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It's repulsive. How can I ever have erection with this woman?

Authority1o1:
Okay...

Recently, I found myself getting more interested in understanding the human emotion. Superficial knowledge on some subjects in Affective Science has been helpful, but hasn't satisfied my quizzes.

Envy is a dangerous emotion. When it comes, impale it, lest it transcends to jealousy. You weren't born to take a life, you didn't even resolve to it, but these emotions will overpower you and hand you a saber. They're things of the mind, and the mind is in control of you.

Again, downplay your achievements if you must. You don't want to arouse envy; you don't want to end up watching your back forever.

You can't downplay your achievements. You've always prayed to be successful and now that success has come, you want to downplay it. How exactly? Because I know you can't light a candle and use a clay pot to cover it.

The point is that succeeding with life isn't just about living a good life but having wisdom. Wisdom is the keyword when it comes to dealing with men. You don't have to trust anyone. You don't have to believe in anything. You just have to be careful with all things. Sometimes you may have to reject opportunities. Other times, you may have to be indisposed.

For example, an old school friend got my number from my sister last December and then called me. I wanted meeting with him but before then I had to find out from one or two persons how's his life now because it's been years we meet. These people told me he's now a bad boy and I chose not to meet with him again. I don't know if any good can come out from sitting with such a fellow. Even though we were close friends way back in school, I had to use my head before the story ended with regrets.

In this life, if you can't use your head, whatever your achievement may be can be erased within seconds.

Totilopussylick:
I'm not sure this man lives in Nigeria

He lives in absentia.

Shooyie:
Honestly, Prof Osinbajo will make a very good president. This is judging from when he was Acting President and the changes that we all observed.

In which party? The APC I know is collapsing.

melonsgroup:
Free the guy now
Waiting come concern you?
Bad belle everywhere

Stop encouraging nonsense. How long would he live begging? This is 2022. Let's stop this nonsense.

seguno2:
Oyinbos used to think like this until they applied their God given brains to observe, document and analyse behaviours for scientific and medical solutions that we unevolved blacks pay for with our miserable small coins thereby going deeper into extreme poverty.
Does it not remind you of Jesus Christ’s parable of talents

No one's dismissing talent or science. But you should know that even science is highly limited. If the so-called Oyinbos were so good in research and all, COVID-19 wouldn't be killing them like fowl and threatening everyone.

So, before you feel they're so good with finding solution to every human problem, ask yourself why they've not been able to find a solution to a COVID-19 or even HIV/AIDS that's as old as man now. If you feel everything is about science and the intellect then you have a long way to go.

I'm still challenging you to get in touch with this guy and have a hard talk with him about when his woes started and you'll be shocked that it's not just about using science methods to find a solution to a problem.

I believe in science and I also believe in the operation of the spirit. Science may be a able to manage a problem but the root of that problem most times, go beyond science. Deal with that!

seguno2:
Why not a scientific/medical/psychological solution

They won't work because the problem here is highly unnatural. This person must have done something that opened him up for a demon that's tormenting him right now. No one can suddenly begin to develop urges for dead bodies. There's something that he meddled into that triggered this evil urges. The truth is that he needs deliverance else he'll keep living a frustrated life.

Anonymous993775:
This might sound weird but I'm turned on when I see dead women. I find them attractive. I've masturbated to many dead women in movies and graphic pictures on the internet of random dead women, even here on Nairaland. I need some help. Sex with living women is boring and I lose erection. To sustain erection I have to think of them dead.

I need some advice.

There's something you have done that you need to confess and then go close to God wholeheartedly.

amnesty7:
Imagine! Oyinbo capitalist mentality. He never knows that the kids will definitely come with their blessings. And who promises or guarantees him tomorrow?
He may have to raise the kids in his old age.

You are talking nonsense.

DrLevi:
I dunno if I replied this but I never the mention.


These roadmaps better illustrate everything
https://roadmap.sh/frontend
https://roadmap.sh/backend

Both together is basically full stack. My advice is focus on just one first and get a job with that then move on to the other

Thanks so much. I think you're replying the first time. But which do you think gives job faster?

KillIgbohoN0W:
Are these car wash boys stupid??

How many times will this happen to them before they have sense? I think the problem here is that the owners usually let them off the hook that's why keep having liver for this rubbish.


If you are a car owner and this happens to you, NEVER let them off free. Make sure they pay with their blood. By the time this treatment starts going viral, fear no go let them touch key not to talk of sticking it in the ignition.


Rubbish.

I think it's the car owners that are stupid. What's leaving your car key with a car washer? What business does washing a car has with the key once the doors are open? Please, answer me.

9icetoo:
That's him below
https://www.nairaland.com/carguideng

Thank you.

GAZZUZZ:
carguide

Thanks sir but there's not site like carguide.com. Which exactly do you mean?

GAZZUZZ:
check vehicle service history. Check for when it was changed last

How can I check the vehicle history, please?

peeps4u:
When you get answer and Whenever you want to change the gear oil, please use recommended gear oil for your car. If You dont know, google or ask various car gurus on NL.

Please and please, dont listen to any gear oil recommendation from your mechanic which might be different from officially recommended oil.

Compliments

Thanks so much.

Hello Amdman, please, how do I know when to change my gear oil? I got the ride from you in May 2019 and I've been using it w/o changing the transmission fluid since then. Isn't it due for a change?

Kingsdave:
Car was parked for 10 months toyota camry 2009 XLE V6 .. the first day I drove it, noticed the AC is blowing hot air ... I immediately went for a refill , after the refill, the Cold air wasn't top notch, also the drivers vent was blowing warm air , but the other vents was blowing cold air ... The AC guy suggested my valve wasn't good , he suggested I should drive it around for a day and give him feedback, a day later all the vents started blowing hot air , I went back to his garage he removed the radiator and Condenser , he checked the Compressor , from his diagnosis he said the compressor is bad .. that it's turning almost at will ( free will) ... He suggested I should change the compressor and condenser also the valve. .. he suggested manual Compressor , that the Automatic compressor will pack up real soon .... When we went to buy the Automatic compressor like I insisted , on getting to the Tokunbo shop , the sellers said they won't give me any warranty for the compressor, it's at owners risk ... Please what's you guys suggestions What happened to my Ac is it a packed up Compressor Should I go about getting the manual Compressor fitted

I'm not a technician but I've had a problem with my AC before and it sounds similar to mine.

If the compressor still engages the engine when you put on the AC, then the problem may not come from there but the Evaporator. Ask the technician to remove the Evaporator and take it for test to see if it still works.

Usually, they'd deep the Evaporator inside clean water with the nozzles outside and then pump air into it while blocking the other side. If you see bubbles coming out from the water, then the Evaporator is bad, else it's working fine.

The Evaporator is located under the dashboard so the whole of that steering area would have to be dropped.

If you wish to try this option, please work with a highly competent technician and be around to monitor the process.

malikombi:
There was a time Angel Gomes (then of Manchester united) visited pastor TB Joshua in Lagos for spiritual fortification to help him overcome his injury problem. The thing no work.
Now his market value is just around £6M and doesn't even make first eleven in losc Lille

Before you attribute his career downturn to TB Joshua, don't forget what he said when he was asked about coming to the church in Lagos. Even you should reason if the grace from God through the SCOAN would still remain with him after what he said about the church.

Charmingrascal:
If you traveled to a far distance because of NYSC and ur journey was smooth through out ur one service year
You should always give thanks to God many didn't make it within that one year period.

O mehn, God's grace na on different levels on top different people lives. I still remember that year, I was partly ghosting my service year so I'd travel from Uyo to Mowe now and then throughout the period of the program. I'm still grateful to God. It wasn't easy.

AliyuMahdi9:
The Aviation Industry really needs a complete overhaul.

Airline issues are always recurring.

Just sad

My brother, you are very correct. As things stand, if you hear tomorrow that a passenger airline crashes in Nigeria, don't doubt. What I went with IbomAir on the 2nd of December, 2021 from Abuja to Uyo would forever remain in my mind. That thing almost crashed if not for God. Na God hand we dey for Nigeria.

Hardquy:
i love tiwa, i wish i could get the chance to meet and talk to her in person

It sounds like you are living for nothing. Once you meet her, she'll solve all your problems right? Shame!

Generally, I've come to realized that you'll hardly get what you want in life as you planned in your heart. Trust me, you'd hardly get them. Nature simply present to us what pleases her and many times if you go with the flow, you don't regret it. But if you try to struggle, you may just end up regretting everything.

Many students don't usually end up studying the course they had in mind. They just find themselves studying something else and they continue and finish up nevertheless. And many times, those that fight hard to study a particular course or try to force their choices to happen don't usually get to finish well. Sometimes, the course they studied in school seems to be irrelevant for them in life.

You don't necessarily need to study the exact course you had in mind to become successful in life. The ultimate thing you need in life is to be educated. Education would help you to succeed in life, but education in itself can't guarantee you success. It's only an enabler and not the real thing.

What education does is to make you become aware. Once you become aware, you can take advantage of opportunities and situations. For example, Nigeria today may appear so bad to many because there are limited opportunities but at the same time, there are people that are massively taking advantage of the state of Nigeria. And I mean common people that are not in government.

In this country, there are poor medical doctors. There are poor lawyers as well as poor engineers. Why are you disturbing yourself that you are studying a course you don't like? Sometimes, those that attempt to leave the country to go study one super course abroad end up perishing there. Why then are you worrying about what ought not to be worried about?

Life would not always give you what you wanted but you can always make the best of every situation. Education is the key and not because you studied one course in the university. Take note that education transcends university education.

Take it or leave, regardless of what you study in school, Nigeria as a country has nothing to offer you at the end of the day. You fight and get what you want. No course in any Nigeria university can promise you a safe landing.

My advice to you is to continue studying that course. Make the best of it and come out great. Have this mindset of getting educated instead of studying any particular course that you love. You'll be wasting your time starting all over again because you don't like the course.

What more? There's time in your hand now that you are still in school, use it wisely. Like someone has said, start acquiring digital skills (e.g., software development, web development, writing skills, etc.). Don't ever think that Nigeria can offer you something because you studied one wonderful course. Don't also think that leaving the country may be a better option.

Make the best of your youthful years. Spend quality time learning. Get educated and grounded in matters of life.

All the best.

sofeo:
CRYPTOCURRENCY IS YOUR BEST BET.


DO YOUR RESEARCH WELL, AND INVEST IN PROJECTS/COINS WITH REAL WORLD USE CASES.

I'M A LIVING WITHNESS.

Can you give an example of a real world use coin that you have purchased in the past?

DrLevi:
Its not really that hard a task.

But you can't learn databases, REST API, request/response cycle and all that in 48 hours.

You can learn on the job but not without a solid grasp of the basics. In my opinion, you're getting ahead of yourself with this and should calm down and do more projects.

Please, can you list the courses I can take to become a full stack developer in a step by step fashion?

sheguy:
This man just keep making Nigeria proud. I will fly air peace this december when coming home.

They're the best. They descend without you feeling nothing.

Itsrm:
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Mileage ain't bad at 242k. Your eye go clear.

It's not bad sir. Just make sure you change the oil as at when due and also fix any problem that may come up almost immediately.

Got something from this man at 300k plus mileage and after a year, people are still asking if I got it brand new.

gasparpisciotta:
Self inflicted-you are a bloody liar.

If you lie once, then you create other lies to cover the first lie.

In your short statement here, you lied to your fiancé more than 5x.

How many more lies have you told her?

I'd never have anything to do with a chronic liar. If I were the girl, I'd leave him and never return.

MrLamip:
This information is quite timely as I was considering the prospects of moving there.

Don't go there.

FreeStuffsNG:
I am 100% sure you did not comprehend my conciliatory approach while investigation is on. In your mob mentality, the school is rejoicing now at the death of a student.
The problem is that most of you have never built anything and in every issue,all you see is nail so the best option to solve it is hammer.
I am sure that you probably didn't attend a good school enough to stand by it even when they falter in a very regrettable manner this school just did.

Again, at the risk of sounding like a broken disc, my message is to every Dowen Alumni out there,not you.
If you are Dowen Alumni, stand with your alma mater and share your condolence with the bereaved family because you equally lost a prospective member of your group of Alumni.
Offering support to your alma mater has nothing to do with the investigation and possible prosecution of anyone indicted. It is your school, stand by it against the mob.

Some of them will do same to their alma mater.

Dowen College is someone's business. It's the responsibility of the business owner to manage it well.

The matter here is very simple: produce the culprits and let the law take its course. Instead, they shielded them. Which alumni would be happy with that except the person is evil?

I'm not writing to pull them down but if the law sees it fit that they should go down because the essence of their existence is defeated, so be it. You can't be running a business that causes more pains than good to others. Murder is a serious crime and anyone committing or supporting it should be made to face the law like in the case of of Dowen management.

FreeStuffsNG:
They will rise up again.I honestly don't believe any school will be happy to have any of its student dead especially in a tragic controversial manner. They obviously will learn a big lesson from this unfortunate incident and never make any lapses ever again.

Dowen has a strong human resource in its alumni, I am wondering why members of Dowen Alumni are quiet and so much scared to tell the world if this unfortunate incident completely erases the legacy of the education Dowen gave them. I remember A Hall had a similar experience but their Alumni stood by their school and was part of those who ensured A. Hall did not die with that unfortunate incident. Today it's the turn of your alma mater.

If you are a parent who Dowen helped raise your child to be the great person he or she is today or you are a product of Dowen ,it's time to stand with your alma mater and assure the public that you are with the bereaved family too.Get involved in the resolution of the issue. This is a tough time for your alma mater and if Dowen didn't kill you throughout your stay there, why then will Dowen now want to kill that beautiful soul?

It's unfortunate. I pray that God console the bereaved family. It's really tough but putting all the blame on the school is not unexpected in unfortunate incidents like this.

Stop sounding like an unfortunate person. Even if I graduated from there, I'd never stand with them. A school is supposed to be a place where great minds are raised in character and otherwise.

How did cultism begin to form in a secondary school and then grew to a level that the students have the boldness of forcing another student to join them yet the management are not aware? Is school supposed to be about only teaching, especially for a boarding school where parents entrust their wards into the hands of the school management?

Dowen College may be a great place to learn but if they end up producing children that are only intelligent and lacking in character then they've failed. How big are the children there that they can't instill discipline in them?

To make matters worse, they are even abetting the evil that the students committed. Instead of pushing forward the culprits to face justice, they shielded and helped them to escape and here you are saying the school's alumni should come to their defense. You must be mad.