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UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

Heroo001:

Hello nairalanders.
I am in so much pain right now. Pls forgive my typographical errors in the course of reading this post.
I have been dating this guy for 4 years plus. I've been with him throughout his trying period. I have helped him achieve so many things in life which I don't want to mention.
He finally has money and he proposed to me. With joy, I accepted him wholeheartedly. I have never cheated on him throughout this period we've been together till date.
We started making plans to go and see my people which was successful but after getting list for the marriage, things turn into a different direction. He was told by my people to perform a traditional rite before we can get married.
He has refused to do so,[color=#006600][/color] reason being that it is fetish and he can't call any demon into his matrimonial home by performing those rites.
My people have agreed that he should come and perform the marriage without the rites. Instead, he is running from one church to another looking for who to tell him to go ahead with the marriage.
Should I continue waiting for him?
Pls no insults. Thanks.

Aniboo:
So today I decided to drive around my estate,
Later got to shoprite to get my cigarettes and some boost
Immediately I reach there na I see two lit skin girls
I mean very good looking girls
,so I stop the most beautiful one among . We talked and got her number n I gave her mine as well . Omo as I just reach house she don call me reach 4 times, so I went straight to write her on WhatsApp.
Mehn lo and behold
Na hook up them come out for
From 30k we bargain price to 10k short time .
My question now is . How the next generation will be like . Cos main looking at these girlS they are barely 22 years of age . I just weak don’t e even know what to say to the girl
I only told her I will call you when I’m in the hotel
She said be fast oh cos she might be engaged
Meaning other customers are waiting abi, na there the whole vibes die

Mrkumareze:
Chicason has been a private, silent Industrialist .. he deserves much award..

chigator2:
Don't quickly forget that the price of commodities has alot to do with demand which is the willingness and ABILITY to buy.

Cheaper labor and arable land is factored into the low prices in the North nevertheless demand isn't forsaken.
Over there most can't even afford substantial quantity of what grows in their backyard, thus market forces push the prices lower.
And supply is directed at wealthier Southerners.

In the scenario, that Northern Nigeria were to be an oil producing region tilted towards services industry, the price disparity won't have been these wide.

Exploitative Hoarding and Inflation Profiteering is another factor Southerners should look into.
Food producers and Traders up north create artificial scarcities inorder to hike prices and get as much as possible from their cash-cow South.
Inflation is also unduely exaggerated since it's easy to blame your greed on " bad economy"


Solution:
1. Intensify Agricultural Production in the South

2. Form a Buyside Cartel that contributes in price fixing for food commodities.

Else we will continue to be robbed by these same people that benefit from our resources without surcharge.

Unlettered:
See my bauchi state.

When we tell you the reason why una brothers no dey like go back to una Godforsaken land you thought it was a joke.

online they re haters of the north but in reality, na them they get indigene letter for northern state pass.

And for the people claiming its the government that is making people inflate food prices, the answer is up there. Na una kind wicked pass.

Yes there is insecurity - BUT ITS EVERYWHERE.

God bless my city!

marvel2real:
this people are lying,am here in Jos and the price of things are over the roof.local rice here is 650 a mudu,beans 700 a mudu,I bottle of oil is 1k.

CotenantNIG:
foodstuff in the north en
Kai

Lalasticlala

Romeomustdie:
in delta state

Romeomustdie:
which luck, she just told me the truth that she is from the marine kingdom.. I'm still afraid right now

Ebubechuwku:
If you are good at pre-intimacy and can bang very well... she will always laugh whenever she sees you,..



What you may probably hate most is their jealousy. They won't want someone else to have a taste of the goody...

They get jealous every now and then

Styluss:
you are just plainly stupid... No school will keep you from 8- 6... By 4pm.. The op is done and could learn whatever he needs to learn afterwards while using his 35k for survival... He could also do home lessons and setup exam registration centers for students and make daily income. Now Wey u talk say make I'm go learn tech.. U get laptop Wey u go dash am abi u go give I'm money make I'm use chop
Ewu

Jeon:
Share yours first.

FahBuLous:
Choose any of the following and you won't regret it...

Digital marketing
Web development
Cinematography

Though I also wanna learn one of them but I know people that do each of the aforementioned and are earning well...

And sorry about dropping out, sometimes that's how life is...
You will survive, stay blessed bro...

Tallesty1:
She watched her daughter go to bed hungry enyi.



That was so extreme

Mrkumareze:
Op, she is not working yet, wait until she starts business... And, don't expect her to start spending from a biz that's not stable yet.. grow your wife, she ll support you when she balance wella...
no reason wahala, the economy sometimes frustrates man thinking ... to survive in naija as a family man, u get to be strong psychologically n physically

creolehunt:
Professionals in the House, please which do you advise?

I already have an MSc in a Social Science course, but plan to pursue a career in HR but have been wondering the best path.

Should I pursue an MBA in Human Resources from NOUN or simply sign up for a CIPM certification?

husseinchoice:
I have been dating my girl for the past two years now.. she has this habit of keeping male friends in which she claimed to confide in them more than female ones. lately, I noticed there is fluent conversation between my girl and her manager, he calls and text her at night and sometimes drop her at her house.. in summary, I went to my gf house during late hour on Wednesday to recover my laptop and phone chargers only to meet her door locked from inside, the light was off and the windows were also locked. I knocked the hell out of the door but no response, I called her line but she was not picking. I spent 50 minutes sitting down down outside waiting only for her to come out with her manager.. she was shocked on seeing me, she was staring at me and she told her manager good night. I went inside and took my chargers, I wanted to leave but she hold on to me tightly and begin to cry, she said i should beat her if that will calm me. I don't know what to do because it's almost 12:30am and I couldn't go back home due to security reasons. I stayed over while she was busy crying the whole night.. I left her house very early in the morning.. since then she has been calling and sending series of messages.
I don't know what to do. I love her dearly but am heartbroken.
Pls help...

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

BadRadio:
When you think you've found the bones of your bones, one yahoo boy will just come out of the blues and snatch her away from you.


Prospective wife materials are being carried away and these Yahoo boys prey on them.

Yahoo boys pls leave good girls alone so we can see one to marry.

Yahoo boys dont deserve wife material biko

adeniyy:
Paddy 16k
Contact 08027525351/07039220236
Livestock customers please we have to wait a bit. We will be back soon. Pray for Zamfara
Thanks and warmth regards

aramanda14:
For the people criticizing loans, loans can be very helpful for a lot of people. Many advanced country rely heavily on credit systems like Student loans to operate and it’s helped millions of people.

Personally, I’ve benefited from loans in which I used to pay my school fees.

Holla911:
You are still young at 28, what you are going through is called life, learn from your mistakes and grow with what you've learn.
Be prayerful, always include God or whatever you believe in, into your plans before you embark on it.
Challenges are meant to build us to be stronger not to tear us. Pick yourself up and try again.

Kobojunkie:
It's unbelievable what so-called Christians believe!

Analyst7:
You can help the poor in ur own capacity but ur tithe isn't meant for the poor