₦airaland Forum

seunmsg:
The Itshekiris and the Yorubas are brothers and so shall it remain. You Igbos can’t cause any disaffection between us. Go and read the Itshekiri and stop typing hate induced nonsense on Nairaland. Olu of Warri has spoken and no ipob can change what his Royal Majesty has decreed.

Mooh247:



Warri for BAT2023


Last Last even Peter Obi go endorse Jagaban


Have you seen Peter Obi spend any Kobo apart from the 40 million nomination form he reluctantly obtained through proxy

A candidate without campaign office few days to Primaries... No support groups, no forum to canvass vote, no customised busses for logistics, no fund raising event, no campaign website, no endorsement from royal fathers

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Kwanza:
https://twitter.com/tvcnewsng/status/1514179017502601227?t=cTsiJt1ff4nxmlu3DoCh5g&s=19[/quote]The North and Buhari cabals are in one corner laughing at Tinubu and Osibanjo ignorance....

Anwons:
In the 21st century, people tend to misunderstand and misrepresent what hard working means.

The death of a lady along my street recently prompted this post.
She sells food(mama put) which of course, those that knows will know better.
Early hours rising and late house sleep on daily basis.

While some people were discussing about her demise, emphasis were mostly laid on how hardworking she was.
Due to intrigues and feelings within the atmosphere, I couldn't speak my mind to them, to let them know that being hard working isn't all about restlessness, no time for one's self and so forth in this era anymore, rather, it is one ability to maximize time productively and at the same time, achieving your set goals with little pressure.

At this point, sharing experiences may help some persons on this forum to have a rethink.

So, what is your description of being hard working?

emkz:
One thing even those who hate Tinubu have never accused him of is incompetence.

Their argument against Tinubu is that he is old, is not healthy, is corrupt, is a drug peddler...pedestrian arguments.

As for the guy referenced above, he messed up during the interview. He was combative and was saying the Vice President can take us out of the doldrums. Until now, I have not seen a mature politician selling the Osinbajo candidacy. They are all spoiling for a fight, e.g., Babafemi Ojudu.

Osinbajo has a huge baggage: that baggage is the failure of this government. I would have advised him not to contest. Retire quietly like Namadi Sambo.

phorget:
What exceptional things did GEJ and Atiku achieved as a vice president?
Seems people do fail to understand that been a VP in Nigeria means you are always in your principal's shadow and any move you try to make on your own is often seen as been rebellious. The little moment Osibanjo was afforded the freedom to make decisions was the moment that actually endeared him to many people today. I would rather APC make Osibanjo their runner if they actually want to remain in power but otherwise then they should kiss the presidential race goodbye.

Sergio104:
Omo×100.

It's a great time to test Yolloba yoonity

yinkaOdutuyo:
But am having a conscience like am starving my wife or being wicked.

treziMcCarthy:
Hello good day nairalanders.
I'm not really happy this morning,
Please forgive my writings and mistakes, thiss is my first time of posting on here.

I relocated to a new environment, after 2 months, I met a lady in my area, we talked, so I invited her to my place, she stays next street from mine.
So after talking and gisting, as a guy man, i needed to hit And make her one of my babe, so she promised to come 2 days later, she came we had sex, honestly I gave her the best... My head game was out of universe,
She went home and we talked about the sexx and shee was happy, 3 days later she travelled with her family, so we were talking on phone, not the calling type tho but I didn't want to make her feel like I was only there to hit, last night after talking, we did the normal goodnight thing and she said she want to sleep... I said alright, only for me to come on whatsapp and see she was active... I jokingly said to her, I Don catch u.. Oya go and sleep jare.
I left her, honestly I didn't take it serious, because I no be small pikin for the game, I respect everyone attitude because there's a reason behind everyone action..
Only for me to wake up and noticed she blocked me on whatsapp and when I tried calling, my number was also blocked from reaching her... So I messaged her throus sms, *can u unblock me I need to tell u something*...
Now she unblocked me and asked, *what do you want to ask me.*

Hey guys, please should I reply her or ignore... And if you have an idea of any action I can take... I would bee glad to hear from you.. Bashing is allowed but in a reasonable perspective.
I one love

aysnoopy:
Please nairalander, I want a business suggestion that I can do with 250k excluding POS that can generate nothing less than 2k daily for me.
I have another salary job I'm doing but I want a side hustle. Even if it's 2k daily is okay. That can go for feeding.
Any suggestion please, it's urgent and I don't wanna spend the money

Lalasticlala, please to FP.

miqos02:
politics is about negotiations and compromises. Don't be too sure about what will happen. Remember most predecessors always fight their successors in the end including Obasanjo/Jonathan once power has change hands.

Idrismusty97:
They opened it yesterday and 5000 people already applied . Now that it's has gotten to the front page with deadline being May then Maybe it will get to 100,000 applicants. For barely 200 slots , na wa o. This country is really really screwed, may God help us.

This is not recruit o, if only you know how many people have applied and will do anything to get in. They only take in roughly 200+ slots among tens of thousands of candidates.

helinues:
The problem are majorly the so called boss. Lots of them don't know how to treat their workers.

If you are paying your workers the real value of the task they are doing for you and also get friendly with them, they should behave well.

That reminds me of a boy that was running my viewing center for me back then, initially the guy was delivering well until he started diverting the money. So I deliberately visited one day, viewed the number of people watching mat ch, there was a big match that day, have an idea of how much to expect and left.

When he came at night and saw the morning he brought, I initially counted the money, give him his own share plus extra self then ask him, do you want me to get another person to replace you as you have been cheating, he was genuinely sorry cos I explained to him how him stopping working would affect him financially.

Ever since that day during the time the centre was running, he came back to his senses and delivering well. Win win for both parties.

The way some boss treat their staff, you would think they are their maids

BSdetective:
Straight to the point.....most Nigerian workers are lazy, think in short term, dishonest and greedy....am still in my 20s but I know this first hand from doing business in this goddammed country called Nigeria, thing is you don't just have to deal with the hostile business environment and practically 0 support from the government (except you know someone) but also deal with with workers who would steal and even try to sabotage your business. We can blame government all we want but one of the reasons africa isn't progressing is because of the mentality of workers(funny enough they seem to change this mentality when they move abroad) and in order for one to be profitable in this country you must be ruthless and handle these workers with iron fist just like the Chinese business owners in Nigeria do to their workers, I've learnt alot from some of these Chinese, Indian and Lebanese business people and how they're surviving in Nigeria despite the fact that most businesses are leaving.....the truth of the matter is the ruthlessness and strict methods of business that enables them survive but some mumu sitting in one office will call it toxic work place because they want to gain woke points.....you steal from your bosses, try to sabotage their business, perform poorly in you duties and expect not to have a toxic workplace.....most be moving mad. Anyways forgive my ranting.....the whole "toxic workplace nonsense" is just annoying me.

Aonkuuse:
https://www.facebook.com/100069123281551/posts/267942705519837/?app=fbl

Maxymilliano:
According to Facebook Page of PRNigeria, IPOB ESN display their child-soldier to fight Nigerian Military.

From the commentary in the video, One ESN soldier is equivalent to 50 men of the Nigeria Army.

See video via:

https://fb.watch/bCQ7uSEns5/

https://fb.watch/bCQ4cHxDUx/

https://fb.watch/bCQ5JZSSJb/

TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

Aidejay:
Spoken like a true online warrior. Original bolor. Nigerians and making mouth online.

CaveAdullam:
Alright Saintinoo, drop your mobile number and I will call.
Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
[b]DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 22, REDPILL 2022

Men struggle because they want to be on top.

Women struggle because they want to be with the men at the top.

The men at the bottom and the women without men at the top are considered as failures! No pity at all because the hierarchy is merciless.

Equality is a lie!

Authority: Grow.

Vecto:
THE DREAD GAME.

When you’re dating someone who has no fear of losing you, that no matter what she does you’re going to stay just because you’ve promised, then she’s not going to genuinely respect you.

And when there’s no respect, there’s no attraction.

When there’s no attraction, there’s no loyalty.
Therefore, when there’s no fear of loss, there is no value in staying with you.

If she doesn’t value you and instead takes you for granted, she won’t look up to you, listen to you, desire you, and help you with your mission and goals in life.

At that point, it’s going to be a matter of time before she grows to be unhappy and sexually frustrated enough to wonder why she into a relationship with you in the first place.

This is how the human mind works — it only appreciates what is scarce, in-demand, and difficult to gain resp and fear from his woman

And that’s why you need the element of dread. Because the alternative is a miserable, dead-end, and sexless relationship.

That’s the case for the blue-pilled beta men who have been taught to put women on pedestals all their lives.

Instead of applying any sort of Dread, typical blue-pilled men always focus on making their women comfortable, thinking that comfort equals happiness.

While that sounds practical and noble even, these same men end up with a lot of random drama, negativity, and infidelity in their relationships.

Do tahey ever realize their mistake of continuing to give and please?

Nope.



#TRP

alphamodel1:
Thanks, life is all about risk and marriage is no exception. Ladies equally have their fears about us too, it’s a two way traffic.

alphamodel1:
We want to thank God for a successful inter tribal wedding ceremony, Mbaise was nice against all the rumors, thanks everyone for the best wishes. God bless our home.

Kriss216:
A wife you're doing all these for, yet she's not submissive?
What are you guys enjoying in this institution called marriage?
No woman in this world is worth your peace of mind.

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

dingbang:
I have an issue with number 4.


Her salary cannot support her minusing 20kmonthly from 80k for vacation .. The vacation is not that important.


She has a valid reason for opting out. Find another woman who earns higher so you dont kill yourself.

Jennyclay:
Good afternoon nairalanders and Happy new year to everyone. I promise to be brief.

My fiance and I hv been dating for 2 years. He's doing well for himself, he's humble, he's quick to apologize even when you're at fault. He calls his mom and siblings regularly, but he don't talk to his Dad. If I ask, he would say forget about him

My fiance has been keeping malice with his father for 3 years now. I don't know what transpired between them because he would never tell me. He act like his father doesn't exist.

His mom and I do talk on phone once in a while. Yesterday I called her to wish her happy new year, we spoke well and she prayed for me. Abt 10 mins later she called back, but this time she was crying, She explained how his son has not been talking to his Father, she said this year 2022 would make it 3 years, she said they have called elders and pastors to talk to him but all to no avail. She said It would be her greatest joy if I also help her talk to him since he loves me so much. We were on the phone for over 45min.

Nairalanders, he's coming to seek my hand in marriage by March but I'm scared and here are my reasons. 1) His he pretending to be nice to me 2) what if we have little misunderstanding when we get married will he forgive me or keep malice with me for years

I was so angry at him, I told him that I'm giving him now till month end to reconcile every conflict or dispute he has with his father else I'm calling our relationship a quit, because this character seems to be a redflag to me. He started begging me, he said I don't understand yet he's not telling me anything.

I'm really confused. Please help a sister.

IrepChrist:
For those that will seek him genuinely it is very significant. You are seeking God in the early morning of a new year.

Scriptures says
"They that seek me early shall find me"