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Officialgarri:
Melaye is busy so you guys should hold on fess.....

Is this today?

Shibaraba:
Sat with him once. On a train. We had the nicest of chats.
We spoke about buhari, Evans and even the cost of rice. He told me he wishes to come to Nigeria that he learnt that our ladies obows are one of a kind. I even opened a nairaland account for him. Nice guy.

Let's begin our day with lies. Nigeria itself na lie

This lie though! Mehn!!

Noel1:
Is he d uncle of Bukola Saraki?

The father... Bukola betrayed and 'killed' his father. Quite an interesting story, I must say.

Made4naijaceo:
Mother Seen Slapping Her Son For Playing Bet9ja

In this video, a woman is seen beating up a young boy who is said to be her son in a bet9ja shop in Lagos for gambling.
https://www.instagram.com/p/B43EMIJAJf4/


Source
https://www.made4naija.com/mother-seen-slapping-her-son-for-playing-bet9ja/

That is a cyber Cafe and not a bet shop.

Ishilove:
The doctor's receipt. Each time I look at it, my blood boils, my hackles rise and I just feel like going around with law enforcement agents arresting every northern biker I see and hauling them back to the arid desert lands from whence they migrated from .

This receipt represents common sense and logic turned on it's head.

Sorry, babes. Go and take chilled, thick Kunu and be thankful. Those guys are scums. Sorry

Disappointed! Aisha came off as someone who had oil in her head. That she attended Yeye Bello's campaign says a lot about the crop of politicians we have. I so wish Natasha could win this election!

anonimi:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/3589606_fbimg1458848436888_jpeg0d51a6ed0a0d14cea0bf7a6d73ba0698

I don't play your kind of politics, anonimi. For the record, I was very much active in the APC before pulling out on my will. I wasn't kicked out like some of you who lost everything after the APC won. I'll only criticize objectively and not do so out of pure resentment and sentiment.

nurex01:
one will still be okay na

Nah... APC is an offshoot of the PDP. PDP was almost empty at some point until some politicians from the APC returned there. A better Nigeria isn't in the hands of either.

APC is useless sha. Of all things, social media regulation is their problem. Some of us made a grave mistake of voting Buhari in the 2015 election. Mehn!

nurex01:
Like for PDP
Share for PDP

Are they any different?

It is, without a doubt. APC very well knows Bello is a failure but won't relent on forcing him down the throat of the good people of Kogi.

IvarTheBoneless:
Who else would it be but a pig?

FACT : Charles Darwin discovered that their women developed yam legs from chasing Afonja men.

https://66.media.tumblr.com/2bdf56015e000b40e7db1f68188ffd63/tumblr_ok29qxT2rV1uwtwmmo1_400.gif

Hehehe. There's 5% written on the shorts. Look closely.

ONE Nigeria. May God forgive the bigots here....

This is hilarious! You are not well, walahi!!

Where did you download the theme you're using from or who sold it to you?

Mariangeles:
You observed how she talked about her brother's wife without compassion ?
It wasn't right .

I did. But don't blame her. The brother's wife manipulated her brother and even a result in order to force the marriage through. You'd act more than she did if you were in her shoes (God forbid).

Eventually, innocent kids end up paying for the lies and misdeeds of their parents. It is not a pleasant experience, if you witness one up close.

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AwkaetitiBabe:
Hey! I was referring to this Op who is SS and marrying AA man! Don't freaking jump into my mention if you don't know where I'm coming from. Wtf

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Your comment is senseless, ma'am. First it was love and then that she didn't tell lies whereas she mentioned that she did. And yọ think you mention that people lie in the name of love (which you find cool) beats my imagination. Again, I'd have conveniently ran you down if you were a guy with your warped mindset. But then, you are a girl and the idea of love, truth and openness is way over your head. Peace on you!

abelswife:
I'm sorry if the post sounded insensitive.
I'm not the owner of life. No one can guarantee tomorrow my dear, but its not a nice feeling at all spending days in the hospital back to back and not knowing if your loved ones will survive this time or not. You will not understand until you have been in that shoe.
My grievieance is the lies and forgery that came before the marriage which is the same thing poster is trying to do.

Why are you sorry? That you told the gospel truth from a personal experience? This isn't rocket science. One who hasn't been there or seen one up close won't understand your initial post. You have no reason to be sorry.

AwkaetitiBabe:
She didn't lie but withholding information. Yes, people in love Lie to keep that love.

I pity your mindset! Someone told someone that she's AS whereas she is SS and you say she didn't lie but only withheld information? I would have ran you down if you were a guy but alas, you are a girl. I doubt you qualify to be referred to as a lady.

Mariangeles:

This your comment is very insensitive.
What is the guarantee that you'll live longer than her, or your brother's wife ?
Nonsense!

Her comment is not o! The ish is not whether or not she'd live longer than her but the fact that most of their offspring will be SS. You surely might not understand her until you've been there or have someone around you going through that stuff. It is not a pleasant sight.

What joy will any sane person derive by lying and then birthing SS offspring and not even enjoy them?

Rosarie:
Tell him,if he loves you he will stand by you after all he is AS

This isn't about love. Why do some of think it must be the Telemundo ish? The idea of being betrayed and lied to over something as sensitive as this will leave any man wondering. You should be more concerned about how he'll see her if he finds out.

Mood11:
Na wa ohh.


So your friends know and over a million nairalanders are also getting to Know what your husband to be doesn't know.

Fear women mbok

Not to look like a gender ish, I strongly feel guys should pay attention to who their woman divulge information to. It's the same way some readily feed strangers with sensitive information about their lives in the name of an e-dairy while the person they're with is as clueless as Jon Snow.

damilare214:
I'm getting married this weekend and my husband to be doesn't know about my genotype. I'm SS but lied to him that I'm AS, he is AA.
I don't look like SS neither do I fall sick( I sick once or twice a year),and I'm not on any medication as well.
My doctor and friends advised me not to tell him because of different heartbreaks that I have experienced in the past ( people believe SS dies prematurely).
I have plan to tell him on our wedding night but my friends insist I should wait till I give birth.

Please help me, I don't know the right time to tell him and I don't want to build my marriage on lies.

You've gotten yourself into trouble already. Isn't it ironic that a man who ought to be your best friend is missing out in this while strangers know already?

Sadly, you already built the foundation of your relationship on falsehood and deceived an innocent person just because you thought he wouldn't stay if he found out the truth.

You should have told him the truth from the get-go. It is possible he could have remained with you despite the revelation but keeping it this long is already a bother. In the end, you just might have yourself drawn into an unnecessary meeting between both families over something you could have let out long ago.

Plus, I'm wondering why he believed you without a proper check at a laboratory or a hospital. Religious houses mandate this stuff to prevent stories that touch the heart later in the nearest future. So, save you are atheists, it should have been a part of the tests you did, if at all you did any. The issue of and STD/STI and geno tests ought to be the next step after any conviction.

A possible scenario of what will play out:

1. Tell him before the wedding and he might call of the wedding.
2. Tell him before the wedding and he might accept you for you are and pretend like it isn't an issue (very rare but possible).
3. Tell him on your wedding night and the trust he has for you is laid to rest from that night even if he decides to stay with.
4. Tell him on your wedding night and that ends the union as it is built in lies and falsehood. His family will most likely support him if it escalates.

Being an SS isn't a plague and it isn't a crime. You would have had your peace of mind if you came out clean from the very beginning but you didn't which presents you as selfish. Either way, it's safe to say you're in trouble. Whatever the outcome will be, trust as essential ingredient will fly out the window after he finds out. Medical issues shouldn't be withheld from a would-be partner.

Blogging isn't for everybody...

The APC though... So he is suspended because he refused to to bend to the will of his predecessor? Our way of playing politics in Nigeria seems demonic.

Quite unfortunate that the good people of Edo State will feel this wàhálà more than anything. The short, dark man in Abuja without an idea on how to act as a leader should understand that it was Oyegun's turn yesterday before it got to him.

If as a party they can't resolve their crisis internally without having to make a public, they very well shouldn't be trusted with leadership and positions.

Burna boy was one of the very few Nigerian celebrities who spoke against the recent Xenophobic attack and condemned the hypocrisy of South Africans while standing in gap for his brother's who were victimized. At the time he did this, we all hailed him for being 'fearless' and brave.

Roughly two months later, Nigerians are crucifying the dude for 'not mending bridges' as seen in the comments above. And a Ghanaian who ought to be eating his Dokunu with fresh pepper and fried fish is taking a swipe at Burna, and I'm wondering why, like the likes of Reggie Rockstone, Shatta Wale and other Ghanaian superstars combined have half the fame of Burna.

The worst thing to do as a Nigerian is to fight for the rights of other Nigerians. In the end, you'll be left open and out in the cold. Nigerians are not worth taking a slap for.

'It gets harder everyday but I can't seem to shake the pain.
I'm trying to find the words to say, please stay.
It's written all over my face.
That I can't function the same when you're not here.
I'm calling your name and no one's there.

And I hope one day you'll see nobody has it easy.
I still can't believe you found somebody new.
But I wish you the best, I guess.'

' Everybody Knows' - John Legend.

donbachi:
3bottles of shawarma for u.

Three bottles bawo? Is there a brand of drink called Shawarma now?

point5:
Few hours from now Tacha replies Mercy.. we wait

Tacha is being managed by sensible people now. I doubt they'll advise her to stoop that low.

Even Zlatan's shade was transformed into nothing but love.

Legendguru:
Stay away from Qserver they don’t support Addon and support are rude and proud full of themselves

Cc
Maxxim

ZombieTERROR:


Nigeria is a zoo

What do you expect thieves to do with their loots

More like the region involved. I quite understand that every region have their dose of horrible leaders and policies but knowing an ex deputy governor in the South East has three wives is somewhat unbelievable. I wouldn't even comment on the thread if he was a Northerner.

Third wife? The South East is blessed with incredible leaders sha