₦airaland Forum

HarlequinLekex:
This is very common among women,some women even treats their pastors as demi gods before they cook or do anything for their husbands at home they will inform the pastor first.


You are a pastor on your own stop looking for what is not lost.

Don't blame women. They are wired differently and are always at extreme. When they are getting involve in anything, they do with everything in them. Hence, regardless of the age, you can easily take advantage of them and once you do, that's when they realize they were on the wrong path.

Moh247:
PM news is a useless tabloid.... Their own no pass divorce and sex news or news from igando magistrate court

Which are always 100% fake.

ryloy:


God Bless Incoming President Bola Tinubu
The Builder of Lagos

Na tribalism go kill you.

RichDad1:
Twitter can charge verified accounts £100/month and guys will still pay…because If there’s anything I’ve learnt from Social media…People will pay ANY amount as long as they’re classified differently and appear to be in a higher class!!

On point! All BBNaija halfbaked celebrities would pay and brag about it.

lhordspy:
Funny clown.

The funniest thing is that this clown of a presenter is starting to feel himself among presenters of calibre just because he gets praises here and there for always as*licking the zombidients.

The thing is, Februaury2023 will come and go - the Insignificant ones will end up - relegated or back to the non-relevant hole they crawled out from.


Enjoy the relevancy while it last.

What exactly is his crime?

TastyFriedPussy:
I don't know how to put it but this just looks and feels like he's doing rubbish to me. The whole carrying cash and taking pictures thing is just somehow.

That's his style. Do your own.

This is heartbreaking to say the least. I'm shocked that such a barbaric practice is happening in Cross River state.

These are the kind of projects that NGOs ought to be focusing on but you won't see them digging out and helping the people to destroy these bad cultural practices.

All their concern is HIV/AIDS. Every year it's HIV/AIDS. And they'd be mounting pressure on you to hunt for positive clients as if they can't easily infect their family members with the virus and take them into care.

God bless the team and everyone working on the Chess project.

In the coming days, we'll get to no about what exactly culminated to the attack. Right now, we have to remain calm and let the Police do their job. Even if the man is fake, that's between him and God, not anyone's business.

Moh247:
You have to constantly improve and renew your policy in a dynamic world and a growing economy like Nigeria

Instead of antagonism , try and read the document and objectively criticize whatever you don't understand

Foolish talk. As if Buhari never had a policy document that Tinubu co-authored.

seunmsg:
Tinubu will get the job done. He understands the economy and also appreciate the diversity of the country. His manifestos is the best and even his worst critics are turning around to accept that his ideas are the best for the country. We must give this man the opportunity to help us reshape and reset the destiny of this country to the path of economic growth, industrialization, secured communities and shared prosperity.

I stand with Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu. What about you?

I'm not standing with him. No Nigeria president from the days of Obasanjo to Buhari has ever kept to their words.

In 2023, we'll only vote who we perceive to be a good man, and not a political manifesto that's only written for the candidate.

Viboulou:
Women are really winning

Stop wasting your time on this platform. Go learn a good skill.

ahnie:
I think the wife too needs to share from the blame too.

She has every right to rebuffed his sexual advances,or probably secreting going for family planning.

Sisi,kin ji ko,taking care of 9 kids ba karama magana ba.

Be there calling him tribal brother. You better be careful before he impregnates you. People that think about sex all the time can even choose to jazz up women. Keep distance from him.

herkeem:
True sha......

Very true.

Obavoh:
My wife put to bed 2 weeks ago.

My mother usually takes care of her but her aunty decided to come this time.

I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.

Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.

I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.

She asked me to wait for at least 4 months before I touch my wife again which I promised her I will as I did not want her to report to my wife’s family.

What can I do? I don’t want to cheat on my wife and I don’t want to disrespect my Inlaw by sending her away. She is a nice woman but she is making me uncomfortable in my own home.

This one na mad man. Everything you think about is sex and sex. Shortly, poverty would come knocking.

successmatters:
Dementia is a very wicked illness, what about using "poisoned cake"

Who poisons a holy communion?

How can a rat eat holy communion that is always sealed?

"Thousands of bags of oil" Farook Kperugi, come and defend that one?

Old people should be remanded at old people's home.

Seriously, a holy communion can never be poisoned. I've never heard or read anywhere that a holy communion got poisoned.

LegendHero:
Jagaban Jagaban Jagaban.

This man na politician to the core. Obitiary kids will now be sad about this.

The incoming president of the federal republic of Nigeria.

Sincerely, he's still talking sh!t.

lhordspy:
Lol.

You mean the same Arewa joint committee in Kaduna state. The same El'rufai kaduna state?

So Peter obi can actually visit kaduna state again in this life? The same Peter obi that in 2013 when he was governor of Anambra state, locked up Nasir El'rufai in an hotel in Anambra.

I remember he told him then to go back to his Hausa Kaduna, that Anambra state isnt north where Nasir El'rufai cant be walking up and down.


Payback is b*tch. El'rufai await you, peter.

Baba, nothing go happen. Shebi na tomorrow? Let's see.

NobleSeed:
for what?
Is it for eba?
Garri?

Or agbado?

KingKO22:
That's why all Southern Nigerians must unite and support the most competent candidate with glaring antecedents.

We all need Tinubu more than how Tinubu need us to help end the Northern dominance


Vote for Tinubu for the great future of Southern Nigeria

You want us to vote for a man that's incoherent in his speech and probably suffering dementia to become the president so we'll have another Buhari right? You must be a very selfish person.

manoflove22:
Tell dat to uninformed fellas out there that hiv is a hide and seek virus that take years to show results


I'm not hiv positive

Calm down bro. We were not there when you were jumping up and down with prostitutes.

Go and use a different type of test strip to confirm the result, e.g., Unigold.

timota:
Yes,in Akwa Ibom every kings sees himself subject to a greater being God,while the kings in other kingdoms sees themselves as a god

Guy, leave that thing. It doesn't add up. The king here either lacks the understanding of or commonizes the values of the throne. Even you talking won't leave your seat to greet a lesser person, which Atiku is in this regard.

Having political power is just about you but being a monarch is like the people carrying you on their shoulders and here you are stepping down from that shoulder to greet a man.

The man disrespect not just himself, his people but the South South in general.

timota:
Understanding the tradition will save u people the headache, in Akwa Ibom ,we only bow to God,apart from God everyone is hand shake,even the grand children of the king will still shake him when greeting

My only concern is the king stepping down from his throne to go and greet the man. Does the culture in Akwa Ibom also permits that?

ITbomb:
1. That is not Akuku Annang, it is Oku Ibom Ibibio

2. Akwa don't prostrate traditionally, we shake hands, pat on the back or embrace. We don't kneel or prostate

But why's the man not sitting to greet him? Why leave your seat as a traditional ruler to greet someone? That's very wrong.

Kingsbuchi:
How does this concern the governor? Is like you are mad,is it not happening in other states? A FOOL is better than you.. Instead of you to blame the UGM ESN you are blaming the governor. Ewu ohia, you don't have sense

Isn't the governor the chief security officer of the state? Is the security apparatus of the state not within his beck and call? Maybe the so-called ESN/IPOB/UGM are more powerful than the command might of the army and police. I fully put it on the governor. He's incompetent.

Zee0007:
I will get two of these for 1k at Akwa Ibom. Qua ayaya!

Lies.

peppermint7:
My own anger with this whole situation is that some foolish students who have been in their homes for the past five months wants to vote the clown that sold them this bad governance again.
Tufia
Any university student that votes tinubu is devilish

It's not being devilish but stupid. Nigeria youths hardly make good choices.

VeryWickedGoat:
"Fan yogo, fan yogo! Banana dey. Yoghurt dey!!"

Ewa nkor? Cassava nkor? Agbado dey?

I don't really see the need about feeling bad because you graduated with a third class. How many people do you know that are doing so well because they got a first class or a second class upper in Nigeria? I don't know anyone. Most of them are languishing in secondary schools earning peanut salary.

Even if you got a first class and you get hired, how much do you think a company, organization, or government can pay you? Haven't you seen poor professors in Nigeria?

Look, the only thing that can help you in Nigeria is skills. By skills, I don't mean learning some street skills that are so common. I mean learning some high-tech skills that you can monetize online. School degree isn't helping in Nigeria. It's total rubb!sh.

In fact, I see the government of Nigeria begging her citizens to patronize her tertiary institutions in the near future because tertiary education here has proven to be almost useless. In the nearest future, many Nigerians would turn to learning skills instead of going to study some useless course in the university. Personally, I've made up my mind to make my children learn skills first before considering university. Let me tell you, some of the young people that EFCC are labeling fraudsters are actually tech guys earning massively online. Remember, the naira is one of the most weakest currencies in the world against the dollar.

Don't disturb yourself about your course. Even if it was a first class, it would have still been useless in Nigeria directly or indirectly. What is philosophy? What is psychology? Most art courses in Nigeria universities are useless. You waste your time and energy doing nothing.

Like someone suggested, go back to school and study some language related course. I think that's one of the few courses that make sense in art. However, I doubt you'll be able to learn and speak a foreign language by just depending on the university. But I will suggest you turn to tech and forget about the university, your philosophy, or masters. Forget about the UK. Forget about your mom. The good thing is that you still have time and you can start afresh.

@ okine4real

I read every word bro. In other words, you are saying it's better to be a gold-digger than to just fall in love sheepishly Sadly, my girl isn't earning much and we are very committed to each other. It'll be very tough to break up with her at this time. I understand you perfectly and I wish I wasn't in a serious relationship. I for take my time dig am out. But this one like this, if she pray for me, my life go scatter because I don promise am marriage even though we never chop belle full for now. Seriously, you are making sense here. And the funny thing be say na when you no get choice again or when you don enter your eye go come open.

okine4real:
Observe this senerio, most parents from 60 years are not doing well financially. Am not saying there are not some that has money ohh, but what am saying is, majority are not doing well, so if you have a children you are nursing in school at this age, it means as you dey husle for the child, the child also dey hustle for himself. Now if you give birth at 30 years, Normally on worst case senerio, at 25, your child suppose to done finish university and should be able to stand on his or her own. 30 years plus 25 years, you are 55 years, worst case, at 60 years all your children done comot for your hand. At 30 years, as a father you have strenght to hustle and good mental ability to lead your family, but from 45 years, it's decreases, at 50, it's decreasing, at 60 mostimes, you don't even care if your children done eat or not, at that stage, most parents are tired of 9ja wahala, so they leave the children to go face there problem themselves. So imagine when at 40 years your children done dey enter secondary school, another good advantage of marrying early is, you become more focused, no matter how body dey sweet you, before you spend money to do faji, (groove)you go done put into consideration your family and school fee, I can go on and on..

Girls that can contribute to marriage, brother them plenty well well. Even Inside getto, there are still people that came out successful. You see, a man attracts what he wants, leave flasher girls alone, marriage na different ball game, there are constant bills to pay, forget babe with curves, curves know go help you solve money issue for marriage mostly when you get rent to pay and business dey messup? That babe when dey work and dey drive her, na that type you need, but search for the humble one. There are plenty ladies looking for a responsible man, if they see am say you dey responsible, them self go relax, it's not easy too, but I have one saying, START EARLY, YOU WOULD MAKE MISTAKES EARLY AND YOU WOULD CORRECT YOUR MISTAKE EARLY, BUT START LATE AND YOU KNOW THE REST.

If you stay in Lagos, make we sit down and discuss, I guarantee you, you go change your mind.. it's not easy ohh, if I look at myself, sometimes I go dey vex, I go make money, but I know fit groove my money, sometimes I go dey say, which kind family wahala I done enter, but again when I see my Son, my Daughters, I go just dey happy. You hardly see a man of 40 years and him child dey secondary school, but it's more common for a woman. I started early...I didnot marry a working class woman, infact my wife na opposite of me, the truth is, I dey feel the effect of not marrying a working class or a woman that can help me financially, but luckily for me, myself and my family know lack...

Seriously, I respect your guts but you see me like this: I don't like stress. I grew up suffering with my parents. I suffered through school. Everything about me growing up has been suffering. When I look back today, I usually bad. My father just allowed all of us to suffer.

We are over nine in the family and it's been really tough for my siblings. Out of the nine, only two or three are trying, the rest are battling poverty.

I strongly believe that if someone should ask my father to name some of his regrets in life, he'd most likely mention giving birth to many children without the ability to take care of them. Again, how many of us now can he boldly say this one is a man or that one is a woman? He's clearly seen that most of his children have failed in life. By the way, he had us in his prime.

Having gone to school; having tested raw suffering, I don't want any of my children to suffer. It doesn't make sense to me. Instead of my children joining me to hustle, let me keep hustling alone, at least for now. Once I start, and God helping me, I come get twins at once, I don log out be that.

I'm someone that believes in quality over quantity. Sure, time is going but I can't just risk it. What commands respect is money and once your children see the sacrifice you've made to give them a good life, they'll respect you. I've witnessed a child calling her dad a useless father. Guess what? The man lived with his family in a single room with shared toilet and bathroom. The child had seen everything about him and knew her father was indeed useless. Meanwhile, he had them (3 children) in his prime, yet he wasn't able to balance up before the children became adult and became aware of his situation. I can tell you for real that none of those children are living responsibly today. All three have gone astray. The parents are technically childless because those children can't take care of them. And this is the reality in most homes in Nigeria. I don't want that.

Sure, it's not easy and we don't really have a choice but to make children. But making children without preparing for them can complicate issues and render the whole family and essence of living useless.

okine4real:
The koko is, date a girl when her papa spend money on her, date a girl when her papa train very well, when you marry such kind of woman in your 30 Years of age, before una enter 10 years in marriage una go done get like two houses or more, traveling out of the country would even be easy because you married a very and highly educated woman, but when you marry woman when her papa know even get garri to give her, the only thing she go get to give you na pussy and to dey move from one prayer house to another. This message is for you @samuelson06. know use old age train your pikin ohh

Thanks for your concern bro. When you say don't use old age to train your children, can you define old age of the man and the age range of the children in this regard? And when talking about dating a girl that can contribute to the marriage, what if you can't find one?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Mr man, ODoctor is right. A woman only has a 24hr period to have sex and get pregnant which is called the "ovulation period". Please, do not mistake this for "fertile window" which lasts for 5-7 days depending on the length of the cycle of a woman and if she has regular periods.

A woman can have sex in her fertile window but wouldn't get pregnant immediately. The sperm can lie waiting in the fallopian tube till the ovulation day when the egg meets the sperm and it fertilizes to form an embryo which in turn becomes a baby. Please ehn, enough Biology for today. ODoctor is right.

Uyai ima, mmekop o