Sagamite:

Look, there is really nothing to talk about.

If a man is constantly beating you or squeezing your neck, get the fck out of the relationship. No man meant for you should be beating you because he is angry.

Don't waste your time with garbage like speaking to elders, calling family meetings etc.

Someone using you as punching bag is a NO NO!!!

No discussion, no bargaining, no pleading, no negotiating once it has happened more than once. GET OUT OF IT! HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU AND RESPECT YOU OR HE IS JUST NOT MENTALLY BALANCED.

I repeat, no discussion, no bargaining, no pleading, no negotiating.

Just listen to yourself, If it were your sister, would you advice her to quit her marriage? what about the marriage vows?
I expect you to try and profer solutions here, not this kind of advise.

MKO_Ltearn:

I feel I should say one or two things here about my experience with Lecky Konsult International,owned by Mr. Hafiz Lecky.
My experience with him is pathetic and frightening to say the least. Yes, the guy knows the internet stuff - especially adsense - but he has no integrity and extremely poor customer service. I absolutely cannot recommend him to anybody after what I went thro; 5 months back!

What he and his team do is to set up the same ''very useless'' websites to as many Nigerians as possible while they will only change the domain name. These websites are not hacker-proof and have poor, overcrowded graphics that even world renowned internet marketers like Erwin Chia, Corey Lewis will never make a dime from these pathetic websites in the next 100 yrs!!! And you would have paid N10,500 or even N15,000! When you tell him that the site has not earned anything for the past months, he will ask you to go to paid version by ordering articles. But this also will not work and he now tells you to start spamming social network media. This works partially and you earn a few cents. When you complain that the amount earned cannot even feed a dog, he again asks you for money to drive traffic to your site. This works fine, but at the end of the day, Google disables your account fiam!! And you start calling and calling him for refund all to no avail.

I got fed up of calling him and had to resign myself to fate after losing almost N50K and my account of $200 was disabled. My account was actually disabled twice!!!

But the thing is, contrary to all his Guardian Newspaper claims of '', a potential $1500 - $2500 monthly'' Lecky himself has never earned a monthly check of $1000 from Google! I hereby challenge him to contradict my assertion by replying with an attached copy of his Google check for $1000 Of course, he has no such checks!!

The guy has zero integrity and very horrible customer service. And this also goes for his team of Gbenga, Obodo Onuwa, Jesse and one silly ''amoeba'' lady called Comfort. They are all one and the same set of cheaters!!

I was later introduced to Abayomi Aje and I can tell the difference. Abayomi knows the stuff and he has 100% integrity as he does not promise what he cannot deliver.

For those looking for Lecky's address, I'm told that he has moved from the Olalowo Shopping Complex, Ipaja to a new office at Abule Egba at a new petrol station called Petroleum Managers. I'm actually surprised that Sunny Ojeagbase, CEO, SDE rates him so high. But guys, be careful - CAVEAT EMPTOR!

Please what is the exact address, I cannot let him go free,

rubbish

Keep your wedding promises, FOR BETTER FOR WORSE, TILL DEATH DO YOU PART.

Please disregard all these people asking you to quit the marriage. I know that it was for fact that you love this man that gave you the courage to present the issue to NL.

My simple advice is to hang on, soon the storm will be over, Just make sure you do not repeat the issue that made him raise his hands on you the last time. Always be the first to apologize, no matter who was wrong. Please note that by doing this, you are not being stupid or weak, you are only trying to work on his weaknesses.

Buy him gifts, get him those things he always cherished in those days you guys were courting,


And finally and sincerely take this to GOD in prayer, he will not forsake you. It may seem as if he is not listening to your prayers, my dear he does and he will surely perfect the marriage at his own time.


WISH YOU THE BEST.

folahann:

Who gives a Zap Man Utd is already down

As an Arsenal fan, i wish he leaves, after you get your enemy weaker from within, but anyway sha,SOLDIER,SOLDIER COME, BUT BARRACK GO REMAIN, If he goes, another great leader will emerge. Maybe he is sitting on the throne of another emerging OT Great

Ms. Potato:

And do you think that every ladies considers material benefits in a relationship cause from your post, you sounded sumthin like all ladies has turned out that way and wosrt off, you made it seem like every ladies has became a pr05t1tut3 for that matter

because to be honest with you, I dont see it that way and never has. if I were to see it that way, than there will be no real genuine love on this earth a long time ago. . .  

Have you forgotten the popular saying? Money for Hand, Nyash for ground

What is Nairaland turning into? Which kind TOPIC be this,

a house divided against itself,

A word is enough for the wise, MTN has the backing of the National Assembly, I got this info from one of their workers, they bribe our law makers with trips abroad and other goodies, that is why our law makers cannot challenge them to reduce all their charges as it obtains in other countries.

kenkaz:

24hrs freebrowsing with iwp, tor, you-freedom and DSTV decoder. If you really want to without wasting your money, call 07037227823. I have an opera, ucweb, bolt, ebuddy that can work on any nokia symbia phone free. STOP WASTING YOUR MONEY. IT'S FREE,

Why waste time? If truely its FREE, why not post all the info here or give out the relevant links, Oh i see, you want us to send you an email so you can start advertising other productsssssssssss

blackracle:

a friend of mine had the same issue until he registered his sim.
since your sim is registered, then i suggest u check your phone

How do i check the phone?? The phone is in good condition, Do i have to take it to MTN office?

IS AMERICA SAFE? ABEG MAKE DEM GO SIT DOWN, NO BE DEM PUT AMOS ADAMU FOR TROUBLE NOW?[size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size]

Gbogbo Bigz girlzzzzz, welcome to the real world

@POSTER, Please go for her, You have a gold in the making. Age is nothing but NUMBERS, 12 yrs is no big deal. She is a graduate, and by that i am sure she must have attained some degree of maturity, The ball now is in your court. She is your for the taking,


I am very sure that all the people here asking you to drop her would jump at the opportunity of having such a lady.

TeskyMan:

[size=16pt]I am getting more convince that HENRY OKAH is Gbomo Jomo. Read this link as far back as February 19, 2008.

http://nm.onlinenigeria.com/templates/?a=11543&z=12

The truth is coming out gradually. I am not pointing accusing fingers but i am waiting for the full outcome of the securites executives information. God help NIGERIA.[/size]

This is the most sensible post here. Every other person is just being BIASED with their opinion, Always write with proof,

dappssee:

You bet he will. If at least to boost his campaign

tomv:

Yes, if he is committed and sincere, he will surely get them.

NO BE NAIJA WE ALL DEY?? They will just arrest an innocent man and pay him to be shown to the whole world as the suspects, then later they will be free(d).

Goddex:

SSS arrests suspected Abuja Oct 1 bomber

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Yusuf Alli and Sanni Ologun, Abuja 19/10/2010 00:40:00
image Okah gets his hands set for the handcuffs before leaving the Johannesburg court

A BREAKTHROUGH has been recorded in the investigation into the Independence Day explosions in Abuja, with the arrest Monday of a suspect believed to have set off the bombs.

The State Security Service (SSS), it was gathered, picked up the suspect in Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital.

The suspect was flown to Abuja amid tight security around 1.00pm Monday.

It was also gathered that the United States’ Bureau of Investigation (FBI) has joined Nigerian security agencies to track fleeing suspects, but it was not known whether the FBI played any part in the arrest of the suspect in Port Harcourt.

Before Monday, the SSS had arrested nine persons. The Police said they arrested one person and declared two others wanted.

Those declared wanted by the police are Chima Orlu and Ben Jessy. They are still at large.

A highly-placed security source described yesterday’s arrest in Port Harcourt as “a breakthrough”.

“With the arrest of one of the suspects who triggered the explosions, we are finally closing in on those behind the dastardly act,” he said.

Responding to a question, the source added: “As a matter of fact, some of the suspects in detention gave clues which led to the arrest.

“Those in custody identified him as one of the bombers. The quizzing of the suspect will provide further insight into how the bombing was hatched and executed.

“There is no doubt that we are making headway and those connected with the explosions will soon be brought to justice.”

But the identities of all the 11 suspects so far arrested remain unknown.

Another source said: “We are yet to unveil their identities for security reasons. We are suspecting that a syndicate might have carried out the explosions. We do not want those yet to be arrested to escape.

“You need to appreciate that in this kind of investigation, we have no choice but to adopt a covert approach.”

It was not immediately clear when the trial of the remaining seven of the 11 suspects in SSS custody will begin.

Four of the suspects were arraigned on October 8 before a Chief Magistrate’s Court in Zone 6 in Abuja.

They were ordered to be remanded in the custody of the SSS, pending the conclusion of investigations and commencement of their trial.

They are standing trial before Chief Magistrate Oyeyiola Oyewumi for alleged involvement and complicity in the bomb explosions on October 1.

In Johannesburg, South Africa, Henry Okah, one-time leader of the Movement for the Emancipation of Niger Delta (MEND), is standing trial for alleged terrorism also in connection with the Abuja explosions.

A source dismissed the alleged rivalry between the SSS and the police over the investigation into the explosions.

The source said Nigeria had to rely on foreign expertise because of their superior equipment in such investigations.

“They have the equipment. Instead of drafting 500 men, two men can do a job with the right equipment. Policing is not about the number of men but about the equipment.”

Police spokesman Emmanuel Ojukwu said investigations were going on well.

“Nobody wants the issue to die. Those Nigerians who were killed in the process will get justice. We are doing a lot to get to the root of it,” Ojukwu said.

Na lie, How they take know?

Seekers:

These re reasons y we'll never grow in dis country cos we always lookin for de down fall of ourselves, white use their own witch n wizard to help theirself n improve their growth but naija(africa),na lie, lookin to bring who is up down instead of tryin to get up urself, bullshit, true or false,i dnt care.am sorry n am not,those against dis guy re stup*d n fool**h, mumu ppl,

Thank you my Bro, A prophet has no honour in his land, to all those believing what saharareporters wrote about him, have you asked what source SAHARA REPORTERS GOT THEIR findings from?? From all i read from there, they were saying Philip claimed this, he claimed that, they were also saying it has been debunked,


Please who debunked what and why and where was it debunked?? Let them give us real evidence before we crucify this guy, If he actually won the GORDON BELL AWARD, then why was he awarded it? were there no other inventors in the same field as at then??/

Please let us stop pulling ourselves down

On the issue of Dr or PhD, Hope we all remember Prof. Wole Soyinka's ordeal with UI, UI awarded him a 3rd class degree, he rejected it and went abroad to come home with a FIRST CLASS, Now you tell me, the UK university that he got the FIRST class and UI which is superior  The old Profs in UI then just didn't want to recognize him for fear of him over-taking them,

It is very simple, WE NIGERIANS are too JEALOUS,

Don't just react to stupid reports from unscrupulous quarters, All i am saying is that they should give us proofs, i mean real proofs of the people that debunked all of PHILIPS' CLAIMS, PERIOD,

blackracle:

have u registered your sim

Yes, i have registered the SIM, Could this be the cause?

Hi nairalanders,

I noticed that my Nokia N96 DSTV mobile has stopped working since Saturday 9th of October, And prior to that time, i notice that my SIM was disconnected by MTN for 24hours before it stopped working, I couldn't make calls or send SMS. But now my phone services is restored but the DSTV is always saying "NO LIVESIGNAL FOR THIS CHANNEL"

Please i'm i alone in this or is it a general MTN problem? I have tried contacting their customer care, but the voice-prompt always all their agents are busy,

I need responses please.

EUGENE4GOO:

Mtn has introduced a new data package for PC users. Below is details of it. I would like to hear comments or reactions about the new data plans.

Daily plan: 150MB for 24hours@# 500. Activation code: 103 to 131

Night plan: 3GB from 9pm-6am @#2,500

Activation code:
102 to 131

Weekend plan: 3GB from 9pm(Fri )-6am
(Mon) @#3,000
Activation code:108 to 131

Daytime plan: 3GB from 9am-9pm
( 30days) @#6,000
Activation code:107 to 131

Monthly plan: 5GB 24/7 @#8,000
Activation code:101 to 131
Out of bundle rate
5kobo per kilobyte applies.

MTN be thief, All thse bundles wey we no go enjoy, I used MTN for 2 months, their speed is ok, but that 3GB and now 5GB is too small, I am now using one the Fixed mobile networks, i no go mention name, make e no be like say i dey advertise,

Say no to MTN, PERIOD Until they give us UNLIMITED DATA browsing for 5k or less

For my own humble opinion, i will only be moved if he gave all the PETROLEUM TRUST FUND MONEY HE STOLE. Or if he could give 80% of his wealth because i am sure 97% of his total wealth were stolen from NIGERIANS

shagaman:

Did any one hear Obama promise good roads while making electoral promises?
Our leaders are very wonderful people honestly 9ja lacks leaders,IBB,OBJ,ATIKU,

There was no need for him to promise good roads because he knows their roads are good.

kabukabu50:

Who would want any other woman if he has this to come home to

I tell you, all these babes you are showing us here are not fine on the inside, a one nite with them will make you wish you guys never met, Their epicenter is so deep and wide, why? so much traffic, you better look for good looking lady instead of the most beautiful.

excanny:

Mr. President has somehow perfected the skill of working on Igbo psychology.

I hope this romance continues when he gets another mandate in 2011. Ndigbo want to see more of what GJ can do before he can be trusted.

CAPITAL NO, WE DON'T WANT HIM PERIOD,

Naija Here we go again, Its no longer a battle of the creeks, but they are taking it to the government.


All those hypocrites saying JOMO GBOMO is HENRY OKAH, I am waiting for you guys to come up with another Theory. or was OKAH released from SA to hurry down to Lagos to send the email and go back to SA?

It is time we sit down and try out the suggestions that MEND are making, that is the only way this Country will improve, Lets adopt the Confederal system of Government, or Let every state control its resourse, PERIOD. Every state in Nigeria is naturally endowed,

pheesayor:

Why would MEND use a yahoo email? Anyone can do that

Do you expect MEND to open a website and own a domain name?

I just hope this time around they target ASO ROCK and NATIONAL ASSEMBLY. Missile or Rocket launchers can do the JOB.

Thats Naija for you, when you instal a Lawyer as a minister of environment, what do you expect? putting square pegs in round holes,

Beaf:

If you don't know how email operates, you need to calm down.
You don't even need anybody's permission to use their email address if you know how. Have you ever heard of hacking?
But the fact is, you don't even need to hack. Ever heard of spoofing?

If you are not an IT guy, don't get involved with arguments about emails. Some of the arguments one hears here from sudden "experts" are just totally off the wall.

Mr Beaf, or Mr IT which one are you more comfortable with?

Please punder on these, tutorials,

If its so easy to hack people's email and passwords, why haven't all the hackers in the world become the richest people on the planet?

If you want me to enlighten you, 99.99% of emails hacked on the internet are those that the original email account owners click on links from spam or spoofing,phishing emails sent to them by hackers.

No hacker can hack an email address without prior knowledge of that email account details, If not, what is the essence of security questions you fill when creating your account?

I don't want to continue, please stop making a fool of yourself,

@ e-pentium, sorry, better luck next time, i am already taken, no vacancy

Digriz:

spot ongood point.if u include sex education in waec i bet u sooner or later the practical wl follow it.

Who will carry out the practical and on who?

You can choose from any of the below listed, I assure you in your 200L, once you are in 2.1, you have companies and EFCC looking to employ you




1)UNIPETROL,Niger Delta, Nigeria

2)University of Corruption and Money Laundering, Aso rock. Nigeria.

3)University of Cybercrime

4)University of striking doctors, Lagos state

5)University of Striking LECTURERS(SOUTH EAST)

6)Kidnap and Boko haram National open University,

7)Election ringing institute of Technology,PDP Street,Abuja


CHOOSE WISELY,, OR tell me what your hobbies are and i can help you make a decision,

@Becomrich[ abi u call urself, i am totally in support, but why include delta, we the Biafrans see it as an insult. You can do with edo or any state, but leave delta out of it, is it dominated by IBOS and there is no tribe linked to Yoruba from Delta state.

That said,

djay x-pro:

@becomerich
you've got a good idea but u ve become like dem rude boy politicians. I observd sumtin&i got a quest. Y bring Edo&Delta into dis? I could com up wit two reasons:
1. Togo, benin rep &yoruba dont give a name dat sounds 'Behind'(as in tyt) or
2.U wanna enrich Odua wit their oil? That's greed! They do nt speak Yoruba remember?, Giv us your reason 4 including dem!

That is exactly my point.

@ e-pentium, what do 99% of ladies want in a man, Cash, kwudi, ego, owo, don't forget, nothing goes for nothing, even in bank, you have deposit and withdrawal slips, If i may ask, how deep is this pot right now that you are afraid of it going deeper?

Absu:

Watz dis fuse about honey pot,abi na honey wel,abi na honey wetin self?Who even told dem it tastes like honey?Hav u eva hiv a sign of relief afta takin honey.If not dat nature designed it dat way,i dont tink any person wud b tinking about it.Sewww, Lok at dem talkin as if dey can do witout d JOYSTICK.

Ask them oooo

biyi willy:

what i want in a woman the only person that has it on this forum is e-pentium i think that kind of a lady will make a good wive and be the kind of woman everyman will love to be with, really her comment her really good how i wish we could meet face to face, it is well

Hmmmm, so that you can try your luck to see if you can taste the Pot abi?

mr.official:

Abi, we like home. u begat us from there, and we won go back. Kini big deal?

Chai Chineke,

phraze:

i dont know you you dont know me

@ segzjoe
dat was so on point


a lot of men disrespect women
sayin you want dis nd dat
hope you got those qualities too

just ponder on this you sex driven men " can you marry yourself?

its just a question.
your self, i mean your attributes do u value them, if you were to marry can you marry yourself?"

@ poster

someone must love you, like me, i got out somany women life cos they like me for being just funny and they mistrust me.


i am a gud guy, but they cant just belive or see that,

they think im after that, thing,

here is my number 08060014371. i could relate and giv you resource to help you get along

Baba oo, i comot my cap 4 u, sharp guy

Since Okah says the NAIJA govt has been in contact with him since the end of Amnesty, and the govt have not come out to either accept, deny of explain to us why and what it actually communicated OKAH, i see some MATCH FIXING going on here. Why did the president immediately defended MEND even after they claimed responsibility for the bombings?

Now revelations are coming out linking OKAH with the bombings, so now just like IDRIS ABDUL KAREEM the musician {Sorry if i spelt your name wrongly}sang "Koleyewon" meaning them no go understand, and he also said in the song, ' who be the thief and who be the owner'


Bow who is fooling who?

This is my honest assumption and i am fastly coming to conclusion,


The bombings could be a set up by GEJ to nail and dent IBB, Or GEJ's advisers told him to do nothing to prevent the attack so that he would use it against IBB.


Please i do not support IBB nor any of the past leaders trying to come back

JaaizTech:

Something tells me GEJ is going to get his hands soiled. In fact, I fear the FG will be doing all it can to extradite Henry back to Nigeria, where they can control whatever happens. It seems to me, that Henry has something to nail GEJ, and He might play the card when pushed to the wall

Thank you GBAM, That is my POINT.