₦airaland Forum

bluemansion:
I think no matter what are the offences of these kids, they shouldn't be left completely in the street. Or is there nothing at all we as a society can do to cater for these kids? Whether we like it or not, these kids are only growing up to become hardened criminals - future armed robbers, terrorists, kidnappers, ritualists, rapists, political assassins and more.

We are already battling with insecurity around the country. Meanwhile, we are also grooming others that will become future threat to the security of the country.

I really felt bad seeing kids in the position I did last night. What can we do to help them please? Any any government agencies, NGO or individuals that can pick up their case and give them life worth living? I don't think anyone deserves to sleep so openly outside like this, not to talk of kids.

For the sake of humanity, I therefore volunteer myself for any assignment that could bring succor to these kids.

Can we meet and talk about this? I want to join my faith with yours let's see what we can do.

Louisking:
Good day house. Plss my car AC has been given me issue for a while now. I bought new compressor and refilled the gas, gas leak before the next day reach, took it bk to technician he said compressor is bad, back to the market, compressor was checked and confirm ok, now AC technician said we need to flush the system and check evaporator we did and everything seem ok, check condenser it was ok pipes was ok also, gas refilled before getting home last night, AC the blow hot air. Me dun tire abeg I need help if anyone has faced similar issue, cus am about going bk there to see if anything can be done. A Friend of mine said the AC guy should check the expansion valve. Plss help guys.

Got a solution to this?

Marvyx:
Most guys don't do single mother because -
1. Some of them like the OP's case, their baby daddy deflowered them and in such cases, she has already been imprinted by the guy and so, Okafor's law will surely take place ie the guy will have access to her cookie whenever he wants. Most baby mamas don't have a strong will against their baby daddies. Imagine dating Pere (Tuface baby mama).... She can't resist Tuface if he comes for her. Lol...

That's not true. It's about morals and not whatever law. And he knows that about her already.

2. Even if she can resist her baby daddy from sleeping with her, as far as she has a child with another man, you'll surely have another man interfering with your 'supposed marriage'. Most men can't cope with that.

Which man is going to interfere in their marriage? How exactly? Is there anything wrong if the child go and see the dad from time to time or if the child choose to stay with him? What exactly is going to create interference from the man? I don't see this being an issue please. No woman can allow a man that impregnated and abandoned her come back to interfere in her marriage unnecessarily. If you were a woman, would you tolerate that from any man?

3. Why raise another man's seed??

This doesn't sound right. This sounds like the voice of poverty. What's wrong with raising someone's child? Isn't the child a human? Can you predict how that child would impact your life in the future? Haven't you seen cases where such children turn out to be the best for their foster parent? Purge yourself of this mentality, please. There's absolutely nothing wrong in raising another person's child.

I don't see any big deal about the girl having a child. Being a single mom doesn't make her less of a woman.

Like you've said, she's been your girl for more than a year and you've seen her character and all that. Is there something you don't like about her? Maybe her body or attitude. Is that thing really a big deal?

See, your wife won't come from heaven. No one's perfect. If you're cool with her in other things then forget about the child thing. She probably hid it from you so you won't leave but she can't keep doing that all the time.

I'd advise you continue with her if it's just about her being a single mom. You don't know tomorrow. Don't make it appear as though she's committed one hell of a sin that can't be forgiven.

Trust me, it's not easy to be a woman and having to deal with men who are constantly plotting about how to sleep with you when you don't even have that in mind only to be shocked when you realized that this person has been nursing evil against you.

everythinggirly:
I just hope this is not another political plan to swear in another northerner into power for the next eight years. I just hope so.

Sadly, this is their plan.

thorpido:
HIV is not the end of life.There are people who have been HIV positive for years and they are doing fine.
The first thing is to do a confirmatory test to see if you are still positive.
Get registered with a hospital, (usually government hospitals) where they have heart to heart clinics.You will be counselled and a test done to check your CD4 count.If low,you will be placed on antiretrovirals which are free.
You will need to leave a healthy lifestyle,avoid certain foods and alcohol.
Generally,you will do just fine.

I think you are indirectly saying there's no need for CD4 count check because if someone's CD4 count is low, what's the point of taking the ARV drugs? What's the drug going to act on?

Iamicekid:
Assuming this guy still dey sell pure water for traffic and any of this girls dey inside car dem go comot face ni and act like dem no sabi am but now God don change his story, they all want to gum body.. just pray for grace and money that’s just it

No one in the history of mankind has ever wanted to associate with a failure but that's just on the outside. A man with dreams isn't a failure though he may be wearing the garment of failure today.

It's all about what you want to become in life and not about allowing environmental influence dictate your life. That guy was serious with what he was doing and then favor smiled at him. He was hopeful for the future and now the future is here.

Usually, many feel the shame of starting small without knowing what God has in store for them because God is watching everyone and rewarding all according to the intents of our heart.

Personally, I do what I have to do without looking at anybody’s face because I believe that every big thing starts small.

Look at this guy now, he's far ahead of those that felt he was a nobody when he was selling pure water.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Bishop indeed..
And this man has gullible members following him around..

Imagine someone that should be an example to his followers.. disgracing Christians and Christianity everywhere they go..

Just imagine. And then you ask, what exactly is he doing that for? One word, pride!

This is why the Bible says by their fruits, you shall know them.

Nma75:
Yes, but some of us are still missing it.

Which among them?

wonderr:
DIFFERENTIATE THIS WORDS
1 - who's and whose
2 - toward and towards
3 - their and there
4 - stationary and stationery
5 - inquiry and enquiry
6 - loose and lose
7 - it's and its
8 - defense and defence
9 - complement and compliment
10 - breath and breathe
These are the ones I find difficult to differentiate you can add yours and let the English gurus in the house help us out

Simple stuff.

Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on my what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and say wrong tinz to me which I most times overlook. On many occasion, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless time to always address issues she has with me immediately b4 it turns to a big quarrel. She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have. Please, how can I find a lasting solution to wife unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

How can you be talking so many stupid things at the same time? Your newly wedded wife is throwing up attitudes you don't like? Didn't you see any of those bad attitudes before dragging her to the alter? So, what exactly do you want now? A divorce? No way! Just manage her like that. Maybe you can cure her madness with a higher one. Show her you can also go haywire.

heniford2:
you can break that bond

Man is trying bro. I'm already there.

Beejayy20:
Nice one, keep it up!

You're very correct bro. Imagine coming to the world to discover that the foundation for you to succeed is already there.

But for most of us, the reverse is the case. All my dad did concentrate on was to fu*k year in year out. We are fu*king eight siblings bro. Everybody's struggling.

It is.

But if your mentor can't convince you that the niche he is giving you is going to work for you, please don't go into it.

Even if he makes $5k or more from his blog, hence, making his niche to look profitable, don't just go into same niche.

There should also be a clear strategy on what topic to write about. Everything about blogging must be research-based.

He must show you why you should go for a certain domain name, niche, and topic on a daily basis.

Blogging is more of technicality and hard work.

Ariiinze:
Thank you for your contribution. I changed the oil with the filter. Now I plan on changing them and refilling again on Saturday. Is there anything needed to be checked, best recommend oil to use and filter as well??

The last time you change the oil, was it gauged and certified to be okay between you and your mechanic? If yes, then try to check if there's any leakage.

There has never been a time my oil go below the min mark before I change and I usually use 4L and it gauges well.

Meanwhile, the best recommend oil for your engine is the one written on the oil dip stick. The brand maybe Mobil, Total, or something else. It doesn't really matter.

I use the common oil filter sold thereabout 1500 naira. The park is blue.

Ariiinze:
I would like to get an advice on my car. I bought this GS350 in November and changed it Mobile 1 oil with filter. Few days into January, it pops up showing me low oil. Please I would like to know if it's normal? If possible, can I get a recommended oil and filter that fits the car to drive the supposed 5000m before changing? Thank you.

I'm not a mechanic but it sounds like there's a problem.

If the engine oil was gauged and it fell within the min-max mark on the oil gauge and your mileage isn't up to 5k since last oil change nor have you used the car up to 2 months, then you should be worried about something else.

The problem here may not be about topping the oil to gauge it but also considering the oil filter because oil change and filter usually go together.

If you don't change the filter along with the oil, the filter may become due for a change while the oil is not.

So, whatever you do, they must be a balance between these two things.

Like I said, I'm not a mechanic but just saying this from my head.

diplomat058:
Hmm. It seems Abuja courts tend to align with Malami's biddings. An Ibadan court awarded damages for Igboho against the FG. Now, an umuahia court is doing same for Kanu. If it's what I am thinking that justice is now increasingly coloured by sentiments, then administration of justice is unfortunate in this country.

You are talking nonsense. Was it right for the army to have invaded the guy's residence? Were you expecting the FG to win in a matter as this?

Both the students and the lecturer involve are all mad.

Kingsdave:
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I would have been ripped off ...imagine changing my good working compressor ... My location is ABA

Aba is quite far from me sha. A good AC technician you got there.

Kingsdave:
went to my mechanic on Saturday,narrated my ordeal , he called an AC guy , he told me the guy knows his onions , the guy came , I narrated everything to me , he told me from what he understands my compressor isn't bad at all, he opened my bonnet checked the Ac told me there was no oil in it... He recommended ND 11 oil for it , he told me those guys used cheap harsh gas for me , he said I'm lucky it would have cost me my compressor cos the compressor uses sensor , he asked if I perceived any gaseous smell when I on the AC ,I said no , he said my evaporator is good ,he told me my seals are one also the condenser bolt are broken , probably from the first guys that checked it out , they broke it and left it like that for me , he said I will change the condenser , I was like protesting , thinking it was another antics, he gave in and tried filling the gas, I was told to on my car Ac , when I on the AC there was little blast like sound , I thought a hose blasted, it was the condenser , he removed it and he performed a test told me to keep my finger close to one of the two holes , if he blows in air into one hole and it come out of the other , then it's good .. he did and no air came out.. he recommended I buy a new condenser , I bought a condenser and we did the test and air came out .. he fixed it , also fixed the seal and recharged the gas , the car is mortuary standard now ... He told me the other guys wanted to play games with me , they would have ripped me off without getting any solution.. he said it was just oil , good refrigerant and condenser was the problem

Wow! I love the fact that this came out great. I don't know why mechanics always want to take advantage of customers. BTW, which location are you, please?

bizzibodi:
How do you know all Solomon says or does is instructed from God....does he not have personal opinions or freewill?is it God instructed Solomon to backslide?

I don't know why you keep talking about King Solomon. Look, if God never wanted the writings of Solomon to be there, it wouldn't have been there. No part of the Bible was inspired by man's thoughts.

Regardless of how how canal a chapter or verse of the scripture may appear, it was for a purpose and God made no mistake about it. When you begin to ascribe a certain scripture to the writer, you take God out of the equation.

The Holy Bible is one and whole and it's all about God. God alone is responsible for it. It's clearly written that men were carried along by the spirit of God to write the Bible. Don't bring in any complications. Forget about how a chapter or verse may sound to you.

bizzibodi:
Bros it is not God that said it is king Solomon.

Men were carried along by the Spirit of God to write the Bible. And that makes it God's Word. Everything in the Bible came from the will of God and not of man. So, keep Solomon out of this. If I ask you to do something while I stand watching and supervising the work, at the end of the day, the work is mine. It's same here.

Candidlady:
Some children even if you train 'em in the right way they will still find their own path



They are just goats

End time kids

And God has now become a liar right?

It's repulsive. How can I ever have erection with this woman?

Authority1o1:
Okay...

Recently, I found myself getting more interested in understanding the human emotion. Superficial knowledge on some subjects in Affective Science has been helpful, but hasn't satisfied my quizzes.

Envy is a dangerous emotion. When it comes, impale it, lest it transcends to jealousy. You weren't born to take a life, you didn't even resolve to it, but these emotions will overpower you and hand you a saber. They're things of the mind, and the mind is in control of you.

Again, downplay your achievements if you must. You don't want to arouse envy; you don't want to end up watching your back forever.

You can't downplay your achievements. You've always prayed to be successful and now that success has come, you want to downplay it. How exactly? Because I know you can't light a candle and use a clay pot to cover it.

The point is that succeeding with life isn't just about living a good life but having wisdom. Wisdom is the keyword when it comes to dealing with men. You don't have to trust anyone. You don't have to believe in anything. You just have to be careful with all things. Sometimes you may have to reject opportunities. Other times, you may have to be indisposed.

For example, an old school friend got my number from my sister last December and then called me. I wanted meeting with him but before then I had to find out from one or two persons how's his life now because it's been years we meet. These people told me he's now a bad boy and I chose not to meet with him again. I don't know if any good can come out from sitting with such a fellow. Even though we were close friends way back in school, I had to use my head before the story ended with regrets.

In this life, if you can't use your head, whatever your achievement may be can be erased within seconds.

Totilopussylick:
I'm not sure this man lives in Nigeria

He lives in absentia.

Shooyie:
Honestly, Prof Osinbajo will make a very good president. This is judging from when he was Acting President and the changes that we all observed.

In which party? The APC I know is collapsing.

melonsgroup:
Free the guy now
Waiting come concern you?
Bad belle everywhere

Stop encouraging nonsense. How long would he live begging? This is 2022. Let's stop this nonsense.