist....there's even one learned idiot somewhere that will have written a documentary claiming that Nigeria isn't in africa but Europe with 'convincing' evidence.
Filter what you read is the important thing. Not everything online is to be believed. You obviously read that article...followed a couple more links and boom...you're an authority on hiv with of course....a few followers that always like the bandwagon movement.

soundOsonic:
Lol do you know what research is? I am a chemical engineer, our study is basically research. What you are referring to is experimentation.
Research is merely findings and collection of data. I quoted CDC which is a world wide recognize body for disease control whose data have gone through countless experimentation. Guy chill

soundOsonic:
Oga make research, I don't like people who once dey listen to things that confront their original belief they become volatile, they don't confront or answer with fact.
I don't totally agree to what he said, but I made research still I am still skeptical, but data don't lie do they?
Education means ability to LEARN, UNLEARN, and RELEARN.
You are obviously not a scholar.

doyin01:
It seems you have forgotten that most people here do not argue with facts, they argue with emotions...they will tell you one billion reasons why you should shut up but they cannot counter with facts.....they will only keep telling you how they said one iya basira died of HIV in one osogbo hospital..

EMILO2STAY:
HIV cannot be transmitted to any one that is a fact. open your eyes and read carefully now.

it was Robert gallo who made a press statement that a virus called HIV is what causes AIDs in the 80s, but there was no scientific fact behind it.
in medical science , there is something called isolating a virus or purifying viruses. these has to be done through what is called electron microscopy. this process involves taking a sample from an infected person to study and identify the micro organism or virus responsible for that particular illness and this process cost thousands of dollars and the microscope used in doing this cost millions of dollars so you can see that your average Nigerian doctor has never seen a virus or HIV in his or her entire medical career but they are following a paradigms are out for them. now even if they can afford this it is still impossible to see any thing called aids because the cell culture they use is filled with cellular garbage and you cannot know which is which.

in the case of HIV no virus called HIV has ever been found to cause aids till today as I am typing this so how can you transmit something that does not exist? the man Robert gallo is a billionaire now.

even if there is a virus called HIV the possibility of transmitting it through heterosexual intercourse is 0.04℅ which is a virtually impossible figure. these are not my figures it is from the centre for disease control themselves.

what has been called AIDS is an illness known to the medical community since 1950s but these illnesses did not go by the name AIDS. it was Robert gallo and Anthony faucci who grouped these diseases into one group and called it AIDs.

now what causes this AIDS is not a virus but a total collapse of the immune system which leaves the body open to severally infections.
the cause of the immune collapse is the result of intoxicating the body with drugs ,alcohol, lack of proper nutrition, smoking. this is the reason why the disease was first discovered in homosexuals who indulge in this kind of life styles.

you drink coke and Fanta which adds no nutritional value to the body but poison the body with the chemicals they are made with, you drink beer and beat your chest that you can down four bottles without getting high, you smoke a park of cigarettes a day, you smoke marijuana, you eat sardine preserved with toxic chemicals and to make it worse you take pharmaceutical drugs and antibiotic for every little headache while eating cooked food that have depreciated in nutrition by heat. each and every time we do this the body releases a large amount of anti bodies to fight of the toxins deposited by all this unhealthy activities we engage in and the anti bodies or immune system die off as they fight of toxins because they act like a suicide squad.

if this continues over a long period of time the immune count in your body become very low and as such cannot effectively fight off infection or toxin in your body thereby leaving the body open to many illnesses at the same time , this is when the doctor will tell you that you have AIDs .

doyin01:
Going by your mentality...99% of Nigerian youths should be infected with HIV by now....especially in this generation when 8 out of 10 youths have unprotected sex ...even those that use condoms still go ahead to receive blow*job and some ladies also get sucked....just two people with HIV can spread it to millions...

If the statistics is claiming more than 1million Nigerians are infected with HIV...going by the immorality rate in the country...you would have gotten HIV by now ...and yeah it is not only through sex you can get it if HIV is real...

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. I wanna know whether taking just a soft drink once everyday is bad to the health. From on Sarturday to Monday , i have been taking a soft(40cl Mirinda) along with food every afternoon. It was only yesterday that i didn't take a soft drink. No e be say e no hungry me ooo. I had to forcefully resist the urge of taking it. I felt there could be side effects.

EMILO2STAY:
I am not encouraging sexual immorality , there are other STDs one can contract through sex so I encourage safe sex or abstainnance . i am only freeing people from the bondage of lies and also from the clutches of death because that antireteoviral drug is a well known poison that terminates the immune system and causes you to waste away and die. a drug that was withdrawn from the pharmacies and hospitals because it was too toxic for use to treat cancer but later brought back as a treatment drug for HIV. a drug worse than cancer .the medical industry does not exist because they care about the sick but because it is a trillion dollar industry that spins money for the men who run it.

do you know that chemotherapy was developed on false assumption that viruses cause cancer but when they discovered that viruses does not cause cancer they did not stop the use of chemotherapy because it spins money for the medical industries and the cancer patient die 99℅ of the time if they undergo chemotherapy. example former NAFDAC DG oby ezekwesily, Chadwick bossman the black panther actor, sound sultan. today having cancer and doing chemotherapy is a death sentence just like havingHIV is a death sentence do you know why ? because the treatment for this illnesses are the true cause of death and not the illness itself.

soundOsonic:
What that guy said about HIV cannot be transferred through sex is right. I can't believe I am saying this but that's just it.
According to CDC (centre for Disease Control)

Type of exposure Risk per 10,000 exposures (percentage)
Sexual activity
Receptive Anal Intercourse 1.38%
Insertive Anal Intercourse 0.11%
Receptive Penile-Vaginal Intercourse 0.08%
Insertive Penile-Vaginal Intercourse 0.04%
Receptive Oral Intercourse LOW
Insertive Oral Intercourse LOW

Surprisedly this isn't a joke but real. What is been advertised on T.V is a way to sell Their Antiviral drugs, infact that drugs will only bring down your immunity.
Make research instead of making noise.

And besides the HIV test does not infact detect the virus. But rather it detect antibodies to HIV(human immunodeficiency Virus).