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DominusPrime:
You cant have an angel for a wife or husband but you can choose the kind of demons you deal with.

And you think there are demons without flaut?
The way you people look at some issues, ask the OP why he stayed with a thief for 3years, something kept him there, i bet you he might end up marrying a lady worst than her if he ends the marruage plan.

DarkJeddi:
You left the issue and started chasing shadows..

Whether banks rob you or not is not a good enough reason to appropriate money that was paid into your account and proceed to deny it when confronted..

That is a lack of integrity and as you can see,this is not a court of law but about marriage..

He can't well have an Angel as a wife but he sure cannot make do with a Devil either..

I hope you are 100% pure also. Just advice the OP not to think of getting married if you call of a marriage plan because of that.

We shouldn't always concentrate on wrong doing, check what that person have been doing good too.

alllivesmatter:
Bro, Banks do steal actually, but it doesn't justify what the lady did if this story is true. Banks, being corporate organisations would cook up terms & jargons as to why they stole. What would the girl say? Ignorance? Ignorance doesn't overrule the law of nature nor the constitution.

If this story is true.

Then what she did is bad. It's an omen of something bad that may later hit in the future. People shouldn't feel too clingy with money...at all.

I am not saying that what she did was right, but it is not enough reason to call of their marriage.
The OP and his friend must have one time or the other done thesame, we all have done something that is not right.

Did you see the part where he said she made him her next of kin? How many wives can o that, we are talkng about his fiance here.

Nuel4:
to me there is nothing to forgive apart from the fact that she hid it from me. Those banks should go and sit down. Do you know how much of my money they've stolen through failed POS transactions? Tell them to refund it they say after two weeks which will now enter months and might even get missing. The banks too should wait. Thunder fire Nigerian Bank. The babe put the guy as her next of kin, how many girls can do that? The boy should go and marry sister Magdalena

I see a good girl in her, one that truely loves him, for her to make him next of kin.
Most women do not make their husband next of kin talk more of a mere boyfriend.

Elvis778:
hope you know women? during marriage plans, they try to put up their attitude, but after marriage, you will start seeing their true colour,
now if this is her best attitude,
what will her worst look like?? that's the problem here...

What i meant was that you have been with her for 3 good years, come on! You are suppose to know her in and out by now.

Hideki:
What will you fo, if you were in his shoes?

I will think about what she does right, and if it outweights d wrong, i will forgive her, but warn her not to try it again.
You can't just end your marriage plans because of this, we all are criminals one way or the other. I believe you friend is not 100% pure.

SSpeter:
A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

Those banks are also robbing us, they hardly return the illegal charges on our account.
If you think you can have an angel as a wife, then try and watch your own life and see if you have no fault.

ArticleBeast:
Another useless fake news. Govt need to be banning eome blogs

Seun should be blamed, what is he doing to ban those blogs from nairaland? Absolutely nothing.

Baawahala:
I love my woman and I believe she loves me...If you are in a relationship just do ur best, leave the rest to God...

If you are in a relationship try and be wise and smart.

backbone503:
Na una know where una dey see the women wer una dey fear, and wetin una still dey do with dem.

I've been so blessed with women. My mum, sisters, nieces, aunties, my girl and a few friends (past and present). These are people I love so much. There is no room to fear any woman in my life. If I can't love you, I don't need your company.

Did you say love?
Your own still better, me if i don't you, you can't stay with me for up to five mins. All these guys shouting fear women are actually Bleep boys, although women are know to lie alot.

dapsoneh:
May they rot in jail
May d spirit of all those whose their fraudulent activities killed destroyed them
May their orange colored outfit always Glo

How about Nigeria politicains, how about our colonia masters, nothing for them?

Let's see the outcome. The United States just need Hush and Wberry to tightening there system. You think US are stupid like Nigerians government that will prosecute fraudsters, don't be surprised if Hushpuppi and Mr Woodberry worked with the US Artificial Intelligence(AI). Hush and Wberry will help them with a lot of things and they need someone like them in there country to make sure there database is secure. The whites are more intelligent than African countries and shameless Nigerian will be criticizing Hush and Wberry. Your government are looting you every fucking days and you keep quite criticizing the rich Hush and Wberry. Wise up

keep giving them hope, those guys are going down, you know what US will do to them, better say no to crime.

Nbote:
Dis is what panic and fear can cause. No b she get d virus but yet died before d infected person



Some morons especially on nairaland here are still doubting dat fact and saying there isn't covid 19 in d country...

People like you are the reason that woman died. Why should the media be causing unnecessary panic everywhere, imagine calling coronavirus "deadly virus" what do you expect people to think.

How many people have it killed in Nigeria.

Abouwaza:
First of all APC is so useless that's correct
But bro we have over 100,000 casese already its just that the thing reacts differently here
You have to comprehend that a lot of people have tested positive even without knowing and they are back on track

Alot of people have tested positive, na you test them?

Captain6:
So officially Final year tertiary students' graduation has been postponed to next year.

Those in their final semester can still graduate this year.

Richardjcooper:
So 3 robots for how many thousand students? Let’s be serious in this country though a step in the right direction

It was donated to Unilag, FG can buy more for them.

teebaxy:
THANK GOD FOR A VISIONARY VICE CHANCELOR; PROF. OGUNDIPE

It was donated. Im no buy am with him money.

SirWarlock:
except I'm not . Where have I pleaded for another lockdown . If you've followed me I've continuously said another lockdown won't bring anything so they better not bother. Please I'm as tired as the next person concerning this present situation and I just want to know how we're going to manage ourselves out of it. What exactly is safe reopening of schools . They just announced they want to open schools so what exactly is the plan. Schools that couldn't finish second term how far? . Let's not talk about compliance with some of their guidelines

BTW are you a student too

Maybe a primary 6 pupil... Hahaha
I believe this is just an announcement, lets wait for some days they might make their plans open, reason why i have not commend or condem their decisions for now.

SirWarlock:
What kind of nonsense blanket statement is this . What is safe reopening . How's it going to work . Where is the education minister . This country sef .

Did makinde carry on with his own reopening

You are hell bent on seeing the country lockdown till next year.... Next time, join politics so you can become a leader and make decisions for the country.

CzarChris:
Why do I see this as a very bad idea, especially with announcement of 3 new mutated strains of the Covid-19 in Nigeria.
Make una think am well o!

announced by who? Nigeria scientists?

SirWarlock:
And how many people know this

People think vaccine is like producing paracetamol,everybody is shouting till a vaccine is found even the govt were saying thesame thing until it dawned on them that we are really in for a long ride.

Well i doubt if FG will listen to ASUU because according to the minister of education, coronavirus is here to stay for a long time. They might just open schools in phases.

Moreover this headline is confusing.

[quote author=chukemmang post=91181454]In a country of over 200 million people, we are still talking of testing thousands of people after over 2 months Covid-19 landed in Nigeria.

The most useless government that has ever governed Nigeria.[/quote
Almost 4 months sir, Nigeria government is the most useless i have ever seen.

Any day NCDC and PTF will meet Buhari for easing of the lockdown, NCDC will release highest daily figure...

horladexino:
Good day Nairalanders

My name are Zambo Chukwudi Oluwadamilare (not real name)
These are the names that have been attached to my results from the primary school till my national diploma
it was act of naivety that make me used Zambo Chukwudi Oladeji when I first opened my bank account. (I love that name) without thinking of future consequences
Though that Oladeji is also my name but not included in any of my results or certificate.

please Nairalanders what can you suggest as a solution because I was told that the name on my bvn must be correlated with the name on my certificate

meaning
Zambo Chukwudi Oluwadare = certificate
and
Zambo Chukwudi Oladeji = BVN


Lalasticlala please I need more advice

Go to a newspaper house and do change of name, to the one on your school cert and ask ur bank to change ur BVN name to d one on ur school cert.

When going to the bank, go with a copy of your change of name, national ID or voters card.

kadiri3:
ncdc scammer

Ncdc scammer?
I am one of the people who do not believe all what NCDC release daily because of their lack of transparency coupled with the corruption history of Nigeria politicians.

I have pointed out places with facts where Nigeria politicians and PTF are looting Nigeria dry from coronavirus, but coronavirus exist in Nigeria and much active, only that what we have here is the mutated version, that doesnt make me an Ncdc agent.

I can even tell you that i know more about coronavirus than some of those NCDC ad hoc staffs.

Read and follow my comments here on nairaland about coronavirus.

Lostz:
is this real or a PR strategy?


celebrities will do anything to save their dying career.

In mid May i had severe headache, malaria, cold flu and dry cough, i could have tested positive if i took a coronavirus test. We all might have contracted the virus one way or the other, this is more reason why i suggest govt should open the economy.

SirWarlock:
I said probably. I know it's possible the vaccine may never come at all. But considering the global race for this particular one, there's a chance it does come around albeit not this year or next. So all in all, we should stay alert.

Yea you are right.

CoronaVirusPro:
People like you encouraged Greg Abbott. Where is he today? He is on the hot seat. Definitely regretting his moved

What is this one saying, by monday the federal ministry of education will announce plan to open schools for exit classes and probably higher institutions.

When that happen please keep your children at home.

zoer:
U no know say she old pass u b4 u toast her?...Guy free us the elders cos we get important meeting for yard now........ Free us

Elders no dey talk like dis ooo, you want make him commit sucide ne?

Goddyj:
Once, I was with a female friend when her phone rang. She picked up the phone with a smirk on her face, glanced at the caller and with a loud hiss, dropped it back while it kept ringing.

I asked her why she did this. She said "It's one guy like that, that likes disturbing me".
Don't you like him? I inquired. "I think I like him sha, he's cute, he's cool and I think he's smart too".

So, why are you refusing to take his calls then? "It's not like I'm refusing to take his calls oh! I just don't want to seem too eager, so let him call up to 5, 6 times".

To say I was bemused will be an understatement. "This guy, you said he's smart, right?" I asked in shock. "Yeah! He seems intelligent".
"Oh! He seems, I see". I nodded.

Things are not always what they seem, I thought to myself.
It's quite pathetic how some guys have made themselves doormats for any skirt wearing, vagina owning, entitled, scheming manipulator to make a fool of them.

We've seen this patterns over and over again, so much that it has become more like the norm. I bet, every guy at one point has been a victim of this, probably before you had sense (that's if you now have).

Most of these female folks see themselves as some sorta trophy a man has to win. That's why they go into a relationship with the very daft mentality that for each point of materialism a man scores, he gets a round of séx as a reward, because that's all they have to offer.
Too many pretty faces and empty brains!

I really don't know where or how they got indoctrinated into this stupídity and it's quite sad that some guys have been so victimized and brainwashed that they think the only way to win a Delilah is to go out of your means to please her, even when she's clearly being unreasonable, even when it's obviously detrimental to you as the guy.

Soon, they'll carry placards saying equal rights and all whatnot, but this conversation of owning up to one's séxuality has been ignored for too long a time. I mean, why can't some ladies, most ladies actually be expressive and vocal about their sexuality the same or at least, almost the same way as guys.

What conscious, deliberate effort are you making to get the dream man that you want?
So, you feel you should just sit around looking pretty and wait for any séx starved pushover who will boost your already over bloated ego all in the name of trying to win you over? Phew!

That's a major reason why they are so many "hit and run" guys. Because, most of you ladies have made it seem like your body is the ultimate goal, so they pretend to play along, while you dance to the tune of their music, unwary of the pit ahead of you and once they've had enough of you, they flee.

Guys! Those of you who think a lady is cheap because she probably likes you and has made herself accessible, y'all are one of the reasons why we are where we are.

It's okay to be a gentleman guys. It's okay to be chivalrous, but if you think it's okay to let yourself being pushed around, then you're a lost cause and a shame to manhood.

Put some value on yourself guys! Fúcking wear some self esteem man!!
Once a lady is not interested in you, it's gonna be glaringly obvious. Stop trying to second-guess and arrive at a soothing conclusion as to why she's being a bítch. If she's acting like one, then one she is.

That girl is probably in some guy's inbox seeking attention and you're at this other end overfeeding her ego.
It's cool if you're not her type. It's totally cool. We've all got preferences, but please, do yourself a favour and leave with some self respect intact.

Ladies, forming hard to get does not make you more valuable than you intrinsically are.
What's your inner worth?
Take off the wig, wipe off the makeup and let's assume you don't have pússy, bréasts and ñyash. At that point, what value can you offer?

If you don't like a guy, tell him off outrightly. Don't keep him around and feed off from the unwanted attention and some of y'all will even be accepting gifts and prodding him on with your actions and inactions, then tomorrow you come out and scream rape.

If you like a guy and think he's someone you can be with, what's the essence of "forming?"
And to think that is mostly the hoes that do the "gra gra" most is just the irony of it all.

I started reading, so interesting but the write up is so long... I believe that female friend of yours playing hard to get have nothing to offer the guy but only sex, that is Nigeria girls for you bro even though not all are like that.

The button line is, guys should avoid broke and visionless girl and see how their life will change.

slimanyd:
After a week , FG will also toil the path of Oyo state as well. All the covid 19 System GSM is using, FG later adopted it . Watch out for school resumption all over the country after a week or 2 weeks once Oyo state does there's

Don't mind them, they are all afriad to take a step, the parent should keep their children at home till next 5 years, because that is the only time i think a vaccine will be found and well distributed.